{"id":1007,"date":"2019-02-20T21:31:11","date_gmt":"2019-02-20T21:31:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=1007"},"modified":"2019-02-20T21:31:11","modified_gmt":"2019-02-20T21:31:11","slug":"cozum-setenaylarin-nartlarin-yureginde","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/cozum-setenaylarin-nartlarin-yureginde\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7\u00d6Z\u00dcM \u201cSETENAY\u201dLARIN \u201cNART\u201dLARIN Y\u00dcRE\u011e\u0130NDE"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>YEMUZ Nevzat Tarak\u00e7\u0131<br \/>\n<\/strong><span class=\"auto-style1\">02<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Arial;\">.<span lang=\"en-us\">0<\/span>7.201<\/span><span lang=\"en-us\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial;\">3<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Gelece\u011fimiz, gen\u00e7li\u011fimizle savrulurken, ilgisiz tavr\u0131m\u0131z, gayr\u0131 samimi peri\u015fan halimizle \u015fa\u015fk\u0131n bir haldeyiz.<\/p>\n<p>Oysa ilgisizli\u011fin pen\u00e7esinde k\u0131vranan gen\u00e7lerimizin hali, bir k\u0131ym\u0131k gibi batmal\u0131yd\u0131 y\u00fcre\u011fimize.<\/p>\n<p>Dilsiz, kimli\u011finden habersiz, isteksiz, y\u00f6r\u00fcngesiz\u00a0<strong>gen\u00e7ler<\/strong>\u00a0i\u00e7imizi kanatmal\u0131yd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Bu naho\u015f tablo kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda kalbimiz s\u0131k\u0131\u015fmal\u0131, nefesimiz daralmal\u0131, uykumuz ka\u00e7mal\u0131yd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Gen\u00e7 Nart\u2019lara, g\u00fczel Setenay\u2019lara g\u00fcvenmiyoruz, onlara fikirlerini soram\u0131yor, onlara \u00f6rnek olam\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cGen\u00e7ler hep dinlesin, hep<strong> itaat etsin!\u201d<\/strong> istiyoruz.<\/p>\n<p>Gen\u00e7ler konu\u015fmaya yeltenirse <strong>\u201cYemuk!\u201d <\/strong>diyoruz.<\/p>\n<p>E\u011fer dernekte program varsa, festival yap\u0131lacaksa, salonda misafir a\u011f\u0131rlanacaksa, <strong>\u201cGel!\u201d<\/strong> diyoruz.<\/p>\n<p>Gel bak sandalye ta\u015f\u0131nacak, gel bak tabak haz\u0131rlanacak, \u00e7ay ikram edilecek sonra da buralar d\u00fczenlenecek, temizlenecek\u2026 Hadi gel sensiz olmaz diyoruz.<\/p>\n<p>Ama kararlar al\u0131n\u0131rken, gelecek programlan\u0131rken \u201c Senin ya\u015f\u0131n m\u00fcsait de\u011fil<strong> sen sus!\u201d <\/strong> diyoruz.<\/p>\n<p>Daha da ileri gidiyor, gen\u00e7ler, ilgisiz, gen\u00e7lik bilin\u00e7siz, bunlar dilini, tarihini, bilmiyor, diyoruz.<\/p>\n<p>Diyoruz, tavr\u0131m\u0131zla diyoruz, duru\u015fumuza, eylemlerimizle sergiliyoruz.<\/p>\n<p>Bilmem ki gen\u00e7li\u011fe ne verdik ki ne istiyoruz.<\/p>\n<p>Ac\u0131d\u0131r, g\u00fcvenmedi\u011fimiz, e\u011fitemedi\u011fimiz, \u00f6rnek olamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z gen\u00e7ler, yorgun, k\u0131rg\u0131n, \u00fcmitsiz bir halde.<\/p>\n<p>Biz b\u00fcy\u00fcklerse cenaze alanlar\u0131nda, d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn salonlar\u0131nda\u00a0<strong>mucize<\/strong>\u00a0bekliyoruz.<\/p>\n<p>Evet, bu ac\u0131 tabloyu birlikte seyrediyor, bu feryad\u0131 birlikte dinliyoruz ama ne yaz\u0131k ki ger\u00e7e\u011fi g\u00f6r\u00fcp, gere\u011fini yapam\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n<p><strong> HEP KAHIR, HEP KAHIR<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Merak ediyorum, ka\u00e7\u0131m\u0131z gen\u00e7lere kap\u0131m\u0131zla birlikte y\u00fcre\u011fimizi a\u00e7t\u0131k da kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k bulamad\u0131k?<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f6yleyin hadi ne zaman gen\u00e7lere inand\u0131k, onlara ne zaman <strong> yetki ve sorumluluk<\/strong>\u00a0verdik de pi\u015fman olduk?<\/p>\n<p>Olur mu bizimkisi hep kah\u0131r, hep sitem.<\/p>\n<p>Efendim gen\u00e7ler duyars\u0131z, yeni nesil isteksiz.<\/p>\n<p>Efendim, gen\u00e7ler <strong>\u201cxabze\u201d<\/strong> yi bilmiyor, diliyle, k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcyle, kimli\u011fiyle bar\u0131\u015f\u0131k yeti\u015fmiyor.<\/p>\n<p>Yapmay\u0131n Allah a\u015fk\u0131na,\u00a0<strong>ne verdik ki ne istiyoruz<\/strong>?<\/p>\n<p>K\u00fclt\u00fcr ileti\u015fiminde gen\u00e7lere ne kadar model olabildik?<\/p>\n<p>Kimli\u011fi ve k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcyle bar\u0131\u015f\u0131k bir gen\u00e7lik i\u00e7in ne zaman y\u00fcreklerimizi ortaya koyduk, ne zaman birikimimizi kulland\u0131k?<\/p>\n<p>Ne zaman sabr\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 zorlad\u0131k, ka\u00e7 gece uykusuz kald\u0131k?<\/p>\n<p>Biz \u00e7ok ac\u0131 ama gen\u00e7lerin <strong> sa\u00e7\u0131na, sakal\u0131na, ete\u011fine<\/strong> tak\u0131ld\u0131k ve diyalogu kopard\u0131k.<\/p>\n<p>Bize d\u00fc\u015fen; \u00e7ok s\u00f6ylemek yerine, sab\u0131rla, samimiyetle \u00e7ok iyi model olmak, gen\u00e7lerin \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131na kulak vererek onlar\u0131n kalplerindeki feryad\u0131 daha derinden hissetmek olmal\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Aksi takdirde yeni nesil, \u201c<strong>k\u00e2fe<\/strong>\u201d fon m\u00fczi\u011fi e\u015fli\u011finde hayat\u0131n \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcms\u00fczl\u00fck girdab\u0131nda bo\u011fulurken b\u00fcy\u00fckler de k\u00fclt\u00fcr me\u015falemizi tutu\u015fturacak g\u00fczel gen\u00e7lerin \u00f6zlemiyle kahrolup gidecektir.<\/p>\n<p>Biz, ne yaz\u0131k ki her toplant\u0131da bilgi ve birikimimizle \u00f6v\u00fcn\u00fcyor, Kafkasya\u2019y\u0131 kurtar\u0131yor ama ilgisizlik ve \u00fcmitsizlik girdab\u0131nda nefesi daralan y\u00fcre\u011fi par\u00e7alanan \u00f6z evlatlar\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in fazlaca bir \u015fey yapam\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n<p>Ne ac\u0131 ki bu konuda en duyarl\u0131m\u0131z bile, \u201c<strong>biraz realite, biraz hayal, yar\u0131 mektep, yar\u0131 medrese, yar\u0131 his, yar\u0131 mant\u0131k yama\u00e7lar\u0131nda<\/strong>\u201d y\u00fcr\u00fcyor ve g\u00f6n\u00fcl e\u011flendiriyor.<\/p>\n<p>Ruhu ve zihni ayd\u0131n, diliyle, kimli\u011fiyle bar\u0131\u015f\u0131k, k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc omuzlar\u0131nda bayrakla\u015ft\u0131racak dinamik bir nesil i\u00e7in, Allah a\u015fk\u0131na s\u00f6yleyin bu g\u00fcne kadar dert yanman\u0131n \u00f6tesinde di\u015fe dokunur ne yapabildik?<\/p>\n<p><strong> GELECE\u011e\u0130M\u0130Z GEN\u00c7L\u0130\u011e\u0130M\u0130ZLE SAVRULUYOR<br \/>\n<\/strong><br \/>\nBu i\u015fin asla \u015fakas\u0131 yok!<\/p>\n<p>Yok olu\u015fun ayak sesleri geliyor, zaman h\u0131zla t\u00fckeniyor ve gelece\u011fimiz gen\u00e7li\u011fimizle savruluyor.<\/p>\n<p>Gen\u00e7lerin en verimli \u00e7a\u011flar\u0131 bo\u015fa gidiyor, gelece\u011fi karar\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Biz, ya <strong>\u201cBakal\u0131m g\u00fcn do\u011fmadan neler do\u011far<\/strong>!\u201d diyerek cenaze alanlar\u0131nda, d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn salonlar\u0131nda mucize bekleyece\u011fiz ya da gen\u00e7lerle ili\u015fkilerde daha bilin\u00e7li daha sab\u0131rl\u0131 ve daha anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131 davranaca\u011f\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>Ya kah\u0131r ve siteme devam edece\u011fiz ya da ne yap\u0131p ne edip k\u00fcsmekten, k\u0131zmaktan, k\u0131r\u0131lmaktan vazge\u00e7ip samimiyeti ve diyalogu se\u00e7ece\u011fiz.<\/p>\n<p>Ama en \u00f6nemlisi \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcn <strong>\u201cSetenay\u201dlar\u0131n, Nart\u201dlar\u0131n y\u00fcre\u011finde<\/strong> oldu\u011funu asla unutmayaca\u011f\u0131z.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>YEMUZ Nevzat Tarak&ccedil;&#305; 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