{"id":10344,"date":"2024-09-26T01:44:58","date_gmt":"2024-09-26T06:44:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=10344"},"modified":"2024-09-26T17:33:46","modified_gmt":"2024-09-26T22:33:46","slug":"adigelerde-alinan-kararlar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/adigelerde-alinan-kararlar\/","title":{"rendered":"AD\u0130GELERDE ALINAN KARARLAR"},"content":{"rendered":"

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KU\u015eHA Faruk \u00d6zden<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n

Herhangi bir konuda karar almak i\u00e7in yap\u0131lan toplant\u0131ya vunafe denir. Vunafeye kat\u0131lanlara vunefe\u015f denir.<\/p>\n

D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn i\u00e7in olaca\u011f\u0131 gibi, k\u00f6y sorunlar\u0131 ile ilgili olaraktan da vunafe yap\u0131l\u0131r. Al\u0131nan kararlar karar\u0131 alan gurubun topland\u0131\u011f\u0131 y\u00f6re i\u00e7in ge\u00e7erlidir. K\u00f6y ile ilgili kararlar\u0131n al\u0131nmas\u0131 i\u00e7in yap\u0131lan toplant\u0131ya kuejevunafe denir.<\/p>\n

Her aileyi temsilen yeti\u015fkin bir erkek kat\u0131l\u0131r. Din g\u00f6revlileri <\/span> ile anla\u015fmaktan, imece ile yap\u0131lacak i\u015flere kadar k\u00f6y ile ilgili kararlar al\u0131n\u0131r. Temsilcisi kat\u0131lmayan ailelerde al\u0131nan kararlara uymak zorundad\u0131r.<\/p>\n

N\u0131sa\u015fe vunafe, gelin almaya gitmek i\u00e7in yap\u0131lan toplant\u0131d\u0131r. K\u00f6y\u00fcn orta ya\u015f ve \u00fcst\u00fc erkeklerinin, gelen misafirleri de aralar\u0131na alarak yapt\u0131klar\u0131 vunafe. \u00d6ncelikli g\u00f6rev n\u0131sa\u015fe thamade ve thamade khuedzenin se\u00e7ilmesidir. N\u0131sa\u015fe thamade \u00e7o\u011funlukla k\u00f6yden, orta ya\u015f\u0131n \u00fczerinde gerekli deneyimi olan birisi se\u00e7ilir. Gelen misafirler aras\u0131nda daha uygun g\u00f6r\u00fclen birisi varsa thamade atanabilir. Thamade misafirlerden olursa thamade khuedze olarak k\u00f6yden birisi g\u00f6revlendirilir.<\/p>\n

”N\u0131sa\u015fe gu\u0131p”\u0131n ka\u00e7 ki\u015fi olaca\u011f\u0131 ka\u00e7 atl\u0131 olaca\u011f\u0131, at arabas\u0131 veya k\u0131zakla gidilece\u011fi i\u00e7in ka\u00e7 k\u0131z g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fclece\u011fi d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn sahiplerine bildirilirdi. Halalar veya b\u00fcy\u00fck ablalar hangi k\u0131zlar\u0131n gidece\u011fini isim isim saptarlard\u0131.<\/p>\n

K\u0131zlar\u0131n binece\u011fi, d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fte gelinde o araca binilirdi, \u00a0araban\u0131n \u00fczeri gu\u015fha ile kapat\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131. N\u0131sa\u015fe gidilecek k\u00f6y e\u011fer bir g\u00fcnde ula\u015f\u0131lamayacak uzakl\u0131kta ise giderken ve d\u00f6nerken akrabalar\u0131n oturdu\u011fu bir k\u00f6yde gece kal\u0131naca\u011f\u0131na karar verilirdi. Thamade khuedze ye \u015fha\u011f\u0131r\u0131t da bildirilirdi. P\u015fafeyi genellikle thamade khuedze se\u00e7erdi. \u015eha\u011f\u0131r\u0131t thamade ve thamade khuedzenin yard\u0131mc\u0131lar\u0131 konumunda idi. P\u015fafe ise gen\u00e7lerden se\u00e7ilir ayak i\u015fleri yapt\u0131r\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131. Thamade ve thamade khuedze verdikleri kararlar\u0131 \u015fha\u011f\u0131r\u0131t arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile gruba bildirirlerdi. \u015eha\u011f\u0131r\u0131t olgun gen\u00e7lerden se\u00e7ilirdi.<\/p>\n

\u011euegu bje veya \u015f\u0131\u015fes bje yola \u00e7\u0131kmadan d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn sahipleri taraf\u0131ndan thamade ye verilirdi.<\/p>\n

Thamade hay\u0131rl\u0131 bir yolculuk i\u00e7in Tha’ya huahuesini yapard\u0131. Hay\u0131rl\u0131 bir yolculuk i\u00e7in Tha’ya yakarma duas\u0131 idi. M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanl\u0131ktan sonra bje ile Allah’a hay\u0131rlar ihsan etmesi i\u00e7in dua \u015feklini ald\u0131.<\/p>\n

K\u0131zlar\u0131n thamadesi ve thamade khuedze, \u00a0gu\u0131p thamde ve thamade khuedze taraf\u0131ndan atan\u0131rd\u0131. Vunafe ile thamade ve thamade khuedze se\u00e7ilince kuebjeut te toplanmaya ba\u015flan\u0131rd\u0131. Kuebjeut vunafeye kat\u0131lanlardan ba\u015flan\u0131r k\u00f6ydeki her hane den bir miktar nakit toplan\u0131r. Thamadeyi maddi bak\u0131mdan zorda b\u0131rakmadan yani her kes taraf\u0131ndan \u00f6denemeyecek mebla\u011flara ula\u015fmadan d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn sahibine maddi nakdi yard\u0131md\u0131r. Toplanan miktarlar liste yap\u0131l\u0131r, yolda kat\u0131lanlarda olabilece\u011fi i\u00e7in onlarda katk\u0131da bulunur. Thamade khuedze kasa durumundad\u0131r. Para ona emanet edilir. Yolculuk boyunca harcamalar oradan yap\u0131l\u0131r.<\/p>\n

N\u0131sa\u015fe gu\u0131p gidecekleri k\u00f6ye yakla\u015f\u0131nca dururlar, thamade gidecekleri eve haberci olarak h\u0131barye\u011fa\u015fe 1-2 ki\u015fiyi g\u00f6nderir. Guruba da bir s\u00f6ylevde bulunur. Xabzeye ayk\u0131r\u0131 davran\u0131lmamas\u0131n\u0131, grubaay\u0131p getirtmemeleri yolunda bir konu\u015fma yapar. Gidilen k\u00f6ye de gurubun k\u00f6t\u00fc niyetli olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, yani bask\u0131n niyetli olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, k\u0131z ve erkek say\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 ve de i\u00e7lerindeki atl\u0131 say\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 bildirerek ev sahiplerinin haz\u0131rlanmas\u0131na f\u0131rsat verilirdi. K\u00f6y\u00fcn ve misafirlerin nah\u0131j (ya\u015fl\u0131lar\u0131)lar\u0131n\u0131n oturdu\u011fu yere al\u0131nan h\u0131barye\u011fa\u015fe (haberci) gelenler, gurup (gu\u0131p) hakk\u0131nda bilgi verirlerdi. \u201dThamademiz filan, thanade khuedze filan, beni thamademiz g\u00f6nderdi. \u015eu kadar k\u0131z ve erkek bu kadar\u0131 atl\u0131, salimen geldik diye haber verdiriyorlar.\u201d<\/p>\n

B\u0131s\u0131m (evsahibi) nah\u0131jlar\u0131 (ya\u015fl\u0131lar\u0131): Ho\u015f geldiniz, derler ve gelenlerle bir ka\u00e7 ki\u015fiyi gurubu kar\u015f\u0131lamaya g\u00f6nderirler.<\/p>\n

N\u0131sa\u015fe gurubunun gelece\u011fi k\u00f6yl\u00fc \u00f6nceden haz\u0131rlan\u0131rd\u0131. Her aile ka\u00e7 misafir alaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bildirirdi. N\u0131sa\u015fe gurubu k\u00f6ye yeti\u015fince, k\u0131zlar ve thamadeler k\u0131z evinde kal\u0131r, di\u011fer misafirler evlere da\u011f\u0131t\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n

K\u0131zlar\u0131n thamadesi, gu\u0131p thamade ve thamade khuedzeyi nas\u0131ls\u0131n\u0131z, diye sorar. Daha sonra da k\u0131zlar\u0131n thamadesi evlere da\u011f\u0131lan kendileri ile gelen misafirleri, nas\u0131ls\u0131n\u0131z yerle\u015fe bildiniz mi, dinleniyor musunuz, diye sordururlar. Erkek taraf\u0131ndan 1-2 k\u0131z ile k\u0131z taraf\u0131ndan 2-3 erkek ile ev ev misafirleri dola\u015f\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n

Misafirleri sorarlar. N\u0131sa\u015fe giden k\u0131zlar\u0131n ev ev misafirleri dola\u015farak sormalar\u0131 eski bir uygulama m\u0131 idi, yoksa sonradan m\u0131 xabze oldu bilmiyorum.<\/p>\n

Bazen de baz\u0131 misafirlerin sorulmas\u0131 unutulurdu. Ev sahibi gen\u00e7lerin ihmalli\u011fi, unutkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 veya hinli\u011fi. B\u00fcy\u00fck \u015faka davalar\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131r, thamadelere kadar olay aksettirilir. Unutuldu\u011fundan dahi haberi olmayan K\u0131zlar\u0131n thamadeleri su\u00e7lan\u0131r ve onlara taz\u0131r d\u00fc\u015ferdi.<\/p>\n

Ev sahipleri k\u00f6y\u00fcn k\u0131zlar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn i\u00e7in toplarlard\u0131. Misafiri olan gen\u00e7 k\u0131zlar d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne giderken misafirlerini de davet ederlerdi. Misafirler bir m\u00fcddet dinlendikten sonra d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn ba\u015flard\u0131. D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn sahipleri de b\u00fct\u00fcn misafirlere d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n haberini verirdi.<\/p>\n

Misafiri olan k\u00f6yl\u00fcler gurup gurup misafirlerini d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn yerine getirirlerdi. K\u00f6yl\u00fcler aras\u0131nda \u00e7eki\u015fme varsa, buyur cenaze namaz\u0131na. Vay benim misafirim, geride kald\u0131, yok seninki jantede (ba\u015f k\u00f6\u015fe) nizahlar\u0131.<\/p>\n

Bizim \u00e7ocuklu\u011fumuz Uzunyayla’s\u0131nda d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnlerde misafir yeri i\u00e7in ba\u015fka zaman da k\u00f6pek i\u00e7in kavga olurdu veya kavga i\u00e7in bahane olurdu.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

KUŞHA Faruk Özden Herhangi bir konuda karar almak için yapılan toplantıya vunafe denir. Vunafeye katılanlara vunefeş denir. Düğün için olacağı gibi, köy sorunları ile ilgili olaraktan da vunafe yapılır. Alınan kararlar kararı alan gurubun toplandığı yöre için geçerlidir. Köy ile ilgili kararların alınması için yapılan toplantıya kuejevunafe denir. Her aileyi temsilen yetişkin bir erkek katılır. 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