{"id":1097,"date":"2019-02-20T23:10:03","date_gmt":"2019-02-20T23:10:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=1097"},"modified":"2019-02-20T23:10:03","modified_gmt":"2019-02-20T23:10:03","slug":"elestiriye-tahammulu-olmayan-yoneticilerimiz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/elestiriye-tahammulu-olmayan-yoneticilerimiz\/","title":{"rendered":"ELE\u015eT\u0130R\u0130YE TAHAMM\u00dcL\u00dc OLMAYAN Y\u00d6NET\u0130C\u0130LER\u0130M\u0130Z"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-1098\" src=\"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/ELEsTiRiYE-TAHAMMuLu-OLMAYAN-YoNE.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"417\" height=\"305\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/ELEsTiRiYE-TAHAMMuLu-OLMAYAN-YoNE.jpg 417w, https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/ELEsTiRiYE-TAHAMMuLu-OLMAYAN-YoNE-300x219.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 417px) 100vw, 417px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>YEMUZ Nevzat Tarak\u00e7\u0131<br \/>\n<\/strong><span class=\"auto-style1\">25<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Arial;\">.04.2014<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u201cMarifet, iltifata tabidir.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc \u00e7ok severim.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBiz, toplum olarak <strong>takdir etmenin yap\u0131c\u0131 g\u00fcc\u00fcne<\/strong> fazlaca inanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in bolca olumsuz ve y\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 ele\u015ftiri yapmay\u0131 seviyoruz.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fcne kat\u0131l\u0131yorum.<\/p>\n<p>Gel g\u00f6r ki <strong>insan\u0131 \u00e7\u0131ld\u0131rtan<\/strong> manzaralar da eksik olmuyor.<\/p>\n<p>Her konu\u015fmas\u0131nda, her tavr\u0131nda,<strong> \u201cBen, bu k\u00fclt\u00fcr ad\u0131na konu\u015fma yetkisine sahip biriyim. Ben, en yetkililerdenim!\u201d<\/strong> diyen de\u011ferli y\u00f6neticilerimizden baz\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n s\u00f6ylemleri, tav\u0131rlar\u0131 ve k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck hesaplar\u0131, duyarl\u0131 ve <strong>bilin\u00e7li kesimi \u00e7ileden \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131yor.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ya bu karde\u015flerimiz <strong>hizmetin ne oldu\u011funu bilmiyor<\/strong> ya da top yek\u00fbn bir toplum bilgisiz ve bilin\u00e7siz.<\/p>\n<p>Ortada <strong>dev gibi problemler<\/strong>, alabildi\u011fine b\u00f6l\u00fcnm\u00fc\u015fl\u00fck ve savrulmu\u015ftuk.<\/p>\n<p>Bahsi ge\u00e7en y\u00f6neticilerimizdeki c\u0131l\u0131z gayretler, g\u00fcn\u00fc kurtarma \u00e7abalar\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Hani okkal\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Hani da\u011f gibi y\u00fcrekler?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Hani inanm\u0131\u015f gen\u00e7lik?<\/p>\n<p>Ge\u00e7 beyim ge\u00e7, pansuman tedbirler, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck profilli gayretler bunlar.<\/p>\n<p><strong> \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>S\u0130Z\u0130 ANLAYAMIYORUM<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ufak bir ele\u015ftiriye tahamm\u00fcl edemeyen y\u00f6neticilerimiz sizi anlayam\u0131yorum.<\/p>\n<p>Merak\u0131mdan soruyorum:<\/p>\n<p>Neden <strong> herkesi kucaklayacak bir olgunluk<\/strong> sergilemiyorsunuz?<\/p>\n<p>Neden <strong> farkl\u0131 fikirlere<\/strong> de\u011fer vermiyorsunuz?<\/p>\n<p>Neden her yap\u0131lan ele\u015ftiriyi, <strong>olumlu ve yap\u0131c\u0131 bir tepkiye<\/strong> d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrme gayreti yok sizde?<\/p>\n<p>Bu \u00f6fke ni\u00e7in?<\/p>\n<p>Nedendir bu k\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131k?<\/p>\n<p>Bu her daim <strong>\u00f6vg\u00fc beklentisi<\/strong> hayra m\u0131 alamettir?<\/p>\n<p>Siz ne zaman her ele\u015ftiriden <strong>hikmet dev\u015firecek k\u0131vama<\/strong> geleceksiniz?<\/p>\n<p>Yoksa \u201cBeklemek nafile!\u201d mi dersiniz?<\/p>\n<p>E\u011fer ama\u00e7 topluma hizmet, k\u00fclt\u00fcre katk\u0131ysa bu <strong>afra tafralar<\/strong> ni\u00e7in ve kime?<\/p>\n<p>Bu ezber tekrarlar niye?<\/p>\n<p>Bu <strong> ahbap \u00e7avu\u015f<\/strong> ili\u015fkileri neden?<\/p>\n<p><strong> \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>S\u0130Z ELE\u015eT\u0130R\u0130LEMEZ B\u0130R\u0130 M\u0130S\u0130N\u0130Z?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Biz, toplum olarak <\/strong>birbirimizin yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131, eksi\u011fini g\u00f6rmeden, g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz olumsuzluklar\u0131 \u00fcslubuna uygun <strong>payla\u015fmadan <\/strong>nas\u0131l do\u011fruyu bulaca\u011f\u0131z?<\/p>\n<p>Can\u0131m karde\u015fim, ben seni ele\u015ftiremez miyim?<\/p>\n<p>Siz ele\u015ftirilemez biri misiniz?<\/p>\n<p>Siz konumunuza ve ki\u015fili\u011finize nas\u0131l bir anlam y\u00fcklediniz, anlamakta zorlan\u0131yorum.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Siz ger\u00e7ekten u\u00e7mu\u015fsunuz!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir derne\u011fin yapabilece\u011fi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck profilde bir \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 ola\u011fan\u00fcst\u00fc bir ba\u015far\u0131 san\u0131yorsunuz.<\/p>\n<p>Kendinize gelin, toplumumuz kimin ne yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ad\u0131m ad\u0131m izliyor.<\/p>\n<p>Toplum, takdir edilmesi gerekenleri <strong>takdir etmesini<\/strong> de biliyor.<\/p>\n<p>A\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7as\u0131 biz, sizi bu toplum ve <strong>bu k\u00fclt\u00fcre hizmet etmek<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u00e7in bu makama gelmi\u015f kabul ediyoruz.<\/p>\n<p>Yan\u0131l\u0131yor muyuz yoksa?<\/p>\n<p>Yoksa siz, ki\u015fisel \u00e7\u0131karlar, <strong>basit hesapla\u015fmalar<\/strong> pe\u015finde misiniz?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>SAH\u0130 S\u0130Z G\u00d6N\u00dcL M\u00dc E\u011eLEND\u0130R\u0130YORSUNUZ?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>De\u011ferli y\u00f6neticim, sizi bilmem ama benim <strong>b\u00fcy\u00fck sanc\u0131m var!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>G\u00fcn g\u00fcn eriyen k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn, unutulmak \u00fczere olan dilin, savrulmu\u015f gen\u00e7li\u011fin, ilgisizli\u011fin, umursamazl\u0131\u011f\u0131n, gafletin\u2026 sanc\u0131s\u0131.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Siz bana, \u201cBeni ele\u015ftirmeyin, beni ele\u015ftiremezsiniz!\u201d diyorsunuz.<\/p>\n<p>Nas\u0131l olacak bu?<\/p>\n<p><strong> Ko\u015fmas\u0131 gerekenler duruyor, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 gerekenler esniyor, susmas\u0131 gerekenler konu\u015fuyorsa sizce de bir yanl\u0131\u015fl\u0131k yok mu bu i\u015fte?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Hani toplumu bilin\u00e7lendirme faaliyeti?<\/p>\n<p>Hani di\u015fe dokunur \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma, hani proje?<\/p>\n<p><strong> G\u00fcld\u00fcrmeyin Allah a\u015fk\u0131na?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Siz, belli aral\u0131klarla <strong>\u201cKaf Da\u011f\u0131\u201d<\/strong> kadar gaflar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 tekrarlay\u0131p durun.<\/p>\n<p>Siz, sizin gibi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeyenlerin <strong>dedikodusuyla<\/strong> beslenin!<\/p>\n<p>Siz, tahamm\u00fcl, ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fc, sab\u0131r nedir bilmeyin.<\/p>\n<p>Siz, siz \u00e7al\u0131n siz oynay\u0131n, biz de sizi seyredelim, alk\u0131\u015flayal\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Olur, olur hem de g\u00fczel olur!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dil unutulmu\u015f, k\u00fclt\u00fcr erimi\u015f, gen\u00e7lik savrulmu\u015f ne \u00f6nemi var. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Hadi birlikte \u00e7al\u0131p oynayal\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong> B\u0130RB\u0130R\u0130M\u0130Z\u0130 ELE\u015eT\u0130RMEDEN NASIL DO\u011eRUYU BULACA\u011eIZ? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sevgili dostlar, unutmayal\u0131m, <strong>ele\u015ftiriye tahamm\u00fcl<\/strong> edememek bir insan\u0131n hayattaki en b\u00fcy\u00fck yanl\u0131\u015flar\u0131ndan biridir.<\/p>\n<p>Yoksa siz, bu kadar ac\u0131 ve sanc\u0131 \u00fczerine s\u00fcrekli olarak <strong> alk\u0131\u015flanmak,<\/strong> yap\u0131lan yanl\u0131\u015flar\u0131 g\u00f6z ard\u0131 ederek her ne \u015fart alt\u0131nda olursa olsun ele\u015ftirilmeden s\u00fcrekli s\u0131rt\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n s\u0131vazlanmas\u0131n\u0131 m\u0131 istiyorsunuz?<\/p>\n<p>Oh, ne ala memleket!<\/p>\n<p>Ele\u015ftiri yapmadan, birbirimizin <strong>yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131, eksi\u011fini s\u00f6ylemeden<\/strong> daha iyiyi, daha g\u00fczeli nas\u0131l yakalayaca\u011f\u0131z?<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nan\u0131n ben anlamakta zorlan\u0131yorum.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>YA \u201cEYVALLAH!\u201d DE YA DA \u201cEYVAH!\u201d <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ne garip de\u011fil mi?<\/p>\n<p>Siz, gayet samimi duygularla asla <strong>k\u0131rmadan d\u00f6kmeden bir ele\u015ftiri<\/strong> yap\u0131yorsunuz.<\/p>\n<p>Muhatab\u0131n\u0131z hiddet ve \u015fiddetle size sald\u0131r\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Y\u00f6netici karde\u015fim ke\u015fke <strong>\u201cEyvallah!\u201d<\/strong> diyemiyorsan da en az\u0131ndan <strong> \u201cEyvah!\u201d<\/strong> diyebilseydin.<\/p>\n<p>Umar\u0131m bu ele\u015ftiriye tahamm\u00fcl edememenin alt\u0131nda <strong>\u00f6zg\u00fcven eksikli\u011fi<\/strong> yatm\u0131yordur.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kendine g\u00fcvenen insan, <strong>fikrini de kendini de ele\u015ftirir<\/strong>, bunlar\u0131n ele\u015ftirilmesine anlay\u0131\u015f g\u00f6sterir.<\/p>\n<p>Unutma, <strong>hayat\u0131n zor virajlar\u0131<\/strong>, ancak ele\u015ftiriye a\u00e7\u0131k olabilmekle a\u015f\u0131l\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Ele\u015ftiri yapmak ve ele\u015ftiriye a\u00e7\u0131k olmak ne g\u00fczel erdem.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bu iki nitelik<\/strong>, ahenk i\u00e7inde bir insanda bir araya gelirse o insan y\u00f6netici de olabilir yetkili de\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Sevgili dostum, sen hizmet makam\u0131ndas\u0131n, <strong>hizmet \u00fcreteceksin<\/strong> dedikodu ve bahane de\u011fil.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>NOT:<\/strong> R\u00fcyalar\u0131nda bile bu k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn ya\u015fat\u0131lmas\u0131 projeleriyle u\u011fra\u015fan, projenin ne oldu\u011funu bilen, toplumu tan\u0131yan, b\u00f6lmek i\u00e7in de\u011fil birle\u015ftirmek \u00e7abas\u0131nda olan, y\u00fcre\u011fi samimiyet ve hizmet a\u015fk\u0131yla dolu de\u011ferli y\u00f6neticilerimiz, iyi ki vars\u0131n\u0131z. 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