{"id":1119,"date":"2019-02-20T23:20:51","date_gmt":"2019-02-20T23:20:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=1119"},"modified":"2019-02-20T23:20:51","modified_gmt":"2019-02-20T23:20:51","slug":"ben-sen-ve-biz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/ben-sen-ve-biz\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201cBEN\u201d SEN ve B\u0130Z"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-1120\" src=\"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/BEn-SEN-ve-BiZ.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"417\" height=\"305\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/BEn-SEN-ve-BiZ.jpg 417w, https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/BEn-SEN-ve-BiZ-300x219.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 417px) 100vw, 417px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>YEMUZ Nevzat Tarak\u00e7\u0131<br \/>\n<\/strong><span class=\"auto-style1\">30<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Arial;\">.06.2014<\/span><\/p>\n<p>San\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan da zordur \u201cfarkl\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelere\u201d sayg\u0131 duymak.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201cBu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceye asla kat\u0131lm\u0131yorum ama d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce sahibine sayg\u0131 duyuyorum!\u201d<\/strong> diyebilmek insan i\u00e7in ba\u015fl\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131na bir erdem olsa gerek.<\/p>\n<p>Gel g\u00f6r ki \u00e7o\u011fu zaman <strong>insani zaaflar\u0131m\u0131z<\/strong> ufkumuzu karart\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p><strong> \u00d6fkelerimiz,<\/strong> istismarlar\u0131m\u0131z ve hafifliklerimiz bu erdemi yok ediyor.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSiz benden farkl\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilirsiniz, bunda bir anormallik yok, belki de sizin d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceniz do\u011frudur!\u201d diyemiyoruz.<\/p>\n<p>Bu durumda <strong>ak\u0131l tutuluyor<\/strong>, <strong>kalp k\u00f6reliyor<\/strong> ve yanl\u0131\u015fl\u0131klar zinciri ba\u015fl\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p><strong> \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong> FARKLI D\u00dc\u015e\u00dcNCELERE NE KADAR SAYGILIYIZ?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Galiba toplum olarak farkl\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelere <strong>gere\u011fi kadar tahamm\u00fcll\u00fc<\/strong> de\u011filiz.<\/p>\n<p>Oysa farkl\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler, insan\u0131 farkl\u0131 y\u00f6nlerden zenginle\u015ftirebilir.<\/p>\n<p>Herkesin farkl\u0131 hayat\u0131, <strong>farkl\u0131 tercihleri<\/strong> ve farkl\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerinin olmas\u0131 normal de\u011fil mi?<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSevgiyi bilmeyen ve ele\u015ftiriye a\u00e7\u0131k olmayan <strong>d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncede<\/strong> ilerleyemez.\u201d d\u00fcsturunca biz bu tahamm\u00fcls\u00fczl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fczden dolay\u0131 ya yerimizde say\u0131yoruz ya da tamam\u0131yla <strong>realiteden<\/strong> kopuyoruz.<\/p>\n<p>Zaten, <strong>kalbini ve vicdan\u0131n\u0131 k\u00f6reltti\u011fi halde <\/strong>d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr olabilmi\u015f tek insan tan\u0131yan da yoktur.<\/p>\n<p>Evet, farkl\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce de\u011ferlerini ve kavramlar\u0131 <strong> i\u00e7selle\u015ftirebilmek zordur<\/strong>, hem de \u00e7ok zordur.<\/p>\n<p>Ke\u015fke bizim gibi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeyenlere kar\u015f\u0131 daha tahamm\u00fcll\u00fc olabilsek!<\/p>\n<p><strong> \u00a0\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong> HO\u015eG\u00d6R\u00dc ve TAHAMM\u00dcL<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncede ileriye gitmenin, fikirde olgunla\u015fman\u0131n, ufukta y\u00fckselmenin, i\u00e7 zenginlikleri ke\u015ffetmenin yolu \u201cfarkl\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131 anlamada <strong>tahamm\u00fcl\u201d <\/strong>den ge\u00e7er.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte b\u00fct\u00fcn mesele burada: sevgi, tahamm\u00fcl, <strong>ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fc\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Bilirsiniz, insan\u0131n i\u00e7inde bir olumlu bir de olumsuz taraf\u0131 vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsan bazen yeniliverir <strong>i\u00e7indeki olumsuzluklara<\/strong> ve ba\u015flar pi\u015fmanl\u0131k.<\/p>\n<p>Kibrimiz, kendimizi be\u011fenmi\u015fli\u011fimiz, \u00f6fkelerimiz, plans\u0131zl\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z\u2026 yok eder g\u00fczelliklerimizi.<\/p>\n<p>Demek ki insan\u0131n kendisini ba\u015fkalar\u0131ndan de\u011fil, en \u00f6nce <strong> kendisinden, kendi olumsuz y\u00f6nlerinden, korumas\u0131 gerekiyor.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong> \u0130NSAN KEND\u0130N\u0130 YEN\u0130LEMEL\u0130<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ruhun terbiyesi, kalbin tasfiyesi i\u00e7in insan\u0131n her sene semavi bir <strong>rehabiliteye ihtiyac\u0131 vard\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar i\u00e7in bu g\u00fcnler, <strong>Ramazan ay\u0131<\/strong>, bu rehabilite i\u00e7in iyi bir vesile, g\u00fczel bir f\u0131rsatt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsan\u0131n bu kutlu zaman diliminin <strong>kendine \u00f6zg\u00fc g\u00fczelliklerini<\/strong> ve insan g\u00f6nl\u00fcne akseden zevk ve lezzetlerini k\u00e2mil manada duyup tadabilmesi ancak <strong>bu ay\u0131n bir i\u00e7 muhasebe, ciddi bir temizlenme s\u00fcreci<\/strong> kabul edilmesiyle m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsan, bu kutlu zaman dilimiyle \u00f6yle b\u00fct\u00fcnle\u015fmeli ki bu g\u00fcnlerin insan ruhuna neler f\u0131s\u0131ldad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 <strong>derinden duymal\u0131, lay\u0131k\u0131yla hissedebilmeli ve <\/strong>gere\u011fini yerine getirebilmelidir.<\/p>\n<p>Kendisini yenileme gibi bir gayretin i\u00e7inde olmayan, hal ve hareketlerinde ciddiyeti yakalayamayan insanlar\u0131n bu <strong>i\u00e7e do\u011fru derinle\u015fme<\/strong>, bu ruhen yenilenme, bu melekle\u015fme s\u00fcrecinden istifade etmesi <strong>olduk\u00e7a zordur.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong> ALLAHIM G\u00d6NL\u00dcM\u00dcZ\u00dc A\u015eKLA TUTU\u015eTUR<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Hayat\u0131n <strong>ger\u00e7ek derinlik ve enginli\u011fini<\/strong> kalp ve ruh ufkuyla kavrayan samimi g\u00fczel insanlar ne mutlu size.<\/p>\n<p>Kalbimize iman <strong>me\u015falesini <\/strong>yakan y\u00fcce Mevl\u00e2, ne olur \u015fu kutlu g\u00fcnler h\u00fcrmetine yok olu\u015fun e\u015fi\u011findeki bir k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn sahipleri olan bizlerin g\u00f6nl\u00fcnde <strong>sevgi, karde\u015flik, samimiyet ve gayret me\u015falesini <\/strong>de yak!<\/p>\n<p>Yak ki g\u00f6nl\u00fcm\u00fcz <strong>a\u015fkla<\/strong> tutu\u015fsun, sevgiyle dolsun!<\/p>\n<p>Yak ki \u201cben\u201dler \u201cbiz\u201d olsun.<\/p>\n<p>Yak, yak ki <strong>bu k\u00fclt\u00fcr<\/strong> yok olmaktan kurtulsun!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>YEMUZ Nevzat Tarak&ccedil;&#305; 30.06.2014 San&#305;ld&#305;&#287;&#305;ndan da zordur &ldquo;farkl&#305; d&uuml;&#351;&uuml;ncelere&rdquo; sayg&#305; duymak. &ldquo;Bu d&uuml;&#351;&uuml;nceye asla kat&#305;lm&#305;yorum ama d&uuml;&#351;&uuml;nce sahibine sayg&#305; duyuyorum!&rdquo; diyebilmek insan i&ccedil;in ba&#351;l&#305; ba&#351;&#305;na bir erdem olsa gerek. Gel g&ouml;r ki &ccedil;o&#287;u zaman insani zaaflar&#305;m&#305;z ufkumuzu karart&#305;yor. &Ouml;fkelerimiz, istismarlar&#305;m&#305;z ve hafifliklerimiz bu erdemi yok ediyor. &ldquo;Siz benden farkl&#305; d&uuml;&#351;&uuml;nebilirsiniz, bunda bir anormallik yok, belki [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_bbp_topic_count":0,"_bbp_reply_count":0,"_bbp_total_topic_count":0,"_bbp_total_reply_count":0,"_bbp_voice_count":0,"_bbp_anonymous_reply_count":0,"_bbp_topic_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_reply_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_forum_subforum_count":0,"ocean_post_layout":"","ocean_both_sidebars_style":"","ocean_both_sidebars_content_width":0,"ocean_both_sidebars_sidebars_width":0,"ocean_sidebar":"0","ocean_second_sidebar":"0","ocean_disable_margins":"enable","ocean_add_body_class":"","ocean_shortcode_before_top_bar":"","ocean_shortcode_after_top_bar":"","ocean_shortcode_before_header":"","ocean_shortcode_after_header":"","ocean_has_shortcode":"","ocean_shortcode_after_title":"","ocean_shortcode_before_footer_widgets":"","ocean_shortcode_after_footer_widgets":"","ocean_shortcode_before_footer_bottom":"","ocean_shortcode_after_footer_bottom":"","ocean_display_top_bar":"default","ocean_display_header":"default","ocean_header_style":"","ocean_center_header_left_menu":"0","ocean_custom_header_template":"0","ocean_custom_logo":0,"ocean_custom_retina_logo":0,"ocean_custom_logo_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_tablet_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_mobile_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_max_height":0,"ocean_custom_logo_tablet_max_height":0,"ocean_custom_logo_mobile_max_height":0,"ocean_header_custom_menu":"0","ocean_menu_typo_font_family":"0","ocean_menu_typo_font_subset":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_size":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_unit":"px","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight_tablet":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight_mobile":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform_tablet":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform_mobile":"","ocean_menu_typo_line_height":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_unit":"","ocean_menu_typo_spacing":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_unit":"","ocean_menu_link_color":"","ocean_menu_link_color_hover":"","ocean_menu_link_color_active":"","ocean_menu_link_background":"","ocean_menu_link_hover_background":"","ocean_menu_link_active_background":"","ocean_menu_social_links_bg":"","ocean_menu_social_hover_links_bg":"","ocean_menu_social_links_color":"","ocean_menu_social_hover_links_color":"","ocean_disable_title":"default","ocean_disable_heading":"default","ocean_post_title":"","ocean_post_subheading":"","ocean_post_title_style":"","ocean_post_title_background_color":"","ocean_post_title_background":0,"ocean_post_title_bg_image_position":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_attachment":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_repeat":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_size":"","ocean_post_title_height":0,"ocean_post_title_bg_overlay":0.5,"ocean_post_title_bg_overlay_color":"","ocean_disable_breadcrumbs":"default","ocean_breadcrumbs_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_separator_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_links_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_links_hover_color":"","ocean_display_footer_widgets":"default","ocean_display_footer_bottom":"default","ocean_custom_footer_template":"0","ocean_post_oembed":"","ocean_post_self_hosted_media":"","ocean_post_video_embed":"","ocean_link_format":"","ocean_link_format_target":"self","ocean_quote_format":"","ocean_quote_format_link":"post","ocean_gallery_link_images":"off","ocean_gallery_id":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[106],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1119","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-yazarlar-yemuz-nevzat-tarakci","entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1119","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1119"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1119\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1121,"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1119\/revisions\/1121"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1119"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1119"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1119"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}