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YEMUZ Nevzat Tarak\u00e7\u0131 Y\u0131llar \u00f6nce \u0131l\u0131k bir sonbahar ak\u015fam\u0131.<\/p>\n De\u011ferli bir meslekta\u015f\u0131m tela\u015fl\u0131 bir \u015fekilde yan\u0131ma yakla\u015farak:<\/p>\n \u201cSana bir \u015fey soraca\u011f\u0131m<\/strong>, ne olur al\u0131nma ve beni yanl\u0131\u015f anlama!\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Neymi\u015f bu kadar \u00f6nemli soru, merak ettim, dinliyorum, dedim.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u201cBilirsin, y\u0131llard\u0131r dostuz seninle,<\/strong> seni ne \u00e7ok sevdi\u011fimi de bilirsin. Bu y\u00fczden olsa gerek \u00c7erkesleri de \u00e7ok severim.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Eeee ne varm\u0131\u015f bunda, ben de seni \u00e7ok severim!<\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u201cDur can\u0131m, dinle. \u015eeyy\u2026 Yak\u0131nda derne\u011finizin se\u00e7imi<\/strong> mi varm\u0131\u015f?\u201d<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Evet, do\u011frudur, iki hafta sonra.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u201cSiz, dernek ba\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131<\/strong> d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyor musunuz?\u201d<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Hay\u0131rd\u0131r, nerden \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131 bu dernek ve se\u00e7im i\u015fi, seninle hi\u00e7 konu\u015fmazd\u0131k bu konular\u0131.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u201cL\u00fctfen cevap verin, dernek ba\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceniz var m\u0131 sizin?\u201d<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Sevgili dostum, ben, bu ilde dernek y\u00f6netiminde en uzun s\u00fcre g\u00f6rev alm\u0131\u015f birka\u00e7 ki\u015fiden biriyim.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Ben g\u00f6revimi yapt\u0131m, n\u00f6betini savd\u0131m. Gen\u00e7ler yeti\u015fiyor, yeti\u015fti<\/strong>, bundan sonra g\u00f6rev onlar\u0131n\u2026<\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u201cSiz, dernek ba\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131na adaym\u0131\u015fs\u0131n\u0131z hem de g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir kadroyla.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Dostum, inan s\u00f6ylediklerinizden hi\u00e7bir \u015fey anlamad\u0131m, laf\u0131 nereye getireceksin \u00e7ok merak ediyorum.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u201cO halde anlatay\u0131m, dinle: D\u00fcn \u00f6\u011fretmen evi salonunda<\/strong> bir arkada\u015f\u0131 bekliyordum. Gazetelere g\u00f6z atarak vakit doldururken bir ara, etrafta f\u0131s\u0131lt\u0131lar aras\u0131nda ad\u0131n\u0131z ge\u00e7ti. \u201c<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201c<\/strong>\u00c7akt\u0131rmadan etrafa bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda her haliyle \u00c7erkes oldu\u011fu belli olan k\u0131r sa\u00e7l\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7 ya\u015fl\u0131 adam<\/strong> ate\u015fli bir \u015fekilde dernek mevzusunu konu\u015fuyordu. Ana tema sizdiniz<\/strong>. Belli etmeden dakikalarca dinledim.\u201c<\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u201cSohbet ate\u015flenerek devam etti. Sizin i\u00e7in s\u00f6ylenmedik laf kalmad\u0131.<\/strong> Me\u011fer siz ne k\u00f6t\u00fc, ne fena ne korkun\u00e7 bir insanm\u0131\u015fs\u0131n\u0131z!\u201d<\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u201cDuyduklar\u0131m kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda adeta \u00e7\u0131lg\u0131na d\u00f6nd\u00fcm<\/strong>. Burada, pervas\u0131zca yerin dibine bat\u0131r\u0131lan ki\u015fi<\/strong> benim otuz y\u0131ll\u0131k dostumdu. Avaz\u0131m\u0131n \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131 kadar \u2018Yalanc\u0131lar, iftirac\u0131lar!\u2019<\/strong> diye ba\u011f\u0131rmak istedim.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u201cZor tuttum kendimi, \u00c7erkes b\u00fcy\u00fckleri b\u00f6yle dedikodu yapar m\u0131, b\u00f6yle iftira atar m\u0131? Ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131za, ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131za yak\u0131\u015fm\u0131yor bu hal, siz nas\u0131l \u00c7erkes\u2019siniz?<\/strong> diye hayk\u0131ras\u0131m geldi!\u201d<\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u201cS\u00f6yle hocam, s\u00f6yle Allah a\u015fk\u0131na bunlar kim, bu h\u00e2l neyin nesi?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Donup kalm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m, yutkundum, bir daha, bir daha yutkundum\u2026<\/p>\n Kelimeler t\u00fckenmi\u015fti<\/strong>\u2026 Ne diyebilirdim ki?<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Utand\u0131m, k\u0131zard\u0131m,<\/strong> yerin dibine girdim. Toparlanmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015farak:<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Olur mu can\u0131m \u00f6yle \u015fey, bunda bir yanl\u0131\u015fl\u0131k var! Bizim b\u00fcy\u00fcklerimiz bu tarz dedikodu yapmaz, <\/strong>mutlaka yanl\u0131\u015f anla\u015f\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Hem biz bir aileyiz,<\/strong> bizde sorunlar yerinde, yani dernekte isti\u015fareyle, y\u00fcz y\u00fcze konu\u015farak halledilir. Bizde bu t\u00fcr \u00e7irkin dedikodular<\/strong> olmaz!<\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u201cPeki, kim bunlar, bu kadar seviyesiz ve a\u011f\u0131r ele\u015ftiriyi pervas\u0131zca uluorta meydanda nas\u0131l yapar? Senden ne istiyor bunlar?<\/strong> Biz bir aileyiz diyorsun, aile b\u00f6yle mi olur Allah a\u015fk\u0131na!\u201d<\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u201cBu ya\u015fa gelmi\u015f insanlar b\u00f6yle \u00e7irkin dedikodu yapar m\u0131?<\/strong> Hani isti\u015fare, hani dayan\u0131\u015fma, hani ortak ak\u0131l? Yoksa bunlar toplumunuzun mafyas\u0131 m\u0131, ak\u0131l babas\u0131 m\u0131?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u201cHem anlamad\u0131m ki sizin dernek y\u00f6netiminiz \u00fc\u00e7 ki\u015fi <\/strong>taraf\u0131ndan \u00f6\u011fretmenevi lobisinde mi kuruluyor. Sizde y\u00f6netim, se\u00e7imle de\u011fil de atamayla m\u0131 olu\u015fuyor? <\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u201cDerne\u011fin problemlerini buraya ta\u015f\u0131man\u0131n, burada tart\u0131\u015fman\u0131n, sorunlar\u0131 burada if\u015fa etmenin<\/strong> nas\u0131l bir mant\u0131\u011f\u0131 olabilir, kim bunlar<\/strong>, bunlar ne yapmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor, yaz\u0131k, \u00e7ok yaz\u0131k!\u201d<\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u201c\u0130nan bu \u00fc\u00e7 ya\u015fl\u0131 \u00c7erkes,<\/strong> benim \u00c7erkeslerle ilgili b\u00fct\u00fcn hayallerimi y\u0131kt\u0131,<\/strong> ke\u015fke bu g\u00fcn\u00fc ya\u015famam\u0131\u015f olsayd\u0131m, ke\u015fke gitmeseydim \u00f6\u011fretmenevine!\u201d<\/p>\n Tek kelime edemedim, hi\u00e7bir \u015fey s\u00f6yleyemedim.<\/p>\n Dilim varmad\u0131, vicdan\u0131m almad\u0131.<\/p>\n Yutkundum, sustum. \u0130\u00e7imden, en derin i\u00e7imden, \u201cOnlar toplumumuzun ak\u0131l babalar\u0131, kimse ses \u00e7\u0131kartamaz onlara!\u201d<\/strong> diyemedim.<\/p>\n Sustum, yutkundum.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Ey bilge insan Jaba\u011f\u0131,<\/strong> biliyorum, \u201cthamde\u201d maskesiyle<\/strong> \u201cXabze\u201d ad\u0131na bu yap\u0131lanlar kemikleriniz s\u0131zlat\u0131yor.<\/p>\n Biliyorum, bu benlik ve haset<\/strong> eksenli u\u011fra\u015flar, pak ruhunuzu rencide ediyor.<\/p>\n Ama ne yapal\u0131m, oluyor i\u015fte b\u00f6ylesi de.<\/p>\n Her \u015feye ra\u011fmen \u00fcmitliyiz. Birileri toplumu ayr\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131rken<\/strong>, b\u00f6l\u00fcp par\u00e7alarken, o birileri herkesi k\u00f6r, \u00e2lemi sersem san\u0131rken, di\u011fer birileri, sab\u0131r ve ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcyle, samimiyet ve gayretle<\/strong> toplum hizmetinde ko\u015fmaya devam edecek.<\/p>\n Umuyoruz ki bundan sonra, toplumun uyum ve birlikteli\u011fine kasteden, benlik ve haset duygular\u0131yla toplumu han\u00e7erleyen talihsizlere f\u0131rsat verilmeyecek! Umuyoruz ki duyarl\u0131 thamadeler bu olumsuzluklar kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndaki dik duru\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcrecek!<\/p>\n Gen\u00e7ler,<\/strong> dernek y\u00f6netimlerinde g\u00f6rev ve sorumluluk alma konusunda daha duyarl\u0131 daha istekli olacak.<\/p>\n B\u00fcy\u00fckler, <\/strong>gen\u00e7lere daha \u00e7ok g\u00fcvenecek.<\/p>\n Bu sayede \u201cbze\u201d ve \u201cxabze\u201d<\/strong> daha etkili \u00e7al\u0131\u015facak, birikmi\u015f da\u011f gibi sosyal ve k\u00fclt\u00fcrel problemler \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcme ula\u015facak.<\/p>\n Ey b\u00fcy\u00fck insan Jaba\u011f\u0131, muazzez ruhun \u015fad olsun<\/strong>.<\/p>\n Her \u015feye ra\u011fmen \u00fcmitler ye\u015ferdi, ye\u015feriyor. Sen rahat uyu!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" YEMUZ Nevzat Tarakçı 13.10.2014 Yıllar önce ılık bir sonbahar akşamı. Değerli bir meslektaşım telaşlı bir şekilde yanıma yaklaşarak: “Sana bir şey soracağım, ne olur alınma ve beni yanlış anlama!” dedi. Neymiş bu kadar önemli soru, merak ettim, dinliyorum, dedim. “Bilirsin, yıllardır dostuz seninle, seni ne çok sevdiğimi de bilirsin. 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