{"id":12710,"date":"2019-03-31T16:00:37","date_gmt":"2019-03-31T21:00:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=12710"},"modified":"2019-03-31T16:00:37","modified_gmt":"2019-03-31T21:00:37","slug":"gis-silehan-100-yasina-girdi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/gis-silehan-100-yasina-girdi\/","title":{"rendered":"\u011eI\u015e \u015eILEHAN 100 YA\u015eINA G\u0130RD\u0130"},"content":{"rendered":"

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THARKOHO Safiyet<\/strong>
\nAdige\u00a0 Mak Gazetesi, Temmuz 2013
\n<\/strong>\u00c7eviri: A\u00c7UMIJ Hilmi<\/p>\n

1913 y\u0131l\u0131nda Hatlekuaye k\u00f6y\u00fcnde KHUAKO \u0130lyas do\u011fan k\u0131z\u0131na \u015e\u0131lehan ismini takar. Fakat k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 uzun zaman sevmek nasip olmaz.\u00a0 O tarihlerde \u00e7\u0131kan i\u00e7sava\u015fta \u00f6l\u00fcr. Annesi Fatimet bir ka\u00e7 y\u0131l kaynanas\u0131 ile birlikte kalsa da daha sonra a\u011fabeyi gelerek baba evine onu geri g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr.<\/p>\n

Y\u0131llar ge\u00e7er. Annesi iyi diki\u015f dikmesi, \u00f6rg\u00fc \u00f6rmesi ile uzaklarda dahi tan\u0131n\u0131r olmu\u015ftur. O tarihlerde Vo\u00e7ep\u015f\u0131ye’de ya\u015famakta olan DEYLEKO Said’in e\u015fi vefat etmi\u015ftir. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n anaya ihtiyac\u0131 oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek, ho\u015fland\u0131\u011f\u0131 bu bayanla evlenir.<\/p>\n

\u015e\u0131lehan g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde dahi \u00fcvey babas\u0131n\u0131n kendisine ne kadar iyi davrand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlata anlata bitiremez. Kuca\u011f\u0131na oturtur sa\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 ok\u015fayarak g\u00fczel s\u00f6zler s\u00f6yler. B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlardan dolay\u0131 kendisi de onu \u00e7ok sever. Said’in ilk e\u015finden Harun ve Nehuat isminde iki o\u011flu vard\u0131r. \u0130kinci e\u015fi Fatimet’tende 4 \u00e7ocu\u011fu olur. Adlar\u0131 Hacmustaf, Hazret, Re\u015f\u0131d ve Raziyet\u2019tir. B\u00fct\u00fcn bu \u00e7ocuklar sanki bir anadan do\u011fmu\u015f gibi her zaman birlikte birbirlerine destek olurla. K\u00f6ydeki kom\u015fular\u0131 da bu aileyi kendi aralar\u0131nda g\u00f6sterdikleri bu sevgi ve sayg\u0131dan dolay\u0131 sayarlar…<\/p>\n

Deylekolar\u0131n ailesine kar\u0131\u015fan k\u0131zda yava\u015f yava\u015f gen\u00e7k\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa ad\u0131m atar. K\u00f6yl\u00fclerinden d\u00fckkanda \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan \u011eI\u015e Medin gen\u00e7 k\u0131zdan ho\u015flan\u0131r ve onunla evlenir. \u015e\u0131lehan hi\u00e7 bir konuda y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc kara \u00e7\u0131kartacak birisi de\u011fildir. Hamaratt\u0131r, kaynanas\u0131 ile edep \u00e7er\u00e7evesinde ge\u00e7inir. \u015e\u0131lehan ve Medin’in alt\u0131 tane \u00e7ocu\u011fu olur ise de bunlardan iki tanesi \u00f6l\u00fcr. Bayzet, \u015eamset, Haniyat ve Tem\u0131r’i ise yeti\u015ftirirler.<\/p>\n

Ya\u015famda mutluluklar kadar zorluklar da vard\u0131r. E\u015fi ayr\u0131l\u0131p ba\u015fka bir aile kurdu\u011funda da \u015e\u0131lehan umutlar\u0131n\u0131 kaybetmez. Dul kad\u0131n olarak zorluklara g\u00f6\u011f\u00fcs gerer.<\/p>\n

\u015eair NEHAYE Ruslan’a ait \u015fiirden sat\u0131rlar akl\u0131m\u0131za geliyor.<\/p>\n

\u0410\u0434\u044b\u0433\u044d \u0431\u0437\u044b\u043b\u044a\u0444\u044b\u0433\u044a,
\n\u0411\u044d\u0440\u0438 \u0443\u0433\u044a\u044b\u0433\u044a,
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\n\u0428\u044a\u0443\u0437\u0430\u0431\u044d \u0443\u0431\u0437\u044d\u0443,
\n\u041b\u044a\u044d\u0445\u044a\u044d\u043d\u044d \u043a\u044a\u0438\u043d\u044b\u043c
\n\u0423\u043d\u0430\u0442I\u044d \u0437\u0430\u043b\u044a\u044d…
\n\u0417\u044b\u0444\u044d\u0434\u044d\u0440 \u043f\u0448I\u0430\u0433\u044a\u044d
\n\u0413\u044a\u0430\u0448I\u044d\u043c \u0438\u0433\u044a\u044b\u0431\u0437\u044d,
\n\u0423\u043d\u044b\u0433\u044a, \u0443\u0442\u044b\u0433\u044a,
\n\u0422\u044b\u0433\u044a\u044d\u043c \u0443\u0441\u0442\u044b\u0433\u044a…<\/p>\n

Adige kad\u0131n\u0131,<\/p>\n

\u00c7ok ta a\u011flad\u0131n,<\/p>\n

Efkar\u0131n s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131ndan,<\/p>\n

Mahlulelikten,,<\/p>\n

Zor zamanlardan,<\/p>\n

Aln\u0131n\u0131 kaplayan …<\/p>\n

Ya\u015fam\u0131n a\u011f\u0131t\u0131n\u0131n,<\/p>\n

\u00d6\u011frendin nas\u0131l\u0131n\u0131.<\/p>\n

Anayd\u0131n, babayd\u0131n,<\/p>\n

G\u00fcne\u015fte kavruldun…<\/p>\n

Evet herkesi anne k\u0131lan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n iyi nasibi olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131, sa\u011fl\u0131k s\u0131hhat i\u00e7inde olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bildi\u011finde bunun yerine koyabilece\u011fin d\u00fcnyada hi\u00e7 bir \u015fey yoktu. \u015e\u0131lehan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n \u00fczerine titreyerek hi\u00e7bir i\u015ften ka\u00e7\u0131nmadan ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fcr. K\u00f6yde d\u00fczenlenen imecelere de kat\u0131l\u0131r. T\u00fct\u00fcn tarlas\u0131nda da \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Fakat ne kadar \u00e7abalarsan \u00e7abala, zorluklar bazen nereden gelir bilinmez. B\u00fcy\u00fck o\u011flu Bayzet’in e\u015fi erken vefat eder, onun \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n \u00fczerine de \u015e\u0131lehan titrermek zorunda kal\u0131r. Bu kelimeleri s\u00f6ylemesi, yazmas\u0131 kolay ama bu ne kadar gece uykusunun olmamas\u0131, ne kadar \u00e7ok gelecek kayg\u0131s\u0131, derin d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u00fcler demek. \u015eanslar\u0131 varm\u0131\u015f ki, Bayzet davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 ile insanc\u0131ll\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile \u00f6vg\u00fclere lay\u0131k Asiyetle evlenir. Asiyet, ninenin de kocas\u0131n\u0131n ilk e\u015finden olan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n da\u00a0 kendisine olan g\u00fcvenlerinin, umutlar\u0131n\u0131n bilincinde olarak onlara kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7ok iyi davran\u0131r. Bayzet’in bu e\u015finden de Susan isminde bir bebekleri do\u011far. Susan t\u00fcm ailenin ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131 g\u00fczelle\u015ftirir.<\/p>\n

\u015e\u0131lehan Nine’nin k\u0131zlar\u0131 \u015eamset ve Haniyat, di\u011fer o\u011flu Tem\u0131r’de evlenirler g\u00fczel aileler kurarlar. \u015e\u0131lehan ninenin \u00e7ok say\u0131da torunu var. Her birisi de \u2018\u2019s\u00fclalemi nas\u0131l daha g\u00fczelle\u015ftirebilirimin\u2019\u2019 pe\u015finde.<\/p>\n

Sohbetimizin sonlar\u0131na do\u011fru \u015e\u0131lehan nineye gelinlerinden memnun olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 sorduk. Bir saniye bile d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeden cevap verdi; ‘Asiyet’i, Rim’i, Svet’i hi\u00e7bir \u015feyle de\u011fi\u015ftirmem. Onlara k\u0131zlar\u0131m gibi bak\u0131yorum, onlar\u0131 yeti\u015ftiren anne-babalar\u0131ndan da \u00a0Allah raz\u0131 olsun.’<\/p>\n

Ya\u015fam insanlar\u0131 birbirinden ay\u0131rabildi\u011fi gibi birbirlerine de ba\u011flayabilir. 55 y\u0131ld\u0131r \u015e\u0131lehanla KU\u015eU Zoya kom\u015fular. Bu kadar zaman i\u00e7erisinde adeta bir aile gibi olmu\u015f haldeler. Ya\u015fam\u0131n kendilerine sunduklar\u0131n\u0131 payla\u015f\u0131yor birbirlerine dan\u0131\u015f\u0131yorlar. Zoye; ‘- \u015e\u0131lehan gibi ak\u0131ll\u0131, merhametli bir kom\u015fum var. Ona ablamm\u0131\u015f gibi bak\u0131yorum, daha \u00e7ok y\u0131llar ya\u015famas\u0131n\u0131 arzu ediyorum.’ diyor.<\/p>\n

\u0130nsanlar\u0131n sana k\u0131ymet-de\u011fer vermesinden daha \u00f6nemli ne olabilir ki? B\u00f6yle olmas\u0131na ra\u011fmen \u015e\u0131lehan’\u0131 hala g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcze kadar \u00fczen bir mevzuda var. Evraklar\u0131 korumakla ve d\u00fczenlemekle g\u00f6revli insanlar\u0131n ihmalleri y\u00fcz\u00fcnden 100 ya\u015f\u0131na girmi\u015f bu nineyi ikinci d\u00fcnya sava\u015f\u0131 gazisi saymad\u0131lar ve ba\u011flanmas\u0131 gereken ayl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ba\u011flanmad\u0131. Kendisine b\u00f6yle muamelede bulunulmas\u0131ndan ise k\u0131rg\u0131n.<\/p>\n

\u015e\u0131lehan nine ya\u015fam\u0131 boyunca kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 t\u00fcm zorluklar\u0131 o\u011fullar\u0131 ve k\u0131zlar\u0131ndan olan say\u0131lar\u0131 k\u0131rka ula\u015fan torunlar\u0131 bah\u00e7eye gelip g\u00fcl\u00fcp eylendiklerinde unutyor, \u00e7ok mutlu oluyor.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

THARKOHO Safiyet Adige  Mak Gazetesi, Temmuz 2013 Çeviri: AÇUMIJ Hilmi 1913 yılında Hatlekuaye köyünde KHUAKO İlyas doğan kızına Şılehan ismini takar. Fakat kızını uzun zaman sevmek nasip olmaz.  O tarihlerde çıkan içsavaşta ölür. Annesi Fatimet bir kaç yıl kaynanası ile birlikte kalsa da daha sonra ağabeyi gelerek baba evine onu geri götürür. Yıllar geçer. 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