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YEMUZ Nevzat Tarak\u00e7\u0131 Aktif sosyal medya kullan\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 sevgili gen\u00e7,<\/p>\n S\u00f6yle, sanal hayatta<\/strong> m\u0131 ya\u015f\u0131yorsun, ger\u00e7ek hayatta m\u0131?<\/p>\n Bilirsin, esas olan, sosyal medyada de\u011fil ger\u00e7ek hayatta var olabilmek.<\/strong><\/p>\n Hayat\u0131 do\u011fru ya\u015fayabilmek.<\/p>\n Mutlu, huzurlu olabilmek.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n SANAL HAYAT G\u0130RDABINDA BO\u011eULMAYASIN<\/strong><\/p>\n Sevgili gen\u00e7, sak\u0131n sosyal medya huzuruna mani olmas\u0131n!<\/p>\n Ger\u00e7ek hayattan uzak, sanal hayat girdab\u0131nda<\/strong>, kan ter i\u00e7inde ya\u015fam m\u00fccadelesi verenlerden olmayas\u0131n!<\/p>\n <\/p>\n G\u00d6ZLER TELEFONDA, Z\u0130H\u0130NLER BAMBA\u015eKA YERDEYSE <\/strong><\/p>\n Ben sosyal medyas\u0131z ya\u015fayamam, diyen sevgili gen\u00e7, <\/strong><\/p>\n Sosyal medya, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman yak\u0131n ili\u015fkilere darbe vuruyor<\/strong>, dostluklar\u0131n derinle\u015fmesine mani oluyor, desem bana kat\u0131l\u0131r m\u0131s\u0131n?<\/p>\n Peki, \u00e7o\u011fu sosyal medya kullan\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 yak\u0131n akraba, arkada\u015f veya aileleriyle; e\u015f, \u00e7ocuk, anne, baba\u2026<\/strong> ile bir araya geldiklerinde ba\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 kald\u0131r\u0131p g\u00f6z g\u00f6ze, y\u00fcz y\u00fcze bir ili\u015fki kuram\u0131yorlar,<\/strong> desem ne dersin?<\/p>\n Sana g\u00f6re de muhabbetin, dostlu\u011fun derinle\u015fmesi i\u00e7in g\u00f6z g\u00f6ze, y\u00fcz y\u00fcze bir ili\u015fki<\/strong>nin kurulmas\u0131 gerekmez mi?<\/p>\n G\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmelerde, bulu\u015fmalarda g\u00f6zler telefonun tu\u015flar\u0131nda, zihinler bamba\u015fka yerdeyse sevgiden, sayg\u0131dan muhabbetten ne kadar s\u00f6z edilebilir?<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n AL SANA A\u0130LE, AL SANA MUHABBET!<\/strong><\/p>\n Hep duyar\u0131z hatta g\u00f6zlemleriz:<\/p>\n G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz insan\u0131, sosyal medya nedeniyle yak\u0131n \u00e7evresiyle ili\u015fkilerde ciddi problemler<\/strong> ya\u015f\u0131yor.<\/p>\n Eve gidiyor; e\u015fi, \u00e7ocu\u011fu, annesi, babas\u0131 ve karde\u015fiyle<\/strong> bile derinlikli ili\u015fki kuram\u0131yor.<\/p>\n Nas\u0131ls\u0131n?<\/p>\n Yemek haz\u0131r m\u0131?<\/strong><\/p>\n \u0130\u015fler nas\u0131l gidiyor?<\/p>\n Okul nas\u0131l?<\/p>\n \u2026<\/p>\n Bitti, bu kadar!<\/p>\n \u0130\u015fte sana aile, i\u015fte sana muhabbet!<\/p>\n <\/p>\n B\u0130R HEVES U\u011eRUNA <\/strong><\/p>\n \u0130nsan\u0131n yak\u0131n \u00e7evreyle ili\u015fkisi zay\u0131flay\u0131nca bu sefer insan, ihtiya\u00e7 duydu\u011fu s\u0131cakl\u0131\u011f\u0131, ilgiyi, sevgiyi ba\u015fka ortamlarda<\/strong> aramaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor.<\/p>\n \u0130\u015fte o zaman, sosyal medya ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 alabildi\u011fine derinle\u015fiyor.<\/p>\n O zaman, hi\u00e7 y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6rmedi\u011fi, ger\u00e7ek kimli\u011fini bilmedi\u011fi insanlara<\/strong> b\u00fct\u00fcn derdini anlatabiliyor.<\/p>\n Veya ke\u00e7iboynuzu misali bir gram bilgiye ula\u015fabilmek i\u00e7in<\/strong> saatlerce sosyal medyada dola\u015fabiliyor.<\/p>\n Oysa sosyal medyaya ay\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 vakti kendisine ay\u0131rsa<\/strong> o ki\u015fi hayat\u0131nda \u00f6nemli mesafeler kat edebilirdi.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n BU MERAK NEDEN?<\/strong><\/p>\n Niye bu kadar her \u015feyden haberdar olmak ister insan?<\/p>\n Malum, insan\u0131n s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131 bir kapasitesi var.<\/p>\n O kapasite, gere\u011finden fazla bilgiyi, ilgiyi ve ili\u015fkiyi kald\u0131rm\u0131yor. <\/strong><\/p>\n \u00d6l\u00e7\u00fc ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131lmazsa problem yok.<\/p>\n Ama herkesle konu\u015faca\u011f\u0131m,<\/p>\n Herkese laf yeti\u015ftirece\u011fim, <\/strong><\/p>\n Herkese cevap verece\u011fim,<\/p>\n Herkesin ne yedi\u011fine, ne giydi\u011fine bakaca\u011f\u0131m,<\/strong> denirse bunda \u00e7ok ciddi problem var demektir.<\/p>\n Herkesin her s\u00f6z\u00fcne laf yeti\u015ftirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken ka\u00e7\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n bir hayat\u0131n var. <\/strong><\/p>\n Ailen var,<\/strong> i\u015fin var, hedeflerin var!<\/p>\n Hayat \u00e7ok k\u0131ymetli ve olduk\u00e7a k\u0131sa.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u201c\u0130NSAN, HAYATTA KEND\u0130S\u0130YLE KAR\u015eILA\u015eMALI.\u201d <\/strong><\/p>\n Sen, bu hayata ba\u015fkalar\u0131na laf yeti\u015ftirmek,<\/p>\n Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n g\u00fcndemlerini takip etmek, <\/strong><\/p>\n Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n yapt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zlemlemek<\/strong> i\u00e7in mi geldin?<\/p>\n Burada Ahmet Hamdi Tanp\u0131nar<\/strong>\u2019\u0131n g\u00fczel bir tespitini hat\u0131rlamak laz\u0131m:<\/p>\n \u201c\u0130nsan hayatta ya\u015farken kendisiyle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmal\u0131.\u201d <\/strong><\/p>\n Kendisiyle oturmal\u0131 konu\u015fmal\u0131, dertle\u015fmeli.<\/p>\n Kendisiyle ba\u015f ba\u015fa kalmal\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n <\/p>\n EVLER K\u00dc\u00c7\u00dcLD\u00dc, DER\u0130N \u0130L\u0130\u015eK\u0130LER AZALDI\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n Sosyal medya kullan\u0131c\u0131lar\u0131 olarak her \u015feyi merak ediyor her \u015feyi \u00f6\u011frenmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n Ama etraf\u0131m\u0131zda derin ili\u015fki kuraca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z insan say\u0131s\u0131 olduk\u00e7a azald\u0131.<\/p>\n Evlerimiz k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcld\u00fc, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcld\u00fc, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcld\u00fc\u2026<\/p>\n Amcas\u0131n\u0131, halas\u0131n\u0131, day\u0131s\u0131n\u0131, day\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n o\u011flunu, teyzesini, teyzesinin o\u011flunu, kuzenlerini<\/strong> bilmez tan\u0131maz hale geldi insanlar.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n ACI \u0130T\u0130RAFLAR<\/strong><\/p>\n \u015eu itiraflar\u0131 siz de duymu\u015fsunuzdur:<\/p>\n Sosyal medyada sa\u00e7ma sapan bir payla\u015f\u0131m yap\u0131yorum.<\/strong><\/p>\n Hayret ki bu payla\u015f\u0131m\u0131m\u0131 bir\u00e7ok insan be\u011feniyor, payla\u015f\u0131yor.<\/p>\n Belki be\u011fenenlerin bir\u00e7o\u011fu l\u00e2f olsun diye be\u011feniyor.<\/strong><\/p>\n Ger\u00e7ek hayatta s\u00f6ylesem \u201ckomik bulunacak baz\u0131 s\u00f6zleri\u201d<\/strong> sosyal medyada payla\u015f\u0131nca alk\u0131\u015f al\u0131yorum, takdir ediliyorum.<\/p>\n Ya da ba\u015fka bir insan\u0131n s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc do\u011fru d\u00fcr\u00fcst okumadan, anlamadan<\/strong> payla\u015f\u0131yorum.<\/p>\n Hi\u00e7bir \u015fey yapmadan bir\u00e7ok insan payla\u015f\u0131m\u0131m\u0131 be\u011feniyor.<\/p>\n Hatta herhangi bir kullan\u0131c\u0131n\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fck emeklerle haz\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir videoyu, bir foto\u011fraf\u0131<\/strong> \u201cpat\u201d diye payla\u015f\u0131yorum.<\/p>\n Y\u0131\u011f\u0131nla insan bu payla\u015f\u0131m\u0131m\u0131 be\u011feniyor.<\/p>\n Bunlar benim ho\u015fuma gidiyor, mutlu oluyorum i\u015fte!<\/p>\n <\/p>\n SOSYAL MEDYA AMACINA UYGUN KULLANILIRSA\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n Asl\u0131nda insanlar, sosyal medya arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla normal hayatta ula\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 \u00e7ok zor olan \u00e7ok say\u0131da insana ula\u015farak \u00e7ok g\u00fczel payla\u015f\u0131mlar yapabilir.<\/strong><\/p>\n O y\u00fczden ama\u00e7l\u0131 kullan\u0131m<\/strong> \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli.<\/p>\n Kim nereye gitmi\u015f? <\/strong><\/p>\n Kim ne yapm\u0131\u015f?<\/p>\n Kim ne s\u00f6ylemi\u015f?<\/p>\n Kim ne yemi\u015f,<\/p>\n Kim ne giymi\u015f\u2026<\/strong> de\u011fil!<\/p>\n Evet, insan\u0131n sosyal medyada oyalanmaya da ihtiyac\u0131 olabilir<\/strong> fakat saatlerce oyalanma olmaz.<\/p>\n Zira hayat \u00e7ok k\u0131sa ve \u00e7ok k\u0131ymetli.<\/p>\n Malum, hayat\u0131n tekrar\u0131 da yok!<\/p>\n <\/p>\n AKLININ D\u0130B\u0130N\u0130 HERKESE G\u00d6STERMEK ZORUNDA MISIN?<\/strong><\/p>\n Senin her d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc, herkes bilmek zorunda de\u011fil.<\/p>\n D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerini i\u015flemeden, s\u00fczmeden, uluorta yaz\u0131yorsan<\/strong>, \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck risk al\u0131yorsun demektir.<\/p>\n Sald\u0131rgan bir tav\u0131r<\/strong> sergiliyorsan,<\/p>\n Sizinle ayn\u0131 fikirde olmayanlara hakaret ediyorsan, <\/strong><\/p>\n Tatil ve e\u011flence foto\u011fraflar\u0131n\u0131<\/strong> sosyal medyada payla\u015f\u0131rken se\u00e7ici ve dikkatli de\u011filsen,<\/p>\n \u00dczg\u00fcn, k\u0131rg\u0131n ve \u00f6fkeli<\/strong> oldu\u011fun durumlarda ruh halini sosyal medyaya yans\u0131t\u0131yorsan,<\/p>\n Siyaset<\/a>,\u00a0spor<\/a>, din, cinsellik\u2026<\/strong> gibi konularda yorum yaparken dikkatli de\u011filsen son pi\u015fmanl\u0131k fayda etmeyecek demektir.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n ELE\u015eT\u0130REL D\u00dc\u015e\u00dcNCE<\/strong><\/p>\n Sosyal medyada g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc, duydu\u011fu her \u015feye inanan, \u00fcretmeyen, sorgulamayan <\/strong> bireylerle i\u015fimiz ne kadar zor!<\/p>\n Bo\u015funa \u201cMedya okuryazarl\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015fart!\u201d <\/strong>denmemi\u015f!<\/p>\n Sevin\u00e7leri payla\u015fmak,<\/strong> g\u00fczellikleri \u00e7o\u011faltmak temennisiyle.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n SON B\u0130R SORU<\/strong><\/p>\n \u015eu son soru, \u00c7erkesli\u011fiyle \u00f6v\u00fcnen <\/strong>sosyal medya kullan\u0131c\u0131lar\u0131na.<\/p>\n Sahi \u201cXABZE\u201d<\/strong> kurallar\u0131 sosyal medyan\u0131n neresinde?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" YEMUZ Nevzat Tarakçı 06.08.2016 Aktif sosyal medya kullanıcısı sevgili genç, Söyle, sanal hayatta mı yaşıyorsun, gerçek hayatta mı? Bilirsin, esas olan, sosyal medyada değil gerçek hayatta var olabilmek. Hayatı doğru yaşayabilmek. Mutlu, huzurlu olabilmek. SANAL HAYAT GİRDABINDA BOĞULMAYASIN Sevgili genç, sakın sosyal medya huzuruna mani olmasın! 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\n<\/strong>06<\/span>.08.2016<\/span><\/p>\n