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YEMUZ Nevzat Tarak\u00e7\u0131 Bir \u00c7erkes derne\u011finde, \u00c7erkes k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcnde olmayan, \u201cxabze\u201d<\/strong> ye uymayan bir evlilik seremonisi yap\u0131labilir mi?<\/p>\n Bu seremonide, gelin ve damat<\/strong> aday\u0131 \u00c7erkes, programa kat\u0131lanlar\u0131n tamam\u0131 \u00c7erkes\u2019se durum daha da vahim olmaz m\u0131?<\/p>\n Ya bu program\u0131 icra eden dernek y\u00f6netimiyse<\/strong> o zaman vaziyet ne olur?<\/p>\n \u201cAman can\u0131m sen de \u2018batman \u00e7a\u011f\u0131la kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u2019<\/strong> zaten, bunda bu kadar rahats\u0131z olacak ne var ki!\u201d diyebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n Veya bu duruma \u00e7ok \u00fcz\u00fclebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n Hatta \u201cYok art\u0131k, bu kadar\u0131 da fazla!\u201d<\/strong> da diyebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n Tercih sizin elbette.<\/p>\n Ben, \u00fcz\u00fclenlerdenim.<\/strong><\/p>\n Hem de \u00e7ok \u00fcz\u00fclen.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n DERNEKLER N\u0130\u00c7\u0130N VAR? <\/strong><\/p>\n Bu program\u0131n, y\u00f6rede ya\u015fayan \u201cAdige\u201d lerin pek \u00e7o\u011funu \u00fczd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim.<\/p>\n Siz de \u201cK\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcne duyars\u0131z insanlar istedikleri mek\u00e2nda istedikleri t\u00f6reye g\u00f6re<\/strong> d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn program\u0131 yapabilir ama dernek y\u00f6netimi, dernekte bunu yapamaz!\u201d diyerek sinirlendiniz, tepki g\u00f6sterdiniz diyelim.<\/p>\n Peki, dernek y\u00f6netimi,<\/strong> \u201cYahu biz de biliyoruz bu program\u0131n \u00c7erkes k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcnde olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ama ne yapal\u0131m zaman de\u011fi\u015fti, \u00e7a\u011fa ad\u0131m uydurmak gerek<\/strong>!\u201d derse tavr\u0131n\u0131z ne olur?<\/p>\n Ne dersiniz ne edersiniz?<\/p>\n Boynunuzu mu b\u00fckersiniz?<\/strong><\/p>\n Yutkunup susar m\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z?<\/p>\n Yoksa \u201cBu ne menem bir gaflettir!\u201d<\/strong> mi dersiniz?<\/p>\n Bir \u00e7\u0131rp\u0131da \u00c7erkes k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcnde \u201cxabze\u201d nin hayati \u00f6nemini mi dile getirirsiniz?<\/p>\n \u00c7erkes k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fc ya\u015fatmak i\u00e7in yap\u0131lm\u0131\u015f bir binada, \u00c7erkes k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcnde yeri olmayan N\u0130\u015eAN<\/strong> yapman\u0131n, KINA<\/strong> yakman\u0131n ne anlama geldi\u011fini mi anlat\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z?<\/p>\n \u201cOlur mu can\u0131m, \u015fartlar de\u011fi\u015fti, hangi as\u0131rda ya\u015f\u0131yoruz!\u201d diyenlere:<\/p>\n \u201cDostlar, bir k\u00fclt\u00fcr i\u015fte b\u00f6yle yok olur!\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cKan kayb\u0131 b\u00f6yle ya\u015fan\u0131r, can bedenden b\u00f6yle \u00e7ekilir!\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cNe olur yapmay\u0131n, etmeyin, kendi ipinizi \u00e7ekmeyin!\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cYok olu\u015fa, t\u00fckeni\u015fe dernek y\u00f6netimleri \u00f6n ayak olursa s\u00f6z\u00fcn bitti\u011fi yer buras\u0131 olur!\u201d<\/strong> mu dersiniz?<\/p>\n Peki sonra ne edersiniz?<\/p>\n Derne\u011fe k\u00fcs\u00fcp eve mi gidersiniz?<\/p>\n Bu neyi \u00e7\u00f6zer ki?<\/p>\n <\/p>\n KEND\u0130 ELLER\u0130M\u0130ZLE YOK ETT\u0130K<\/strong><\/p>\n Bir \u00f6nerim var:<\/p>\n Haydin toplanal\u0131m ve derne\u011fe gidelim.<\/p>\n Derne\u011fin en b\u00fcy\u00fck salonunda \u201cBak, kendi ellerimizle k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc ne g\u00fczel yok ettik!\u201d<\/strong> diyerek hep birlikte ne\u015fe i\u00e7inde k\u0131na yakal\u0131m!<\/p>\n Haydi, s\u00f6z\u00fcn bitti\u011fi yere gidiyoruz, derne\u011fe, k\u0131na yakmaya!<\/strong><\/p>\n Tecr\u00fcbeliler \u00f6nden!<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Y\u00dcKSEK Y\u00dcKSEK TEPELERDEK\u0130 \u201cB\u0130NDALLI\u201dLAR<\/strong><\/p>\n Haydin, herkes derne\u011fin b\u00fcy\u00fck salonuna ge\u00e7sin!<\/p>\n Delikanl\u0131lar, \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131n \u201c\u00c7erkeska\u201dlar\u0131!<\/strong><\/p>\n K\u0131zlar, siz de b\u0131rak\u0131n o \u00c7erkes k\u0131yafetlerini!<\/p>\n Gen\u00e7ler, b\u0131rak\u0131n m\u0131z\u0131kay\u0131, akordeonu!<\/strong><\/p>\n Haz\u0131r m\u0131 davul zurna, haz\u0131r m\u0131 orkestra?<\/p>\n Haz\u0131r m\u0131 \u201cbindall\u0131\u201d <\/strong>lar?<\/p>\n K\u0131zlar, erkekler\u2026<\/p>\n Ya \u201cthamade\u201d<\/strong>ler?<\/p>\n Herkes haz\u0131rsa t\u00f6ren ba\u015flas\u0131n, k\u0131na yak\u0131ls\u0131n!<\/strong><\/p>\n M\u00fczik!<\/p>\n \u201cY\u00fcksek y\u00fcksek tepelere<\/strong> ev kurmas\u0131nlar.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cA\u015fr\u0131 a\u015fr\u0131 memlekete k\u0131z vermesinler.\u201d<\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u0130Y\u0130 K\u0130 VARSINIZ, \u0130Y\u0130 K\u0130 \u201cXABZE\u201d YE BA\u011eLISINIZ!<\/strong><\/p>\n Biz kimiz, nedir bu halimiz?<\/p>\n Nereye kadar gider bu \u015fa\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z,<\/p>\n Bu umursamaz<\/strong> tavr\u0131m\u0131z,<\/p>\n Bu vurdumduymazl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z,<\/strong><\/p>\n Ne olacak bizim sonumuz?<\/p>\n Diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcp kahrolurken, i\u00e7im kan a\u011flarken<\/strong> bir ba\u015fka derne\u011fimizden gelen s\u0131cak ve anlaml\u0131 haber, y\u00fcre\u011fime su serpti.<\/strong><\/p>\n Bu derne\u011fimizde de iki g\u00fczel ailenin birliktelik t\u00f6reni,<\/strong> iki g\u00fczel gencin mutluluk program\u0131 vard\u0131.<\/p>\n T\u00f6rende her \u015fey, Adige k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcne<\/strong> g\u00f6re d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f.<\/p>\n Yani \u201cAdige nekih\u0131ty\u201d<\/strong> yap\u0131lm\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n T\u00f6rende \u201cHuoh\u201d<\/strong> sahne alm\u0131\u015f,<\/p>\n \u201cXabze\u201d<\/strong> dile gelmi\u015f.<\/p>\n Program ne kadar g\u00fczel ne kadar ho\u015f olmu\u015f!<\/p>\n \u0130yi ki vars\u0131n\u0131z,<\/strong> iyi ki duyarl\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z!<\/p>\n Binler selam size.<\/p>\n \u0130ki g\u00fczel aile; sevgi dolu g\u00f6n\u00fclleriniz, sevgiyle birle\u015fen elleriniz<\/strong> bir \u00f6m\u00fcr ayr\u0131lmas\u0131n!<\/p>\n T\u00f6renlerini t\u00f6resine g\u00f6re yapan siz gen\u00e7 \u00e7iftler; size, sa\u011fl\u0131k, huzur ve mutluluk diliyorum.<\/strong><\/p>\n T\u00f6renin, \u00f6rnek olmas\u0131 temennisiyle!<\/p>\n <\/p>\n SON S\u00d6Z:<\/strong><\/p>\n Bir Bask atas\u00f6z\u00fc “Bir\u00a0dil, o\u00a0dili az insan konu\u015ftu\u011fu\u00a0i\u00e7in\u00a0de\u011fil, o\u00a0dili bilenler konu\u015fmad\u0131\u011f\u0131\u00a0i\u00e7in\u00a0\u00f6l\u00fcr.”<\/strong>\u00a0der.<\/p>\n Ya k\u00fclt\u00fcrel de\u011ferler?<\/p>\n Onlar nas\u0131l \u00f6l\u00fcr?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" YEMUZ Nevzat Tarakçı 04.02.2017 Bir Çerkes derneğinde, Çerkes kültüründe olmayan, “xabze” ye uymayan bir evlilik seremonisi yapılabilir mi? Bu seremonide, gelin ve damat adayı Çerkes, programa katılanların tamamı Çerkes’se durum daha da vahim olmaz mı? Ya bu programı icra eden dernek yönetimiyse o zaman vaziyet ne olur? “Aman canım sen de ‘batman çağıla karıştı’ zaten, 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\n<\/strong>04<\/span>.02.2017<\/span><\/p>\n