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YEMUZ Nevzat Tarak\u00e7\u0131<\/strong><\/p>\n Sosyal medyada kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7\u0131kan \u201cAn itibariyle babam\u0131 kaybettik!\u201d<\/strong> ya da \u201c\u015eu an sevgili annemi cennete u\u011furluyoruz!\u201d<\/strong> gibi ifadeler sizce do\u011fru mu? TAZ\u0130YELER FACEBOOK\u2019TA DUALAR YOUTUBE\u2019DE MASKE, MESAFE H\u0130JYEN ve \u00d6L\u00dcM Korkudan telefona bakam\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n TEK G\u00dcNDEM \u00d6L\u00dcM! \u00d6L\u00dcM GER\u00c7E\u011e\u0130NE UYANDIK \u201cHAYATIMIZ SOSYAL A\u011eLARA SIKI\u015eIP KALDI\u201d \u00c7A\u011eIN GERE\u011e\u0130 BU MU? \u0130\u015e \u0130\u015eTEN GE\u00c7T\u0130 M\u0130? YEMUZ Nevzat Tarakçı Sosyal medyada karşımıza çıkan “An itibariyle babamı kaybettik!” ya da “Şu an sevgili annemi cennete uğurluyoruz!” gibi ifadeler sizce doğru mu? Ya “Babasının tabutu ile cami avlusunda ‘selfi’ çekip sosyal medyaya koyan ve ‘Babamı son yolcuğuna uğurluyoruz!’ cümlesi ile ilgili camiden bildirim yollayanlar” a ne dersiniz? Bunun adına “internetin kolaylıklarına uyum sağlamak” 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\nYa \u201cBabas\u0131n\u0131n tabutu ile<\/strong> cami avlusunda \u2018selfi\u2019 \u00e7ekip sosyal medyaya koyan ve \u2018Babam\u0131 son yolcu\u011funa u\u011furluyoruz!\u2019<\/strong> c\u00fcmlesi ile ilgili camiden<\/strong> bildirim yollayanlar\u201d a ne dersiniz?
\nBunun ad\u0131na \u201cinternetin kolayl\u0131klar\u0131na uyum sa\u011flamak\u201d<\/strong> denilebilir mi?
\nSiz, bu ifade ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 yad\u0131rg\u0131yor musunuz?
\n\u00c7ok g\u00fczel hareket de\u011fil bunlar<\/strong>, diyor musunuz?
\nYoksa \u201c\u00c7a\u011f\u0131n gere\u011fi budur, <\/strong>olabilir!\u201d mi diyorsunuz?<\/p>\n
\n<\/strong>Zaman ne kadar da de\u011fi\u015fti, de\u011fi\u015fiyor.
\nYoksa \u201cTaziyeleri \u2018Twitter\u2019<\/strong> den, \u00a0\u2018Facebook\u2019<\/strong> tan al\u0131p duay\u0131 \u2018Youtube\u2019<\/strong> den okur hale mi geldik?\u201d
\nBilmem ki \u015f\u00f6yle de s\u00f6ylenebilir mi?
\nHer hareket ve durumunu sosyal medyada c\u00f6mert\u00e7e payla\u015fan ki\u015filerin \u201c\u00f6l\u00fcm gibi hayat\u0131n en kat\u0131 ger\u00e7e\u011fini\u201d <\/strong>payla\u015fmas\u0131nda, bu ac\u0131y\u0131 e\u015fe, dosta, arkada\u015fa duyurmas\u0131nda ne sak\u0131nca olabilir ki?<\/p>\n
\n<\/strong>\u00c7evre bilincinden yoksun halde do\u011fay\u0131 h\u0131rpalayan insano\u011flu \u015fimdilerde \u00e7aresizlik i\u00e7inde<\/strong> hastal\u0131klarla bo\u011fu\u015fuyor.
\n\u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcm bulam\u0131yoruz!
\n<\/strong>\u00d6l\u00fcyoruz, yok etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z do\u011faya g\u00f6m\u00fcl\u00fcyoruz!
\nK\u0131vran\u0131yoruz, pe\u015fi s\u0131ra ac\u0131lar ya\u015f\u0131yoruz.
\n<\/strong>Son d\u00f6nemde her yan\u0131m\u0131z \u00f6l\u00fcm haberleriyle<\/strong> dolu.
\nSosyal medya cenaze evi gibi.
\n<\/strong>Her yeni mesaj<\/strong> y\u00fcre\u011fimizi hoplat\u0131yor.<\/p>\n
\n<\/strong>\u00dclkenin \u015fa\u015fmaz g\u00fcndemi, \u201cmaske, mesafe, hijyen\u201d ve \u00d6L\u00dcM\u2026
\n<\/strong>Ac\u0131larla i\u00e7 i\u00e7e bir \u201cyaprak d\u00f6k\u00fcm\u00fc\u201d<\/strong> mevsimi ya\u015f\u0131yoruz
\nBu denli \u00e7aresizli\u011fin<\/strong>, bu kadar yo\u011fun ac\u0131n\u0131n<\/strong> bir arada oldu\u011fu bir d\u00f6nem ya\u015fad\u0131k m\u0131, bilmiyorum!<\/p>\n
\n<\/strong>Sevenler,
\nSevilenler.
\n<\/strong>Sevgililer,
\nEn de\u011ferliler,
\n<\/strong>En k\u0131ymetliler bir bir gidiyor.
\nHasta ziyareti yapamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z gibi \u00e7o\u011fu zaman onlar\u0131 son yolculuklar\u0131na<\/strong> da u\u011furlayam\u0131yoruz.
\nOnlar\u0131 bu veda program\u0131nda<\/strong> dahi yaln\u0131z b\u0131rak\u0131yoruz.
\nMezarlar\u0131na bir avu\u00e7 toprak serpemiyoruz.
\n<\/strong>Olan biteni, bir yabanc\u0131 gibi uzaktan izliyor, kahroluyoruz!<\/p>\n
\n<\/strong>\u0130lgi bekleyen, ilgi a\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00e7eken bir toplumda ilgi \u00e7ekmek i\u00e7in<\/strong> neler neler yap\u0131lm\u0131yor ki?
\nD\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn, annesi, babas\u0131 veya karde\u015fini kaybetmi\u015f, daha saatler ge\u00e7memi\u015f<\/strong> ama bir bak\u0131yorsunuz nas\u0131l vakit ve g\u00fc\u00e7 bulmu\u015fsa<\/strong> \u00f6l\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fcn foto\u011fraf\u0131n\u0131 sosyal medyada payla\u015fm\u0131\u015f ve takip\u00e7ilerinden dua istiyor.
\nDaha da garibi, hen\u00fcz cenaze defnedilmeden<\/strong> taziye yorumlar\u0131n\u0131 kabul etmi\u015f, takip\u00e7ilerine s\u0131cac\u0131k te\u015fekk\u00fcr mesajlar\u0131 g\u00f6ndermi\u015f.
\nVe defin sonras\u0131 mezar ba\u015f\u0131nda h\u00fcz\u00fcnl\u00fc bir foto\u011fraf!<\/strong><\/p>\n
\n<\/strong>Bilmem ki belki bu da normaldir, belki bu da \u00e7a\u011f\u0131n gere\u011fidir!
\n<\/strong>Yoksa bu ki\u015filer ac\u0131 hissetmiyor<\/strong>, ac\u0131 \u00e7ekmiyor mu?
\nYa da \u201cSosyal medya, en k\u0131sa zamanda en yo\u011fun kitleye <\/strong>ula\u015fmam\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011flayan en \u00f6nemli ara\u00e7sa bu kolayl\u0131ktan neden faydalanmayal\u0131m?\u201d gibi mi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorlard\u0131r?
\nDe\u011fil mi ki \u201c\u0130nsan ger\u00e7ekten sevdi\u011fi birini kaybederse ne Facebook’a girmek gelir akl\u0131na, ne de \u00e7ekti\u011fi ac\u0131y\u0131 afi\u015fe etmek!\u201d
\n<\/strong>Hatta \u201c\u0130nsan b\u00f6yle durumlarda ilk birka\u00e7 g\u00fcn, nefes alacak vakit bile bulamaz<\/strong>; cenazeydi, taziyeydi\u2026
\nDahas\u0131 \u201cBu kadar ac\u0131 \u00e7ekerken o kadar \u015feyle u\u011fra\u015fmak daha fazla ac\u0131t\u0131r insan\u0131!\u201d
\n\u201cSevdi\u011fini kaybetmenin ac\u0131s\u0131, <\/strong>yemeden i\u00e7meden keser insan\u0131. Normal hayata d\u00f6nmek zaman al\u0131r. \u0130\u015fe bile zoraki gidersin ilerleyen g\u00fcnlerde.\u201d
\nKim ne derse desin, \u201cKay\u0131plar\u0131n\u0131 bile Facebook malzemesi yapan insanlar\u0131<\/strong> hi\u00e7 anlayamayacak, yap\u0131lanlar\u0131 hep samimiyetsizlik olarak alg\u0131layacak\u201d pek \u00e7ok insan var kanaatimce.<\/p>\n
\n<\/strong>Elbette i\u015f i\u015ften ge\u00e7medi daha!
\nYa\u015fananlardan ders almak<\/strong> ve ak\u0131llanmak \u015fart\u0131yla.
\nD\u00fcn k\u0131ymetini bilmedi\u011fimiz, bug\u00fcn k\u0131smen de olsa \u00f6nemini anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z de\u011ferlere s\u0131k\u0131 s\u0131kaya sar\u0131lmak<\/strong> \u015fart\u0131yla.
\nYanl\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131zdan vaz ge\u00e7ti\u011fimiz sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ve huzurlu g\u00fcnlerde<\/strong>, payla\u015fmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenerek, \u00e7evremize daha fazla sayg\u0131 duyarak, insan\u00ee de\u011ferlerle bezenmi\u015f bir d\u00fcnyada bar\u0131\u015f ve huzur<\/strong> i\u00e7inde ya\u015famak temennisiyle.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"