{"id":1789,"date":"2019-02-21T20:12:23","date_gmt":"2019-02-21T20:12:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=1789"},"modified":"2019-02-21T20:12:23","modified_gmt":"2019-02-21T20:12:23","slug":"egonuz-ve-inadiniz-toplumu-paramparca-etti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/egonuz-ve-inadiniz-toplumu-paramparca-etti\/","title":{"rendered":"EGONUZ ve \u0130NADINIZ TOPLUMU PARAMPAR\u00c7A ETT\u0130"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-1790\" src=\"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/03.11.2018.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"417\" height=\"305\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/03.11.2018.jpg 417w, https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/03.11.2018-300x219.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 417px) 100vw, 417px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>YEMUZ Nevzat Tarak\u00e7\u0131<br \/>\n<\/strong><span class=\"auto-style80\">03<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Arial;\">.11.2018<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Ya\u015f\u00e7a b\u00fcy\u00fck olmaktan ba\u015fka hi\u00e7bir \u00f6zelli\u011fi olmayan <strong> baz\u0131 ki\u015filer<\/strong>, egolar\u0131n\u0131 tatmin i\u00e7in toplumu <strong>b\u00f6l\u00fcp<\/strong> parampar\u00e7a edebilir mi?<\/p>\n<p>Yani <strong>ego ve inat<\/strong> bu kadar g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc olabilir mi?<\/p>\n<p>Peki, baz\u0131 ki\u015filerin b\u00f6yle bir y\u0131k\u0131m i\u00e7inde oldu\u011funu var sayarsak <strong>toplum <\/strong>buna ne der?<\/p>\n<p>Bu ki\u015filer, buna ra\u011fmen toplumdan <strong>iltifat g\u00f6rebilir mi?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Halk, buna m\u00fcsaade eder mi?<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHay\u0131r, hay\u0131r asla <strong>b\u00f6yle bir \u015fey olamaz!\u201d<\/strong> diyorsunuz, de\u011fil mi?<\/p>\n<p>\u201cToplumumuzda yeti\u015fkinler gen\u00e7lere yol g\u00f6sterir, onlara <strong>model olur.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong> \u201cB\u00fcy\u00fckler, gen\u00e7lere g\u00fcvenir,<\/strong> onlara inan\u0131r, gen\u00e7lere imk\u00e2n tan\u0131r.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cToplumumuzda bu t\u00fcr yanl\u0131\u015flar olmaz!\u201d diye de ilave ediyorsunuz.<\/p>\n<p>Ne g\u00fczel!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong> GEN\u00c7LER \u00c7OK ZOR DURUMDA KALIYOR<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ne yaz\u0131k ki toplumumuzda yukar\u0131da tasvirini yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ki\u015filer var.<\/p>\n<p>Bunlar; topluma, k\u00fclt\u00fcre b\u00fcy\u00fck zarar veriyor ve bunlar h\u00e2l\u00e2 toplumdan <strong>gerekli tepkiyi<\/strong> g\u00f6rm\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc toplumun <strong>ezber bozmas\u0131 <\/strong> san\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 kadar kolay de\u011fil.<\/p>\n<p>Bu durum, en \u00e7ok gen\u00e7leri zor durumda b\u0131rak\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Gen\u00e7leri \u00fcz\u00fcyor, onlar\u0131n <strong>idealini han\u00e7erliyor.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Gen\u00e7lere g\u00fcvenilse, onlara yetki verilse neler neler yapmaz ki gen\u00e7ler!<\/p>\n<p>Ne yaps\u0131n gen\u00e7ler!<\/p>\n<p>Muhatap ya\u015f\u00e7a b\u00fcy\u00fck ya\u2026 <strong>thamade(!)<\/strong> diye de an\u0131l\u0131yor ya\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Gen\u00e7ler de <strong>susmay\u0131 sayg\u0131 san\u0131p<\/strong> susuyor.<\/p>\n<p>B\u00fcy\u00fckler de sayg\u0131dan susan gen\u00e7leri <strong>p\u0131s\u0131r\u0131k <\/strong> san\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Bakal\u0131m bu <strong>k\u0131s\u0131r d\u00f6ng\u00fcn\u00fcn<\/strong> sonu nas\u0131l bitecek?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong> THAMDELER\u0130M\u0130Z TOPLUMUN S\u0130GORTASI <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Diyelim ki birileri, \u201cthamade\u201d s\u0131fat\u0131na s\u0131\u011f\u0131narak bu s\u0131fat\u0131 kullanarak bu <strong>topluma, bu k\u00fclt\u00fcre verilebilecek en b\u00fcy\u00fck zarar\u0131<\/strong> veriyor?<\/p>\n<p>Toplum ne yapmal\u0131?<\/p>\n<p>Bu uygunsuzlu\u011fa <strong>kim m\u00fcdahale etmeli?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Toplumun b\u00fcy\u00fck bir kesiminin b\u00fcy\u00fcklerle ilgili imaj\u0131 malum:<\/p>\n<p>B\u00fcy\u00fckler, <strong>toplumun sigortas\u0131d\u0131r,<\/strong> bunu bilirler ve buna g\u00f6re davran\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n<p>B\u00fcy\u00fckler, toplumu <strong>kutupla\u015ft\u0131racak <\/strong>bir olu\u015fum i\u00e7inde asla yer almazlar!<\/p>\n<p>Ahbap \u00e7avu\u015f ili\u015fkisi i\u00e7inde hareket etmezler.<\/p>\n<p><strong> Asla kap\u0131 kap\u0131 dola\u015f\u0131p<\/strong> birilerinin tan\u0131t\u0131m\u0131n\u0131, di\u011ferlerinin dedikodusunu yapamazlar.<\/p>\n<p>Onlar tarafs\u0131zd\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Onlar toplumun <strong>hakemidir. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Onlar halk\u0131n arabulucusudur.<\/p>\n<p>Onlar <strong>tak\u0131m tutar gibi taraf tutamaz!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Onlar taraftar bayraklar\u0131n\u0131 al\u0131p trib\u00fcnde tezah\u00fcrat yapamaz!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong> KRAL \u00c7IPLAK!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Evet, kim ne derse desin kral \u00e7\u0131plak!<\/p>\n<p>Hem de <strong>\u00e7\u0131r\u0131l\u00e7\u0131plak!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ezber bozma zaman\u0131 geldi, \u00e7oktan ge\u00e7iyor.<\/p>\n<p>E\u011fer bu g\u00fczel toplumun huzuru daha fazla ka\u00e7mas\u0131n, daha fazla ayr\u0131\u015fmas\u0131n istiyorsak, herkes <strong>haddini bilecek!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ya\u015fl\u0131s\u0131 da genci de\u2026<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong> DE\u011eERL\u0130 B\u00dcY\u00dcKLER\u0130M\u0130Z BA\u015eIMIZIN TACI <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>B\u00fcy\u00fcklerimiz, \u201cthamade\u201d lerimiz, bizim <strong>ya\u015fayan tarihimiz,<\/strong> onlar bizim her \u015feyimiz.<\/p>\n<p><strong> Onlara asla sayg\u0131da kusur etmeyiz<\/strong>\/ etmemeliyiz.<\/p>\n<p>Konu farkl\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Konu; bilgisi, birikimi<strong>, becerisi, nezaketi<\/strong>\u2026 toplum ad\u0131na konu\u015fmaya yetmeyecek kadar zay\u0131f birilerinin toplum ad\u0131na <strong>ahk\u00e2m kesmesi<\/strong>, toplumun da buna gerekli tepkiyi vermemesi\/ verememesidir.<\/p>\n<p>Bu t\u00fcr bir davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n \u201cxabze\u201d de yerinin oldu\u011fu san\u0131lmas\u0131.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/ey-thamade-nedir-bu-hal\/\">&gt;&gt;&gt; Ey Thamade(!) Nedir Bu Hal?\u00a0 (Link)<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong> \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong> Z\u00dcLF\u0130 YARE DOKUNMAK <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Evet, z\u00fclfi y\u00e2re dokunduk.<\/p>\n<p>Hi\u00e7 kimse ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131n arkas\u0131na s\u0131\u011f\u0131narak, <strong>thamade s\u0131fat\u0131n\u0131 kullanarak<\/strong> bu toplumun, bu k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn <strong>can\u0131na okuma hakk\u0131na<\/strong> sahip olmamal\u0131.<\/p>\n<p><strong> Toplum; bu gidi\u015fe, bu k\u00f6r d\u00f6\u011f\u00fc\u015fe bir dur diyebilmeli.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ya\u015fl\u0131 olsun gen olsun hi\u00e7 kimsenin <strong>haks\u0131z ele\u015ftiriye,<\/strong> \u00f6tekile\u015ftirmeye, sevmedi\u011fi ki\u015fileri <strong>lin\u00e7 etmeye, toplumu kutupla\u015ft\u0131rmaya,<\/strong> ayr\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmaya asla hakk\u0131 yok.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong> NE OLUR YA\u015eINIZA YAKI\u015eANI YAPIN!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>B\u00fcy\u00fckl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne yak\u0131\u015fmayacak i\u015flerle u\u011fra\u015fan de\u011ferli b\u00fcy\u00fckler, ne olur yapmay\u0131n, etmeyin, toplumu ayr\u0131\u015ft\u0131racak <strong>k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck hesaplar<\/strong> i\u00e7inde olmay\u0131n. Olmay\u0131n ki \u00e7evrenizdekiler de gen\u00e7ler de <strong>sayg\u0131da kusur etmesin.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong> K\u0130ME ve NEYE SAYGI?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Bilmem ki <strong>sayg\u0131 susamak m\u0131?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sayg\u0131, k\u00f6t\u00fc gidi\u015fe <strong>seyirci kalmak <\/strong>m\u0131?<\/p>\n<p>Sayg\u0131, p\u0131s\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131k m\u0131?<\/p>\n<p>Sayg\u0131, <strong>duyars\u0131zl\u0131k m\u0131?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sayg\u0131, g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f bildirememek mi?<\/p>\n<p>Sayg\u0131, <strong>fikir \u00fcretememek<\/strong> mi?<\/p>\n<p>Sayg\u0131, sayg\u0131y\u0131 hak etmeyenin kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda <strong>el pen\u00e7e divan durmak m\u0131?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong> YOKSA BAZI KAVRAMLARI YEN\u0130DEN M\u0130 TANIMLASAK? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Gelin \u201csayg\u0131\u201d y\u0131 yeniden tan\u0131mlayal\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Gelin <strong>\u201cthamede\u201d<\/strong> yi yeniden konumland\u0131ral\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Gelin ezberlerimizi bozal\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Gelin <strong>\u201cxabze\u201d<\/strong> yi g\u00fcncel boyutuyla alg\u0131layal\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>G\u00f6receksiniz, o zaman \u00e7ok \u015fey de\u011fi\u015fecek!<\/p>\n<p><strong> \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong> B\u0130NLER TE\u015eEKK\u00dcR, B\u0130NLER SAYGI S\u0130ZE<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u0130lerlemi\u015f ya\u015f\u0131na ra\u011fmen <strong>k\u00fclt\u00fcrel duyarl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 koruyan,<\/strong> toplumun g\u00f6z bebe\u011fi olan, sosyal ve k\u00fclt\u00fcrel programlara kat\u0131lan, <strong> derneklerde gen\u00e7lere model olan,<\/strong> bilgisini birikimini gelecek nesle aktarma gayretini s\u00fcrd\u00fcren sayg\u0131de\u011fer b\u00fcy\u00fcklerimiz, <strong>de\u011ferli \u201cthamade\u201d lerimiz<\/strong> iyi ki vars\u0131n\u0131z, binler sayg\u0131, binler selam size!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>YEMUZ Nevzat Tarak&ccedil;&#305; 03.11.2018 Ya&#351;&ccedil;a b&uuml;y&uuml;k olmaktan ba&#351;ka hi&ccedil;bir &ouml;zelli&#287;i olmayan baz&#305; ki&#351;iler, egolar&#305;n&#305; tatmin i&ccedil;in toplumu b&ouml;l&uuml;p parampar&ccedil;a edebilir mi? 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