{"id":2006,"date":"2019-02-22T14:42:41","date_gmt":"2019-02-22T14:42:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=2006"},"modified":"2019-02-22T14:42:41","modified_gmt":"2019-02-22T14:42:41","slug":"piskinligin-bu-kadarina-pes-dogrusu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/piskinligin-bu-kadarina-pes-dogrusu\/","title":{"rendered":"P\u0130\u015eK\u0130NL\u0130\u011e\u0130N BU KADARINA PES DO\u011eRUSU!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\"><strong>WORDIM M\u00fczeyyen<\/strong><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Arial;\">04.11.2008<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">Son g\u00fcnlerde ya\u015fanan olaylar bas\u0131nda \u00e7\u0131kan taciz haberleri hepimizi \u00e7ok \u00fcz\u00fcyor. Ben art\u0131k ayn\u0131 haberleri g\u00f6rmek ve duymak istemedi\u011fim i\u00e7in s\u00fcrekli kanal de\u011fi\u015ftirip, bakmamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorum. Hele utan\u00e7 duymak nedir bilmeyen 76 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki o \u015fahsiyeti pi\u015fkince konu\u015furken g\u00f6rmek beni fazlas\u0131yla sinirlendiriyor. 14 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki bir k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011fu, torunu ya\u015f\u0131ndaki bir \u00e7ocukla bu nas\u0131l a\u015fa\u011f\u0131l\u0131k ve i\u011fren\u00e7 bir durumdur insan\u0131n akl\u0131 alm\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>De\u011fil destek vermek, b\u00f6ylesi olaylar\u0131 lanetlemek, k\u0131namak, toplumun her kesiminden seslerin y\u00fckselmesi gerekir. K\u0131sa s\u00fcrede su\u00e7lular\u0131n pe\u015fini b\u0131rak\u0131p bu bir toplumsal olayd\u0131r deyip ge\u00e7meden, \u00fcst\u00fcn\u00fc \u00f6rtbas etmek yerine daha da irdeleyerek adam\u0131n yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131na pi\u015fman etmek gerekir. Duydu\u011fumuz bunlar duymad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z daha neler var, deyip duyars\u0131zca olay\u0131 kapatmamak gerekir. Bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncedeki di\u011fer ki\u015filere de cayd\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 bir cezas\u0131 olmal\u0131. 3-5 ay ceza evinde kal\u0131p kurtulmakla ileride olabilecek olaylara k\u00f6t\u00fc \u00f6rnek olmamal\u0131. Yapt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n bedelini a\u011f\u0131r \u00f6denmesi gerekti\u011fine inan\u0131yorum. B\u00f6ylesine pi\u015fkince tekrar soka\u011fa sal\u0131verilmemeli. Olay kadar adam\u0131n pi\u015fkin pi\u015fkin konu\u015fmalar\u0131 insanlar\u0131 daha da yaralamaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>76 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki o \u015fahsiyet kadar o \u00e7ocu\u011fun annesinin de en az onun kadar su\u00e7lu buluyor, onunda cezaland\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fine inan\u0131yorum. Bir anne olarak nas\u0131l b\u00f6yle bir \u015feylere ortam b\u0131rak\u0131rs\u0131n. \u0130nsan hi\u00e7 tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131 parkta, yolda giderken g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na uygunsuz davran\u0131lmas\u0131na, s\u00f6zl\u00fc sata\u015fmalar\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnce ahlak zab\u0131tas\u0131 de\u011filiz ama sahiplenmek ge\u00e7iyor i\u00e7imizden. Tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z halde g\u00f6rd\u00fcklerimize bir anne olarak tahamm\u00fcl\u00fcm\u00fcz olmazken, onun annelik duygular\u0131na \u015f\u00fcphe getirmemek elde de\u011fil.<\/p>\n<p>Bu \u00e7irkin olaya ad\u0131 kar\u0131\u015fan kocay\u0131 cezaevinden al\u0131rken, gazetecilere s\u0131r\u0131tarak bakan e\u015fini de \u00e7ok gurursuz ve duyars\u0131z buldum. Sanki kahraman oldu cezas\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ekti ceza evinden \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131 da onu kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131yor gibiydi.<\/p>\n<p>Ayr\u0131ca \u2018\u2019psikolojik olarak zarar g\u00f6rmemi\u015ftir\u2019\u2019 diyen kuruma ne demek laz\u0131m! Yani olay\u0131n neresinden tutarsan\u0131z tutunuz elinizde kal\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Bunlar\u0131n her biri bir psikolojik travma olarak topluma, \u00e7evreye yans\u0131yor. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla g\u00fcvensizlik ivme kazan\u0131yor. Bir g\u00fcven bunal\u0131m\u0131d\u0131r gidiyoruz. Kimse kimseye g\u00fcvenmez oldu. Toplumsal ve aile de\u011ferlerimiz, kom\u015fuluk, akrabal\u0131k ili\u015fkileri bir garip oldu. Millet olarak ahlak de\u011ferlerimiz her g\u00fcn biraz daha dejenere oluyor. Nedir bunlar b\u00f6yle? Nereye do\u011fru gidiyoruz?<\/p>\n<p>Hepimizin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 var. Hi\u00e7 mi onlar\u0131 yaln\u0131z b\u0131rakmayaca\u011f\u0131z? Buna pratikte imkan var m\u0131? Okula gidecek, dershaneye gidecek, spora gidecek. Hangi birinde yan\u0131nda olabiliriz ki? \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za g\u00fcveniyoruz. Eminiz onlar bizi utand\u0131racak bir \u015feye meydan vermeyecekler ama b\u00f6ylesi toplumun i\u00e7indeki paranoyak insanlar\u0131 da duyduk\u00e7a endi\u015felenmemek elde de\u011fil.<\/p>\n<p>Durum b\u00f6yle olunca \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za hemen her g\u00fcn nasihat vermekten, uyarmaktan onlar\u0131 da b\u0131kt\u0131r\u0131yoruz. En k\u00f6t\u00fcs\u00fc de \u00e7ok g\u00fcvensiz nesiller yeti\u015ftiriyoruz. Servis \u015fof\u00f6r\u00fcne g\u00fcvenme, binadaki g\u00f6revliye g\u00fcvenme, asans\u00f6re tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131nla binme vs. \u00c7ocuklar da zaten kime g\u00fcvenip g\u00fcvenmeyeceklerini \u015fa\u015f\u0131rm\u0131\u015f durumdalar.<\/p>\n<p>Benim jenerasyonumdakilerin hepsi \u00e7ok iyi hat\u0131rlarlar. \u00c7erkesler olarak rahat, g\u00fcvenli aile ve \u00e7evre ortamlar\u0131nda yeti\u015ftirildik. Onun i\u00e7in ben \u00f6yle \u00e7ok insanlara \u015f\u00fcpheyle bakm\u0131yorum. Gelebilecek k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fcklere \u00e7ok ihtimal vermiyorum. Yine de iyi niyetimi korumakla beraber her an temkinli olunmas\u0131 ve herkesin bizler gibi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmedi\u011fini akl\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n bir ucunda tutmak gerekti\u011fine de inanlardan\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Temiz toplum temiz aileden olu\u015fur. Umar\u0131m bu t\u00fcr olaylarla toplumlar me\u015fgul edilmez. Birilerinin bu t\u00fcr olaylardan \u00e7\u0131karaca\u011f\u0131 dersler olmu\u015ftur. Umar\u0131m \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 daha ayd\u0131nl\u0131k, daha g\u00fcvenli bir ortam i\u00e7inde yar\u0131nlara emanet ederiz.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>WORDIM M&uuml;zeyyen 04.11.2008 Son g&uuml;nlerde ya&#351;anan olaylar bas&#305;nda &ccedil;&#305;kan taciz haberleri hepimizi &ccedil;ok &uuml;z&uuml;yor. 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