{"id":2083,"date":"2019-02-22T16:02:52","date_gmt":"2019-02-22T16:02:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=2083"},"modified":"2019-02-22T16:02:52","modified_gmt":"2019-02-22T16:02:52","slug":"cerkeslik-ve-saygi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/cerkeslik-ve-saygi\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7ERKESL\u0130K VE SAYGI"},"content":{"rendered":"

TLETSERUK Nahit Serbes<\/strong>
\n<\/span><\/span>08.02.2010<\/span><\/p>\n

Sayg\u0131 kurallar\u0131, insanlar\u0131n birlikte ya\u015famas\u0131 sonucu zorunlu olarak baz\u0131 davran\u0131\u015f kal\u0131plar\u0131 geli\u015ftirmeleriyle olu\u015fmu\u015ftur. Uygulan\u0131\u015f bi\u00e7imi co\u011frafya ve k\u00fclt\u00fcre g\u00f6re de\u011fi\u015fse de d\u00fcnyan\u0131n her yerinde insanlar\u0131n uydu\u011fu ve ba\u015fkalar\u0131ndan bekledi\u011fi tav\u0131rlar, duru\u015flar vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Geli\u015fmi\u015f empati yetenekleri sayesinde, \u00c7erkeslerde sayg\u0131 kurallar\u0131 ve sayg\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6sterili\u015f \u015fekli zenginlikler arz eder. Bu kurallar\u0131 sergiledikleri \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcde sayg\u0131nl\u0131k kazan\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n

\u00c7erkesler sayg\u0131y\u0131 insan olman\u0131n bir gere\u011fi olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcrler. Ya\u015f k\u0131stas\u0131na \u00e7ok \u00f6nem verirler ve insanlar kendilerinden birka\u00e7 ay b\u00fcy\u00fck oldu\u011funu bildikleri ki\u015filere bunu fark ettirici \u015fekilde davran\u0131rlar. Ya\u015f\u00e7a b\u00fcy\u00fck olanlar\u0131n da m\u00fc\u015ffik olmak, anlay\u0131\u015f g\u00f6stermek ve fevri davranmamak gibi sorumluluklar\u0131 vard\u0131r. Xabze kurallar\u0131na g\u00f6re sayg\u0131da esas al\u0131nan kriter para veya stat\u00fc de\u011fil, insan olmakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Ba\u015fkalar\u0131 i\u00e7in aya\u011fa kalkmak temel bir sayg\u0131 rit\u00fceli olarak d\u00fcnyan\u0131n her yerinde bilinen bir davran\u0131\u015f \u015fekli olmakla birlikte, xabze k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcnde insanlar birbirlerini mutlaka ayakta kar\u015f\u0131larlar. Biri ayr\u0131l\u0131rken de di\u011feri mutlaka aya\u011fa kalkar. Uzat\u0131lan bir elin oturur halde tutulmas\u0131, bir tebrikin veya selam\u0131n oturarak al\u0131nmas\u0131 sayg\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k olarak kabul edilir.<\/p>\n

\u015euras\u0131 bir ger\u00e7ektir ki, sayg\u0131 insani ili\u015fkilerin olmazsa olmaz\u0131d\u0131r. \u0130nsanlara sayg\u0131 g\u00f6sterdi\u011fimiz \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcde sayg\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcz. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 sevmek zorunda de\u011filiz ama onlara sayg\u0131 g\u00f6stermek zorunday\u0131z.<\/p>\n

Asl\u0131nda Xabze K\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc ve gelenekleri birbirimize kar\u015f\u0131 tav\u0131rlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n nas\u0131l olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a ortaya koymu\u015f ve sayg\u0131 \u015fekilleri baz\u0131 kurallara ba\u011flanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bu tav\u0131rlar kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdaki insana de\u011fer verdi\u011fimizi, onun da bu de\u011feri hak etmek i\u00e7in u\u011fra\u015fmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fi mesaj\u0131n\u0131 verir.<\/p>\n

\u00c7erkesler biri birine aya\u011fa kalk\u0131yor, konuklar\u0131n\u0131 kap\u0131ya kadar ge\u00e7iriyor, biri birilerine g\u00fcl\u00fcmseyerek iyi g\u00fcnler diyor, uzat\u0131lan el i\u00e7in aya\u011fa kalk\u0131yor, selam\u0131n\u0131 sayg\u0131yla al\u0131yor ama b\u00fct\u00fcn bu rit\u00fcelleri para ve stat\u00fc i\u00e7in de\u011fil, sadece muhatab\u0131n\u0131n insan oldu\u011funu bildi\u011fi i\u00e7in yap\u0131yor.<\/p>\n

Rahmetli General \u0130smail Hakk\u0131 Berkok, kendisini ziyarete gelen bir subay\u0131 oda kap\u0131s\u0131na kadar u\u011furlam\u0131\u015f, fakat hemen arkas\u0131ndan gelen ayaklar\u0131 \u00e7\u0131plak, elbisesi y\u0131rt\u0131k bir faytoncuyu bah\u00e7e kap\u0131s\u0131na kadar u\u011furlam\u0131\u015f. Sebebini soranlara; ilk konu\u011fu ya\u015f\u00e7a kendisinden k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck oldu\u011fu ve s\u0131k\u0131lmamas\u0131 i\u00e7in oda kap\u0131s\u0131na kadar u\u011furlad\u0131m. Fakat ikinci konuk hem ya\u015f\u00e7a b\u00fcy\u00fckt\u00fc hem de yoksuldu, kendisine sayg\u0131 g\u00f6sterilmedi\u011fini hissetmesin diye bah\u00e7e kap\u0131s\u0131na kadar u\u011furlad\u0131m demi\u015f.<\/p>\n

Bir \u00c7erkes ya\u015fant\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n her alan\u0131nda do\u011faya ve insana sayg\u0131l\u0131 olmak zorundad\u0131r. Sayg\u0131 g\u00f6stermeyen ki\u015fi, ba\u015fkalar\u0131ndan da sayg\u0131 beklememelidir. Eski bir \u00c7erkes \u00f6zdeyi\u015fi \u015f\u00f6yle der: \u201cSana sayg\u0131 g\u00f6steren ki\u015fi senin kuyunu kazmaz.\u201d<\/p>\n

Kaynak: Av. Hulusi \u00dcst\u00fcn<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

TLETSERUK Nahit Serbes 08.02.2010 Saygı kuralları, insanların birlikte yaşaması sonucu zorunlu olarak bazı davranış kalıpları geliştirmeleriyle oluşmuştur. Uygulanış biçimi coğrafya ve kültüre göre değişse de dünyanın her yerinde insanların uyduğu ve başkalarından beklediği tavırlar, duruşlar vardır. Gelişmiş empati yetenekleri sayesinde, Çerkeslerde saygı kuralları ve saygının gösteriliş şekli zenginlikler arz eder. 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