{"id":2093,"date":"2019-02-22T16:13:13","date_gmt":"2019-02-22T16:13:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=2093"},"modified":"2019-02-22T16:13:13","modified_gmt":"2019-02-22T16:13:13","slug":"yaklasim-farki","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/yaklasim-farki\/","title":{"rendered":"YAKLA\u015eIM FARKI"},"content":{"rendered":"

TLETSERUK Nahit Serbes<\/strong>
\n<\/span><\/span>09.03.2010<\/span><\/p>\n

Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n ki\u015fisel ve \u00f6zel konular\u0131 hakk\u0131nda yap\u0131lan yorumlar, ger\u00e7ek olsa dahi, yanl\u0131\u015f anlamalara, k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131klara ve kutupla\u015fmalara sebep olabilmektedir. \u00d6teden beri, baz\u0131 internet ve gazete sayfalar\u0131nda, insan onuruna yara\u015fmayacak veya ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrecek yaz\u0131lar yaz\u0131lmakta ve onlar\u0131n yanl\u0131\u015flar\u0131, g\u00fcnahlar\u0131 konu edilebilmektedir.<\/p>\n

Ancak bizim i\u00e7in sevindirici olan, sayg\u0131l\u0131 olmak ve haddini bilmek, bizim insan\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n genelinde anla\u015f\u0131lm\u0131\u015f bir konudur.<\/p>\n

Bir adam k\u00f6t\u00fc yoldan para kazan\u0131p bununla kendisine bir inek sat\u0131n al\u0131r. Neden sonra, yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan pi\u015fman olur ve hi\u00e7 olmazsa iyi bir \u015fey yapm\u0131\u015f olmak i\u00e7in bunu Hac\u0131 Bekta\u015fi Veli’nin derg\u00e2h\u0131na kurban olarak ba\u011f\u0131\u015flamak ister. O zamanlar derg\u00e2hlar ayn\u0131 zamanda a\u015fevi i\u015flevi g\u00f6r\u00fcyordu. Durumu Hac\u0131 Bekta\u015fi Veli’ye anlat\u0131r ve Hac\u0131 Bekta\u015fi Veli helal de\u011fildir ‘ diye bu kurban\u0131 geri \u00e7evirir.<\/p>\n

Bunun \u00fczerine adam Mevlevi derg\u00e2h\u0131na gider ve ayn\u0131 durumu Mevlana’ya anlat\u0131r. Mevlana ise; bu hediyeyi kabul eder. Adam ayn\u0131 \u015feyi Hac\u0131 Bekta\u015fi Veli’ye de anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ama onun bunu kabul etmemi\u015f oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yler ve Mevlana’ya bunun sebebini sorar. Mevlana s\u00f6yle der: Biz bir karga isek Hac\u0131 Bekta\u015fi Veli bir \u015fahin gibidir. \u00d6yle her le\u015fe konmaz. O y\u00fczden senin bu hediyeni biz kabul ederiz ama o kabul etmeyebilir.<\/p>\n

Adam \u00fc\u015fenmez kalkar Hac\u0131 Bekta\u015fi derg\u00e2h\u2019\u0131na gider ve Hac\u0131 Bekta\u015fi Veli’ye, Mevlana’n\u0131n kurban\u0131 kabul etti\u011fini s\u00f6yleyip bunun sebebini bir de Hac\u0131 Bekta\u015fi Veli’ye sorar. Hac\u0131 Bekta\u015fi de s\u00f6yle der: Bizim g\u00f6nl\u00fcm\u00fcz bir su birikintisi ise, Mevlana’n\u0131n g\u00f6nl\u00fc okyanus gibidir. Bu y\u00fczden, bir damlayla bizim g\u00f6nl\u00fcm\u00fcz kirlenebilir ama onun engin g\u00f6nl\u00fc kirlenmez. Bu sebepten dolay\u0131 o senin hediyeni kabul etmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n

B\u00f6ylesi incelik ve tevazu ile birbirlerini yermek yerine y\u00fcceltebilmeyi becerebilenlerden olmam\u0131z dile\u011fiyle…<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

TLETSERUK Nahit Serbes 09.03.2010 Başkalarının kişisel ve özel konuları hakkında yapılan yorumlar, gerçek olsa dahi, yanlış anlamalara, kırgınlıklara ve kutuplaşmalara sebep olabilmektedir. Öteden beri, bazı internet ve gazete sayfalarında, insan onuruna yaraşmayacak veya başkalarını küçük düşürecek yazılar yazılmakta ve onların yanlışları, günahları konu edilebilmektedir. Ancak bizim için sevindirici olan, saygılı olmak ve haddini bilmek, bizim 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