{"id":2117,"date":"2019-02-22T16:30:31","date_gmt":"2019-02-22T16:30:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=2117"},"modified":"2019-02-22T16:30:31","modified_gmt":"2019-02-22T16:30:31","slug":"dogru-strateji-iyi-uygulama","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/dogru-strateji-iyi-uygulama\/","title":{"rendered":"DO\u011eRU STRATEJ\u0130 \u2013 \u0130Y\u0130 UYGULAMA"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"auto-style83\" lang=\"tr\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\"><strong>TLETSERUK Nahit Serbes<\/strong><br \/>\n<\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Arial;\">04.05.2010<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">Hayat\u0131n karma\u015f\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 sadele\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in, kendimize \u00f6zg\u00fc \u201ck\u0131sa yollar\u201d icat ediyor, sonra bu k\u0131sa yollar yard\u0131m\u0131yla yarg\u0131da bulunuyoruz. Bir lokantan\u0131n tuvaletleri temizse lokanta iyidir gibi. Bir\u00e7ok karar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 buna benzer y\u00f6ntemlerle alarak hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 kolayla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yoruz. Bu k\u0131sa yollar\u0131 kullanmazsak hayat\u0131n her an\u0131nda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek zorunda kalaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 bildi\u011fimizden bu k\u0131sa yollara \u00e7ok ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131y\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>Psikoloji kitaplar\u0131, bir insanla tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, o insan hakk\u0131nda bir \u00f6m\u00fcr boyu biriktirece\u011fimiz b\u00fct\u00fcn yarg\u0131lar\u0131n tamam\u0131na yak\u0131n\u0131n\u0131 ilk 20 saniyede olu\u015fturdu\u011fumuzu anlat\u0131r. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnsenize, iyi uyumam\u0131\u015f, iyi giyinmemi\u015f ya da can\u0131n\u0131z s\u0131kk\u0131nken tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir ki\u015fi, sizin hakk\u0131n\u0131zda hi\u00e7 de hak etmedi\u011finiz bir yarg\u0131ya varabiliyor. Sizi 20 saniyede yarg\u0131lay\u0131p, etiketleyip, s\u0131n\u0131fland\u0131r\u0131yor. Yeni tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z insanlar\u0131n bizim hakk\u0131m\u0131zdaki ilk yarg\u0131lar\u0131 ayn\u0131 zamanda son yarg\u0131lar\u0131 oluyor. \u0130lk izlenimler birka\u00e7 saniye i\u00e7inde olu\u015fuyor ama etkileri hayat boyu s\u00fcr\u00fcyor. Oldum olas\u0131 b\u00f6yle bir yanl\u0131\u015fl\u0131\u011fa \u201ckurban\u201d gitmekten korkmu\u015fumdur.<\/p>\n<p>K\u0131sa yollar kullanarak karar almak; sezgilerimizin bize hem do\u011frular\u0131 yapt\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hem yan\u0131ltt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlatan olgulard\u0131r. Sezgilerimiz bize m\u00fcthi\u015f zaman kazand\u0131r\u0131r, kolay ve g\u00fcvenli karar almam\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011flar ama sezgilerimiz ayn\u0131 zamanda bizi fena halde yan\u0131ltabilir.<\/p>\n<p>Tolstoy\u2019un s\u00f6yledi\u011fi gibi, \u201cD\u00fcnyan\u0131n b\u00fct\u00fcn mutlu ailelerinin mutlulu\u011fu birbirine benzer, ama her mutsuz ailenin dram\u0131 kendine \u00f6zg\u00fcd\u00fcr.\u201d B\u00fct\u00fcn ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 insanlar birbirine benzer, ama bu ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 insanlar\u0131n hi\u00e7 biri bize nas\u0131l ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n re\u00e7etesini veremez.<\/p>\n<p>Bir \u00fclkede uzun y\u0131llar arka arkaya ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olmu\u015f ki\u015filere gidip, \u201cNas\u0131l ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 oldunuz?\u201d diye sorunca, kimse \u201cVallahi ben de anlamad\u0131m, nas\u0131l oldu da arka arkaya bu kadar ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 y\u0131llar ge\u00e7irdim? Demiyor. Bu t\u00fcr sorulara genellikle verilen cevaplar; i\u015fimize odaklanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131k, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fana ve m\u00fc\u015fteriye \u00e7ok de\u011fer veriyorduk gibi beylik cevaplar oluyor.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7o\u011fumuz, \u00e7evremizdeki insanlardan daha mant\u0131kl\u0131, daha ak\u0131ll\u0131 oldu\u011fumuzu zannederiz. Kendimizi o kadar be\u011feniriz ki, bize g\u00f6re bizim se\u00e7imlerimiz en do\u011frusudur. Her \u015feyi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek, ta\u015f\u0131narak en ince ayr\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131na kadar planlayarak yapar\u0131z ama asl\u0131nda ba\u015far\u0131n\u0131n iki maddelik \u00e7ok k\u0131sa bir re\u00e7etesi vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><b>1) <\/b>Do\u011fru strateji<br \/>\n<b>2) <\/b>\u0130yi uygulama<\/p>\n<p>Bu ikisi mutlaka gereklidir ama maalesef yeterli olmayabilir, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc her do\u011fru stratejiyi \u00e7ok iyi uygulayan herkes ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olmuyor. Ko\u015fullar\u0131n, \u00e7evrenin, zaman\u0131n ve mek\u00e2n\u0131n da yard\u0131m etmesi gerekir. E\u011fer belirsiz olan gelecek, hoyrat davran\u0131rsa \u00e7ok do\u011fru bir stratejiyi \u00e7ok kaliteli bir \u015fekilde uygulamak da yeterli olmaz.<\/p>\n<p>E\u011fer talih yard\u0131m ederse bu re\u00e7eteyi uygulayan herkesin anlataca\u011f\u0131 \u00e7ok g\u00fczel bir \u00f6yk\u00fcs\u00fc vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Fakat \u015fans yard\u0131m etmezse zaten kimse ne oldu\u011funu sormaz.<\/p>\n<p><b>Kaynak: Temel Aksoy<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>TLETSERUK Nahit Serbes 04.05.2010 Hayat&#305;n karma&#351;&#305;kl&#305;&#287;&#305;n&#305; sadele&#351;tirmek i&ccedil;in, kendimize &ouml;zg&uuml; &ldquo;k&#305;sa yollar&rdquo; icat ediyor, sonra bu k&#305;sa yollar yard&#305;m&#305;yla yarg&#305;da bulunuyoruz. Bir lokantan&#305;n tuvaletleri temizse lokanta iyidir gibi. Bir&ccedil;ok karar&#305;m&#305;z&#305; buna benzer y&ouml;ntemlerle alarak hayat&#305;m&#305;z&#305; kolayla&#351;t&#305;r&#305;yoruz. Bu k&#305;sa yollar&#305; kullanmazsak hayat&#305;n her an&#305;nda d&uuml;&#351;&uuml;nmek zorunda kalaca&#287;&#305;m&#305;z&#305; bildi&#287;imizden bu k&#305;sa yollara &ccedil;ok ba&#287;&#305;ml&#305;y&#305;z. 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