{"id":2121,"date":"2019-02-22T16:32:53","date_gmt":"2019-02-22T16:32:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=2121"},"modified":"2019-02-22T16:32:53","modified_gmt":"2019-02-22T16:32:53","slug":"tam-akrabami-buldum-derken","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/tam-akrabami-buldum-derken\/","title":{"rendered":"TAM AKRABAMI BULDUM DERKEN!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"auto-style83\" lang=\"tr\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\"><strong>TLETSERUK Nahit Serbes<\/strong><br \/>\n<\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Arial;\">14.05.2010<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">Ben Abzegh\u2019im ama bizim s\u00fclale ad\u0131m\u0131zdan hem Shapsugh olanlar, hem de Abaza olanlar var. Acaba onlar bizim akrabalar\u0131m\u0131z m\u0131, diye soru soranlara s\u0131k\u00e7a rastl\u0131yoruz. \u0130zmit\u2019in Uzuntarla Beldesi&#8217;ndeki akrabalar g\u00fcnlerinden birinde bir akrabamla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Kendisi avukatm\u0131\u015f, ikimiz de Tletseruk s\u00fclalesinden oldu\u011fumuz i\u00e7in akrabam\u0131 buldum diye \u00e7ok sevinmi\u015ftim. Tam akrabam\u0131 buldum derken, yeni akrabam benim Shapsugh kabilesinden oldu\u011fumu \u00f6\u011frenince kendisinin Abzegh oldu\u011funu, yani a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a s\u00f6ylemese de akraba olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ima ederek yan\u0131mdan uzakla\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/cc-turkiye\/yorum\/tns\/images\/23-1.GIF\" width=\"308\" height=\"358\" border=\"0\" \/><br \/>\n<span lang=\"tr\">Avukat TLETSERUK Ya\u015far Beyefendi ile Akrabalar G\u00fcn\u00fc&#8217;nde<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">\u00c7erkeslerin geleneksel aile yap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 ortak atalar\u0131ndan gelen ve ayn\u0131 soyad\u0131n\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131yan aileler \u201cK\u2019o\u015f\u201d (karde\u015f), \u201cWunek\u2019o\u015f\u201d (aile karde\u015fi), \u201c\u015e\u0131uph\u201d (K\u0131z karde\u015f), topluluklar\u0131 olu\u015fturur. (Yeminli wunek\u2019o\u015f grubu hari\u00e7.) Ayn\u0131 soyad\u0131 olan her \u00c7erkes birbirini yak\u0131n akraba sayar.<\/p>\n<p>Bu aile soylar\u0131n\u0131n olu\u015fturduklar\u0131 kabilelere de Abzegh, Shapsugh, Bjedugh, Natukuay, Cemguy, Kabardey, Besleney, Hatukuay gibi denmektedir. Bu kabileler adlar\u0131n\u0131 co\u011frafi b\u00f6lgelerinden veya prenslerinin adlar\u0131ndan ald\u0131lar. Daha eskiden var olan bir\u00e7ok k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck kabile de bu kabilelere kar\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f ve o eski kabilelerin \u00e7o\u011funun isimleri g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde unutulmu\u015ftur.<\/p>\n<p>Yukar\u0131da ad\u0131 ge\u00e7en b\u00fct\u00fcn kabileler soyda\u015f (Ihepk) say\u0131l\u0131r, Adigeli\u011fi yani \u00c7erkesli\u011fi olu\u015ftururlar. Bu geleneksel yap\u0131 eskisi kadar olmasa da varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hala s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmektedir. Bug\u00fcn de hemen her \u00c7erkes hangi \u201cWunek\u2019o\u015f\u201d aileden ve kabileden geldi\u011fini bilir.<\/p>\n<p>Karadeniz sahilinde yasayan Shapsughlar, Abzeghler ve Natukuaylar 14 Temmuz 1791 ve sonras\u0131nda beylerini tasfiye ettiler ve ya\u015fl\u0131lar\u0131n \u00f6nderlik etti\u011fi halk meclisleriyle y\u00f6netilmeye ba\u015flad\u0131lar. Feodal yap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 koruyan di\u011fer \u00c7erkes topluluklar\u0131ndan gelen ailelere s\u0131\u011f\u0131nma hakk\u0131 sa\u011flad\u0131lar. Bu nedenle s\u00fcrg\u00fcnden \u00f6nceki d\u00f6nemlerde \u00f6zellikle Shapsughlar\u0131n n\u00fcfusu olduk\u00e7a artm\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Asl\u0131nda akrabal\u0131kta \u00f6nemli olan ortak atadan gelen \u201cWunek\u2019o\u015f&#8217;\u2019luktur. Shapsughluk, Abzeghlik veya Kabardeylik, Ankaral\u0131, \u0130stanbullu, \u0130zmirli gibidir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc o zamanki beylerin tutumlar\u0131ndan ve daha ba\u015fka bir\u00e7ok sebepten, hemen yukar\u0131da de\u011findi\u011fimiz gibi \u00f6nemli \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcde kabileler aras\u0131 g\u00f6\u00e7ler olmu\u015ftur.<\/p>\n<p>Buna bir \u00f6rnek daha vermek gerekirse bug\u00fcnk\u00fc Kabardeyler bir zamanlar Kuban b\u00f6lgesindeki karde\u015fleriyle beraber ya\u015f\u0131yorlard\u0131. Kabardeyler bug\u00fcn 505 bin ki\u015filik n\u00fcfuslar\u0131yla, Kafkasya\u2019daki, en kalabal\u0131k \u00c7erkes grubunu olu\u015fturuyorlar. Ger\u00e7ek k\u00f6kleri Kuban b\u00f6lgesi olan Kabardeyler, Alt\u0131nordu Hanlar\u0131\u2019n\u0131n bask\u0131lar\u0131 sonucu, 1237\u2019de P\u015f\u0131 Kabart \u00f6nderli\u011finde Anapa ve K\u0131r\u0131m \u00fczerinden, Azak Denizi&#8217;nin do\u011fu k\u0131y\u0131lar\u0131ndan yava\u015f yava\u015f Orta Kafkaslara do\u011fru yay\u0131lm\u0131\u015flar, 13\u201315.y\u00fczy\u0131llarda \u015fimdiki yerlerine \u00e7ekilerek bug\u00fcnk\u00fc Kabardey-Balkar topraklar\u0131na yerle\u015fmi\u015flerdir ama bug\u00fcn onlar\u0131n \u201cWunek\u2019o\u015f\u201dlar\u0131n\u0131 Adigey\u2019de ve hatta Abhazya&#8217;da bile \u201cortak\u00a0 atalar\u0131ndan gelen wunek\u2019o\u015f soy adlar\u0131ndan\u201d tespit etmek m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n<p>Akrabal\u0131k ili\u015fkileri b\u00fct\u00fcn toplumlarda \u00f6nemlidir. Ancak d\u00fcnyan\u0131n d\u00f6rt bir yan\u0131na da\u011f\u0131lm\u0131\u015f olan \u00c7erkesler i\u00e7in \u00e7ok daha \u00f6nemlidir. Wunek\u2019o\u015f soyad\u0131 ayn\u0131 olan herkes ister kendini Abzegh tan\u0131ts\u0131n, ister Shapsugh, ister Besleney, bilinmelidir ki hepsi bir dedenin torunlar\u0131d\u0131r. Hepsi ge\u00e7mi\u015fte \u015fimdi bilemedi\u011fimiz farkl\u0131 nedenlerden dolay\u0131 kabileler aras\u0131nda g\u00f6\u00e7 etmi\u015fler ve haliyle biz torunlar da onlar\u0131 en son g\u00f6\u00e7 ettikleri kabilenin mensubu kabul etmi\u015fizdir. Halklar\u0131m\u0131z aras\u0131nda bu konuda bilgisi eksik olan karde\u015flerimiz, arkada\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z vard\u0131r. Onlar\u0131 bilgilendirmek hepimizin g\u00f6revidir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bizler bu yan\u0131lg\u0131y\u0131 d\u00fczeltirsek gelecek nesillerimiz akrabalar\u0131ndan kopmak yerine, onlarla daha \u00e7ok dayan\u0131\u015fma i\u00e7ine gireceklerdir.<\/p>\n<p>Akrabal\u0131k ger\u00e7ekten \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir. Ancak; \u00f6nce insanl\u0131k ve buna ba\u011fl\u0131 olarak da akrabal\u0131k ili\u015fkileri gelmektedir.<\/p>\n<p>\u00dcstad\u0131m\u0131z olan Rahmi TUNA, s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn bir yerinde \u015f\u00f6yle s\u00f6ylemi\u015fti: \u0130yi insan olmak her \u015feyden daha \u00f6nemlidir. \u0130nsan, insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kaybettikten sonra wunek\u2019o\u015f olmu\u015f neye yarar.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>TLETSERUK Nahit Serbes 14.05.2010 Ben Abzegh&rsquo;im ama bizim s&uuml;lale ad&#305;m&#305;zdan hem Shapsugh olanlar, hem de Abaza olanlar var. Acaba onlar bizim akrabalar&#305;m&#305;z m&#305;, diye soru soranlara s&#305;k&ccedil;a rastl&#305;yoruz. &#304;zmit&rsquo;in Uzuntarla Beldesi&rsquo;ndeki akrabalar g&uuml;nlerinden birinde bir akrabamla kar&#351;&#305;la&#351;m&#305;&#351;t&#305;m. Kendisi avukatm&#305;&#351;, ikimiz de Tletseruk s&uuml;lalesinden oldu&#287;umuz i&ccedil;in akrabam&#305; buldum diye &ccedil;ok sevinmi&#351;tim. 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