{"id":2168,"date":"2019-02-22T16:57:27","date_gmt":"2019-02-22T16:57:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=2168"},"modified":"2019-02-22T16:57:27","modified_gmt":"2019-02-22T16:57:27","slug":"cerkesler-mutluluga-nasil-bakiyor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/cerkesler-mutluluga-nasil-bakiyor\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7ERKESLER MUTLULU\u011eA NASIL BAKIYOR?"},"content":{"rendered":"

TLETSERUK Nahit Serbes<\/strong>
\n<\/span><\/span> 24<\/span><\/span>.07<\/span>.2011<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0130\u00e7inde ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z k\u00fclt\u00fcr t\u0131pk\u0131 y\u00fczd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz deniz gibi, bizi \u00f6yle bir sarmalar ki,<\/span> \u201cd\u0131\u015far\u0131\u201d \u00e7\u0131kana kadar bu etkiyi anlamam\u0131z m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olmaz. Nerede ve kiminle oldu\u011fumuz bizim kim oldu\u011fumuzu belirler. Ki\u015fili\u011fimiz bulundu\u011fumuz ortama g\u00f6re \u015fekillenir. Ancak \u00c7erkeslerin g<\/span>enetik yap\u0131s\u0131 ili\u015fki kurmaya programlanm\u0131\u015f oldu\u011fundan, x<\/span>abze k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcn mutlulu\u011fumuzu olumlu y\u00f6nde etkiledi\u011fi bir ger\u00e7ek.
\nBat\u0131 d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda insanlar, \u201ckendi ayaklar\u0131n\u0131n \u00fczerinde durma\u201d, \u201ckimseye muhta\u00e7 olmama\u201d anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131yla yeti\u015ftirildikleri i\u00e7in bu toplumlar ba\u011flar\u0131 zay\u0131f ve insanlar\u0131 yaln\u0131z toplumlard\u0131r. Foto\u011fraftaki bir grup insana bakan Bat\u0131l\u0131lar bireylerin kim olduklar\u0131n\u0131; Do\u011fulular ise bu insanlar\u0131n aras\u0131ndaki ili\u015fkileri anlamaya \u00e7aba g\u00f6sterir.<\/p>\n

\u0130svi\u00e7re gibi \u00fclkelerde refah vard\u0131r ama mutluluk ve co\u015fku yoktur. \u0130svi\u00e7re d\u00fcnyan\u0131n en kuralc\u0131 ve en ileri \u00fclkelerinin ba\u015f\u0131nda gelir, \u00f6nemli olan \u201crefah toplumu\u201d olabilmektir, ama \u0130svi\u00e7re bu sebeple d\u00fcnyan\u0131n en zengin, en temiz, en iyi i\u015fleyen \u00fclkelerinin ba\u015f\u0131nda gelmesine ra\u011fmen mutluluk s\u0131ralamas\u0131nda \u00e7ok gerilerdedir. Peki, \u00c7erkesler mutlulu\u011fa nas\u0131l bak\u0131yor? Biz mutlulu\u011fu y\u00fccelten, mutluluk yaratan bir k\u00fclt\u00fcre sahip miyiz?<\/p>\n

Bizim toplumumuzda mutlu an\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n bile h\u00fcz\u00fcnle anlat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, insanlar\u0131n e\u011flenceli olaylardan \u00e7ok h\u00fcz\u00fcnl\u00fc olaylar\u0131 payla\u015fmay\u0131 tercih etti\u011fini, \u201cac\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131zla mutlu oldu\u011fumuzu\u201d g\u00f6r\u00fcyoruz.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ok g\u00fcld\u00fck galiba, ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131za k\u00f6t\u00fc bir \u015fey gelecek diyen ender halklardan biriyiz. \u00c7ok e\u011flendi\u011fimizde kendimize nazar de\u011fece\u011fine inanan bir toplumuz. \u015eark\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z \u201c \u2018g\u0131bze\u2019yi (a\u011f\u0131t) zevk edinir\u201d. En derin ili\u015fkileri ac\u0131y\u0131 payla\u015farak s\u00fcrg\u00fcn y\u0131llar\u0131n\u0131 temel alan soyk\u0131r\u0131m an\u0131lar\u0131yla dolu olarak kururuz.<\/p>\n

E\u011fer sa\u011fl\u0131k sorunumuz yoksa ve ge\u00e7inecek kadar gelirimiz varsa hepimiz mutlu olabiliriz. Fakat mutluluk o kadar k\u0131r\u0131lgand\u0131r ki hemen da\u011f\u0131labilir. Emek vererek yakalad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7 dengemiz sadece bizim \u00e7abam\u0131zla ayakta durmuyor. Hepimiz i\u00e7inde bulundu\u011fumuz ailede, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u015fehirde, \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z i\u015fte bir\u00e7ok mecburi ili\u015fkiler i\u00e7indeyiz. Kiminle beraber oldu\u011fumuz da bizim ruh halimizi etkiliyor. Baz\u0131lar\u0131 bize iyi gelirken baz\u0131lar\u0131 da k\u00f6t\u00fc geliyor.<\/p>\n

Her 21 May\u0131s’ta, deniz kenar\u0131nda, panelde, alanda veya konsolosluk \u00f6n\u00fcnde toplan\u0131p s\u00fcrg\u00fcn\u00fc an\u0131yoruz ve anal\u0131m ama ge\u00e7mi\u015fte ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z tarihsel trajediyi sabah ak\u015fam \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n bilincine i\u015flemek, d\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdaki d\u00fcnyaya g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc kapatmak mutluluk getirmez, bizim \u00fczerimize d\u00fc\u015fen g\u00f6rev kovuldu\u011fumuz vatana d\u00f6nmek ve ona sahip \u00e7\u0131kmakt\u0131r. Daha a\u00e7\u0131k bir \u015fekilde s\u00f6ylersek, s\u00fcrg\u00fcn\u00fcn \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr.<\/p>\n

D\u00f6nm\u00fcyorsak, asalet ve nezaketin timsali \u00c7erkesler demekle hi\u00e7 birimiz mutlu olmaz, asil olmaz, nezaketli de olmaz, \u00fcstelik b\u00f6yle \u015feyleri yazmakta, konu\u015fmakta \u00e7ok do\u011fru de\u011fildir. Biz davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131zda asil ve nezaketli tav\u0131rlar sergilersek, di\u011fer k\u00fclt\u00fcrlerden olanlar da bize ne kadar asil ve nezaketli ki\u015filer derler.<\/p>\n

Gen\u00e7lerimize, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za mutlu ve iyi insan olman\u0131n \u00e7ok daha \u00f6nemli bir meziyet oldu\u011funu \u00f6\u011fretmeliyiz. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 T\u00fcrkiye Cumhuriyeti\u2019nin gelece\u011fi hakk\u0131nda etkin\/s\u00f6z ve karar sahibi, yar\u0131n\u0131n politikac\u0131lar\u0131, i\u015f adamlar\u0131, ayd\u0131nlar\u0131 ve b\u00fcrokratlar\u0131 olabilecek \u015fekilde yeti\u015ftirmeli, entelekt\u00fcel, evrensel de\u011ferlerle bar\u0131\u015f\u0131k, mutlu, \u00e7evre dostu, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen, \u00fcreten ve payla\u015fan ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 bireylerin aras\u0131nda yerlerini alabilmelerini sa\u011flamal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

TLETSERUK Nahit Serbes 24.07.2011 İçinde yaşadığımız kültür tıpkı yüzdüğümüz deniz gibi, bizi öyle bir sarmalar ki, “dışarı” çıkana kadar bu etkiyi anlamamız mümkün olmaz. Nerede ve kiminle olduğumuz bizim kim olduğumuzu belirler. Kişiliğimiz bulunduğumuz ortama göre şekillenir. Ancak Çerkeslerin genetik yapısı ilişki kurmaya programlanmış olduğundan, xabze kültürünün mutluluğumuzu olumlu yönde etkilediği bir gerçek. 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