{"id":2191,"date":"2019-02-22T17:57:18","date_gmt":"2019-02-22T17:57:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=2191"},"modified":"2019-02-22T17:57:18","modified_gmt":"2019-02-22T17:57:18","slug":"iyi-insan-olmak-icin-neler-yapmaliyiz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/iyi-insan-olmak-icin-neler-yapmaliyiz\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0130Y\u0130 \u0130NSAN OLMAK \u0130\u00c7\u0130N NELER YAPMALIYIZ?"},"content":{"rendered":"

TLETSERUK Nahit Serbes<\/strong>
\n<\/span><\/span>27<\/span>.0<\/span>6.<\/span>2013<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Felsefi bir konu ama basite indirgersek, \u00c7erkes’im diyen bir ki\u015finin,\u00a0 \u00c7erkes ismini her durumda ta\u015f\u0131yabilecek olgunlukta ve yetkinlikte olmas\u0131 gereklidir. Aff\u0131n\u0131za s\u0131\u011f\u0131narak \u015funu ifade etmek isterim ki, bana g\u00f6re: Evrensel insanl\u0131k de\u011ferlerinin DNA\u2019s\u0131 olan Xabze\u2019ye g\u00f6re iyi bir \u00c7erkes olabilmek i\u00e7in, ilk anda akla gelen birka\u00e7 kural\u0131 \u015f\u00f6yle s\u0131ralayabiliriz.<\/p>\n

Empati yap.<\/p>\n

Yalan s\u00f6yleme.<\/p>\n

\u0130nsanlarla alay etme.<\/p>\n

Edepli ol.<\/p>\n

\u0130sraf etme.<\/p>\n

Kibirlenme, bencil ve a\u00e7g\u00f6zl\u00fc olma.<\/p>\n

\u0130nsanlar\u0131n kusurlar\u0131n\u0131 te\u015fhir etme.<\/p>\n

Kin besleme.<\/p>\n

K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 yenmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n

Y\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 de\u011fil, yap\u0131c\u0131 ol.<\/p>\n

Kavgac\u0131 de\u011fil bar\u0131\u015f\u00e7\u0131 ol.<\/p>\n

Hak edene hak etti\u011fini ver.<\/p>\n

Vatan\u2019\u0131na hainlik d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnme.<\/p>\n

A\u00e7\u0131 a\u00e7, \u00e7\u0131pla\u011f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131plak b\u0131rakma.<\/p>\n

Mazlumu koruyacak kadar anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131 ve al\u00e7akg\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc, e\u015fk\u0131yaya “dur” diyecek kadar cesur ol.<\/p>\n

Sana yap\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 istemedi\u011fin \u015feyi, ba\u015fkas\u0131na yapma.<\/p>\n

Sayg\u0131l\u0131 ve ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fc ol.<\/p>\n

Kar\u015f\u0131ndaki insan\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerine inanmasan bile sayg\u0131 ile dinle.<\/p>\n

\u0130nsanlara din, dil, \u0131rk ve mezhep ayr\u0131m\u0131 yapma.<\/p>\n

\u0130yi insan olma gayretlerini tek ba\u015f\u0131na kalsan bile halletmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n

Sa\u011fc\u0131s\u0131na, solcusuna, Y\u00f6r\u00fck’\u00fcne, K\u00fcrt\u2019\u00fcne, Laz\u2019\u0131na, H\u0131ristiyan\u2019\u0131na, Yahudi\u2019sine, insan olduklar\u0131 i\u00e7in de\u011fer ver.<\/p>\n

\u0130yi insan olman\u0131n, bizden sonraki nesillere, yani; \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za devretmeyi arzulad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z, en de\u011ferli miras oldu\u011funu unutma.<\/p>\n

‘K\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131da ge\u00e7mek sorusu ba\u015fta olmak \u00fczere trafik ihlallerinin kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 da Xabze\u2019ye g\u00f6re sorgulamak, zamanlar \u00fcst\u00fc bir durumdur. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla Xabze\u2019nin g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn trafik d\u00fczenine uymayanlar hakk\u0131nda yapt\u0131r\u0131m\u0131 vard\u0131r. \u00d6yle ise, \u00f6zellikle \u00c7erkesler \u201ctrafik ay\u0131b\u0131\u201d i\u015flemekten \u00f6zenle ka\u00e7\u0131nmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bir ara\u015ft\u0131rmac\u0131 olarak, genelde \u00c7erkesleri ve \u00f6zelde Xabze\u2019yi anlatmak i\u00e7in \u00e7ok \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131m.<\/p>\n

\u0130nsan olarak hata yapabiliriz ama soruyorum: k\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131da ge\u00e7mek, h\u0131z s\u0131n\u0131rlamas\u0131na uymamak, park edilemez yere park etmek, \u00f6ndeki arac\u0131 yak\u0131n takip etmek, s\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fcleri selekt\u00f6r yaparak taciz etmek, bisiklete veya motosiklete binip yaya kald\u0131r\u0131mlar\u0131 kullanmak, k\u00f6pr\u00fc \u00fcst\u00fcnde \u015ferit de\u011fi\u015ftirmek Xabze\u2019ye g\u00f6re ay\u0131p olan davran\u0131\u015flardan de\u011fil midir?<\/p>\n

\u00d6ncelikle sosyal ya\u015famda yasalara ve toplumsal kurallara riayet etmeyi, d\u00fcr\u00fcst bir ya\u015fam tarz\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmeyi, \u00fcretken olabilmeyi, g\u00f6rg\u00fcl\u00fc ve temiz pak olmay\u0131, dayan\u0131\u015fmay\u0131, payla\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 bilmeyi, daha do\u011frusu bu t\u00fcr \u00f6zellikleri ile \u00f6rnek insan olabilmeyi, sadece gelecekte ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmesi gereken bir sosyal ideal olarak de\u011fil, derhal hayata ge\u00e7irilmesi gereken bir faaliyet olarak anlamal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/p>\n

Mant\u0131kl\u0131 olmak, sevecen olmak, ho\u015f sohbet olmak, vakur olmak, bencil d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmemek, adab-\u0131 mua\u015fereti bilmek, g\u00fcl\u00fcmsemeyi eksik etmemek, herkese dolayl\u0131 yahut do\u011frudan faydal\u0131 olabilmek, i\u00e7indeki sevgiyi g\u00f6zlere yans\u0131tabilmek, barda\u011f\u0131n dolu taraf\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rebilmek, Xabze kurallar\u0131n\u0131n olmazsa olmazlar\u0131ndand\u0131r.<\/p>\n

\u00d6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck\u00e7\u00fc d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncenin takip\u00e7ileri olarak bizler; sosyal ideallerimizi, yaln\u0131zca gelece\u011fe y\u00f6nelik d\u00fc\u015fler olarak de\u011fil, hemen, \u015fimdi g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayat\u0131m\u0131za uyarlamal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/p>\n

En i\u00e7ten sevgi ve sayg\u0131lar\u0131mla…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

TLETSERUK Nahit Serbes 27.06.2013 Felsefi bir konu ama basite indirgersek, Çerkes’im diyen bir kişinin,  Çerkes ismini her durumda taşıyabilecek olgunlukta ve yetkinlikte olması gereklidir. Affınıza sığınarak şunu ifade etmek isterim ki, bana göre: Evrensel insanlık değerlerinin DNA’sı olan Xabze’ye göre iyi bir Çerkes olabilmek için, ilk anda akla gelen birkaç kuralı şöyle sıralayabiliriz. Empati yap. 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