{"id":2236,"date":"2019-02-22T18:19:08","date_gmt":"2019-02-22T18:19:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=2236"},"modified":"2019-02-22T18:19:08","modified_gmt":"2019-02-22T18:19:08","slug":"basarisizligin-sirri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/basarisizligin-sirri\/","title":{"rendered":"BA\u015eARISIZLI\u011eIN SIRRI!"},"content":{"rendered":"

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TLETSERUK Nahit Serbes<\/strong>
\n<\/span><\/span>06<\/span>.04.2016<\/span><\/p>\n

Neden t\u00fcrl\u00fc imk\u00e2nlara sahip e\u011fitimli insanlar\u0131n baz\u0131lar\u0131 ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olamaz?<\/p>\n

\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc, baz\u0131 insanlar kendilerine verilen imk\u00e2n ve yetenekleri s\u00fcrekli geli\u015ftirmeye odakl\u0131d\u0131rlar. Bu insanlar hayat\u0131 bir \u201c\u00f6\u011frenme<\/strong>\u201d, \u201cb\u00fcy\u00fcme<\/strong>\u201d, \u201cgeli\u015fme<\/strong>\u201d, \u201colgunla\u015fma<\/strong>\u201d yolculu\u011fu olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcrler. Bu nedenle hep geli\u015fmeye ve kendilerini yenilemeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. Sosyal bilimciler bu insanlar\u0131n kendi yeteneklerinin de \u00f6tesinde bir ba\u015far\u0131 elde etmelerini, bu insanlar\u0131n hayata bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131yla a\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131yor.<\/p>\n

Hayata sabit bir zihniyetle bakan baz\u0131 insanlar ise, -ortalaman\u0131n \u00fczerinde bir yetenekleri varsa- bunun kendilerine \u00f6m\u00fcr boyu yetece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrler. Ortalaman\u0131n alt\u0131nda bir donan\u0131ma ve zihniyete sahip olanlar ise, \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 yeteneklerinin hi\u00e7 geli\u015fmeyece\u011fini, bunlar\u0131n herkeste belli bir oranda oldu\u011funu kabul ederler. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla herhangi bir \u00e7aba g\u00f6stermenin gerekli olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131na inan\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n

H\u00e2lbuki hayat\u0131n ger\u00e7ekleri, bunun tam tersini kan\u0131tlar. \u00c7ok varl\u0131kl\u0131 ailelerde yeti\u015fen, \u00e7ok iyi e\u011fitimli insanlar aras\u0131nda, hayata sabit bir zihniyetle bakanlar, kendilerine verilen imk\u00e2nlardan yararlanmas\u0131n\u0131 bilmedikleri i\u00e7in ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z olurlar. Hayat yolculu\u011funa \u00e7ok avantajl\u0131 bir konumda ba\u015flam\u0131\u015f olsalar bile, \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 bu avantajlar\u0131 onlara yetmez ve bu zihniyetleri y\u00fcz\u00fcnden, kendi akranlar\u0131n\u0131n gerisinde kal\u0131rlar. Sahip olduklar\u0131 \u201csabit zihniyet<\/strong>\u201d, onlar\u0131n \u00f6\u011frenmelerine, geli\u015fmelerine, olgunla\u015fmalar\u0131na ve ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olmalar\u0131na engel olur.<\/p>\n

Oysa geli\u015fme odakl\u0131 bir zihne sahip insanlar, kendilerine verilen imk\u00e2n ve yetenekleri geli\u015ftirebileceklerine inand\u0131klar\u0131ndan, engellerle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131nda hedeflerine do\u011fru ilerlemek i\u00e7in ellerinden gelen \u00e7abay\u0131 g\u00f6sterirler.<\/p>\n

\u201cGeli\u015fme odakl\u0131\u201d insanlar, ele\u015ftirileri ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim f\u0131rsat\u0131 olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcrler, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 k\u0131skanmak yerine onlardan ilham almak gibi \u00f6zelliklere sahiptirler.<\/p>\n

Geli\u015fme odakl\u0131 insanlar, kar\u015f\u0131lar\u0131na \u00e7\u0131kan engelleri, kendilerine yap\u0131lm\u0131\u015f bir haks\u0131zl\u0131k olarak de\u011ferlendirmek yerine, bu engelleri a\u015fmak i\u00e7in \u00fczerlerine d\u00fc\u015feni yapmalar\u0131 gerekti\u011fine inan\u0131rlar. \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 Her engeli a\u015farlarken kazand\u0131klar\u0131 g\u00fcc\u00fcn, kendilerini ilerideki engelleri a\u015fmak i\u00e7in daha donan\u0131ml\u0131 k\u0131laca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrler.<\/p>\n

Sabit zihniyetli insanlar i\u00e7in ise zorluklar, vazge\u00e7mek i\u00e7in birer bahanedir. Ele\u015ftiriler onlar i\u00e7in yaralay\u0131c\u0131 ve y\u0131k\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r. Sabit zihniyetli insanlar, d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan nas\u0131l g\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fcklerine odaklan\u0131rlar. Onlar i\u00e7in iyi g\u00f6r\u00fcnmek, ilerlemekten daha \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p>\n

Bir insan\u0131n kendisine verilen imk\u00e2n ve yeteneklerle yetinip, bunlar\u0131 geli\u015ftirmeye niyetli olmamas\u0131, zorluklar kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda bahaneler bulup, kendine y\u00fcksek hedefler koymadan var olan duruma devam etmesi, sahip oldu\u011fu potansiyeli ziyan etmesi demektir.<\/p>\n

\u0130\u00e7inde yeti\u015fti\u011fi aile ortam\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011fun hayata bak\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 belirler. Baz\u0131 aileler \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na \u201c\u00e7ok zeki<\/strong>\u201d, \u201c\u00e7ok yetenekli<\/strong>\u201d olduklar\u0131n\u0131 telkin edip dururlar. Bu tutumlar\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 motive edece\u011fini zannederler. Bu \u00f6vg\u00fcleri alan \u00e7ocuklar, gayret g\u00f6stermek yerine, kendilerini geli\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in \u00e7aba g\u00f6stermelerine gerek olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 yan\u0131lg\u0131s\u0131na kap\u0131l\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n

Her t\u00fcrl\u00fc imk\u00e2na sahip olan, yetenekli ve iyi e\u011fitim g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f insanlar\u0131n ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n nedeni, \u00e7o\u011fu kez hayata b\u00f6yle \u201csabit bir pencereden\u201d bakmalar\u0131ndand\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Oysa takdir edilecek bir konu varsa, bu \u00e7ocu\u011fun g\u00f6sterdi\u011fi iyi niyetli \u00e7abas\u0131na olmal\u0131d\u0131r. G\u00f6sterdi\u011fi \u00e7abay\u0131 takdir etmek, bir insana ve \u00f6zellikle bir \u00e7ocu\u011fa yap\u0131lacak en b\u00fcy\u00fck iyiliktir. Ama b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlara sahip olan insanlar\u0131n bile ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olamamalar\u0131n\u0131n nedeni, hayata, \u201cgeli\u015fme odakl\u0131<\/strong>\u201d bakamamalar\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Ben, ya\u015f\u0131 ka\u00e7 olursa olsun Xabze e\u011fitimi alm\u0131\u015f olan her \u00c7erkes insan\u0131n\u0131n; engelleri a\u015fma ve kendisini geli\u015ftirme potansiyelinin, kendi elinde oldu\u011funa inan\u0131yorum.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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