{"id":2242,"date":"2019-02-22T18:33:57","date_gmt":"2019-02-22T18:33:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=2242"},"modified":"2019-02-22T18:33:57","modified_gmt":"2019-02-22T18:33:57","slug":"gunluk-hayata-dair","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/gunluk-hayata-dair\/","title":{"rendered":"G\u00dcNL\u00dcK HAYATA DA\u0130R"},"content":{"rendered":"

SHOQUL \u0130lhan Aydemir<\/strong>
\n<\/span> 01.07.2006<\/span><\/p>\n

Bundan \u00f6nce k\u0131staslar\u0131m\u0131z olmal\u0131 ba\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile bir \u015feyler karalam\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. San\u0131r\u0131m okuyan\u0131 da olmad\u0131 ki, \u015f\u00f6yle veya b\u00f6yle herhangi bir ele\u015ftiri almad\u0131. Bu duruma ziyadesiyle \u00fcz\u00fcld\u00fcm. Do\u011frusunu isterseniz i\u00e7im burkuldu. Nedeni de \u00e7ok a\u00e7\u0131k; acaba biz havanda su mu d\u00f6v\u00fcyoruz?<\/p>\n

Hi\u00e7 tepki almayan bir yaz\u0131 veya yazar ne d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr? Demek ki hi\u00e7 kimsenin \u015f\u00f6yle veya b\u00f6yle tepkisine yol a\u00e7amad\u0131ysan\u0131z l\u00fczumsuz yaz\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131zla bir yerleri i\u015fgal etmeyin anlam\u0131 kendili\u011finden \u00e7\u0131kmaz m\u0131?<\/p>\n

G\u00fcndemi yakalamak, nabz\u0131 tutmak bir maharet gerektirir. Bende elimden geldi\u011fince bunu yapmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015faca\u011f\u0131m.<\/p>\n

Bir g\u00fcn yan\u0131ma birka\u00e7 gen\u00e7 geldi ve \u00e7ok ate\u015fli bir \u015fekilde
\nAdigeli\u011fi nas\u0131l ihya edeceklerini Kafkasya’n\u0131n kurtulu\u015f re\u00e7etelerini nas\u0131l uygulayacaklar\u0131n\u0131 bizimle bu \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 nas\u0131l y\u00fcr\u00fcteceklerini anlatt\u0131lar.<\/p>\n

Ben bir s\u00fcre onlar\u0131 dinledikten sonra; siz gelin bu Kafkasya’y\u0131 kurtarma i\u015finden vazge\u00e7in. Devaml\u0131 olarak bir dernekle irtibat halinde olun, oraya gelen g\u00fczel k\u0131zlardan birine a\u015f\u0131k olun, ona olan duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 kendi dilinizde kaleme al\u0131n, okumay\u0131 yazmay\u0131 da bilmiyorsan\u0131z \u00f6\u011frenin. E\u011fer bunu yaparsan\u0131z hem k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcze hem dilinize hem Adigeli\u011fe hem Kafkasya’ya hizmet etmi\u015f olursunuz, dedim.<\/p>\n

\u0130nsanlar\u0131n g\u00f6rev ve sorumluluklar\u0131n\u0131 ki\u015fiyi ortaya koyup daireler
\n\u00e7izersek en k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck dairede en b\u00fcy\u00fck g\u00f6revlerin oldu\u011funu g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcz, daire b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fck\u00e7e oradaki g\u00f6revler azal\u0131r. \u00d6rne\u011fin: Her zaman sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131za dikkat etmek zorundas\u0131n\u0131z. Ailenizin ge\u00e7iminden \u00e7o\u011fu zaman sorumlusunuz, akraba veya kom\u015fular\u0131n\u0131zla bazen ilgilenmek durumundas\u0131n\u0131z. Kentinizle ilgili yapabilece\u011finiz \u015fey e\u011fer i\u015finiz o de\u011filse \u00e7ok azd\u0131r. \u00d6yleyse i\u015fe ba\u015fkalar\u0131ndan de\u011fil kendimizden ba\u015flamak durumundas\u0131n\u0131z. Bizler kendimizi
\nkurtaramam\u0131\u015fsak ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 kurtarmak de\u011fil ancak zarar veririz.<\/p>\n

Adigeli\u011fin erdemli davran\u0131\u015f bi\u00e7imi hayat\u0131m\u0131za girmi\u015fse zaten bir\u00e7ok \u015feyi zaten ba\u015fard\u0131k demektir.<\/p>\n

D\u00c7B toplant\u0131lar\u0131 i\u00e7in yurdumuza gelen sanat\u00e7\u0131 gurubu ile
\ntan\u0131\u015fmam\u0131z bizim i\u00e7in bir \u015fans oldu. Sime Han\u0131m g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fme teklifinde bulununca davete icabet ettik. Oteli ziyaret etti\u011fimiz zaman sanat\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131n yar\u0131\u015fma havas\u0131 i\u00e7inde g\u00fczel bir program y\u00fcr\u00fctt\u00fcklerini izledik. Derne\u011fimize \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma bitiminde davet ettik. Do\u011frusu olacaklar\u0131n da bilinciyle hareket etti\u011fimiz s\u00f6ylenemez. Ama davetimiz ekibin ba\u015fkan\u0131 say\u0131n Bet\u0131wen Awes taraf\u0131ndan kabul g\u00f6rd\u00fc.<\/p>\n

K\u0131rk be\u015f ki\u015filik gurubun derne\u011fimize neler kataca\u011f\u0131n\u0131n da \u00e7ok
\nfazla fark\u0131na vard\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z s\u00f6ylenemez. Bilin\u00e7 ve ileriyi g\u00f6remeyi\u015fimizi mazur g\u00f6r\u00fcn l\u00fctfen, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc biz daha nas\u0131l ve ne \u015fekilde faydal\u0131 olaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 biliyor de\u011filiz.<\/p>\n

Yarabbi bu ne b\u00fcy\u00fck ihsan ki, bu g\u00fczel bulu\u015fmay\u0131 bizlere
\nbah\u015fetti. Eline mikrofonu alan \u015fark\u0131lar s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor. Kayna\u015fma s\u00fcresi k\u0131sac\u0131k. Sanki bir k\u00f6y\u00fcn insanlar\u0131 bir araya gelmi\u015f. D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn ba\u015flam\u0131\u015f, gen\u00e7ler kayna\u015fm\u0131\u015f. Kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 eksikliklerin ortaya \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f\u0131.<\/p>\n

Dil… Dil… Dil…<\/p>\n

Biri Rus\u00e7a biliyor di\u011feri T\u00fcrk\u00e7e. Adigebze eh idare etmiyor.<\/p>\n

Herkes dizini d\u00f6v\u00fcyor ama nafile. Bet\u0131wen diyor, sizi tan\u0131mak bir \u015fans. Biz de ayn\u0131 ‘Sizi tan\u0131mak ger\u00e7ekten bir \u015fans.’<\/p>\n

Yarabbi bu ne g\u00fczellik sanki ben Cennet’teyim.<\/p>\n

Sanat\u0131 esteti\u011fi her \u015feyi ile \u00f6zledi\u011fim sevgili insanlar\u0131m sevgi yuma\u011f\u0131 olmu\u015flar. Zaman bir iki \u00fc\u00e7 d\u00f6rt saat ve ayr\u0131l\u0131k kolay de\u011fil. Otob\u00fcsler yana\u015fm\u0131\u015f ama binmek bir t\u00fcrl\u00fc m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olmuyor. \u00d6nden zorla bindirilen, arka kap\u0131dan iniyor. Hani ya sanki y\u00fcz k\u0131rk y\u0131l\u0131n hasreti gideriliyor. Gen\u00e7ler kenetlenmi\u015f sanki; ana k\u0131z\u0131ndan, sevgili sevdi\u011finden kopar\u0131l\u0131yor. Arabaya binme seremonisi b\u00fct\u00fcn s\u0131k\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmalara ra\u011fmen bir saati ge\u00e7iyor.<\/p>\n

Yolda i\u015fittiklerim ise beni biraz daha \u015fa\u015f\u0131rt\u0131yor. Kendisi Rus
\nolan bir sanat\u00e7\u0131 vard\u0131 aralar\u0131nda ona ben te\u015fekk\u00fcr ediyorum bizimle bu g\u00fczel zaman aral\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ge\u00e7irdi\u011fi i\u00e7in. O ise bana hi\u00e7 ilgisi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 halde Adigece \u00f6\u011frenece\u011fine dair s\u00f6z veriyor. Adigece’yi iyi bilmeyenler bana defalarca s\u00f6z veriyorlar . Bir ay m\u00fchlet istiyorlar.<\/p>\n

Bet\u0131wen diyor: Ben ideallerimi b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m, seninle nereden
\nkar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131m…<\/p>\n

G\u00f6zlerimiz dolu… Birisi dokunsa i\u015fimiz k\u00f6t\u00fc.<\/p>\n

Ben ise Avrupa’n\u0131n b\u00fct\u00fcn \u015fehirlerinin tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00a0fahri hem\u015ferisi y\u00fcksek ruhlu Bet\u0131wen ve arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 tan\u0131d\u0131m. \u015eans do\u011fru zamanda do\u011fru yerde olmakt\u0131r, derler ya bu sefer tutturdum galiba. \u015eimdi onlarla bulu\u015faca\u011f\u0131m veya kar\u015f\u0131la\u015faca\u011f\u0131m
\ng\u00fcnleri iple \u00e7ekiyorum.<\/p>\n

Onlar g\u00f6\u00e7 yolunu izlediler, g\u00f6\u00e7enlerin halini g\u00f6rd\u00fcler, ya\u015fam
\nbi\u00e7imleri ile ilgili kamular\u0131n\u0131 bilgilendirdiler. G\u00fczel g\u00fcnler bizleri
\nbekliyor.<\/p>\n

Evet \u00fcmitlerimizi yitirmedik, yitirmeyece\u011fiz.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

SHOQUL İlhan Aydemir 01.07.2006 Bundan önce kıstaslarımız olmalı başlığı ile bir şeyler karalamıştım. Sanırım okuyanı da olmadı ki, şöyle veya böyle herhangi bir eleştiri almadı. Bu duruma ziyadesiyle üzüldüm. Doğrusunu isterseniz içim burkuldu. Nedeni de çok açık; acaba biz havanda su mu dövüyoruz? Hiç tepki almayan bir yazı veya yazar ne düşünür? 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