{"id":2385,"date":"2019-02-22T22:35:36","date_gmt":"2019-02-22T22:35:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=2385"},"modified":"2019-02-22T22:36:05","modified_gmt":"2019-02-22T22:36:05","slug":"ofke-ve-nefret","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/ofke-ve-nefret\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00d6FKE VE NEFRET…"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sezai Babaku\u015f<\/strong>
\n2<\/span><\/span>5<\/span>.01<\/span>.2013<\/span><\/span>
\n<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Sanal sitedeki kom\u015fumun \u00f6fkesi de ba\u015fbakan\u0131nki gibi, durdurulamaz ve kontrol edilemez. B\u00fcy\u00fck, g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ve \u2018her faninin tadaca\u011f\u0131\u2019 t\u00fcrden mutlak bir \u00f6fke. Ne yapsan\u0131z ondan ka\u00e7amazs\u0131n\u0131z, sadece s\u0131ras\u0131n\u0131n size ge\u00e7 gelmesi i\u00e7in dua edebilirsiniz. Duan\u0131z tuttu diye sak\u0131n ha benim gibi gev\u015femeyin, \u00f6fkecinin tokad\u0131 her an ensenizde patlay\u0131verir…<\/p>\n

San\u0131r\u0131m beni bug\u00fcne kadar koruyup kollayan \u015fey kom\u015fuluk \u015femsiyesiydi.<\/p>\n

\u015eemsiye dedi\u011fim \u2018kom\u015fuluk hukuku\u2019dur. Hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fczenleyen de\u011ferlerden biridir o. Di\u011fer d\u00fczenleyiciler (karde\u015flik hukuku, arkada\u015fl\u0131k hukuku vs.) kadar \u00f6nemli, hatta bazen daha da \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p>\n

Kom\u015fuluk hukuku kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131l\u0131k temeli \u00fczerine kuruluyor. Hak ve y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fcklerle birlikte sevgi, sayg\u0131, g\u00fcven, ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fc, dayan\u0131\u015fma gibi yap\u0131c\u0131 unsurlarla bina ediliyor. Birarada uyumlu ya\u015faman\u0131n yordam\u0131n\u0131 olu\u015fturuyor. K\u00f6y\u00fcn, mahallenin, soka\u011f\u0131n, sitenin, apartman\u0131n ahengini sa\u011fl\u0131yor. Yani kom\u015fuluk hukuku iyi bir \u015fey, \u2018ev alma, kom\u015fu al\u2019 dedirtecek kadar herkese laz\u0131m bir \u015fey…<\/p>\n

Eh, her \u015femsiyenin de bir kapasitesi var. Bir korudu, iki korudu… \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fcs\u00fcnde, ensemi \u00f6fkecinin nazar\u0131na teslim ediverdi.<\/p>\n

Kom\u015fu \u00f6fkesine maruz kalmak insana pas yutmu\u015f duygusu veriyor. \u00d6ks\u00fcr\u00fcp kurtulmaya \u00e7abalad\u0131k\u00e7a artan ve yay\u0131lan bir tat, ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131k\u0131lamaz bir a\u011fu… Ne yapaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131 bilmiyorum. Kar\u015f\u0131 gelmek, m\u00fccadele etmek \u00f6fkeyi daha da b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcr ve di\u011fer kom\u015fular\u0131 da ma\u011fdur eder. Pes etmekse \u2018h\u0131h, hak etti\u2019 dedirtir. Zor bir durum.<\/p>\n

Neyse ki kom\u015fumun \u00f6fkesi \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fc de\u011fil…<\/p>\n

<\/p>\n

\u00d6ld\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fc olan nefrettir. Bu co\u011frafyada bolca ye\u015fertilen, b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fclen ve organize edilen nefret…<\/p>\n

Organize nefretin son kurban\u0131 Hrant Dink\u2019tir. Hrant, kimlik \u00fczerinden yarat\u0131lm\u0131\u015f bir nefretin, ya da, nefret \u00fczerinden yarat\u0131lm\u0131\u015f bir kimli\u011fin kurban\u0131 oldu…<\/p>\n

Hrant Dink, kimlik meselesinde hepimiz i\u00e7in \u00f6\u011fretici s\u00f6zler s\u00f6ylemi\u015fti. \u015e\u00f6yle ki;<\/p>\n

\u201cKendi kimli\u011fini \u00f6tekinin varl\u0131\u011f\u0131na g\u00f6re konumlamak hastal\u0131kt\u0131r. Kimli\u011fini ya\u015fatabilmek i\u00e7in sana bir d\u00fc\u015fman gerekiyorsa, senin kimli\u011fin hastal\u0131kt\u0131r…\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bu, toplum kimli\u011fi (etnik, dini, siyasi, vs.) kadar birey kimli\u011fi bak\u0131m\u0131ndan da do\u011fru bir tan\u0131m, y\u00fczde y\u00fcz kat\u0131l\u0131yorum. Hi\u00e7bir kimlik, nefret ve d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131k \u00fczerinden in\u015fa edilmemeli.<\/p>\n

Gelin g\u00f6r\u00fcn ki bu hastal\u0131k \u00c7erkeslerin d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda s\u0131k\u00e7a g\u00f6r\u00fclmeye ba\u015fland\u0131.<\/p>\n

Bireyin kendi kimli\u011fini \u00f6tekine g\u00f6re konumland\u0131rmas\u0131na \u2018kibir\u2019 hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131 diyebiliriz, bunun etkisi de y\u0131k\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 da s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131d\u0131r. As\u0131l tehlike toplum kimli\u011fini \u00f6tekine g\u00f6re konumland\u0131rmakt\u0131r. Bu \u2018nefret\u2019 hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131d\u0131r ve toplu k\u0131r\u0131ma yola\u00e7abilecek bir salg\u0131n t\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n

Evelden T\u00fcrkiye\u2019de \u00c7erkes kimli\u011fini Rusya\u2019ya nefret ve d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131k \u00fczerinden in\u015fa etmenin \u00f6nc\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc T\u00fcrk\u00e7\u00fcl\u00fckten ve islamc\u0131l\u0131ktan feyz alanlar yap\u0131yordu. \u015eimdi buna baz\u0131 \u2018sol mektep\u2019 mezunlar\u0131 ve \u2018liberal mektep\u2019 m\u00fcdavimleri de eklenmeye ba\u015flad\u0131.<\/p>\n

Yeni m\u00fccahitlerin s\u00f6ylemi eskilerinkinden daha da vahim. Diyorlar ki, \u201cErmeniler T\u00fcrklere, Filistinliler Yahudilere, Yahudiler Arapalara ve Filistinlilere, K\u00fcrtler T\u00fcrklere kar\u015f\u0131 nefret sayesinde ayakta duruyor, \u00c7erkesleri ayakta tutacak \u015fey de Rusya nefretidir \u201d…<\/p>\n

Hadi hastal\u0131k ate\u015fi bunlar\u0131n akl\u0131n\u0131 kemirdi ve bug\u00fcne \u015fa\u015f\u0131 bakt\u0131lar, peki Alman kimli\u011fini Yahudi nefreti \u00fczerine in\u015faa etmenin y\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 sonu\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l has\u0131ralt\u0131 ettiler?..<\/p>\n

Nefret hep \u0131rk\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n ve fa\u015fizmin sermayesi olmu\u015ftur ve kimseye hay\u0131r getirmemi\u015ftir. Bize de getirmeyece\u011fi muhakkakt\u0131r. Aman uzak dural\u0131m!..<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Sezai Babakuş 25.01.2013 Sanal sitedeki komşumun öfkesi de başbakanınki gibi, durdurulamaz ve kontrol edilemez. Büyük, güçlü ve ‘her faninin tadacağı’ türden mutlak bir öfke. Ne yapsanız ondan kaçamazsınız, sadece sırasının size geç gelmesi için dua edebilirsiniz. Duanız tuttu diye sakın ha benim gibi gevşemeyin, öfkecinin tokadı her an ensenizde patlayıverir… Sanırım beni bugüne kadar koruyup 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