{"id":2534,"date":"2019-02-23T13:59:06","date_gmt":"2019-02-23T13:59:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=2534"},"modified":"2019-02-23T13:59:06","modified_gmt":"2019-02-23T13:59:06","slug":"sen-bir-korkaksin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/sen-bir-korkaksin\/","title":{"rendered":"”SEN B\u0130R KORKAKSIN”"},"content":{"rendered":"

ELBEG Murat Duman
\n<\/span><\/b>17.12.2005<\/span><\/p>\n

Ya\u015fam, kimilerine g\u00f6re bir tesad\u00fcf, kimilerine g\u00f6re bir l\u00fctuftur.<\/p>\n

Ya\u015fam, kimi zaman bendir, kimi zaman biz.<\/p>\n

Ya\u015fam, \u00e7\u0131kmazd\u0131r bazen.<\/p>\n

Ya\u015fam, anne babam\u0131z\u0131n yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir hatad\u0131r beklide.<\/p>\n

Ya\u015fam, sen neysen odur asl\u0131nda. \u0130yi isen iyidir, mutlu isen mutludur.<\/p>\n

Ya\u015fam onun sana verdi\u011fi de\u011fil, senin ona verdi\u011findir.<\/p>\n

<\/p>\n

Elektronik postama gelen bir iletiyi pa\u015fmak istiyorum sizlerle…<\/p>\n

<\/p>\n

Bir adam ve o\u011flu k\u0131rda y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015fe \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015flar. Adam\u0131n o\u011flu bir engele tak\u0131l\u0131p d\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015f. Can\u0131 yanan \u00e7ocuk ahhhhh<\/strong>‘ diye ba\u011f\u0131rm\u0131\u015f\u2026<\/p>\n

Bir an sonra, uzaktaki bir yama\u00e7tan ayn\u0131 ‘ahhhhh<\/strong>‘ sesleni\u015fi duyulmu\u015f ve \u00e7ocuk \u015fa\u015f\u0131rm\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n

Bu sesin kimden geldi\u011fini merak eden \u00e7ocuk yamaca do\u011fru ba\u011f\u0131rm\u0131\u015f: ‘Sen kimsin?<\/strong>‘ Ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 cevap ‘Sen kimsin?<\/strong>‘ olmu\u015f.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuk ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 cevaba k\u0131zm\u0131\u015f ve ‘Sen bir korkaks\u0131n!<\/strong>‘ diye tekrar ba\u011f\u0131rm\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n

Yama\u00e7, ‘Sen bir korkaks\u0131n!<\/strong>‘ diye cevap vermi\u015f.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuk babas\u0131na d\u00f6n\u00fcp ‘Baba ne oluyor b\u00f6yle’ diye sormu\u015f.<\/p>\n

‘O\u011flum’ demi\u015f adam, ‘dinle ve \u00f6\u011fren!<\/strong>‘ ve yamaca d\u00f6n\u00fcp
\n‘sana hayran\u0131m<\/strong>‘ diye ba\u011f\u0131rm\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n

Gelen cevap ‘sana hayran\u0131m<\/strong>‘ olmu\u015f. Baba tekrar ba\u011f\u0131rm\u0131\u015f:
\n‘Sen muhte\u015femsin<\/strong>‘ Gelen cevap: ‘Sen muhte\u015femsin<\/strong>‘.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuk \u00e7ok \u015fa\u015f\u0131rm\u0131\u015f ama ne oldu\u011funu anlayamam\u0131\u015f. Babas\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klama yapm\u0131\u015f: ‘\u0130nsanlar buna ‘yank\u0131<\/strong>‘ derler ama asl\u0131nda bu ‘ya\u015famd\u0131r<\/strong>‘. Ya\u015fam daima sana senin verdiklerini geri verir. Ya\u015fam yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n aynas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Daha fazla sevgi istedi\u011fin zaman daha \u00e7ok sev!<\/p>\n

Daha fazla \u015fefkat istedi\u011finde, daha \u015fefkatli ol!<\/p>\n

Sayg\u0131 istiyorsan, insanlara daha \u00e7ok sayg\u0131 duy.<\/p>\n

\u0130nsanlar\u0131n sab\u0131rl\u0131 olmas\u0131n\u0131 istiyorsan sen de daha sab\u0131rl\u0131 olmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011fren.<\/p>\n

‘Bu kural ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n bir par\u00e7as\u0131d\u0131r, her kesiti i\u00e7in ge\u00e7erlidir.’<\/p>\n

Ya\u015fam bir tesad\u00fcf de\u011fil, yapt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n aynada bir yans\u0131mas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

<\/p>\n

Evet, ya\u015fam bir aynad\u0131r. Hem de muhte\u015fem bir ayna.<\/p>\n

Ya\u015fam \u00e7are olmakt\u0131r, \u00e7aresiz olmak de\u011fil.<\/p>\n

<\/p>\n

Thamade olman\u0131n bir kural\u0131 vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Ben thamadeyim diye ortaya \u00e7\u0131kamazs\u0131n\u0131z. Ancak sizi se\u00e7ebilirler. Yani \u00e7evrenizdekiler sizi thamadelik i\u00e7in uygun g\u00f6rd\u00fckleri takdirde thamade olursunuz.<\/p>\n

Thamade se\u00e7imindeki bu kural \u00c7erkeslerdeki (asl\u0131nda t\u00fcm d\u00fcnyadaki) ya\u015fam bi\u00e7iminin de \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc olu\u015fturur.<\/p>\n

Yani vermeden alamazs\u0131n\u0131z, oldurmadan olamazs\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n

Zaten siz genelde insanlar\u0131n, \u00f6zelde \u00c7erkeslerin sahip olmas\u0131 gereken t\u00fcm de\u011ferlere sahipseniz, size de\u011fer veren insanlar, size de\u011fer veren bir ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131z var demektir.<\/p>\n

<\/p>\n

Siz isteseniz de istemeseniz de ya\u015fam devam edecektir.<\/p>\n

Yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z t\u00fcm g\u00fczel \u015feyleri tekrar sizinle payla\u015facakt\u0131r. Hatalar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 da hi\u00e7 ac\u0131madan y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fcze vuracakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Ya\u015fam\u0131 \u015fekillendirmek, onu de\u011fi\u015ftirmek sizin elinizde.<\/p>\n

\u0130ster k\u00fcseceksiniz ya\u015fama, o da size k\u00fcsecek. \u0130ster sava\u015facaks\u0131n\u0131z her \u015feyle, herkesle; o da sizinle beraber sava\u015facak. T\u00fcm \u00e7areler sizin elinizde.<\/p>\n

\u00c7aresiz olmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n

\u00c7are siz olun\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

ELBEG Murat Duman 17.12.2005 Yaşam, kimilerine göre bir tesadüf, kimilerine göre bir lütuftur. Yaşam, kimi zaman bendir, kimi zaman biz. Yaşam, çıkmazdır bazen. Yaşam, anne babamızın yaptığı bir hatadır beklide. Yaşam, sen neysen odur aslında. İyi isen iyidir, mutlu isen mutludur. Yaşam onun sana verdiği değil, senin ona verdiğindir. 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