{"id":2536,"date":"2019-02-23T13:59:59","date_gmt":"2019-02-23T13:59:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=2536"},"modified":"2019-02-23T13:59:59","modified_gmt":"2019-02-23T13:59:59","slug":"kurbagalar-ve-biz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/kurbagalar-ve-biz\/","title":{"rendered":"KURBA\u011eALAR ve B\u0130Z"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">ELBEG Murat Duman<br \/>\n<\/span><\/b><span style=\"font-family: Arial;\"> 24.12.2005<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Kurba\u011fay\u0131 i\u00e7i kaynar su dolu bir kab\u0131n i\u00e7ine att\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda, an\u0131nda s\u0131cakl\u0131\u011f\u0131 alg\u0131lar ve tek s\u0131\u00e7ray\u0131\u015fta kab\u0131n i\u00e7inden \u00e7\u0131kar. Ancak kab\u0131n i\u00e7ine so\u011fuk su koyar ve yava\u015f yava\u015f kaynamas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flarsan\u0131z, kurba\u011fa bunun fark\u0131nda bile olmaz. Su kaynama s\u0131cakl\u0131\u011f\u0131na geldi\u011finde de i\u015f i\u015ften ge\u00e7mi\u015ftir zaten. Kurba\u011fa suyun s\u0131cakl\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan \u00f6yle rehavetle\u015fmi\u015ftir ki, art\u0131k istese de kap dan \u00e7\u0131kamaz.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/cc-turkiye\/yorum\/parag-ara.gif\" width=\"45\" height=\"18\" border=\"0\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Biz diasporadakilerin durumu da bu kurba\u011fan\u0131n durumuna benziyor. Hatta benzemekten \u00f6te t\u0131pa t\u0131p uyuyor.<\/p>\n<p>Rehavet \u00fczerimize \u00f6yle \u00e7\u00f6km\u00fc\u015f ki. Art\u0131k istesek de \u00e7\u0131kam\u0131yoruz kab\u0131n i\u00e7inden.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/cc-turkiye\/yorum\/parag-ara.gif\" width=\"45\" height=\"18\" border=\"0\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u0130lk ba\u015flarda her \u015fey normaldi asl\u0131nda. Herkes dilini konu\u015fuyor, milli k\u0131yafetleri ile dola\u015f\u0131yor, toplumsal kurallar\u0131n t\u00fcm\u00fc eksiksiz uygulan\u0131yordu.<\/p>\n<p>Ancak ne olduysa \u015fu son 50 y\u0131ld\u0131r oldu. \u0130ster istemez \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclme ba\u015flad\u0131. Su yava\u015f yava\u015f \u0131s\u0131nmaya ba\u015fl\u0131yordu zira.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00fcm bunlar olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fi gibi ya\u015fan\u0131yordu. K\u0131yafetler elbette de\u011fi\u015fecekti, her \u015feyin de\u011fi\u015fmesi gerekti\u011fi gibi. D\u00fcnya de\u011fi\u015fiyordu zira. Etkile\u015fim olacakt\u0131 di\u011fer k\u00fclt\u00fcrlerden bu ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmazd\u0131. Dil unutulacakt\u0131. \u015eimdi oldu\u011fu gibi. Zira ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z yer diasporayd\u0131. Su kaynamaya ba\u015fl\u0131yordu art\u0131k.<\/p>\n<p>Bir k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn \u00f6z\u00fc de\u011fi\u015firse ancak o zaman yok olur. T\u0131pk\u0131 di\u011fer t\u00fcm her \u015feyin \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn de\u011fi\u015fti\u011finde yok olaca\u011f\u0131 gibi.<\/p>\n<p>Alt\u0131n\u0131 i\u015fler, ona \u015fekil verirseniz harika bir bilezik, ya da muhte\u015fem bir kolye elde edebilirsiniz. Alt\u0131n yine alt\u0131nd\u0131r ve de\u011feri de\u011fi\u015fmez. Ancak alt\u0131n\u2019a farkl\u0131 bir madde katarsan\u0131z o art\u0131k t\u00fcm de\u011ferini yitirir. Belki yine muhte\u015fem bir tak\u0131d\u0131r ama art\u0131k s\u0131rf alt\u0131n de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/cc-turkiye\/yorum\/parag-ara.gif\" width=\"45\" height=\"18\" border=\"0\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Bizim i\u00e7ine d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz kazan bir \u015fark kazan\u0131. \u00dczerimizdeki rehavette e\u011fitimsizlik.<\/p>\n<p>\u015eark toplumlar\u0131nda, insanlar elindekilerinin de\u011ferini fazlaca \u00f6nemsemezler. Onlar i\u00e7in de\u011ferleriyle \u00f6v\u00fcnmek, geli\u015ftirmek ve ya\u015fatmaktan daha \u00f6nemlidir. De\u011ferlerinden bir \u015feyler kaybettik\u00e7e, ge\u00e7mi\u015fleriyle, atalar\u0131n\u0131n yapt\u0131klar\u0131yla \u00f6v\u00fcnmek biraz daha fazlala\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u015eark toplumunda ac\u0131 \u00e7ektik\u00e7e zevk al\u0131r insanlar. Sebebi ve sonucu ne olursa olsun aslolan ac\u0131 \u00e7ekmektir. Elbette ki t\u00fcm bunlar \u015fark toplumunun kendine has \u00f6zelli\u011fidir.<\/p>\n<p>\u015eark k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc ile Kafkas k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc aras\u0131nda say\u0131s\u0131z u\u00e7urumlar vard\u0131r. Kimi konularda taban tabana tamamen z\u0131t \u00f6zellikler ta\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/cc-turkiye\/yorum\/parag-ara.gif\" width=\"45\" height=\"18\" border=\"0\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Kimilerine g\u00f6re s\u00fcrg\u00fcn, kimilerine g\u00f6re g\u00f6\u00e7 sonucu vatan\u0131m\u0131zdan ayr\u0131 ya\u015famak zorunda kald\u0131k.<\/p>\n<p>Herkes \u015funu bilmelidir ki anavatan d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda k\u00fclt\u00fcr ya\u015fat\u0131lamaz, geli\u015ftirilemez. Ancak korunabilir. Bu da zamanla sizi kapal\u0131 bir toplum, kapal\u0131 bir k\u00fclt\u00fcr haline getirir ki bunun sonucu da zaten yok olmakt\u0131r. \u0130\u00e7inde bulundu\u011fumuz \u015fu an ki durumda bunun en g\u00fczel \u00f6rne\u011fi de\u011fil mi?<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/cc-turkiye\/yorum\/parag-ara.gif\" width=\"45\" height=\"18\" border=\"0\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Diaspora bizi bitirecek bu bir ger\u00e7ek. Burada kald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z s\u00fcrece de daha \u00e7ok \u015fey kaybedece\u011fimizde ortada. Neler kaybedece\u011fiz derseniz;<\/p>\n<p>Mesela dilimizi.<\/p>\n<p>Herkes konu\u015fuyoruz, bilenlerde var dese de o dil bize \u00f6zg\u00fc olmayacak. \u00d6rne\u011fin T\u00fcrk \u015fivesiyle \u00c7erkesce konu\u015faca\u011f\u0131z ya da ne bileyim Arap \u015fivesiyle\u2026 \u00d6z\u00fc kaybolmaya ba\u015flayacak dilimizin. O, bizim ne bilim dilimiz, ne edebiyat dilimiz ne de yaz\u0131 dilimiz olacak\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsan karakteri do\u011fa ve ilkim \u015fartlar\u0131ndan \u00e7ok etkilenir der uzmanlar. Karakterimiz, ki\u015fili\u011fimiz de\u011fi\u015fecek \u00f6rne\u011fin. Do\u011fan\u0131n o m\u00fcthi\u015f g\u00fczelli\u011finden nasibini alm\u0131\u015f Kafkasya\u2019da, bu g\u00fczelliklerin birbirine duydu\u011fu sayg\u0131y\u0131 kendine ve k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcne \u00f6z edinen Kafkas insan\u0131 kaybedecek bu \u00f6zelli\u011fini mesela.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/cc-turkiye\/yorum\/parag-ara.gif\" width=\"45\" height=\"18\" border=\"0\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Kurba\u011fa rehavetinden bir an \u00f6nce kurtulmak dile\u011fiyle\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>ELBEG Murat Duman 24.12.2005 Kurba&#287;ay&#305; i&ccedil;i kaynar su dolu bir kab&#305;n i&ccedil;ine att&#305;&#287;&#305;n&#305;zda, an&#305;nda s&#305;cakl&#305;&#287;&#305; alg&#305;lar ve tek s&#305;&ccedil;ray&#305;&#351;ta kab&#305;n i&ccedil;inden &ccedil;&#305;kar. 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