{"id":2540,"date":"2019-02-23T14:01:34","date_gmt":"2019-02-23T14:01:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=2540"},"modified":"2019-02-23T14:01:34","modified_gmt":"2019-02-23T14:01:34","slug":"tabu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/tabu\/","title":{"rendered":"TABU"},"content":{"rendered":"

ELBEG Murat Duman
\n<\/span><\/b>07.01.2006<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c7erkeslerin en belirgin \u00f6zelliklerinden bir tanesi de kafas\u0131na koyduklar\u0131 bir \u015feyi yapmada g\u00f6sterdikleri kararl\u0131l\u0131k ve inat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Belki de bu nedenle kimi yerlerde \u201c\u00c7erkes Damar\u0131<\/strong>\u201d, \u201c\u00c7erkes \u0130nad\u0131<\/strong>\u201d gibi kavramlar \u00c7erkesleri anlat\u0131rken ya da tan\u0131mlarken kullan\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 co\u011frafyan\u0131n yap\u0131s\u0131 ile \u00f6rt\u00fc\u015fen bu karakterleri, yani bir i\u015fi yaparken g\u00f6sterdikleri kararl\u0131l\u0131k i\u00e7in sadece inanmalar\u0131 yeterlidir. E\u011fer o i\u015fin olaca\u011f\u0131na inan\u0131rlarsa sonuna kadar m\u00fccadele ederler. Yeter ki inans\u0131nlar.<\/p>\n

Bu kararl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n ve inat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n alt\u0131nda yatan hi\u00e7 \u015f\u00fcphesiz sahip oldu\u011fu toplumsal de\u011ferler yani gelenekleridir.<\/p>\n

Di\u011fer toplumlarda oldu\u011fu gibi \u00c7erkeslerde de gelenekler yerine g\u00f6re k\u0131s\u0131tlay\u0131c\u0131, yerine g\u00f6re de itici bir g\u00fc\u00e7 olmu\u015ftur. Gelenekleri korumak, onlara sahip \u00e7\u0131kmak bu nedenle \u00f6nemli olmu\u015ftur bir \u00c7erkes i\u00e7in.<\/p>\n

Toplumu olu\u015fturan, devaml\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flayan, toplumun aynas\u0131, bir nevi dili olan gelene\u011fin en b\u00fcy\u00fck d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131 hi\u00e7 \u015f\u00fcphesiz onu bir tabu olarak g\u00f6rmektir.<\/p>\n

<\/p>\n

Ge\u00e7ti\u011fimiz yaz birka\u00e7 arkada\u015f\u0131mla beraber, ortak bir arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc ne kat\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131k. Arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131z \u00c7erkes de\u011fildi ve do\u011fal olarak kendi k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcn e\u011flence anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131na g\u00f6re d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fc yap\u0131yordu.<\/p>\n

D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn sahiplerinin \u0131srar\u0131 \u00fczerine iki arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131z piste \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p e\u011flenceye kat\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Benimle masada kalan arkada\u015f\u0131m dans bitip yerlerine oturan arkada\u015flar\u0131na \u201csiz ne bi\u00e7im \u00c7erkessiniz, utanm\u0131yor musunuz halay \u00e7ekmeye\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6z\u00fc s\u00f6yleyen arkada\u015f\u0131ma g\u00f6re ba\u015fka bir k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn dans\u0131n\u0131 oynayan 2 arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131z \u00c7erkesliklerini kaybetmi\u015flerdi.<\/p>\n

O, \u00c7erkeslik s\u0131n\u0131r\u0131n\u0131 kendince \u00e7izmi\u015f, tabular\u0131 i\u00e7inde kaybolmu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n

Evet o tabular\u0131n\u0131 y\u0131kamam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Oysa ben onun evinde di\u011fer k\u00fclt\u00fcrlerin yemeklerinin pi\u015fti\u011fine, di\u011fer k\u00fclt\u00fcrlerin m\u00fcziklerinin na\u011fmelerine e\u015flik etti\u011fine defalarca \u015fahit olmu\u015ftum.<\/p>\n

Onun \u00c7erkeslik \u00e7izgisi oyun ve m\u00fczikten ibaretti. Farkl\u0131 sesleri yad\u0131rgamas\u0131 bundand\u0131.<\/p>\n

Hi\u00e7 \u015f\u00fcphesiz bu onun su\u00e7u de\u011fildi. Y\u0131llarca gelenekleri tabu yapanlar\u0131n ona b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir mirast\u0131 bu su\u00e7.<\/p>\n

Y\u0131llarca bu arkada\u015f\u0131m gibi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnenlerin y\u00fcz\u00fcnden de\u011fimliydi \u00e7ok fazla sanat\u00e7\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n olmay\u0131\u015f\u0131.<\/p>\n

Bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerin y\u00fcz\u00fcnden de\u011fil miydi sadece doli ve akordeonla halk danslar\u0131 yap\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131z.<\/p>\n

Bu nedenle de\u011fil miydi farkl\u0131 m\u00fczik aletleri \u00e7almay\u0131 bilen i\u00e7imizden birilerini aray\u0131p da bulamay\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131z.<\/p>\n

\u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fc unutmayan, sahip oldu\u011fu sayg\u0131y\u0131, ho\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fcy\u00fc yitirmeyen kendini bilen bir \u00c7erkes’in halay \u00e7ekmesinin, dans etmesinin, saz, keman, gitar \u00e7almas\u0131n\u0131n nesi garip?<\/p>\n

<\/p>\n

Day\u0131mla beraber il\u00e7e pazar\u0131na al\u0131\u015f veri\u015fe \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015ft\u0131k. Al\u0131\u015fveri\u015fi bitirmi\u015f, pazardan ayr\u0131lmak \u00fczereydik ki day\u0131m, \u00e7al\u0131 s\u00fcp\u00fcrgesi satan bir arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fc. Adam, tezgah\u0131nda al\u0131n teri ile toplay\u0131p yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00fcp\u00fcrgeleri sat\u0131yordu.<\/p>\n

Day\u0131m \u00f6yle bir dalga ge\u00e7ti ki adamla, adam adeta yerin dibine girdi. Day\u0131ma g\u00f6re bir \u00c7erkes nas\u0131l olurda pazarda, milletin i\u00e7inde nas\u0131l sat\u0131\u015f yaparm\u0131\u015f, hi\u00e7 mi utanmazm\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n

Adam bizden sonra tezgah\u0131n\u0131 toplay\u0131p gitti mi bilemem ama ben o g\u00fcnden sonra o adam\u0131 bir daha pazarda hi\u00e7 g\u00f6rmedim.<\/p>\n

Hi\u00e7 \u015f\u00fcphesiz day\u0131m\u0131n b\u00f6yle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmesi, yukar\u0131daki arkada\u015f\u0131m gibi onun su\u00e7u de\u011fil, gelenekleri tabu yapanlar\u0131n ona b\u0131rakt\u0131klar\u0131 bir mirast\u0131.<\/p>\n

Day\u0131ma g\u00f6re bir \u00c7erkes asla bir \u015feyler satamazd\u0131. Bu kadar d\u00fc\u015femezdi. Bu, day\u0131m\u0131n \u00c7erkeslik s\u0131n\u0131r\u0131yd\u0131.<\/p>\n

Bu y\u00fczden de\u011fil miydi i\u015f adamlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n fazla olmay\u0131\u015f\u0131, bu y\u00fczden de\u011fil miydi ekonomik olarak zengin bir toplum olamay\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131z.<\/p>\n

<\/p>\n

Y\u0131llarca k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc korumaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131k. Ya\u015fatmak i\u00e7in elimizden geleni yapt\u0131k. Kap\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 sonuna kadar kapatt\u0131k. Ancak bunu yaparken \u00f6nemli bir ayr\u0131nt\u0131y\u0131 atlam\u0131\u015ft\u0131k. Geleneklerimizi tabula\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yorduk.<\/p>\n

Gittik\u00e7e kapand\u0131k. Kapal\u0131 bir toplum olduk. De\u011fi\u015fmedik. De\u011fi\u015ftiremedik.<\/p>\n

Oysa d\u00fcnya de\u011fi\u015fiyor, toplumlar de\u011fi\u015fiyor, k\u00fclt\u00fcrler kendini yenileyip geli\u015fiyordu. Biz o kadar kapatt\u0131k ki, kendimizi bu de\u011fi\u015fimleri g\u00f6remedik.<\/p>\n

Ancak yine de hi\u00e7bir \u015fey i\u00e7in ge\u00e7 de\u011fil. Bu de\u011fi\u015fimi yakalamak hala m\u00fcmk\u00fcn. Gelin tabular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 y\u0131kal\u0131m. Gelin kap\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 a\u00e7al\u0131m, yok olmayal\u0131m.<\/p>\n

Tabular\u0131 y\u0131kabiliriz. Yeter ki inanal\u0131m\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

ELBEG Murat Duman 07.01.2006 Çerkeslerin en belirgin özelliklerinden bir tanesi de kafasına koydukları bir şeyi yapmada gösterdikleri kararlılık ve inatçılıklarıdır. Belki de bu nedenle kimi yerlerde “Çerkes Damarı”, “Çerkes İnadı” gibi kavramlar Çerkesleri anlatırken ya da tanımlarken kullanılmıştır. Yaşadığı coğrafyanın yapısı ile örtüşen bu karakterleri, yani bir işi yaparken gösterdikleri kararlılık için sadece inanmaları yeterlidir. 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