{"id":2550,"date":"2019-02-23T14:06:24","date_gmt":"2019-02-23T14:06:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=2550"},"modified":"2019-02-23T14:06:24","modified_gmt":"2019-02-23T14:06:24","slug":"fedakarlik","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/fedakarlik\/","title":{"rendered":"FEDAKARLIK"},"content":{"rendered":"

ELBEG Murat Duman
\n<\/span><\/b> 11.02.2006<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0130nsano\u011flu\u2019nun do\u011fas\u0131nda vard\u0131r; sahip oldu\u011fu varl\u0131klar\u0131n ve de\u011ferlerin k\u0131ymetini kaybettikten sonra anlar. Sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 bozulunca v\u00fccudu k\u0131ymetlidir veya bir b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc kaybetti\u011finde onun kendisi i\u00e7in ne kadar de\u011ferli ve \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funu anlar. Elbette elindeki de\u011ferlerin kendisi i\u00e7in ne derece \u00f6nemi oldu\u011funun hep fark\u0131ndad\u0131r, ancak bu konuda yani elindekileri kaybetmemek konusunda ne yaz\u0131kt\u0131r ki gereken \u00f6nemi g\u00f6stermez. Bu konuda hep bir bahanesi vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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K\u00fclt\u00fcrel de\u011ferlerde, belki de (ve hatta bence kesinlikle) sahip oldu\u011fu en \u00f6nemli hazinedir bir insan i\u00e7in. Dil bir insan i\u00e7in konu\u015fma ve anla\u015fma arac\u0131 ise, k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u2019de toplumlar i\u00e7in anla\u015fma, konu\u015fma arac\u0131d\u0131r. Toplum k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc ile kendini ifade eder, varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 korumaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n

K\u00fclt\u00fcr\u2019\u00fcn \u00f6nemi saymakla bitmez, burada da bunu anlatacak de\u011filim zaten. Anlatmak istedi\u011fim k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fczle ne kadar ilgili oldu\u011fumuz, ona ne kadar de\u011fer verdi\u011fimiz.<\/p>\n

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Hep s\u00f6yleriz, dernekler ve vak\u0131flarda g\u00f6rev alanlar hep g\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fcl\u00fck esas\u0131na g\u00f6re \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar diye. Yani kimse bu i\u015flerden para kazanmaz. Herkes hayat\u0131nda bir \u015feylerden fedak\u00e2rl\u0131k yap\u0131p, derneklerde ki veya vak\u0131flarda ki faaliyetlere kat\u0131l\u0131r. Acaba ger\u00e7ekten bu b\u00f6yle midir? Yani faaliyete kat\u0131lan herkes bir \u015feylerden fedak\u00e2rl\u0131k m\u0131 eder? Yoksa bo\u015f zamanlar\u0131nda m\u0131 bu t\u00fcr faaliyetlere kat\u0131l\u0131r? \u0130sterseniz \u00f6nce fedak\u00e2rl\u0131k nedir? \u0130le bu sorular\u0131n cevaplar\u0131n\u0131 irdeleyelim.<\/p>\n

Fedak\u00e2rl\u0131k (\u00d6zveri): Bir ama\u00e7 ve ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirilmesi istenen bir \u015fey u\u011fruna menfaatlerinden vazge\u00e7me, her t\u00fcrl\u00fc tehlikeyi, zorlu\u011fu, yorgunlu\u011fu g\u00f6ze alma\u2026 olarak tan\u0131mlan\u0131yor s\u00f6zl\u00fcklerde.<\/p>\n

Yani fedak\u00e2r demek, bir amac\u0131 ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirirken, i\u015finden, zaman\u0131ndan vs. bir\u00e7ok \u015feyden vazge\u00e7mek demek. \u015eimdi kendimize \u015fu soruyu sormal\u0131y\u0131z. Biz ger\u00e7ekten fedak\u00e2r m\u0131y\u0131z?<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsan\u0131n hayatta \u00f6nceli\u011fi neyse onun i\u00e7in fedakarl\u0131k g\u00f6sterir. Yani, e\u011fer \u00f6nceli\u011fi i\u015fi ise, hayat\u0131n\u0131 i\u015fine g\u00f6re d\u00fczenler ya da sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ise \u00f6ncelikli olan buna g\u00f6re d\u00fczenleyecektir hayat\u0131n\u0131.<\/p>\n

Elbette fedakarl\u0131k demek hayat\u0131n gereklili\u011fini sa\u011flayacak unsurlar\u0131n birine \u00f6ncelik tan\u0131y\u0131p di\u011ferini unutmak demek de\u011fildir. Ancak e\u011fer isterse bir insan her \u015fey i\u00e7in zaman bulabilir.<\/p>\n

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\u00dcniversite y\u0131llar\u0131mda derne\u011fe insanlar\u0131 \u00e7ekmek i\u00e7in s\u00fcrekli yeni bir \u015feyler yapmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rd\u0131k. Ancak ne yapt\u0131ksak ta bir t\u00fcrl\u00fc say\u0131y\u0131 art\u0131ramad\u0131k. Kimi zaman\u0131n\u0131n olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, kimi derslerini bahane ederek gelemeyeceklerini s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorlard\u0131.<\/p>\n

Derslerini bahane eden bir arkada\u015f\u0131ma g\u00fcnde ka\u00e7 saat ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 sordu\u011fumda verecek cevap bulamay\u0131nca beni tersledi\u011fini hep g\u00fclerek ama i\u00e7im buruk hat\u0131rlar\u0131m.<\/p>\n

Eee, \u00f6nceli\u011fi k\u00fclt\u00fcr, dernek olmay\u0131nca insan\u0131n ister istemez bahanesi de \u00e7ok oluyor.<\/p>\n

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Bu ve buna benzer \u00f6rnekleri \u00e7o\u011faltmak m\u00fcmk\u00fcn. \u015eimdi yukar\u0131daki soruyu bir kez daha tekrarlamak istiyorum. Ger\u00e7ekten Fedak\u00e2r m\u0131y\u0131z?<\/p>\n

Bizim 140 y\u0131ld\u0131r diasporadaki sorunumuz belli. Biz fedak\u00e2r de\u011filiz. Elbette i\u00e7imizden fedak\u00e2rlar \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bu toplum ve bu k\u00fclt\u00fcr i\u00e7in gereken fedak\u00e2rl\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6steren insanlar\u0131m\u0131z vard\u0131r. Ama bunlar\u0131n say\u0131s\u0131 ne kadard\u0131r ki.<\/p>\n

Bir\u00e7o\u011fumuz bo\u015f zamanlar\u0131m\u0131zda dernek faaliyetlerine kat\u0131l\u0131yoruz. Bo\u015f zamanlarda faaliyetlere kat\u0131lmakla, fedak\u00e2rl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ay\u0131rmak gerekli. Fedak\u00e2r olmad\u0131k\u00e7a, mehter y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015f\u00fc yapmaya devam ederiz.<\/p>\n

Herkesin kendini sorgulamas\u0131 gerekli\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

ELBEG Murat Duman 11.02.2006 İnsanoğlu’nun doğasında vardır; sahip olduğu varlıkların ve değerlerin kıymetini kaybettikten sonra anlar. Sağlığı bozulunca vücudu kıymetlidir veya bir büyüğünü kaybettiğinde onun kendisi için ne kadar değerli ve önemli olduğunu anlar. Elbette elindeki değerlerin kendisi için ne derece önemi olduğunun hep farkındadır, ancak bu konuda yani elindekileri kaybetmemek konusunda ne yazıktır ki 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