{"id":2562,"date":"2019-02-23T14:13:48","date_gmt":"2019-02-23T14:13:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=2562"},"modified":"2019-02-23T14:13:48","modified_gmt":"2019-02-23T14:13:48","slug":"babam-benim-oglum-dedem-ise-torunum","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/babam-benim-oglum-dedem-ise-torunum\/","title":{"rendered":"BABAM BEN\u0130M O\u011eLUM, DEDEM \u0130SE TORUNUM\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"

ELBEG Murat Duman
\n<\/span><\/b> 18.03.2006<\/span><\/p>\n

Garip gelmesin size bu ba\u015fl\u0131k. Do\u011fru de\u011fil mi sizce de bu.<\/p>\n

Hani derler ya, ya\u015fland\u0131k\u00e7a \u00e7ocukla\u015f\u0131r insan. Baban\u0131z o\u011flunuz, dedeniz torununuz olur.<\/p>\n

Y\u0131llarca bin bir emekle, bin bir g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fckle sizi hayata haz\u0131rlam\u0131\u015flard\u0131r, sizi hayatta kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ks\u0131z seven tek varl\u0131kt\u0131r onlar.<\/p>\n

Dedem, babam, annem, amcam, halam, teyzem, vs. Var m\u0131d\u0131r beni sizden daha fazla seven.<\/p>\n

<\/p>\n

Hayat, herkesin zorunlu gitti\u011fi bir okuldur. \u00d6m\u00fcr boyu zorunlu e\u011fitim\u2026 \u00d6\u011fretmenleri ise ya\u015fl\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z. Ne \u00e7ok \u015fey \u00f6\u011fretmi\u015flerdir onlar bize.\u00a0 Daha da \u00f6\u011freteceklerdir hi\u00e7 \u015f\u00fcphesiz.<\/p>\n

Nerede duymu\u015ftum an\u0131msam\u0131yorum ama bir devlet b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fc s\u00f6ylemi\u015f bu s\u00f6z\u00fc; \u201cbir \u00fclkeye devlet ba\u015fkan\u0131 olaca\u011f\u0131ma \u00c7erkes ya\u015fl\u0131s\u0131 olmay\u0131 ye\u011flerdim\u201d diye.<\/p>\n

Benim ya\u015fl\u0131m g\u00fcn gelir bir i\u015f yapamasa da varl\u0131\u011f\u0131 yeter onun. Ger\u00e7ekten do\u011fru de\u011fil midir bu. Ailenin en b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fc \u00f6ld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde da\u011f\u0131l\u0131verir birden aile. Sonradan kendini toparlar elbet. Ama da\u011f\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 kar kal\u0131r yan\u0131na\u2026<\/p>\n

\u00c7ok \u015fey bilir benim ya\u015fl\u0131m. \u00c7ok \u015fey \u00f6\u011fretir bu y\u00fczden. \u00d6\u011frenmesini, almas\u0131n\u0131 bilene\u2026<\/p>\n

<\/p>\n

\u0130nsan sahip olduklar\u0131n\u0131n de\u011ferini kaybettikten sonra anl\u0131yor nedense. \u015eu \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc hi\u00e7 konduram\u0131yor yak\u0131n\u0131ndakilere.<\/p>\n

Babam \u00f6lebilir mi benim, ya da annem, dedeme yak\u0131\u015fmaz ki \u00f6l\u00fcm\u2026<\/p>\n

Bedenime, bedenlerime \u00e7ok yak\u0131n ama ruhuma d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceme \u00e7ok uzak \u00f6l\u00fcm\u2026<\/p>\n

Bir g\u00fcn hepsi \u00f6lecek, belki benden \u00f6nce belki benden sonra. Bunu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fckl\u00fckten beri \u00f6\u011frettiler bize.<\/p>\n

<\/p>\n

Bug\u00fcn\u00fc anlamak i\u00e7in d\u00fcne bakmak gerek. D\u00fcn\u00fcn anahtar\u0131 benim ya\u015fl\u0131m de\u011fil midir. Ne \u00e7ok ihtiyac\u0131m\u0131z var ona, bilgisine, meyvesine\u2026<\/p>\n

Kimi dallar\u0131ndan sark\u0131t\u0131r meyvesini, uzan\u0131p al\u0131verirsin \u00e7ok fazla zahmet \u00e7ekmeden, kimi ise topra\u011f\u0131n alt\u0131na saklar, almak i\u00e7in e\u015felemen, emek harcaman gerekir.<\/p>\n

<\/p>\n

Eskisi olmayan\u0131n, yenisi olmaz derler. Ne mutlu ya\u015fl\u0131s\u0131 olana. Ya\u015fl\u0131, sayg\u0131 demek, g\u00fc\u00e7 demek.<\/p>\n

18-24 Mart, Ya\u015fl\u0131lar Haftas\u0131. Yorgun bedenlerinin i\u00e7inde ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131klar\u0131 g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc y\u00fcrekleriyle bizleri bekliyorlar.<\/p>\n

Gen\u00e7ler hayalleri ile, ya\u015fl\u0131lar an\u0131lar\u0131 ile ya\u015farm\u0131\u015f. Hayallerimizi olar\u0131n an\u0131lar\u0131yla ger\u00e7e\u011fe d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrmek i\u00e7in var m\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z an\u0131larla g\u00fc\u00e7lenmeye\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

ELBEG Murat Duman 18.03.2006 Garip gelmesin size bu başlık. Doğru değil mi sizce de bu. Hani derler ya, yaşlandıkça çocuklaşır insan. Babanız oğlunuz, dedeniz torununuz olur. Yıllarca bin bir emekle, bin bir güçlükle sizi hayata hazırlamışlardır, sizi hayatta karşılıksız seven tek varlıktır onlar. Dedem, babam, annem, amcam, halam, teyzem, vs. Var mıdır beni sizden daha 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