{"id":2582,"date":"2019-02-23T14:25:40","date_gmt":"2019-02-23T14:25:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=2582"},"modified":"2019-02-23T14:26:01","modified_gmt":"2019-02-23T14:26:01","slug":"ne-is-olsa-yaparim-abi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/ne-is-olsa-yaparim-abi\/","title":{"rendered":"NE \u0130\u015e OLSA YAPARIM AB\u0130"},"content":{"rendered":"

ELBEG Murat Duman
\n<\/span><\/b>17.06.2006<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00fcrkiye. S\u0131navlar \u00fclkesi. Milyonlarca gen\u00e7, \u00e7ocuk ilkokul \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ndan \u00fcniversiteye kadar hep s\u0131nav stresiyle b\u00fcy\u00fcyor. Bizim zaman\u0131m\u0131zda \u00fcniversiteye kadar \u00e7ok fazla s\u0131nav yoktu ger\u00e7i ya da vard\u0131ysa da bizim haberimiz yoktu.<\/p>\n

Oku derlerdi hep b\u00fcy\u00fckler. Oku, adam ol. Bir i\u015f yapmasan da elinde diploman olsun.<\/p>\n

Y\u0131llarca belki de ilerde hi\u00e7 i\u015fimize yaramayacak konulara \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131k durduk. Hi\u00e7 merak etmedi\u011fimiz konular\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131k. Hala da \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n

Sonu\u00e7. Ezberci bir zihniyet.<\/p>\n

<\/p>\n

S\u0131nav stresi yetmiyormu\u015f gibi, benim o\u011flum\/k\u0131z\u0131m b\u00fcy\u00fcy\u00fcnce \u015fu olacak bu olacak s\u00f6zleri de cabas\u0131.<\/p>\n

Hangi b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc istiyorsun diye soruyorum bir gence. \u201cValla a\u011fabey en d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck puanl\u0131 olanlar\u0131n\u0131 yazd\u0131m. Benim i\u00e7in fark etmez. \u00dcniversiteye kapa\u011f\u0131 atay\u0131m da. Yoksa babam \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcr beni\u201d diyor.<\/p>\n

\u0130\u00e7im ac\u0131yor bu gen\u00e7lere. Ne istedi\u011fini bilmeyen ya da istedi\u011fini s\u0131rf ebeveynlerin egolar\u0131n\u0131 tatmin etmek u\u011fruna erteleyen bir gen\u00e7lik var.<\/p>\n

\u00d6\u011frenmek, kendini geli\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in de\u011fil de s\u0131rf bir okul bitirmek i\u00e7in okuyan ve ne i\u015f yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmeyen bir gen\u00e7lik.<\/p>\n

<\/p>\n

\u0130nsan\u0131n kendini bilmemesi kadar k\u00f6t\u00fc bir \u015fey yoktur d\u00fcnyada. Ne oldu\u011funu bilmeyen nereye gidece\u011fini de bilmez.<\/p>\n

– Karde\u015fim kaynaktan anlar m\u0131s\u0131n?
\n<\/strong>– Yok a\u011fabey.
\n– Bilgisayar bilir misin?
\n<\/strong>– \u00c7ok fazla de\u011fil?
\n– Daha \u00f6nce hi\u00e7 b\u00f6yle bir i\u015fte \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131n m\u0131?
\n<\/strong>– Yok a\u011fabey.
\n– Peki neden anlars\u0131n, ne i\u015f yapars\u0131n?
\n<\/strong>– Ne i\u015f olsa yapar\u0131m a\u011fabey.<\/p>\n

<\/p>\n

Bilmedi\u011fi, anlamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir i\u015fte \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan insan ne kadar verimli olabilir, kendine ve \u00e7evresine ne verebilir sizce.<\/p>\n

Y\u0131llarca hep bu zihniyetle yeti\u015ftik biz. Bu bir ger\u00e7ek. Bir i\u015ften anlamazd\u0131k ama hep yapar\u0131z dedik. Sonu\u00e7ta 1-2 ay sonra t\u00fcm planlar\u0131m\u0131z, projelerimiz geri tepti.<\/p>\n

Derneklerde tek faaliyet olsunda nas\u0131l olursa olsun dedik. Bir \u015feyler yapmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131k. Sanattan, edebiyattan, gazetecilikten anlamad\u0131k ama dergi \u00e7\u0131kartt\u0131k, tiyatro deneyimimiz yoktu ama tiyatro kurduk. Y\u00f6neticilik nedir nas\u0131l olur bilmiyorduk ama y\u00f6netici olduk. Sonu\u00e7ta bize kalan hep koca bir hi\u00e7 oldu.<\/p>\n

Hal b\u00f6yle olunca da her i\u015ften anlar olduk, her \u015feyi bilir olduk. \u00dcstelik bu bildiklerimizi yanl\u0131\u015f veya do\u011fru olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 sorgulamadan savunduk.<\/p>\n

<\/p>\n

D\u00fcnya \u00e7ok de\u011fi\u015fti. Art\u0131k bir i\u015fin uzman\u0131ysan deneyimin varsa s\u00f6z hakk\u0131n var. O zaman seni dinliyor insanlar.<\/p>\n

\u0130ki tane kitap okumakla bitmiyor her \u015fey. Devam\u0131n\u0131 istiyor insanlar senden. Her \u015feyi biliyorum demek yetmiyor. Bildiklerini g\u00f6rmek istiyor insanlar senden.<\/p>\n

<\/p>\n

Bu hafta gen\u00e7lerin hayat\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirecek bir s\u0131nav var. Hepsine sonsuz ba\u015far\u0131lar diliyorum.<\/p>\n

Ancak okumakla her \u015fey bitmiyor. Ne istedi\u011fini bilmek \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

ELBEG Murat Duman 17.06.2006 Türkiye. Sınavlar ülkesi. Milyonlarca genç, çocuk ilkokul çağından üniversiteye kadar hep sınav stresiyle büyüyor. Bizim zamanımızda üniversiteye kadar çok fazla sınav yoktu gerçi ya da vardıysa da bizim haberimiz yoktu. Oku derlerdi hep büyükler. Oku, adam ol. Bir iş yapmasan da elinde diploman olsun. Yıllarca belki de ilerde hiç işimize yaramayacak 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