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YEMUZ Nevzat Tarak\u00e7\u0131<\/strong><\/p>\n Bir 21 May\u0131s sonras\u0131nda yine \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcs\u00fcz kuru iltifatlara, \u00f6nyarg\u0131lara, yap\u0131c\u0131 ele\u015ftirilere bile tahamm\u00fcls\u00fczl\u00fcklere,<\/strong> k\u0131r\u0131c\u0131, ayr\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131c\u0131, d\u0131\u015flay\u0131c\u0131 davran\u0131\u015flara, tuhaf reflekslere<\/strong> \u015fahit olduk. B\u0130R 21 MAYIS\u2019I DAHA GER\u0130DE BIRAKTIK FARKLI D\u00dc\u015e\u00dcNCELERE TAHAMM\u00dcL \u015eART \u201cSEN DE BEN\u0130M G\u0130B\u0130 D\u00dc\u015e\u00dcNMEK ZORUNDASIN\u201d TARTI\u015eMAYALIM MI? SOSYAL MEDYA TARTAI\u015eMALARI OKUNMASI, \u00dcZER\u0130NDE D\u00dc\u015e\u00dcN\u00dcLMES\u0130 GEREKEN B\u0130R YAZI TEBR\u0130K, TE\u015eEKK\u00dcR YEMUZ Nevzat Tarakçı Bir 21 Mayıs sonrasında yine ölçüsüz kuru iltifatlara, önyargılara, yapıcı eleştirilere bile tahammülsüzlüklere, kırıcı, ayrıştırıcı, dışlayıcı davranışlara, tuhaf reflekslere şahit olduk. Şaşırdık mı, elbette hayır! Bizde, her etkinlik sonrası organizasyon ekibine vıcık vıcık iltifat yağdıranımız, bu yaklaşımı erdem sananımız, her yapılanı en negatif tarzda eleştirmeyi, yüreklere, bileklere basmayı, kırıp dökmeyi marifet sananımız 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\n\u015ea\u015f\u0131rd\u0131k m\u0131, elbette hay\u0131r!
\nBizde, her etkinlik sonras\u0131 organizasyon ekibine v\u0131c\u0131k v\u0131c\u0131k iltifat ya\u011fd\u0131ran\u0131m\u0131z<\/strong>, bu yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131 erdem sanan\u0131m\u0131z, her yap\u0131lan\u0131 en negatif tarzda ele\u015ftirmeyi<\/strong>, y\u00fcreklere, bileklere basmay\u0131, k\u0131r\u0131p d\u00f6kmeyi marifet sanan\u0131m\u0131z var.
\nG\u00f6steri\u015ften, samimiyetten, duygudan ziyade d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce merkezli yap\u0131c\u0131 ele\u015ftirilere kulak vererek en g\u00fczele en m\u00fckemmele ula\u015fmak d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncemiz<\/strong> de geli\u015fir in\u015fallah.
\n\u0130yi ki her \u015feye ra\u011fmen dik duran, \u00e7ekinmeden inand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yleyebilen, yazabilen g\u00fczel insanlar<\/strong> var!<\/p>\n
\n<\/strong>Nihayet bir 21 May\u0131s\u2019\u0131 daha geride b\u0131rakt\u0131k.
\nUmar\u0131m; her yeni 21 May\u0131s \u00f6ncekilerden; kat\u0131l\u0131m, derinlik, estetik, nitelikli mesaj<\/strong> y\u00f6n\u00fcnden daha kaliteli olur.
\nBu da ancak her programdan sonra gelen hakl\u0131 ele\u015ftirileri dikkate almakla<\/strong>, genel akl\u0131 kullanmakla m\u00fcmk\u00fcn.
\nElbette \u201cMarifet iltifata tabidir.\u201d<\/strong> Bu ba\u011flamda erdemli insanlar i\u00e7in g\u00fczellikleri takdir etmek<\/strong> bir temel insani g\u00f6revdir.
\nDilerim, yap\u0131lan bir program sonunda, eksik ve yanl\u0131\u015flar\u0131 olan etkinliklerde dahi pervas\u0131zca \u201cHer \u015fey harikayd\u0131, hi\u00e7bir eksi\u011fimiz yoktu,<\/strong> bu program\u0131 ele\u015ftiren vatan hainidir!<\/strong>\u201d d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesi hi\u00e7bir y\u00f6neticimizde, hi\u00e7bir yeti\u015fkinimizde hayat bulmaz!
\nDilerim, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceden, derinlikten yoksun v\u0131c\u0131k v\u0131c\u0131k duygusall\u0131k kokan \u00f6vg\u00fcler<\/strong> pirim yapmaz, alk\u0131\u015f almaz!
\nBu noktada duyarl\u0131 kesime b\u00fcy\u00fck g\u00f6rev, a\u011f\u0131r sorumluluk d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n
\n<\/strong>Biz hep, farkl\u0131 k\u00fclt\u00fcrlere, farkl\u0131 renklere sayg\u0131 \u015fart, der dururuz. Peki bizler bu k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn insanlar\u0131 olarak acaba kendi aram\u0131zda farkl\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelere, farkl\u0131 renklere<\/strong> ne kadar tahamm\u00fcll\u00fcy\u00fcz?
\nFarkl\u0131l\u0131klara sayg\u0131 \u015fart, demek kolay, kolay olmayan farkl\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelere sayg\u0131 duymak, belki ben yan\u0131l\u0131yorum, diyebilmek.<\/p>\n
\n<\/strong>\u201cBen bu konuda b\u00f6yle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum, sen de benim gibi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek zorundas\u0131n, yoksa sizi k\u0131yas\u0131ya ele\u015ftirir, yerden yere vururum.\u201d
\n<\/strong>Ah ke\u015fke \u015fu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce hatalar\u0131na d\u00fc\u015fmeden<\/strong> d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerimizi a\u00e7\u0131klayabilsek.
\n\u015eu tarz d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce ve tutumlar ne kadar tehlikeli:
\nYa hep ya hi\u00e7 \u015feklinde d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek (kutupla\u015ft\u0131rmak), olumsuzluklar\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fctmek<\/strong>, kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdakinin zihnini okumak, falc\u0131l\u0131k yapmak, duygusal mant\u0131k y\u00fcr\u00fctmek<\/strong>, etiketlemek, ki\u015fiselle\u015ftirmek, felaketle\u015ftirmek\u2026\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n
\n<\/strong>Tart\u0131\u015fmayal\u0131m m\u0131, elbette tart\u0131\u015faca\u011f\u0131z zira dilimize pelesenk olmu\u015f bir s\u00f6z var ya bug\u00fcnk\u00fc ifadeyle \u201cFikirlerin \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmas\u0131ndan hakikat g\u00fcne\u015fi\u00a0do\u011far.\u201d <\/strong>s\u00f6z\u00fc.
\nAma ki\u015filikleri de\u011fil d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri tart\u0131\u015fmak, kar\u015f\u0131 taraf\u0131 ezmek, \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck taslamak i\u00e7in de\u011fil<\/strong>, do\u011fruya ula\u015fmak gayesiyle tart\u0131\u015fmak\u2026<\/p>\n
\n<\/strong>Sosyal medyada 21 May\u0131s programlar\u0131yla ilgili ibretlik tart\u0131\u015fmalar izledik. \u00dcz\u00fcld\u00fck\u2026
\nMe\u011fer ne \u00e7ok babayi\u011fit ne \u00e7ok hakiki \u00c7erkes(!)<\/strong> varm\u0131\u015f duygudan d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceye ge\u00e7emeyen, farkl\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015flere tahamm\u00fcl edemeyen, yaz\u0131lanlar\u0131 okumadan, anlamadan<\/strong>, hi\u00e7bir kural tan\u0131madan y\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 ele\u015ftirilerde bulunan, seviyesizce sald\u0131ran, bir yerlere mesaj vermeyi marifet sanan, ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcs\u00fcz, tahamm\u00fcls\u00fcz\u2026
\nMe\u011fer ne \u00e7ok bilge \u00c7erkes(!)<\/strong> varm\u0131\u015f y\u00fcreklere bileklere basmaktan b\u00fcy\u00fck zevk alan, \u00fcsluptan nasipsiz, estetikten, ironiden habersiz, \u00f6fke n\u00f6betleriyle ya\u015fayan\u2026
\n<\/strong>B\u00fcy\u00fck d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen, olaylara geni\u015f ac\u0131dan bakan\u2026<\/p>\n
\n<\/strong>21 May\u0131s 2022 etkinliklerini farkl\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131dan de\u011ferlendiren, ezber bozan Say\u0131n Ibrahim \u00c7etao<\/a> \u2018nun okunmas\u0131 gereken g\u00fczel bir yaz\u0131s\u0131\u2026 http:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/21-mayisin-ardindan\/<\/a><\/p>\n
\n<\/strong>Her 21 May\u0131s\u2019ta muhtelif yerlerdeki programlara kat\u0131larak etkinliklere\u00a0ruh katan duyarl\u0131, \u00f6zverili kat\u0131l\u0131mc\u0131lara,
\n<\/strong>\u0130\u015fin mutfa\u011f\u0131nda, sahnede, alanda ter d\u00f6ken sevgili gen\u00e7lere,
\nOtob\u00fcslerle alanlara kat\u0131l\u0131mc\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131yan veya bulunduklar\u0131 b\u00f6lgede etkili programlar\u0131n mimar\u0131 de\u011ferli\u00a0dernek ba\u015fkanlar\u0131na,
\n<\/strong>Uykusuz gecelerini s\u0131ralayan organizasyon ekiplerine,
\n<\/strong>22 May\u0131s\u2019larda daha fazla g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr olabilmek amac\u0131yla programlar\u0131n kalitesini artt\u0131rmak i\u00e7in b\u00fcy\u00fck emek harcayan de\u011ferli y\u00f6neticilere, k\u0131ymetli yeti\u015fkinlere,
\n<\/strong>Bu ac\u0131l\u0131 g\u00fcnde \u00c7erkes toplumunun ac\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 mesajlar\u0131yla payla\u015fan sanat\u00e7\u0131lara,\u00a0siyasilere, STK temsilcilerine<\/strong>, duyarl\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131ndan dolay\u0131 i\u00e7tenlikle te\u015fekk\u00fcr ediyorum.
\nB\u00fcy\u00fck s\u00fcrg\u00fcnde \u00f6l\u00fcmle y\u00fczle\u015fip \u00f6l\u00fcms\u00fczle\u015fen atalar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131\u00a0bir kez daha rahmetle, minnetle<\/strong>\u00a0an\u0131yorum.
\nKapsay\u0131c\u0131, <\/strong>derinli\u011fi ve esteti\u011fi y\u00fcksek <\/strong>etkinliklerde bulu\u015fmak temennisiyle.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"