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YEMUZ Nevzat Tarak\u00e7\u0131<\/strong><\/p>\n Merak\u0131mdan soruyorum, \u201cS\u00f6ylenecek fazlas\u0131yla s\u00f6z\u00fc,<\/strong> anlat\u0131lacak ziyadesiyle birikimi<\/strong> olan pek \u00e7ok de\u011ferimiz, neden duygu ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerini sosyal medya arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile payla\u015fmaz,<\/strong> bu yolla topluma katk\u0131 sa\u011flamaz? Bu insanlar, tembel oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in mi sosyal medyada duygu ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerini<\/strong> payla\u015fmaz? Peki bunlar, topluma ve k\u00fclt\u00fcre mi duyars\u0131z? \u0130steksiz mi bunlar? Peki bunlar \u00e7ekiniyor mu, korkuyor mu? Kimden, neden? Belki korkuyordur, payla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00f6z\u00fcn ba\u011flam\u0131ndan kopar\u0131l\u0131p<\/strong> duygu ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerin etrafa savrulaca\u011f\u0131ndan. ANLA\u015eILMAK MUTLULUKTUR NEGAT\u0130F ENERJ\u0130 \u00dcRETEN AGRES\u0130FLER<\/strong>\u0130\u00e7inde \u00f6zenle saklad\u0131\u011f\u0131 agresif duygular\u0131, rezervindeki negatif enerjiyle<\/strong> birle\u015ftirip tutum geli\u015ftirenler, \u00d6FKE KR\u0130Z\u0130 YA\u015eAYANLARLA YA\u015eAMAK ZORDUR ZAR\u0130F \u0130NSAN OLMAK YEMUZ Nevzat Tarakçı Merakımdan soruyorum, “Söylenecek fazlasıyla sözü, anlatılacak ziyadesiyle birikimi olan pek çok değerimiz, neden duygu ve düşüncelerini sosyal medya aracılığı ile paylaşmaz, bu yolla topluma katkı sağlamaz? Oysa bu kişilerin çoğu; tarih, toplum ve kültür adına detay düşüncesi, derin duygusu olan kişiler. Bu insanların bazısı kurumlarımızın tepesinde görev yapmış, bu kültür, bu toplum 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\nOysa bu ki\u015filerin \u00e7o\u011fu; tarih, toplum ve k\u00fclt\u00fcr ad\u0131na detay d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesi, derin duygusu<\/strong> olan ki\u015filer.
\nBu insanlar\u0131n baz\u0131s\u0131 kurumlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n tepesinde g\u00f6rev yapm\u0131\u015f, bu k\u00fclt\u00fcr, bu toplum i\u00e7in kafa yormu\u015f, beyin yakm\u0131\u015f, \u00e7ok an\u0131 biriktirmi\u015f, deneyimli s\u0131ra d\u0131\u015f\u0131 insanlar.
\n<\/strong>\u0130\u015fte bu konuyla ilgili, merek etti\u011fim, cevab\u0131n\u0131 bir t\u00fcrl\u00fc bulamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m soruyu sizlerle payla\u015fman\u0131n tam zaman\u0131.<\/p>\n
\nHay\u0131r!<\/p>\n
\n<\/strong>Hay\u0131r!<\/p>\n
\nHay\u0131r!<\/p>\n
\n<\/strong>Olabilir?<\/p>\n
\nKim bilir belki sosyal medyan\u0131n kontrols\u00fcz<\/strong> tepkisinden.<\/p>\n
\nKorkuyordur, konunun ki\u015fiselle\u015ftirilip<\/strong> seviyesiz tart\u0131\u015fmalara, kavgalara yol a\u00e7aca\u011f\u0131ndan.
\nKorkuyordur, anla\u015f\u0131lamay\u0131p lin\u00e7 edilebilece\u011finden.
\n<\/strong>\u00d6yle ya ger\u00e7ek hayatta dahi \u00e7ok de\u011feri olmayan bilginin, birikimin, farkl\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncenin, sanal alemde de\u011fer bulmas\u0131n\u0131 beklemek safl\u0131k olmaz m\u0131?<\/strong><\/p>\n
\n<\/strong>Bilirsiniz, anla\u015f\u0131lamamak ac\u0131 verir insana, anla\u015f\u0131lmaksa b\u00fcy\u00fck mutluluk.
\n<\/strong>Sosyal medyan\u0131n b\u00f6ylesi kocaman bir riski var i\u015fte!
\nPayla\u015f\u0131lanlar\u0131 incelemeden, yaz\u0131lanlar\u0131 okumadan, anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmadan<\/strong> hemen yarg\u0131lamak, etiketlemek, a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lamak\u2026
\nY\u00fcreklere, bileklere basmaktan<\/strong> b\u00fcy\u00fck zevk almak.
\nK\u0131rmak, d\u00f6kmek\u2026
\nOysa ne b\u00fcy\u00fck nimet insan\u0131n oturdu\u011fu yerde \u00e7ay\u0131n\u0131 yudumlarken<\/strong>, meyvesini yerken bilgi sahibi olmas\u0131, muhataplar\u0131yla bulu\u015fmas\u0131, konu\u015fmas\u0131, yaz\u0131\u015fmas\u0131, duygu ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri payla\u015fmas\u0131,<\/strong> yeni fikirlere kavu\u015fmas\u0131<\/p>\n
\nSosyal medyada samimiyetle payla\u015f\u0131lan bir yaz\u0131ya, payla\u015f\u0131mc\u0131ya\u2026 kendisi gibi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmedi\u011fi i\u00e7in b\u00fcy\u00fck, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck demeden, kabaca ve kurals\u0131zca sald\u0131racak kadar sayg\u0131s\u0131z, tahamm\u00fcls\u00fcz olanlar,
\nBuna ra\u011fmen \u201cBen, asalet ve zarafetin timsali bir \u00c7erkes\u2019im!\u201d<\/strong> s\u00f6ylemine s\u0131\u011f\u0131nacak kadar pi\u015fkin tav\u0131r sergileyenler\u2026
\n\u201cBen de duygu ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerimi sosyal medyada payla\u015fay\u0131m, k\u00fclt\u00fcr birikimine benim de katk\u0131m olsun.\u201d Diyen iyi niyetli ki\u015filer ne yaz\u0131k ki yukar\u0131da bahsedilen yaman \u00e7eli\u015fki girdab\u0131n\u0131n sakinleri<\/strong> taraf\u0131ndan ku\u015fat\u0131l\u0131yor.
\nHayat tecr\u00fcbesi fazlaym\u0131\u015f, bilgi ve birikime sahipmi\u015f, iyi niyetliymi\u015f\u2026 Hi\u00e7 fark etmez, bu samimi kesim, \u00e7ekinir bu tahamm\u00fcls\u00fcz<\/strong> kesimden.
\nSahi siz, s\u00f6zc\u00fcklerinizi pamuklara sararak<\/strong> toplumu, k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc ilgilendiren bir eksi\u011fi bir yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131 belirtirken korkmuyor, \u00e7ekinmiyor musunuz bu harami \u00e7etesinden?
\nBu kayg\u0131s\u0131zlardan, bu tahamm\u00fcls\u00fczlerden, bu kural tan\u0131mayan asalet ve zarafetin(!) temsilcilerinden?<\/p>\n
\n<\/strong>Kendi jargonuyla <\/strong>marjinal bir kesime hitap eden, afra tafray\u0131 marifet sanan, k\u0131r\u0131k d\u00f6k\u00fck ifadelerle \u00f6fke sa\u00e7an, <\/strong>tepkiselli\u011fi hayat felsefesi haline getirmi\u015f ki\u015filerin varl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ne yaz\u0131k ki ac\u0131 ama ger\u00e7ek.
\nGer\u00e7e\u011fi g\u00f6rmemek, kabullenmemek de olmaz ki!
\nOlacak, elbette olacak kendisi gibi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeyen, herkesle \u00f6fke krizi ya\u015fayanlar.
\nOlacak, \u201cBen bilirim, sadece ben bilirim hem de en iyisini ben bilirim.\u201d<\/strong> Diyenler.
\nBu kesimi ciddiye almak, bunlardan \u00e7ekinerek yaz\u0131 yazmamak, payla\u015f\u0131mlara kat\u0131lmamak ne derece do\u011fru?
\nBilmem ki bunlar\u0131, yaz\u0131n\u0131n, yorumlar\u0131n baharat\u0131, ac\u0131s\u0131, farkl\u0131 tatland\u0131r\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 olarak g\u00f6rmek mi laz\u0131m?<\/p>\n
\n<\/strong>Zordur kabala\u015fmadan <\/strong>d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri a\u00e7\u0131klamak, ele\u015ftiri \u00fcslubunu bilmek.
\nZordur kar\u015f\u0131 taraf\u0131 anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak, empati <\/strong>kurabilmek.
\nZordur zarif insan olmak.
\nVesselam!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"