{"id":2699,"date":"2019-02-23T15:50:08","date_gmt":"2019-02-23T15:50:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=2699"},"modified":"2019-02-23T15:50:08","modified_gmt":"2019-02-23T15:50:08","slug":"oyle-zamanlar-olur-ki","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/oyle-zamanlar-olur-ki\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00d6YLE ZAMANLAR OLUR K\u0130!"},"content":{"rendered":"

BABUG Ergun Y\u0131ld\u0131z
\n<\/span><\/b> 28.01.2006<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00d6yle zamanlar olur ki;<\/b> s\u00f6zc\u00fckler dilinizin ucuna gelir gider. Yutars\u0131n\u0131z ya da yutkunur yutmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n

Bilirsiniz ki, bo\u011faz\u0131n\u0131za yumruk gibi oturan o s\u00f6z\u00fc s\u00f6ylerseniz b\u00fcy\u00fck bir ferahl\u0131k duyacaks\u0131n\u0131z, \u00fczerinizden a\u011f\u0131r bir y\u00fck kalkt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hissedeceksiniz.<\/p>\n

Fakat yine bilirsiniz ki, sizi \u00e7ok ferahlat\u0131p huzura erdirecek ifadeler ba\u015fka s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar yaratacak, genel manada ba\u015fka\u00a0 huzursuzluklara neden olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Susars\u0131n\u0131z \u00e7aresiz…<\/p>\n

\u00d6yle zamanlar olur ki;<\/b>\u00a0 g\u00fcl\u00fcmseyerek size elini uzat\u0131p s\u0131ms\u0131k\u0131 tutan ki\u015finin; o esnada y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fcze de\u011fil de omzunuzun \u00fcst\u00fcnden ba\u015fka bir yerlere bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz.<\/p>\n

Anlars\u0131n\u0131z ki; o anda muhteremin, bir formaliteyi yerine getirmekten ibaret olan samimiyetsiz seremonisine alet oluyorsunuz. \u00c7ekip alamazs\u0131n\u0131z elinizi.<\/p>\n

O b\u0131rak\u0131ncaya kadar beklersiniz \u00e7aresiz…<\/p>\n

\u00d6yle zamanlar olur ki; kaybedenlerin galip gibi davrand\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zlemlersiniz y\u00fcre\u011finiz buruk. Bir an \u015feytana uymak gelir i\u00e7inizden. Galip gibi davranana durumunu hat\u0131rlatmak istersiniz, fakat bilirsiniz ki,\u00a0 hakikat ki\u015fiyi de\u011fi\u015ftirecek olsa zaten kaybetmi\u015f olmak ger\u00e7e\u011finden sonra b\u00f6yle bir sahne ya\u015fanmazd\u0131.<\/p>\n

Bunu da yutars\u0131n\u0131z…<\/p>\n

\u00d6yle zamanlar olur ki;<\/b> t\u00fcm i\u00e7tenli\u011finizle\u00a0 inand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z, hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n merkezine koydu\u011funuz konularda ba\u015fka ki\u015filerin ince politikalar\u0131n\u0131 ince hesaplar\u0131n\u0131 hissedersiniz.<\/p>\n

Hatta hissetmekle kalmaz; birilerinin bir ba\u015fkalar\u0131na, bu politikalar\u0131n bir yerlerinde vakti gelince kullan\u0131lmak \u00fczere kutusunda bekletilen piyon muamelesi yapmak istedi\u011fini fark edersiniz.<\/p>\n

Yutkunursunuz, yutamazs\u0131n\u0131z, t\u00fck\u00fcrmek istersiniz, o da \u00c7erkes’e yak\u0131\u015fmaz…<\/p>\n

\u00d6yle zamanlar olur ki;<\/b> adam size parma\u011f\u0131yla g\u00f6ky\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc i\u015faret ederken altta ayaklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n dibinden suyun y\u00fckseldi\u011fini hissedersiniz, yinede e\u011filip a\u015fa\u011f\u0131ya bakmazs\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n

Y\u00fckselen suyu hissetmedi\u011finiz i\u00e7in de\u011fil, size bir \u015fey anlatmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan o adam\u0131n samimiyetine g\u00fcvenmek istedi\u011finiz i\u00e7indir ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131z yukar\u0131da bekleyi\u015finiz.<\/p>\n

Bile bile bo\u011faz\u0131n\u0131za kadar batars\u0131n\u0131z \u00e7aresiz.<\/p>\n

<\/span> <\/p>\n

<\/span><\/span> Bizler ya\u015fam\u0131n pek \u00e7ok an\u0131nda \u015fu yukar\u0131da bahsetti\u011fim “\u00f6yle zamanlar”dan birisini ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f\u0131zd\u0131r mutlaka.<\/p>\n

Aslolan bu durumu kazas\u0131z, belas\u0131z atlatabilecek olgunlukta olmakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Birey i\u00e7in de ge\u00e7erlidir bu kural, toplum i\u00e7in de.<\/p>\n

Tart\u0131\u015f\u0131yoruz, tart\u0131\u015fmakta ve tart\u0131\u015fma konusu yaratmakta da \u00fcst\u00fcm\u00fcze yok evelallah.<\/p>\n

Bu tart\u0131\u015fmalarda zaman zaman en u\u00e7 noktalara kadar birbirimizi s\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz oluyor.<\/p>\n

Bu da do\u011fald\u0131r asl\u0131nda, kar\u015f\u0131t fikirlerin m\u00fccadelesidir en nihayetinde hayat.<\/p>\n

Fakat e\u011fer bu m\u00fccadele; ayn\u0131 cephedeki insanlardan bir k\u0131sm\u0131n\u0131n, di\u011fer bir k\u0131sm\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7emberin d\u0131\u015f\u0131na itmesi bi\u00e7imine d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrse bundan herkes zarar g\u00f6r\u00fcr. O nedenle dileyelim de bizdeki tart\u0131\u015fmalar hi\u00e7 bir zaman bu t\u00fcr bir hal almas\u0131n, zaten yeterince sorunumuz var, bir de \u00fcst\u00fc kapal\u0131 iti\u015f kak\u0131\u015fla kaybedecek zaman\u0131m\u0131z yok.<\/p>\n

\u00d6zet \u015fudur: \u00c7ocuk hem anan\u0131n hem baban\u0131nd\u0131r.<\/b><\/p>\n

Fakat ona sahip olmak ad\u0131na birer kolundan tutup par\u00e7alad\u0131klar\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fclmemi\u015ftir bu g\u00fcne kadar.<\/p>\n

Umal\u0131m da \u00a0bu g\u00fcne kadar\u00a0 g\u00f6r\u00fclmeyen bizde ortaya \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131n.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

BABUG Ergun Yıldız 28.01.2006 Öyle zamanlar olur ki; sözcükler dilinizin ucuna gelir gider. Yutarsınız ya da yutkunur yutmaya çalışırsınız. Bilirsiniz ki, boğazınıza yumruk gibi oturan o sözü söylerseniz büyük bir ferahlık duyacaksınız, üzerinizden ağır bir yük kalktığını hissedeceksiniz. Fakat yine bilirsiniz ki, sizi çok ferahlatıp huzura erdirecek ifadeler başka sıkıntılar yaratacak, genel manada başka  huzursuzluklara 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