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YEMUZ Nevzat Tarak\u00e7\u0131<\/strong><\/p>\n Bu yaz\u0131da, \u201cxabze\u201dnin giremedi\u011fi d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn salonlar\u0131n\u0131, gelin ve damad\u0131n giremedi\u011fi k\u00f6y d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnlerimizi konu\u015fal\u0131m. XABZE, TAR\u0130H\u0130N DER\u0130NL\u0130\u011e\u0130NE DEM\u0130R ATMI\u015e KURALLAR DE\u011e\u0130L Hi\u00e7bir bilin\u00e7li ve duyarl\u0131 \u00c7erkes, xabzenin gereksiz ve \u00f6nemsiz oldu\u011fundan bahsedemez. Bu ger\u00e7e\u011fe muhalefet eden her kimse, hangi ses tonuyla, hangi sevecenlikle s\u00f6z sarf ederse etsin xabzeye en \u00e7ok zarar veren, <\/strong>gen\u00e7leri k\u00fclt\u00fcrden en \u00e7ok uzakla\u015ft\u0131ran odur.<\/p>\n \u00c7ERKES OLMANIN A\u011eIR SORUMLULU\u011eU \u201cNerede eski d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnler,<\/strong> g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn, \u00e7oluk \u00e7ocu\u011fa kald\u0131.\u201d Deyip d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnden s\u0131tk\u0131n\u0131 s\u0131y\u0131ran yeti\u015fkinlerin s\u00fcrekli gen\u00e7leri ele\u015ftirme tavr\u0131 k\u00fclt\u00fcrel duyarl\u0131l\u0131kla asla izah edilemez.<\/p>\n \u201cXABZE\u201d N\u0130N KATLED\u0130LD\u0130\u011e\u0130 D\u00dc\u011e\u00dcN SALONLARI \u00a0<\/strong>D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn sahipleri program i\u00e7eri\u011fini detayland\u0131rmad\u0131ysa kat\u0131l\u0131mc\u0131lar\u0131n y\u00fczde y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fcn \u00c7erkes oldu\u011fu bir d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde Garmon, akordiyon, m\u0131z\u0131ka, pha\u00e7i\u00e7, doli\u2026 boynunu b\u00fckm\u00fc\u015f bir halde<\/strong> k\u00f6\u015fede bekler. GEL\u0130N ve DAMADIN YOK SAYILDI\u011eI K\u00d6Y D\u00dc\u011e\u00dcNLER\u0130 G\u00fcl\u00fcp ge\u00e7emeyiz, toplumun her kesimini birle\u015ftiren, her karesinde tarih ve k\u00fclt\u00fcr kodlar\u0131n\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131yan<\/strong> d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnlerimizin korunmas\u0131, ya\u015fat\u0131lmas\u0131 son derece \u00f6nemli. \u00c7A\u011eA UYARLANAN XABZE K\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fcze en b\u00fcy\u00fck zarar, de\u011fi\u015fimi, d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm\u00fc anlamayan<\/strong>, bilin\u00e7siz ve umutsuzca eskide direnen ezber bozmay\u0131 bilmeyen kesimden gelir. SON S\u00d6Z <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" YEMUZ Nevzat Tarakçı Bu yazıda, “xabze”nin giremediği düğün salonlarını, gelin ve damadın giremediği köy düğünlerimizi konuşalım. “Bu düğün salonunda xabze itinayla katledilir!” İfadesinin yazılı olduğu tabela, giriş duvarında asılı olsaydı tam olacaktı. “Bu salonda; garmon, akordiyon ve mızıka katılımcılar gibi düğün süresince boynu bükük halde bekleyecektir!” İfadesinin yer aldığı kartlar da masada daha görünür olmalıydı. 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\n\u201cBu d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn salonunda xabze itinayla katledilir!<\/strong>\u201d\u00a0 \u0130fadesinin yaz\u0131l\u0131 oldu\u011fu tabela, giri\u015f duvar\u0131nda as\u0131l\u0131 olsayd\u0131 tam olacakt\u0131.
\n\u201cBu salonda; garmon, akordiyon ve m\u0131z\u0131ka<\/strong> kat\u0131l\u0131mc\u0131lar gibi d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn s\u00fcresince boynu b\u00fck\u00fck halde bekleyecektir<\/strong>!\u201d \u0130fadesinin yer ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 kartlar da masada daha g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr olmal\u0131yd\u0131.
\nK\u00f6y\/k\u0131r d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnlerimizde herkes d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde, gelin ve damat nerede?
\n<\/strong>Xabze, d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn, damat ve gelin\u2026 Gelin ve damats\u0131z d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnler\u2026 D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnlerine s\u0131\u011fmayan gelin ve damatlar\u2026
\nYoksa biz, xabzeyi ve \u00c7erkes olman\u0131n a\u011f\u0131r sorumlulu\u011funu<\/strong> b\u00f6yle mi anl\u0131yoruz?<\/p>\n
\n<\/strong>Sizce de \u201cG\u00fcncel \u00c7erkes d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc nas\u0131l olmal\u0131?\u201d konusu \u00f6nem arz etmiyor mu?
\n\u00c7o\u011fu d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnlerimizin peri\u015fan hali<\/strong> sizleri de rahats\u0131z etmiyor mu?
\nD\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnlerimiz xabze ikliminde<\/strong> yeniden g\u00fcncellenmeli de\u011fil mi?
\nXabze sand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z baz\u0131 yanl\u0131\u015flar<\/strong> d\u00fczeltilmeli de\u011fil mi?<\/p>\n
\nAma hi\u00e7bir duyarl\u0131 ve bilin\u00e7li \u00c7erkes de xabzeyi tarihin derinli\u011fine demir atm\u0131\u015f<\/strong>, de\u011fi\u015fime kapal\u0131 davran\u0131\u015flar b\u00fct\u00fcn\u00fc olarak tan\u0131mlamaz.
\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc xabze, tarihin derinli\u011fine demir atm\u0131\u015f, de\u011fi\u015fime kapal\u0131 davran\u0131\u015flar b\u00fct\u00fcn\u00fc de\u011fil, i\u00e7inde de\u011fi\u015fimi, geli\u015fimi, hayat\u0131n g\u00fcncel renklerini ta\u015f\u0131yan<\/strong>, kendini yenileyen, ya\u015fayan, canl\u0131 kurallard\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n
\n<\/strong>Malum, sezon, d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn sezonu. San\u0131r\u0131m hepimizin temennisi, gelini ve damad\u0131 \u00c7erkes olan<\/strong>, k\u00fclt\u00fcr \u00f6gelerini ta\u015f\u0131yan d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnlerin co\u015fkusunu ya\u015famak, d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne ruh veren gen\u00e7lerin duru\u015funu alk\u0131\u015flamak. <\/strong><\/p>\n
\n<\/strong>E\u011fer k\u00fclt\u00fcrel \u00f6geleriyle icra edilece\u011fi beklentisiyle salonu dolduran y\u00fczlerce insan<\/strong>, hayat\u0131nda hi\u00e7 \u00c7erkes d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6rmemi\u015f bir salon g\u00f6revlisinin insaf\u0131na<\/strong> terk edilecekse bu d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn sahipleri ve d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn i\u00e7in s\u00f6ylenecek s\u00f6z yok demektir.<\/p>\n
\nAma d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn son karesinde salon sakinlerini mutu etmeyi unutmazlar, orgdan bir \u201c\u015eamil\u201d dinletiverirler<\/strong> salona. Ve alk\u0131\u015flar!
\n\u015een \u015fakrak bir halde dostlar\u0131n mutlulu\u011funu payla\u015fmaya gidilen mek\u00e2n, k\u00fclt\u00fcrel duyarl\u0131l\u0131\u011fa sahip ki\u015filer i\u00e7in xabze katledilmi\u015f ve mek\u00e2n adeta i\u015fkence merkezine d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015f<\/strong> olabilir.<\/p>\n
\n<\/strong>Gelelim damad\u0131, gelini ve t\u00fcm kat\u0131l\u0131mc\u0131lar\u0131 \u00c7erkes olan k\u00f6y d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnlerine.
\n– Yahu bu g\u00fczel d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn gelini ve damad\u0131 nerede?
\n<\/strong>– Efendim xabze i\u015fte, gelin ve damat d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne giremez, girdi diyelim oynayamaz!
\nBu g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde kabul edilebilecek bir uygulama m\u0131?
\nKendi d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnlerine giremeyen<\/strong>, kendi d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnlerini g\u00f6remeyen damat ve gelin.
\nBunu xabzenin hangi maddesine dayand\u0131r\u0131yoruz?<\/p>\n
\nAma mantaliteyi de\u011fi\u015ftirmezsek<\/strong> d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnler elimizde patlad\u0131, patlayacak!<\/strong><\/p>\n
\n<\/strong>Umutsuzlu\u011fa gerek yok.
\nBiz yeter ki \u201cAllah a\u015fk\u0131na g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde xabze m\u0131 kald\u0131, ne yaparsan odur xabze!\u201d<\/strong> demeyelim.
\nGen\u00e7lere de \u201cBu as\u0131rda b\u00f6yle \u00e7a\u011fd\u0131\u015f\u0131 d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn m\u00fc olur?\u201d<\/strong> dedirtmeyelim.
\nYeter ki biz, ruhu korunmu\u015f, \u015fekli de\u011fi\u015fmi\u015f, \u00e7a\u011fa uyarlanm\u0131\u015f d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn mant\u0131\u011f\u0131yla bulu\u015fman\u0131n yollar\u0131n\u0131 arayal\u0131m.<\/p>\n
\nAsla unutulmas\u0131n, xabze tarihin derinli\u011fine demir atm\u0131\u015f de\u011fi\u015fime kapal\u0131 davran\u0131\u015flar de\u011fil, i\u00e7inde de\u011fi\u015fimi, hayat\u0131n g\u00fcncel renklerini ta\u015f\u0131yan, kendini yenileyen, ya\u015fayan, canl\u0131 kurallar b\u00fct\u00fcn\u00fcd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n
\n<\/strong>Gen\u00e7lerin, ruhu korunarak g\u00fcncelle\u015ftirilen xabzeyi \u00f6z\u00fcmsedi\u011fi, bu k\u00fclt\u00fcr kodlar\u0131n\u0131 i\u00e7selle\u015ftirdi\u011fi<\/strong>, yeti\u015fkinlerin faturay\u0131 gen\u00e7lere kesmeden gen\u00e7lerin destek\u00e7isi oldu\u011fu d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnlerimiz k\u00fclt\u00fcrel zenginlik kaynaklar\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r.
\nD\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc nerede ve ne \u015fekilde yap\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 elbette \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli ama as\u0131l \u00f6nemli olan<\/strong> m\u00fcmk\u00fcnse \u00c7erkes\u2019in \u00c7erkes\u2019le evlenmesidir.
\n\u00c7erkes \u00c7erkes\u2019le evlenmiyorsa\/evlenemiyorsa<\/strong> d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn kurallar\u0131n\u0131n xabzeye uyup uymad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n ne \u00f6nemi kal\u0131r ki\u2026<\/p>\n