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YEMUZ Nevzat Tarak\u00e7\u0131<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cMarifet, iltifata tabidir.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc \u00e7ok severim. S\u0130Z\u0130 ANLAYAMIYORUM H\u0130\u00c7 M\u0130 ELE\u015eT\u0130R\u0130YE TAHAMM\u00dcL\u00dcN\u00dcZ YOK S\u0130Z\u0130N? SAH\u0130 S\u0130Z G\u00d6N\u00dcL M\u00dc E\u011eLEND\u0130R\u0130YORSUNUZ? B\u0130RB\u0130R\u0130M\u0130Z\u0130 ELE\u015eT\u0130RMEDEN NASIL DO\u011eRUYU BULACA\u011eIZ? YA \u201cEYVALLAH!\u201d DE YA DA \u201cEYVAH!\u201d \u0130Y\u0130 K\u0130 VARSINIZ! YEMUZ Nevzat Tarakçı “Marifet, iltifata tabidir.” sözünü çok severim. “Biz, toplum olarak takdir etmenin yapıcı gücüne fazlaca inanmadığımız için olsa gerek bolca olumsuz ve yıkıcı eleştiri yapmayı seviyoruz.” Sözüne de katılmıyor değilim. Gel gör ki insanı çıldırtan manzaralar da eksik olmuyor. Neden herkesi kucaklayacak bir olgunluk sergilemiyorsunuz? Neden farklı fikirlere değer vermiyorsunuz? Neden her yapılan eleştiriyi, olumlu ve yapıcı bir tepkiye dönüştürme gayreti yok sizde? 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\n\u201cBiz, toplum olarak\u00a0takdir etmenin yap\u0131c\u0131 g\u00fcc\u00fcne<\/strong>\u00a0fazlaca inanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in olsa gerek bolca olumsuz ve y\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 ele\u015ftiri yapmay\u0131 seviyoruz.\u201d S\u00f6z\u00fcne de kat\u0131lm\u0131yor de\u011filim.
\nGel g\u00f6r ki\u00a0insan\u0131 \u00e7\u0131ld\u0131rtan<\/strong>\u00a0manzaralar da eksik olmuyor.
\nNeden\u00a0herkesi kucaklayacak bir olgunluk<\/strong>\u00a0sergilemiyorsunuz?
\nNeden\u00a0farkl\u0131 fikirlere<\/strong>\u00a0de\u011fer vermiyorsunuz?
\nNeden her yap\u0131lan ele\u015ftiriyi,\u00a0olumlu ve yap\u0131c\u0131 bir tepkiye<\/strong>\u00a0d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrme gayreti yok sizde?
\nBu \u00f6fke ni\u00e7in?
\nHer konu\u015fmas\u0131nda, her tavr\u0131nda,\u00a0\u201cBen, bu k\u00fclt\u00fcr ad\u0131na konu\u015fma yetkisine sahip biriyim!\u201d <\/strong>diyen y\u00f6neticilerimizden baz\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n s\u00f6ylemleri, tav\u0131rlar\u0131 ve k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck hesaplar\u0131, duyarl\u0131 ve\u00a0bilin\u00e7li kesimi \u00e7ileden \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131yor.<\/strong><\/p>\n
\n<\/strong>Ufak bir ele\u015ftiriye tahamm\u00fcl edemeyen y\u00f6neticilerimiz sizi anlayam\u0131yorum.
\nMerak\u0131mdan soruyorum:
\nNedendir bu k\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131k?
\nBu her daim\u00a0\u00f6vg\u00fc beklentisi<\/strong>\u00a0neyin nesi?
\nSiz ne zaman her ele\u015ftiriden\u00a0hikmet dev\u015firecek k\u0131vama<\/strong>\u00a0geleceksiniz?
\nYoksa \u201cBeklemek nafile!\u201d mi dersiniz?
\nE\u011fer ama\u00e7 topluma hizmet, k\u00fclt\u00fcre katk\u0131ysa bu\u00a0afra tafralar<\/strong>\u00a0ni\u00e7in ve kime?
\nBu\u00a0ahbap \u00e7avu\u015f<\/strong>\u00a0ili\u015fkisi ni\u00e7in?<\/p>\n
\n<\/strong>Biz, toplum olarak\u00a0<\/strong>birbirimizin yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131, eksi\u011fini g\u00f6rmeden, g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz olumsuzluklar\u0131 \u00fcslubuna uygun\u00a0payla\u015fmadan\u00a0<\/strong>nas\u0131l do\u011fruyu bulaca\u011f\u0131z?
\nCan\u0131m karde\u015fim, ben seni ele\u015ftiremez miyim?
\nSiz ele\u015ftirilemez biri misiniz?
\nSiz konumunuza ve ki\u015fili\u011finize nas\u0131l bir anlam y\u00fcklediniz, anlamakta zorlan\u0131yorum.
\nSiz ger\u00e7ekten u\u00e7mu\u015fsunuz!
\n<\/strong>K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir derne\u011fin yapabilece\u011fi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck profilde bir \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 ola\u011fan\u00fcst\u00fc bir ba\u015far\u0131 san\u0131yorsunuz.
\nKendinize gelin, toplumumuz kimin ne yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ad\u0131m ad\u0131m izliyor.
\n<\/strong>Toplumun bir kesimi, ele\u015ftiriyi bildi\u011fi kadar, takdir edilmesi gerekenleri\u00a0takdir etmesini<\/strong>\u00a0de biliyor.
\nA\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7as\u0131 biz, sizi bu toplum ve\u00a0bu k\u00fclt\u00fcre hizmet etmek<\/strong> i\u00e7in bu makama gelmi\u015f kabul ediyoruz.
\nYan\u0131l\u0131yor muyuz yoksa?
\nYoksa siz, ki\u015fisel \u00e7\u0131karlar,\u00a0basit hesapla\u015fmalar<\/strong>\u00a0pe\u015finde misiniz?<\/p>\n
\n<\/strong>De\u011ferli y\u00f6neticim, sizi bilmem ama benim\u00a0b\u00fcy\u00fck sanc\u0131m var!
\n<\/strong>G\u00fcn g\u00fcn eriyen k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn, unutulmak \u00fczere olan dilin, savrulmu\u015f gen\u00e7li\u011fin, ilgisizli\u011fin, umutsuzlu\u011fun, umursamazl\u0131\u011f\u0131n, gafletin\u2026 sanc\u0131s\u0131.
\n<\/strong>Siz bana, \u201cBeni ele\u015ftirmeyin, beni ele\u015ftiremezsiniz!\u201d diyorsunuz.
\nNas\u0131l olacak bu?
\nKo\u015fmas\u0131 gerekenler duruyor, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 gerekenler esniyor, susmas\u0131 gerekenler konu\u015fuyorsa sizce de bir yanl\u0131\u015fl\u0131k yok mu bu i\u015fte?
\n<\/strong>Hani toplumu bilin\u00e7lendirme faaliyeti?
\nHani di\u015fe dokunur \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma, hani proje?
\nG\u00fcld\u00fcrmeyin Allah a\u015fk\u0131na?
\n<\/strong>Siz, belli aral\u0131klarla\u00a0\u201cKaf Da\u011f\u0131\u201d<\/strong>\u00a0kadar gaflar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 tekrarlay\u0131p durun.
\nSiz, sizin gibi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeyenlerin\u00a0dedikodusuyla<\/strong>\u00a0beslenin!
\nSiz, tahamm\u00fcl, ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fc, sab\u0131r nedir bilmeyin.
\nSiz, siz \u00e7al\u0131n siz oynay\u0131n, biz de sizi seyredelim, alk\u0131\u015flayal\u0131m.
\nOlur, olur hem de g\u00fczel olur!
\nDil unutulmu\u015f, k\u00fclt\u00fcr erimi\u015f, gen\u00e7lik savrulmu\u015f ne \u00f6nemi var.
\n<\/strong>Hadi birlikte \u00e7al\u0131p oynayal\u0131m!<\/p>\n
\n<\/strong>Unutmayal\u0131m,\u00a0ele\u015ftiriye tahamm\u00fcl<\/strong>\u00a0edememek, insan\u0131n hayattaki en b\u00fcy\u00fck yanl\u0131\u015flar\u0131ndan biridir.
\nYoksa siz, bu kadar ac\u0131 ve sanc\u0131 \u00fczerine s\u00fcrekli olarak\u00a0alk\u0131\u015flanmak,<\/strong>\u00a0yap\u0131lan yanl\u0131\u015flar\u0131 g\u00f6z ard\u0131 ederek her ne \u015fart alt\u0131nda olursa olsun ele\u015ftirilmeden s\u00fcrekli s\u0131rt\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n s\u0131vazlanmas\u0131n\u0131 m\u0131<\/strong> istiyorsunuz?
\nOh, ne ala memleket!
\nEle\u015ftiri yapmadan, birbirimizin\u00a0yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131, eksi\u011fini s\u00f6ylemeden<\/strong>\u00a0daha iyiyi, daha g\u00fczeli nas\u0131l yakalayaca\u011f\u0131z?
\n\u0130nan\u0131n ben anlamakta zorlan\u0131yorum.<\/p>\n
\n<\/strong>Ne garip de\u011fil mi?
\nSiz, gayet samimi duygularla asla\u00a0k\u0131rmadan d\u00f6kmeden bir ele\u015ftiri<\/strong>\u00a0yap\u0131yorsunuz.
\nMuhatab\u0131n\u0131z hiddet ve \u015fiddetle size sald\u0131r\u0131yor.
\nY\u00f6netici karde\u015fim ke\u015fke\u00a0\u201cEyvallah!\u201d<\/strong>\u00a0diyemiyorsan da en az\u0131ndan\u00a0\u201cEyvah!\u201d<\/strong>\u00a0diyebilseydin.
\nUmar\u0131m bu ele\u015ftiriye tahamm\u00fcl edememenin alt\u0131nda\u00a0\u00f6zg\u00fcven eksikli\u011fi<\/strong>\u00a0yatm\u0131yordur.
\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kendine g\u00fcvenen insan,\u00a0fikrini de kendini de ele\u015ftirir<\/strong>, bunlar\u0131n ele\u015ftirilmesine anlay\u0131\u015f g\u00f6sterir.
\nUnutma,\u00a0hayat\u0131n zor virajlar\u0131<\/strong>, ancak ele\u015ftiriye a\u00e7\u0131k olabilmekle a\u015f\u0131l\u0131r.
\nEle\u015ftiri yapmak ve ele\u015ftiriye a\u00e7\u0131k olmak ne g\u00fczel erdem.
\nBu iki nitelik<\/strong>, ahenk i\u00e7inde bir insanda bir araya gelirse o insan y\u00f6netici de olabilir yetkili de\u2026
\nSevgili dostum, sen hizmet makam\u0131ndas\u0131n,\u00a0hizmet \u00fcreteceksin<\/strong>\u00a0dedikodu ve bahane de\u011fil.<\/p>\n
\n<\/strong>R\u00fcyalar\u0131nda bile bu k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn ya\u015fat\u0131lmas\u0131 projeleriyle u\u011fra\u015fan, projenin ne oldu\u011funu bilen, toplumu tan\u0131yan, b\u00f6lmek i\u00e7in de\u011fil birle\u015ftirmek <\/strong>\u00e7abas\u0131nda olan, y\u00fcre\u011fi samimiyet ve hizmet a\u015fk\u0131yla dolu de\u011ferli y\u00f6neticilerimiz, iyi ki vars\u0131n\u0131z!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"