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YEMUZ Nevzat Tarak\u00e7\u0131<\/strong><\/p>\n E\u015fimiz, dostumuz ve \u00e7evremize dikkatlice bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda ayn\u0131 tarihi, ayn\u0131 k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc payla\u015fan<\/strong> insanlar\u0131n dahi ne kadar farkl\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015flere, farkl\u0131 ki\u015filiklere sahip oldu\u011funu g\u00f6r\u00fcyor, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman da \u015fa\u015f\u0131r\u0131yoruz \u00c7E\u015e\u0130T \u00c7E\u015e\u0130T \u00c7ERKES <\/strong> DO\u011eRU OLAN HANG\u0130S\u0130 ESAS SORU BU NOT:<\/strong> T\u00fcrkiye, 6 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki \u201c\u00e7ocuk gelin\u201d<\/strong> olay\u0131n\u0131 konu\u015fuyor. YEMUZ Nevzat Tarakçı Eşimiz, dostumuz ve çevremize dikkatlice baktığımızda aynı tarihi, aynı kültürü paylaşan insanların dahi ne kadar farklı görüşlere, farklı kişiliklere sahip olduğunu görüyor, çoğu zaman da şaşırıyoruz Aynı yolun yolcusu, aynı davanın savunucusu olduğunu sandığımız kişilerin aslında ne kadar farklı görüşlere sahip olduğunu, çok farklı kişiliklerden oluştuğunu görmek, bu gerçekle yüzleşmek katkı sağlamalı 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\nAyn\u0131 yolun yolcusu, ayn\u0131 davan\u0131n savunucusu oldu\u011funu sand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ki\u015filerin asl\u0131nda ne kadar farkl\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015flere sahip oldu\u011funu, \u00e7ok farkl\u0131 ki\u015filiklerden olu\u015ftu\u011funu g\u00f6rmek<\/strong>, bu ger\u00e7ekle y\u00fczle\u015fmek katk\u0131 sa\u011flamal\u0131 insana.
\nElbette herkes herkese benzemek, ayn\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri payla\u015fmak<\/strong> zorunda de\u011fil ancak ayn\u0131 davan\u0131n<\/strong> yolcular\u0131n\u0131n ortak noktalar\u0131, asgari m\u00fc\u015fterekleri <\/strong>olmal\u0131 de\u011fil mi<\/p>\n
\n\u00c7evremize, \u015f\u00f6yle bir bakal\u0131m ya da sosyal medya g\u00f6z\u00fcyle e\u015fimizi dostumuzu \u00e7evremizi mercek alt\u0131na alal\u0131m.<\/strong>
\nBakal\u0131m neler g\u00f6rece\u011fiz?
\nK\u0131yamet koparken<\/strong> k\u0131l\u0131 k\u0131p\u0131rdamayanlar,
\nBir ka\u015f\u0131k suda<\/strong> f\u0131rt\u0131na koparanlar, k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fc oyun, dans; tarihini masal sananlar,
\nSosyal medyada k\u0131l\u0131\u00e7 sallamay\u0131 marifet<\/strong> sanan isimsiz kahramanlar,
\nHer yaz\u0131lana, her konu\u015fulana nefret diliyle sald\u0131ranlar,
\n<\/strong>Ne olursa olsun asla etliye, s\u00fctl\u00fcye kar\u0131\u015fmayanlar,
\nSusanlar, susmay\u0131 marifet sananlar,
\nBilmedi\u011fini bilmedi\u011fi halde dili pabu\u00e7 kadar <\/strong>olanlar,
\nBildi\u011fini bildi\u011fi halde susanlar,
\nSusturulmaktan korkanlar<\/strong>,
\nBilenler, bildi\u011fini bilenler ancak lin\u00e7 edilmekten korktu\u011fu<\/strong> i\u00e7in susanlar,
\n\u00d6l\u00fc taklidi yapanlar<\/strong>,
\nKorkusundan, cesaretsizli\u011finden ya da duyars\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan<\/strong> bildiklerini payla\u015famayanlar,
\nTarihine, toplumuna, k\u00fclt\u00fcr ve kimli\u011fine gerekli duyarl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6stermeyenler, bu de\u011ferlerin \u00f6nemini kavramayanlar, bunlar\u0131 bir aksesuar gibi kullananlar, samimiyet ve ciddiyetten uzak \u00e7ok uzak olanlar,
\nY\u00fcre\u011fi k\u00fclt\u00fcr ve toplum sevdas\u0131yla yan\u0131p tutu\u015fanlar, <\/strong>bu de\u011ferler olmadan asla ya\u015fayamayaca\u011f\u0131na inananlar,
\nDava adam\u0131, k\u00fclt\u00fcr insan\u0131, toplum sevdal\u0131s\u0131 bilinen ama derunu darmada\u011f\u0131n\u0131k olanlar\u2026
\nUnutulmas\u0131n burada hedef kitle \u201cBen duyarl\u0131 bir \u00c7erkesim,<\/strong> bu davada var\u0131m ben, bu k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc ancak birlikteli\u011fimiz, duyarl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z, dayan\u0131\u015fmam\u0131z ya\u015fat\u0131r!\u201d diyen kesimdir.
\n\u201cBen bu i\u015fte yokum,<\/strong> benim k\u00fclt\u00fcr, toplum diye bir derdim yok!\u201d diyen kesim kapsam d\u0131\u015f\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n
\n<\/strong>Acaba bir halk\u0131n, toplumuna, k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcne, kimli\u011fine sahip \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131 bu da\u011f\u0131n\u0131kl\u0131kla, bu \u00e7e\u015fitlilikle<\/strong> m\u00fcmk\u00fcn m\u00fc?<\/p>\n
\n<\/strong>Sahi toplumumuz genel anlamda k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fc ya\u015fatma gayretinde mi<\/strong>?
\nCevap evetse halk\u0131m\u0131z bu konuda samimi mi?
\nYoksa bir belirsizlik bir samimiyetsizlik, bir umutsuzluk mu h\u00e2kim ortama?
\nYoksa vitrinimize yans\u0131yanlar makyajl\u0131 c\u0131l\u0131z giri\u015fimler<\/strong> mi?\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n
\n\u0130nsanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n t\u00fckendi\u011fi bir yerdeyiz.
\nBu zihniyeti lanetliyorum.
\n\u00c7erkes halk\u0131n\u0131n en hassas oldu\u011fu konulardan biridir \u201c\u00e7ocuk gelin\u201d konusu.
\n\u00dclkede ya\u015fana bu insanl\u0131k d\u0131\u015f\u0131 uygulama, san\u0131r\u0131m en b\u00fcy\u00fck tepkiyi halk\u0131m\u0131zdan alacakt\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"