{"id":3170,"date":"2019-02-25T13:40:55","date_gmt":"2019-02-25T13:40:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=3170"},"modified":"2019-02-25T13:40:55","modified_gmt":"2019-02-25T13:40:55","slug":"el-pence-divan-durmak","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/el-pence-divan-durmak\/","title":{"rendered":"EL PEN\u00c7E D\u0130VAN DURMAK!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\"><b>Kuban Paul Seauhmann<br \/>\n<\/b><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Arial;\"> 25.06.2003<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00c7erkesler ya\u015fam bi\u00e7imleri nedeniyle, di\u011fer toplumlardan \u00e7ok farkl\u0131 davran\u0131\u015f modelleri sergiledikleri herkes taraf\u0131ndan bilinir. Gencinden ya\u015fl\u0131s\u0131na, t\u00fcm bireyleri \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fcklerini k\u0131s\u0131tlayan her t\u00fcrl\u00fc toplumsal davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 keskin bir tav\u0131rla reddederler. Buna kar\u015f\u0131n b\u0131rak\u0131n kendinden b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc, kendinden k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne bile sayg\u0131nl\u0131k g\u00f6stergesi olan v\u00fccut dilini kullan\u0131rlar. \u00d6rne\u011fin k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn yan\u0131nda bile ayak ayak \u00fcst\u00fcne atmazlar.<\/p>\n<p>Ne oldu da bu v\u00fccut dilimiz, zaman i\u00e7inde k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fcz gibi dejenerasyona u\u011frad\u0131? Bunun sosyolojik de\u011ferlendirmesini yapmak elbette \u00e7ok zaman al\u0131r. Biz daha kestirme yolu tercih edip; k\u0131sa de\u011ferlendirmeler yapal\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Bir \u00c7erkes, hangi ko\u015fullar olursa olsun, birinin yan\u0131nda \u201cel pen\u00e7e divan\u201d durur mu? G\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcy\u00fc g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fczde canland\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda -k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fcz ad\u0131na- son derece \u00e7irkin ve a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lay\u0131c\u0131 bir manzarayla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z. Gerek ekonomik \u00e7\u0131karlar, gerek sosyal \u00e7\u0131karlar bizim \u201cg\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc\u201d ya da \u201cyararlanacak\u201d ki\u015filer ve kurumlar kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda ellerimiz \u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fczde ba\u011fl\u0131, ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131z hafif \u00f6ne e\u011fik durmam\u0131z\u0131 gerektirir mi? \u0130lk bak\u0131\u015fta sayg\u0131 (!) g\u00f6stergesi gibi g\u00f6r\u00fclen bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n, bizden neler g\u00f6t\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc hi\u00e7 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcn\u00fcz m\u00fc? Genel imaj\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 nas\u0131l etkilece\u011fini hesaplad\u0131n\u0131z m\u0131?<\/p>\n<p>D\u00fcnya \u00fczerinde \u00c7erkeslerle ili\u015fkide olan her ulus, bizi tan\u0131mlarken \u201cma\u011frur\u201d ancak \u201cal\u00e7akg\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc\u201d, \u201csert\u201d ama \u201csayg\u0131l\u0131\u201d de\u011ferlendirmeleri yapar. Peki y\u00fczy\u0131llard\u0131r insanlar\u0131 bu denli etkileyen duru\u015fumuz ne oldu da, bir mal, bir i\u015f, bir \u00e7\u0131kar u\u011fruna de\u011fi\u015fti? Neden ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131z \u00f6ne d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcp, ellerimiz \u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fczde birle\u015fti? Onurumuza, gururumuza ne oldu da bu durumlara geldik? 30 y\u0131l \u00f6nce \u00c7erkes bir k\u00f6yl\u00fcn\u00fcn, kendinden ya\u015fca \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck bir kaymakam\u0131n \u00f6pt\u00fcrmek i\u00e7in uzatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 eli \u00f6pmek yerine s\u0131kmas\u0131 ger\u00e7e\u011fi, ne oldu da kendinden k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcklerin yan\u0131nda ba\u015f\u0131 \u00f6nde, el pen\u00e7e bi\u00e7imine d\u00f6nd\u00fc?<\/p>\n<p>Bu denli zavall\u0131 bir toplum mu olduk? De\u011ferlerimiz o kadar \u00e7ok mu asimile oldu? Osmanl\u0131 sadrazam\u0131, padi\u015fah\u0131n\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda el pen\u00e7e durabilirdi. Bunun devam\u0131 olarak cumhuriyet d\u00f6nemi valisinin kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda kaymakam\u0131 da el pen\u00e7e durabilir. \u0130yi de bize ne oldu? Biz neden el pen\u00e7e duruyoruz? Elde etti\u011fimiz kazan\u0131mlar \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli bir davran\u0131\u015f modelimizi yok etmemize de\u011fecek mi?<\/p>\n<p>K\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc geli\u015ftirmek ve korumak amac\u0131yla bile olsa thamadelerimizin el pen\u00e7e divan durmalar\u0131n\u0131 kabullenmek \u00e7ok zor.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc onlar gen\u00e7lere \u00f6rnek oluyorlar. Bir bak\u0131ma yol a\u00e7\u0131yorlar. Biz sayg\u0131l\u0131 davranma modellerimizi b\u00fct\u00fcn d\u00fcnyaya kabullendirmi\u015fiz. \u0130ngiliz, Bulgar, T\u00fcrk, K\u00fcrt hi\u00e7 fark etmezdi gelen ve giden i\u00e7in aya\u011fa kalkard\u0131k. Konuklar\u0131m\u0131z oturmadan oturmazd\u0131k. Ama ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131z dik ve ellerimiz yanlarda olurdu. \u015eimdi ne oldu da ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131z \u00f6ne e\u011fik, el pen\u00e7e divan duruyoruz?<\/p>\n<p>Yan\u0131tlar \u00e7ok basit. \u00c7erkes ya\u015fam bi\u00e7imi her y\u00f6n\u00fcyle katlediliyor. Diliyle, gelenekleriyle, davran\u0131\u015f bi\u00e7imleriyle k\u0131sacas\u0131 her \u015feyi ile yok ediliyor. Buna ba\u015fkald\u0131ramay\u0131p, \u201caz olsun bizim olsun\u201d mant\u0131\u011f\u0131ndakiler de bu yok olmay\u0131 h\u0131zland\u0131r\u0131yor. \u00c7erkeslik ad\u0131na elde etti\u011finiz t\u00fcm maddi kazan\u0131mlar\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131\u015farak, \u00fcreterek elde edebilirsiniz. Ancak yok edilmi\u015f bir k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc b\u0131rak\u0131n \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 verseniz elde etme \u015fans\u0131n\u0131z yok. Bu el pen\u00e7e duran thamadelerimiz Wub\u0131h dilini kurtarabildiler mi? \u015eimdiden sonra kurtarabilirler mi?<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7erkesler g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015flerine \u00e7ok dikkat eden, nadir uluslardan biridir. Bu bir \u00f6v\u00fcn\u00e7 nedeni de\u011fildir. K\u00f6ylerimiz di\u011fer k\u00f6ylerden daha temiz ve d\u00fczenli olur. Evlerimiz di\u011fer evlerden daha g\u00fczel ve s\u0131cak olur. Giydi\u011fimiz elbise belki eskidir, belki yamal\u0131d\u0131r ama temiz ve \u00fct\u00fcl\u00fcd\u00fcr. Hangi g\u00fc\u00e7 bu g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc \u015fimdiki duruma getirdi?<\/p>\n<p>Erkek erke\u011fe yanaktan \u00f6p\u00fc\u015fmeyi, ya\u015fl\u0131lar\u0131n ellerini \u00f6pmeyi kim soktu i\u00e7imize? Bir gen\u00e7 k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n uzanan elini thamadenin terslemesi nas\u0131l bir anlay\u0131\u015f sonucunda olu\u015ftu?<\/p>\n<p>Zay\u0131flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z s\u00fcrece ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n \u00f6ne e\u011filmesine engel olamazs\u0131n\u0131z. G\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc yitirdik\u00e7e elleriniz yanda kans\u0131z kal\u0131r, mutlaka \u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fczde birle\u015ftirip ovu\u015fturman\u0131z gerekir. O zaman? Zay\u0131flamayacaks\u0131n\u0131z. Nas\u0131l olacak? B\u00fcy\u00fck evde oturmaktan vazge\u00e7ip k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck evde oturacaks\u0131n\u0131z. Ancak \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu iyi bir okula g\u00f6ndereceksiniz. Evinizin koltuklar\u0131n\u0131 yenilemeyip evinize bilgisayar alacaks\u0131n\u0131z. Herhangi birinin kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda mahcup olmamak i\u00e7in okuyacaks\u0131n\u0131z. Bir odan\u0131z\u0131 k\u00fct\u00fcphane haline getireceksiniz. D\u00fcnyadaki geli\u015fmeleri, magazin boyutunda izleyemeyeceksiniz. Herkes bir saat \u00fcretiyorsa, siz uykunuzdan fedakarl\u0131k yap\u0131p 2 saat \u00fcreteceksiniz. \u00c7erkesli\u011fi bir k\u00fclt\u00fcr olarak de\u011fil ya\u015fam bi\u00e7imi olarak alg\u0131layacaks\u0131n\u0131z. Yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z hi\u00e7bir i\u015fi \u201claf olsun\u201d diye yapmayacaks\u0131n\u0131z. \u0130deolojinizi \u00c7erkesli\u011fin \u00f6n\u00fcne ge\u00e7irmeyeceksiniz.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte o zaman ense kaslar\u0131n\u0131z geli\u015fir ve ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131z dik durur. Ellerinizdeki kan dola\u015f\u0131m\u0131 normale d\u00f6ner, el pen\u00e7e divan durmak zorunda kalmazs\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"> Son S\u00f6z<\/span><br \/>\n\u00c7erkes, e\u011filince k\u0131r\u0131land\u0131r. (Kuban)<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kuban Paul Seauhmann 25.06.2003 &Ccedil;erkesler ya&#351;am bi&ccedil;imleri nedeniyle, di&#287;er toplumlardan &ccedil;ok farkl&#305; davran&#305;&#351; modelleri sergiledikleri herkes taraf&#305;ndan bilinir. Gencinden ya&#351;l&#305;s&#305;na, t&uuml;m bireyleri &ouml;zg&uuml;rl&uuml;klerini k&#305;s&#305;tlayan her t&uuml;rl&uuml; toplumsal davran&#305;&#351;&#305; keskin bir tav&#305;rla reddederler. Buna kar&#351;&#305;n b&#305;rak&#305;n kendinden b&uuml;y&uuml;&#287;&uuml;n&uuml;, kendinden k&uuml;&ccedil;&uuml;&#287;&uuml;ne bile sayg&#305;nl&#305;k g&ouml;stergesi olan v&uuml;cut dilini kullan&#305;rlar. &Ouml;rne&#287;in k&uuml;&ccedil;&uuml;&#287;&uuml;n&uuml;n yan&#305;nda bile ayak ayak &uuml;st&uuml;ne atmazlar. 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