{"id":3206,"date":"2019-02-25T13:59:49","date_gmt":"2019-02-25T13:59:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=3206"},"modified":"2019-02-25T13:59:49","modified_gmt":"2019-02-25T13:59:49","slug":"iftiranin-dayanilmaz-cazibesi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/iftiranin-dayanilmaz-cazibesi\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0130FT\u0130RANIN DAYANILMAZ CAZ\u0130BES\u0130"},"content":{"rendered":"

Kuban Paul Seauhmann
\n<\/b><\/span> 24.10.2003<\/span><\/p>\n

Ge\u00e7enlerde, bir okuyucumuzdan e-mail geldi.\u00a0 Bizim yaz\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131zdan birini okudu\u011funda Marje\u2019den haberdar olmu\u015f ve \u00fcye olmu\u015f. Ama yaln\u0131z \u00fcye olarak kalmay\u0131 ye\u011flemi\u015f ve olduk\u00e7a ters oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc konularda bile Marje\u2019ye mail atmam\u0131\u015f. 1,5-2 ay \u00f6nce yay\u0131nlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u201cP\u015fine ve \u00d6l\u00fcm\u201d yorumunu okudu\u011funda; \u00e7ok be\u011fendi\u011fini, h\u00fcz\u00fcnlenip a\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 sonra da hi\u00e7 yapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir \u015feyi yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 yazm\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n

\u0130zmir\u2019de doktorluk yapan bu bayan okuyucumuz, o duygularla Marje\u2019ye herkesin okumas\u0131 i\u00e7in bir mail yollam\u0131\u015f. Ard\u0131ndan \u201chayat\u0131mda g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm en ac\u0131mas\u0131z ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesizce yaz\u0131lar yaz\u0131ld\u0131 benim hakk\u0131mda\u201d diye not d\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015f bize g\u00f6nderdi\u011fi yaz\u0131s\u0131na. Daha sonra da karar vermi\u015f bir daha Marje\u2019ye mail yollamam\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n

Bu han\u0131m karde\u015fimizi \u201cMisyonerlik\u201d su\u00e7lamas\u0131yla yan\u0131tlayan \u015fahs\u0131n bunu ne ama\u00e7la yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmiyoruz. Ancak inan\u0131lmaz derecede ilkel bir bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131yla olaylara bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmek de zor olmasa gerek.<\/p>\n

Bu \u015fah\u0131s, yaz\u0131da akordeon ve p\u015finenin anlat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 buna a\u011flayacak neyin oldu\u011funu sormu\u015f?<\/p>\n

Yani bir insan bu yorumu okuyup, b\u00f6yle bir sonuca \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yorsa, han\u0131m karde\u015fimiz kendini bo\u015f yere \u00fczm\u00fc\u015f.<\/p>\n

Biz burada yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z yorumlarda s\u00fcrekli gen\u00e7lerimizin olaylara magazin boyutunda bakmamalar\u0131 gerekti\u011fini anlatmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yoruz. Ancak ne yaz\u0131k ki, bir han\u0131m karde\u015fimize duygular\u0131n\u0131 di\u011fer hem\u015fehrileriyle payla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve yorumun herkes taraf\u0131ndan okunmas\u0131n\u0131 arzulamas\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc tav\u0131r bu\u2026<\/p>\n

“P\u015fine ve \u00d6l\u00fcm” yorumunu okuyup, \u201censtr\u00fcmanlar\u0131 tan\u0131t\u0131yor\u201d diyecek kadar aymaz nas\u0131l olunur?<\/p>\n

Bunun iki yan\u0131t\u0131 var. Birincisi; okudu\u011funu anlayamayacak kadar dikkatsiz. \u0130kincisi; okudu\u011fu yorum onun hayat\u0131n\u0131 anlat\u0131yor ve bundan rahats\u0131z.<\/p>\n

Her iki durumda da bu \u015fah\u0131s ve onun gibiler ne yaz\u0131k ki, duyarl\u0131 hem\u015fehrilerimizi her ortamda ve her zaman k\u0131r\u0131yorlar. \u0130nan\u0131lmaz iftiralarda bulunup, o insan\u0131 tan\u0131yanlar\u0131 k\u0131\u015fk\u0131rt\u0131yorlar. Bu t\u00fcr insanlarla m\u00fccadele etmek kolay de\u011fildir. \u00dcnl\u00fc bir s\u00f6z vard\u0131r: \u201cAk\u0131ls\u0131z dostun olaca\u011f\u0131na, ak\u0131ll\u0131 d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131n olsun\u201d. \u015eimdi bu t\u00fcr \u015fah\u0131slar\u0131n Kafkasyal\u0131lara ne t\u00fcr katk\u0131s\u0131 olabilir? Bu denli \u00f6nyarg\u0131l\u0131, klavyesinin ba\u015f\u0131na ge\u00e7ti\u011finde aslan kesilen, ancak i\u015f; \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya, okumaya ya da kendini geli\u015ftirmeye geldi\u011finde ortadan s\u0131v\u0131\u015fan bu insanlar\u0131n toplumumuza ne yarar\u0131 olur?<\/p>\n

\u00c7erkeslik ve l\u00fcmpenlik kelimeleri asla yan yana gelemez. O zaman ortaya garip bir durum \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor. Bu \u015fah\u0131s e\u011fer \u00c7erkes\u2019se Marje\u2019ye yazan bir \u00c7erkes han\u0131ma nas\u0131l hakaret edip, iftira at\u0131yor? Yok e\u011fer l\u00fcmpense; o zaman nas\u0131l oluyor da \u201c\u00c7erkeslik\u201d yap\u0131yor?<\/p>\n

Yani bu kadar m\u0131 \u00e7irkinle\u015fildi? Bu kadar m\u0131 yozla\u015f\u0131ld\u0131?<\/p>\n

A\u011fz\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131kan s\u00f6z\u00fc tutamayan\u0131 bile toplum cezaland\u0131r\u0131rken, klavyesinin ba\u015f\u0131na ge\u00e7ip akl\u0131na geleni yazan bu insanlar bu cesareti nerden buluyorlar?<\/p>\n

Yaz\u0131k\u2026<\/p>\n

\u00c7ok yaz\u0131k\u2026<\/p>\n

Bu gen\u00e7lerin bu duruma gelmesi ne ac\u0131. Bizim zaman\u0131m\u0131zda Kafkasya\u2019ya gidip d\u00f6nenler; oradaki \u00c7erkes gen\u00e7lerin Rusla\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6ylediklerinde \u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fcrd\u00fck. Ancak bu arada bizim de T\u00fcrkle\u015fti\u011fimizi kimse g\u00f6rmedi. \u00dcnl\u00fc\u00a0 sinema y\u00f6netmeni Y\u0131lmaz G\u00fcney\u2019in bir s\u00f6z\u00fc vard\u0131r: \u201cE\u011fer -affedersiniz- d\u0131\u015fk\u0131 kokan bir odaya girerseniz. \u0130nan\u0131lmaz rahats\u0131z olursunuz. Bir an \u00f6nce d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmak istersiniz. Ancak ko\u015fullar sizin orda kalman\u0131za neden oluyorsa; birka\u00e7 g\u00fcn sonra o kokuyu almamaya ba\u015flars\u0131n\u0131z.\u201d Ne yaz\u0131k ki bu \u015fah\u0131s ve benzeri yap\u0131daki insanlar, o kokuya al\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015flar. Ara s\u0131ra kafalar\u0131n\u0131 d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131p hem\u015fehrilerimize hakaret ediyorlar. Ama fark\u0131nda de\u011filler ki, kendileri yanl\u0131\u015f odan\u0131n i\u00e7indeler.<\/p>\n

Bilgisayar ortam\u0131na yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z her yaz\u0131 her e-mail bir \u015fekilde ar\u015fivlerde kal\u0131yor. Bu nedenle klavyenin tu\u015flar\u0131na basarken ne yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131za dikkat etmelisiniz. Birini ele\u015ftirirken l\u00fcmpen tav\u0131rlarla de\u011fil, insan tav\u0131rlarla yazmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc, bilmedi\u011finiz ve tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z insanlar i\u00e7in yazaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z tek bir kelime, o ki\u015fiyi zedelememelidir. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncenize, anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131za, inanc\u0131n\u0131za herkes uymak zorunda de\u011fildir. E\u011fer bunu isterseniz onun politik ya\u015famda ad\u0131 var. Kendinizi bir anda o pozisyonda bulursunuz.<\/p>\n

\u00dcz\u00fcc\u00fc olan nedir biliyor musunuz? \u201cP\u015fine ve \u00d6l\u00fcm\u201d yorumunda anlat\u0131lan \u201cakordion ve p\u015fine\u201d asl\u0131nda bu \u015fahs\u0131 anlatm\u0131\u015f\u2026<\/p>\n

Ama i\u015fin k\u00f6t\u00fc yan\u0131, bu \u015fah\u0131s anlayamam\u0131\u015f\u2026<\/p>\n

SonS\u00f6z<\/span>
\n\u00c7erkes, s\u0131rt\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015fmana bile d\u00f6nebilendir. (Kuban)<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Kuban Paul Seauhmann 24.10.2003 Geçenlerde, bir okuyucumuzdan e-mail geldi.  Bizim yazılarımızdan birini okuduğunda Marje’den haberdar olmuş ve üye olmuş. Ama yalnız üye olarak kalmayı yeğlemiş ve oldukça ters olduğunu düşündüğü konularda bile Marje’ye mail atmamış. 1,5-2 ay önce yayınladığımız “Pşine ve Ölüm” yorumunu okuduğunda; çok beğendiğini, hüzünlenip ağladığını sonra da hiç yapmadığı bir şeyi yaptığını 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