{"id":3237,"date":"2019-02-25T14:15:44","date_gmt":"2019-02-25T14:15:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=3237"},"modified":"2019-02-25T14:15:44","modified_gmt":"2019-02-25T14:15:44","slug":"telefon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/telefon\/","title":{"rendered":"TELEFON"},"content":{"rendered":"

Kuban Paul Seauhmann
\n<\/b><\/span>03.04.2004<\/span><\/p>\n

Ge\u00e7enlerde bir karde\u015fimiz telefonla g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmek istedi\u011fini belirtmi\u015fti. Ben de ev telefonumu verdim ve T\u00fcrkiye saati ile aram\u0131zda \u00e7ok fark oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in (orda g\u00fcnd\u00fczken burada gece) Kanada saatine g\u00f6re uygun oldu\u011fum saatleri belirttim.<\/p>\n

Sa\u011folsun karde\u015fimiz arad\u0131. Ancak bizim i\u00e7in ge\u00e7 olacak bir saatte. Belki, saatleri kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131rm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Olabilir. Ancak arayan kendisi de\u011fil sekreteriydi ve \u0131srarla Nart beyi soruyordu. Biz de Nart diye birinin olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ancak \u00c7erkes oldu\u011fumuzu belirttik. Bunun \u00fczerine kar\u015f\u0131daki han\u0131m bir saniye dedi. Bekledik. Sonra evet Kuban bey sizle g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fclecekmi\u015f dedi ve daha \u00f6nce telefonu verdi\u011fimiz karde\u015fimiz telefona \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131. Uzun uzun konu\u015ftuk, tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131k.<\/p>\n

\u015eimdi, buraya kadar ilk bak\u0131\u015fta her \u015fey normal g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyor. Ancak biraz d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fczde, baz\u0131 g\u00f6rg\u00fc kurallar\u0131 da atlanm\u0131\u015f oluyor. Arzu ederseniz bunlar\u0131 dilimiz d\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnce aktaral\u0131m. Bu kurallar \u00e7a\u011fda\u015f \u00fclkelerde \u00fc\u00e7 a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 be\u015f yukar\u0131 ayn\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

1. E\u011fer biriyle telefon g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmesi i\u00e7in randevula\u015fm\u0131\u015fsan\u0131z ve bu randevu talebi sizden gelmi\u015fse, siz randevuyu ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z insan\u0131n verdi\u011fi saat dilimleri aras\u0131nda onu aramal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.
\n2. Arayan taraf sizseniz, sekreterinize (kar\u015f\u0131 taraf\u0131n sekreteri varsa) ona ba\u011flamas\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6ylersiniz. Arad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ki\u015finin sekreteriyle siz muhatap olursunuz. E\u011fer sekreteri yoksa, siz direk kendiniz arars\u0131n\u0131z. Kar\u015f\u0131 taraf\u0131 bekletmeye hakk\u0131n\u0131z yoktur. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc siz ar\u0131yorsunuz.
\n3. Arad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ki\u015fiyle yeni tan\u0131\u015f\u0131yorsan\u0131z, \u00f6nce kendinizi tan\u0131t\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z. Sonra g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fme i\u00e7in m\u00fcsait olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 sorars\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n

Telefonla\u00a0 ileti\u015fim kurmak, g\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc gibi kolay bir i\u015f de\u011fildir. \u0130ncelik ister. Belki sizin ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131za da gelmi\u015ftir. Telefon \u00e7alar, a\u00e7ars\u0131n\u0131z; kar\u015f\u0131daki sizin alo bile demenizi beklemeden\u00a0 ilk sorusunu sorar:
\n– Aloooo, kimle g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyorum?<\/strong>
\n– Kimi aram\u0131\u015ft\u0131n\u0131z beyefendi?
\n– H\u00fcseyin orda m\u0131?<\/strong>
\n– Beyefendi H\u00fcseyin kim? Yanl\u0131\u015f arad\u0131n\u0131z galiba?
\n– Yahu karde\u015fim oras\u0131 marangoz H\u00fcseyin’in evi de\u011fil mi?<\/strong>
\n– De\u011fil beyefendi\u2026Yanl\u0131\u015f arad\u0131n\u0131z galiba.
\n– Allah Allah..Karde\u015fim oras\u0131 345 45 45 de\u011fil mi?<\/strong>
\n– De\u011fil beyefendi buras\u0131 345 45 46
\n– Eh be karde\u015fim ba\u015ftan s\u00f6ylesene, ne me\u015fgul ediyorsun beni? Allah Allah\u2026<\/strong>
\n– ?
\nve telefon surat\u0131n\u0131za kapan\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Hepiniz buna benzer olaylar ya\u015fam\u0131\u015fs\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r. \u00c7erkeslerin \u00e7a\u011fda\u015f insan olmalar\u0131 geleneklerinde var diye her zaman yaz\u0131yoruz. Her \u00c7erkes kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 insanlara \u00f6nce kendini tan\u0131t\u0131r. Bu bizim geleneklerimizin temelinde olan davran\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Ayn\u0131 \u015fey telefon g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmelerinde de ge\u00e7erli.<\/p>\n

Telefonu kime a\u00e7arsan\u0131z a\u00e7\u0131n \u00f6nce kendinizi tan\u0131tacaks\u0131n\u0131z. \u00c7erkes’seniz kural bu. Baz\u0131 durumlar vard\u0131r. Sizde tan\u0131k olmu\u015fsunuzdur. Telefon \u00e7alar. A\u00e7ars\u0131n\u0131z;
\n– Naber Mehmet?<\/strong>
\n– Sa\u011folun, iyiyim de; kimle g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyorum?
\n– Yahu tan\u0131mad\u0131n m\u0131 beni?<\/strong>
\n– \u00d6z\u00fcr dilerim tan\u0131yamad\u0131m.
\n– Valla ay\u0131p ettin \u015fimdi, bizde seni arkada\u015f bilirdik\u2026<\/strong>
\n– ?<\/p>\n

Topu topu 3-4 kez g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015fs\u00fcn\u00fczd\u00fcr. Ancak bu s\u00fcre i\u00e7inde mesafe o kadar \u00e7abuk yak\u0131nla\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r ki, bir anda 40 y\u0131ll\u0131k dost olursunuz. Sonra telefonda sesini tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z zaman ay\u0131plan\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n

Telefonla sekreterinize birini aratacaksan\u0131z, arataca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ki\u015finin ad\u0131n\u0131 soyad\u0131n\u0131 net olarak s\u00f6yleyin. E\u011fer sekreterinizin yanl\u0131\u015f yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 tahmin ediyorsan\u0131z, o zaman bir ka\u011f\u0131da ellerinizle yaz\u0131p, ellerinizle de teslim edin. Sekreteriniz arad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ki\u015finin; sekreterine, annesine, e\u015fine, o\u011fluna, k\u0131z\u0131na sizin verdi\u011finiz (ya da sekreterinizin yanl\u0131\u015f anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131) ismi sordu\u011funda kar\u015f\u0131 taraf do\u011fal olarak, \u00f6yle biri yok burada diyebilir. Sekreteriniz de size \u201c\u00f6yle biri yokmu\u015f\u201d dedi\u011finde, arad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ki\u015finin durup dururken g\u00fcnah\u0131n\u0131 al\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z. \u201cVay! Demek ki bana bilerek yanl\u0131\u015f numara vermi\u015f.\u201d Oysa onun bir su\u00e7u yok ki, Mehmet \u00a0yerine Ahmet dersen, kar\u015f\u0131daki ne diyecek? \u201cBurda \u00f6yle biri yok!\u201d<\/p>\n

Bir de telefonda muhabbet merak\u0131 vard\u0131r. Ho\u015fbe\u015ften sonra;
\n– eee\u2026Daha daha nas\u0131ls\u0131n?<\/strong>
\n– \u0130yiyim te\u015fekk\u00fcr ederim bir yaramazl\u0131k yok.
\n– Aman aman iyi\u2026Yenge han\u0131m nas\u0131llar?<\/strong>
\n– O da iyidir. Sa\u011folun\u2026
\n– eee..daha daha nas\u0131ls\u0131n?<\/strong>
\n– ?
\nTelefon etti\u011finiz anda kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki insan\u0131 g\u00f6remedi\u011finiz i\u00e7in o anda ne yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 da bilemezsiniz. Onun i\u00e7in \u00f6nce telefon etti\u011finiz ki\u015fiye kendinizi tan\u0131t\u0131n ve ard\u0131ndan m\u00fcsait olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 sorun. \u201cBen ar\u0131yorsam herkes m\u00fcsaittir\u201d bencilli\u011fine kap\u0131lmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n

S\u0131k rastlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u00a0 bir telefon g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fme facias\u0131 daha vard\u0131r. Telefonda arar. Alo dedikten sonra;
\n– Bir saniye Mehmetcim..<\/strong>
\n– \u2026..
\n– Pardon Mehmetcim bir saniye dedim ama be\u015f dakika oldu kusura bakma. Evin salonunu boyat\u0131yoruz da. Bizim ustaya boyalar\u0131n yerini g\u00f6sterdim. <\/strong>
\n– Sorun de\u011fil..
\n– Yaa..Ben seni neden arad\u0131m biliyor musun?<\/strong>
\n– Hay\u0131r. Neden?
\n– Aman yahu..Bir dakika Mehmetcim, sen yabanc\u0131 de\u011filsin, bizim o\u011flan araban\u0131n anahtar\u0131n\u0131 istiyor, balkondan atay\u0131m geliyorum.<\/strong>
\n– \u2026..
\n– Kusura bakma bir dakika dedim ama\u2026<\/p>\n

E\u011fer sabr\u0131n\u0131z varsa b\u00f6yle devam eder gider. Telefonda s\u00f6yleyeceklerinizi k\u0131sa ve net bi\u00e7imde s\u00f6ylemelisiniz. Sizin zaman\u0131n\u0131z bol olabilir, kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakinin az olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn.<\/p>\n

Bir de, hemen hemen hepimiz yapar\u0131z. Sesimizin, iki telefonun aras\u0131ndaki tellerden gitti\u011fi bilin\u00e7 alt\u0131m\u0131za \u00f6yle i\u015flemi\u015ftir ki, kar\u015f\u0131dakinin duymad\u0131\u011f\u0131 kan\u0131s\u0131na kap\u0131l\u0131p ba\u011f\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z olur. \u00c7o\u011fu kez, daha ilk alo da ahizeyi kula\u011f\u0131n\u0131zdan ka\u00e7\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z olmu\u015ftur. O nedenle kar\u015f\u0131daki duyamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6ylemedi\u011fi s\u00fcrece al\u00e7ak sesle konu\u015fman\u0131z gerekir.<\/p>\n

Peki cep telefonu?<\/p>\n

Ondan hi\u00e7 s\u00f6z etmeyelim. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc tutar yan\u0131 yok\u2026<\/p>\n

Sak\u0131n unutmay\u0131n. Telefon g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmeleri ki\u015fili\u011finiz hakk\u0131nda bilgi verir. Xabzeyi \u00f6\u011frenir ve ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131za uygularsan\u0131z hi\u00e7 dert etmeyin ve yukarda yazd\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 hi\u00e7 dikkate almay\u0131n. <\/p>\n

SonS\u00f6z<\/span>
\n<\/b> \u00c7erkes, kuru so\u011fan\u0131 yumru\u011fuyla ezerek de\u011fil b\u0131\u00e7a\u011f\u0131yla keserek yiyendir. (Kuban)<\/b><\/p>\n

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Kuban Paul Seauhmann 03.04.2004 Geçenlerde bir kardeşimiz telefonla görüşmek istediğini belirtmişti. Ben de ev telefonumu verdim ve Türkiye saati ile aramızda çok fark olduğu için (orda gündüzken burada gece) Kanada saatine göre uygun olduğum saatleri belirttim. Sağolsun kardeşimiz aradı. Ancak bizim için geç olacak bir saatte. Belki, saatleri karıştırmıştır. Olabilir. 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