{"id":3239,"date":"2019-02-25T14:16:41","date_gmt":"2019-02-25T14:16:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=3239"},"modified":"2019-02-25T14:16:41","modified_gmt":"2019-02-25T14:16:41","slug":"bir-tabut-bir-natasa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/bir-tabut-bir-natasa\/","title":{"rendered":"B\u0130R TABUT, B\u0130R NATA\u015eA"},"content":{"rendered":"

Kuban Paul Seauhmann
\n<\/b><\/span>10.04.2004<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0130ki hafta arayla iki haber yay\u0131nland\u0131 T\u00fcrkiye\u2019deki gazetelerde. Habere konu olanlardan biri T\u00fcrk biri Rus. Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n durumunu ortaya koyan \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli iki haber. \u0130lkinde t\u00f6re y\u00fcz\u00fcnden kendini \u00f6ld\u00fcren gen\u00e7 kad\u0131n\u0131n cenazesine ailesi sahip \u00e7\u0131kmay\u0131nca a\u015fa\u011f\u0131da foto\u011fraf\u0131n\u0131 da g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz kad\u0131nlar tabutu y\u00fcklenmi\u015fler mezara g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcyorlar. Bir toplum d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn ki, art\u0131k bu d\u00fcnyada olmayan bir gen\u00e7 kad\u0131ndan \u00f6lesiye korkuyor. Kas\u0131la kas\u0131la dillendirdikleri \u201cson g\u00f6rev\u201di yerine getirmiyor.<\/p>\n

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Bu gen\u00e7 kad\u0131n ne yapm\u0131\u015f? A\u015f\u0131k olmu\u015f. Sonra ne olmu\u015f? Sonra tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131 kad\u0131nlar\u0131n ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir tabutun i\u00e7inde bulmu\u015f kendini. 2004 y\u0131l\u0131nda T\u00fcrkiye\u2019deki manzara bu. Gen\u00e7 bir kad\u0131n kendi iste\u011fiyle mezara girerek geride kalanlar\u0131n \u2018namusunu\u2019 temizlemi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n

Di\u011fer haber bir hafta kadar sonra yay\u0131nlan\u0131yor. Bu kez, bir kad\u0131n; sahipsiz ‘ahlaks\u0131z!’<\/strong> gen\u00e7 bir han\u0131m\u0131n cenazesini ta\u015f\u0131yan kad\u0131nlar\u0131n inad\u0131na, Rus uyruklu bir han\u0131ma \u201cNata\u015fa\u201d <\/strong>diye hakaret ediyor. Gazetenin haberine g\u00f6re, hakaret eden kad\u0131n bir \u00f6zel hastanenin sahibesi. \u0130ki ayr\u0131 olay iki ayr\u0131 trajedi.<\/p>\n

Hemen hemen herkesin bildi\u011fi bir de\u011ferlendirme vard\u0131r. E\u011fer bir k\u0131z ya da kad\u0131n bu ilkel insanlara g\u00fcl\u00fcmseyerek selam verdiyse, art\u0131k o k\u0131z ya da kad\u0131n\u0131n ‘ahlak’\u0131 bitmi\u015ftir. Kesin ba\u015fka ama\u00e7la g\u00fcl\u00fcmseyerek selam vermi\u015ftir. Gelen turistlerin y\u00fczde 100’\u00fc (y\u00fczde 99’u de\u011fil) T\u00fcrkiye’ye T\u00fcrk erkekleri i\u00e7in gelmi\u015ftir. Bu kadar kirlidir beyinleri. Buna kar\u015f\u0131n inan\u0131lmaz \u00e7eli\u015fkiler ya\u015farlar. \u0130stanbul’un bir semtinde (ad\u0131n\u0131 hat\u0131rlayam\u0131yorum) Ruslar\u0131n yo\u011fun olarak ticaret yapt\u0131klar\u0131 bir yer vard\u0131. Bir g\u00fcnde on binlerce dolar\u0131n i\u015fledi\u011fi bir pazar. Bu kirli beyinliler y\u00fcz\u00fcnden bir s\u00fcre sonra Ruslar\u0131n pazar\u0131 b\u0131rakmas\u0131yla iflas etti\u011fini yazm\u0131\u015ft\u0131 gazeteler. Neden? \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc gelenlerin hepsini; ya ticari anlamda kand\u0131rd\u0131lar ya da kad\u0131nlar\u0131na ‘Nata\u015fa’ g\u00f6z\u00fcyle bakt\u0131lar. Yani yemek yedi\u011fi kab\u0131 pisleyecek kadar kirli beyin sahibiydiler.<\/p>\n

Bir ulusun \u00e7o\u011funlukla kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir isime, hakaret anlam\u0131n\u0131 y\u00fcklemek hangi akla hizmettir, nas\u0131l bir ahlakt\u0131r; bu da ayr\u0131 bir konu. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn l\u00fctfen;\u00a0 bir Frans\u0131z, bir T\u00fcrk kad\u0131n\u0131na \u201cAy\u015fe\u201d<\/strong> dedi\u011finde, bu hakaret anlam\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131s\u0131n. Ne kadar onur k\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 bir durum bu.<\/p>\n

Bu olaylar\u0131n t\u00fcm\u00fcn\u00fcn alt\u0131nda yatan, kad\u0131nlar\u0131n bask\u0131 alt\u0131nda ya\u015famalar\u0131d\u0131r. En laik insan\u0131ndan en muhafazakar\u0131na kadar \u00e7ocukluktan ba\u015flayarak kad\u0131nlar b\u00fcy\u00fck bask\u0131 i\u00e7inde b\u00fcy\u00fcyorlar. Erkek \u00e7ocu\u011funa hastal\u0131k derecesinde tolerans g\u00f6sterilirken, k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011funa inan\u0131lmaz bir \u00f6teleme. O\u011flu bir k\u0131zla fl\u00f6rt etti\u011fi zaman \u2018erkek\u2019<\/strong> oluyor k\u0131z\u0131 bir gen\u00e7le fl\u00f6rt etti\u011fi zaman \u2018Nata\u015fa!\u201d<\/strong> Bu ne ilkelliktir.<\/p>\n

T\u00fcm \u00c7erkeslerin geleneklerine s\u0131k\u0131 s\u0131k\u0131 sar\u0131lmas\u0131 gerek.<\/p>\n

E\u011fer kim ka\u015fenlik<\/strong> m\u00fcessesini ortadan kald\u0131rmak i\u00e7in \u00e7abal\u0131yorsa, bu foto\u011fraf \u00f6n\u00fcne konmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

E\u011fer kim zexegs<\/strong> m\u00fcessesini ortadan kald\u0131rmak i\u00e7in didiniyorsa, yine bu foto\u011fraf \u00f6n\u00fcne konmal\u0131d\u0131r. “Al! Sen adetlerimiz sayesinde bu foto\u011fraflarla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fm\u0131yorsun” denmelidir.<\/p>\n

K\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z, asla bu t\u00fcr d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen insanlara teslim olmamal\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7erkes k\u0131z\u0131, \u00c7erkes o\u011flundan bir gram eksik de\u011fildir. Toplumumuzda ayn\u0131 stat\u00fcye sahiptir.<\/p>\n

E\u011fer birileri, k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 biraz olsun \u00f6teliyorsa bilin ki; onlar, yaln\u0131z ad\u0131 \u2018\u00c7erkes\u2019 kalm\u0131\u015f olanlard\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Biz hi\u00e7 bir toplumun kad\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131n ad\u0131n\u0131 \u2018k\u00f6t\u00fc\u2019<\/strong> \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131\u015f\u0131m yapt\u0131racak ilkelli\u011fe d\u00fc\u015fmeyiz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bizim k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z ve kad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131za verdi\u011fimiz de\u011fer, geleneklerimizde \u00e7ok net olarak bellidir. Biz d\u00fcnyadaki t\u00fcm kad\u0131nlara sahipleniriz. Nata\u015fa, Ay\u015fe, Helga, Caron, Raquel, Janset, Setenay, Gupse bizim i\u00e7in ayn\u0131 anlam\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131r. Hepsi sayg\u0131nd\u0131r, hepsi onurludur. Bu nedenle \u00e7a\u011fda\u015f toplumlar\u0131n en \u00f6nde gelenlerinden biri de \u00c7erkeslerdir.<\/p>\n

SonS\u00f6z<\/span>
\n\u00c7erkes, a\u011fz\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131kan\u0131 kula\u011f\u0131yla duyand\u0131r. (Kuban)<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Kuban Paul Seauhmann 10.04.2004 İki hafta arayla iki haber yayınlandı Türkiye’deki gazetelerde. Habere konu olanlardan biri Türk biri Rus. Kadınların durumunu ortaya koyan çok önemli iki haber. İlkinde töre yüzünden kendini öldüren genç kadının cenazesine ailesi sahip çıkmayınca aşağıda fotoğrafını da gördüğünüz kadınlar tabutu yüklenmişler mezara götürüyorlar. 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