{"id":3245,"date":"2019-02-25T14:19:31","date_gmt":"2019-02-25T14:19:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=3245"},"modified":"2019-02-25T14:19:31","modified_gmt":"2019-02-25T14:19:31","slug":"cocuklarimiza-ne-olacak","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/cocuklarimiza-ne-olacak\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7OCUKLARIMIZA NE OLACAK?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Kuban Paul Seauhmann
\n<\/b><\/span> 02.05.2004<\/span><\/p>\n

Anavatanda ya\u015famaman\u0131n bedeli \u00e7ok a\u011f\u0131r. Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u00fclkelerin duruma g\u00f6re bu bedel az ya da \u00e7ok olabiliyor. Ne yaz\u0131k ki, diasporadaki n\u00fcfusumuzun b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00e7o\u011funlu\u011fu dezavantajl\u0131 \u00fclkelerde ya\u015f\u0131yor. En b\u00fcy\u00fck handikap da \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z.<\/p>\n

Aile i\u00e7inde ne denli \u00c7erkesce konu\u015fsan\u0131z konu\u015fun, adetlerinizi ne kadar uygulasan\u0131z uygulay\u0131n, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n zaman\u0131n\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fck b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc d\u0131\u015far\u0131da ge\u00e7iyor. Birde televizyon yay\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131 eklerseniz i\u015f daha da zorla\u015f\u0131yor.<\/p>\n

Demokratik \u00fclkelerde bu sorun k\u0131smen \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmlenmi\u015f. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc size kendi dilinizde e\u011fitim yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z okulu, kendi dilinizde yay\u0131n yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z radyo-televizyonu a\u00e7ma olana\u011f\u0131 veriyor. Ancak i\u015fin k\u00f6t\u00fcs\u00fc bu \u00fclkelerde \u00c7erkes diasporas\u0131 \u00e7ok az ve da\u011f\u0131n\u0131k.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin T\u00fcrkiye\u2019deki \u00c7erkes diasporas\u0131 komple Kanada’da olsa, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z kendi dillerinde e\u011fitim yapabilir ve k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc korumaya devam ederler.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuklar, g\u00f6rd\u00fckleri her \u015feyi \u00f6\u011frenme konusunda yeti\u015fkinlere g\u00f6re daha yatk\u0131nlar. Bu durum hem avantaj hem dezavantaj. Yine demokratik \u00fclkelerde \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n bedensel ve zihinsel geli\u015fimleri; toplumsal ili\u015fkileri daha \u00fcst d\u00fczeyde oluyor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc devlet \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za sahip \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor. Onlar\u0131n e\u011fitimi ve geli\u015fmesi sorumlulu\u011funu t\u00fcm\u00fcyle aileye b\u0131rakm\u0131yor. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla gelir durumu iyi olan\u0131n da olmayan\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011fu da ayn\u0131 stat\u00fcde g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcyor. Sizin paran\u0131z yok diye, \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu y\u00fczme kursuna g\u00f6nderememek gibi bir sorunla kar\u015f\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131ya kalm\u0131yorsunuz.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun yetene\u011fini belirleme i\u015fi size b\u0131rak\u0131lm\u0131yor. Uzmanlar bu konuda size rehberlik ediyor. K\u0131sacas\u0131; \u00e7ocu\u011funuz topluma nitelikli bir insan olarak giriyor.<\/p>\n

Art\u0131k diasporadaki \u00c7erkeslerin as\u0131l y\u00f6nelmesi gereken grup \u00e7ocuklar olmal\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc onlar nitelikli yeti\u015firse k\u00fclt\u00fcrlerini koruma ve temsil etmede anavatan\u0131m\u0131zdan geri olmayacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

D\u00fcnyadaki t\u00fcm sosyal psikologlar\u0131n ortak bir saptamas\u0131 var. 2-15 aras\u0131 ya\u015f grubu \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcndeler. En yo\u011fun bilgi depolama ve y\u00f6nlendirme bu ya\u015flarda oluyor. Daha sonra bu ivme yava\u015f yava\u015f azal\u0131yor ve 25\u2019den sonra durma noktas\u0131na geliyor.<\/p>\n

15 ya\u015f\u0131 ge\u00e7en \u00e7ocu\u011fun art\u0131k olaylar\u0131 de\u011ferlendirmede daha \u00f6nceden depolad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bilgilere s\u0131kl\u0131kla ba\u015fvurdu\u011fu ve kararlar\u0131nda de\u011fi\u015fmelerin azald\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6zlemleniyor. \u2018A\u011fa\u00e7 ya\u015f iken e\u011filir\u2019 s\u00f6z\u00fcnde oldu\u011fu gibi \u00e7ocuk b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fck\u00e7e e\u011filme yetene\u011fi azal\u0131yor. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla di\u011fer bilgileri almada zorlan\u0131yor. Bu a\u00e7\u0131dan bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda, demokratik \u00fclkelerin neden geli\u015fmi\u015f olduklar\u0131n\u0131 anlamak zor de\u011fil.\u00a0 \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7ocuklar buralarda her \u015feyden \u00f6nemli. Aile olarak de\u011fil, devlet olarak \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli. Aile zaten kendi \u00e7ocu\u011funa gerekli \u00f6zeni g\u00f6steriyor.<\/p>\n

Diasporadaki \u00c7erkeslerin y\u00f6nlenmesi gereken ya\u015f grubu 2-15 ya\u015f aras\u0131 olmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

SonS\u00f6z<\/span>
\n<\/b> \u00c7erkes, s\u00fcrahideki suyu kafas\u0131na dikerek de\u011fil, barda\u011fa koyarak i\u00e7endir. (Kuban) <\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Kuban Paul Seauhmann 02.05.2004 Anavatanda yaşamamanın bedeli çok ağır. Yaşadığımız ülkelerin duruma göre bu bedel az ya da çok olabiliyor. Ne yazık ki, diasporadaki nüfusumuzun büyük çoğunluğu dezavantajlı ülkelerde yaşıyor. En büyük handikap da çocuklarımız. Aile içinde ne denli Çerkesce konuşsanız konuşun, adetlerinizi ne kadar uygulasanız uygulayın, çocuklarımızın zamanının büyük bölümü dışarıda geçiyor. Birde televizyon […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_bbp_topic_count":0,"_bbp_reply_count":0,"_bbp_total_topic_count":0,"_bbp_total_reply_count":0,"_bbp_voice_count":0,"_bbp_anonymous_reply_count":0,"_bbp_topic_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_reply_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_forum_subforum_count":0,"ocean_post_layout":"","ocean_both_sidebars_style":"","ocean_both_sidebars_content_width":0,"ocean_both_sidebars_sidebars_width":0,"ocean_sidebar":"0","ocean_second_sidebar":"0","ocean_disable_margins":"enable","ocean_add_body_class":"","ocean_shortcode_before_top_bar":"","ocean_shortcode_after_top_bar":"","ocean_shortcode_before_header":"","ocean_shortcode_after_header":"","ocean_has_shortcode":"","ocean_shortcode_after_title":"","ocean_shortcode_before_footer_widgets":"","ocean_shortcode_after_footer_widgets":"","ocean_shortcode_before_footer_bottom":"","ocean_shortcode_after_footer_bottom":"","ocean_display_top_bar":"default","ocean_display_header":"default","ocean_header_style":"","ocean_center_header_left_menu":"0","ocean_custom_header_template":"0","ocean_custom_logo":0,"ocean_custom_retina_logo":0,"ocean_custom_logo_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_tablet_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_mobile_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_max_height":0,"ocean_custom_logo_tablet_max_height":0,"ocean_custom_logo_mobile_max_height":0,"ocean_header_custom_menu":"0","ocean_menu_typo_font_family":"0","ocean_menu_typo_font_subset":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_size":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_unit":"px","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight_tablet":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight_mobile":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform_tablet":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform_mobile":"","ocean_menu_typo_line_height":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_unit":"","ocean_menu_typo_spacing":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_unit":"","ocean_menu_link_color":"","ocean_menu_link_color_hover":"","ocean_menu_link_color_active":"","ocean_menu_link_background":"","ocean_menu_link_hover_background":"","ocean_menu_link_active_background":"","ocean_menu_social_links_bg":"","ocean_menu_social_hover_links_bg":"","ocean_menu_social_links_color":"","ocean_menu_social_hover_links_color":"","ocean_disable_title":"default","ocean_disable_heading":"default","ocean_post_title":"","ocean_post_subheading":"","ocean_post_title_style":"","ocean_post_title_background_color":"","ocean_post_title_background":0,"ocean_post_title_bg_image_position":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_attachment":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_repeat":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_size":"","ocean_post_title_height":0,"ocean_post_title_bg_overlay":0.5,"ocean_post_title_bg_overlay_color":"","ocean_disable_breadcrumbs":"default","ocean_breadcrumbs_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_separator_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_links_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_links_hover_color":"","ocean_display_footer_widgets":"default","ocean_display_footer_bottom":"default","ocean_custom_footer_template":"0","ocean_post_oembed":"","ocean_post_self_hosted_media":"","ocean_post_video_embed":"","ocean_link_format":"","ocean_link_format_target":"self","ocean_quote_format":"","ocean_quote_format_link":"post","ocean_gallery_link_images":"off","ocean_gallery_id":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[96],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3245","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-yazarlar-kuban-seauhmann","entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3245","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3245"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3245\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3246,"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3245\/revisions\/3246"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3245"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3245"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3245"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}