{"id":3269,"date":"2019-02-25T15:37:38","date_gmt":"2019-02-25T15:37:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=3269"},"modified":"2019-02-25T15:37:38","modified_gmt":"2019-02-25T15:37:38","slug":"terbiyeli-ol-gardas-saygilar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/terbiyeli-ol-gardas-saygilar\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8221;TERB\u0130YEL\u0130 OL GARDA\u015e SAYGILAR&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\"><b>Kuban Paul Seauhmann<br \/>\n<\/b><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Arial;\">24.07.2004<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Bildi\u011finiz gibi internet sitelerinin \u00e7o\u011funda \u201cforum\u201d ba\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 alt\u0131nda b\u00f6l\u00fcmler olu\u015fturulmaktad\u0131r. Burada ama\u00e7; sitenin i\u00e7eri\u011fine ko\u015fut, okuyucular\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce ve bilgilerini di\u011fer insanlarla payla\u015fmas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7o\u011funuz, bu forumlardaki yaz\u0131lar\u0131 okumu\u015fsunuzdur. Belki yaz\u0131 yazarak da d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerinizi aktarm\u0131\u015fs\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Bir ger\u00e7ek var ki, okumay\u0131 ve yazmay\u0131 sevmeyen bir toplum olduk. En \u00e7ok okunan ve kat\u0131l\u0131m sa\u011flanan b\u00f6l\u00fcmleri inceleyiniz. Reha Muhtar tarz\u0131 tart\u0131\u015fmalar rekor k\u0131rarken, d\u00fczeyli tart\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n kat\u0131l\u0131m\u0131 son derece d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck.<\/p>\n<p>Forumlarda, g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015flerinizi belirtirken \u00c7erkeslik bi\u00e7imde kalmamal\u0131, yaz\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131za da yans\u0131mal\u0131. Kar\u015f\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f getirdi\u011finiz kat\u0131l\u0131mc\u0131ya xabze \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fclerinde yan\u0131t vermelisiniz. Aksi durumda, yazd\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z ile s\u00f6yledikleriniz aras\u0131nda garip bir \u00e7eli\u015fki olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6rnek verelim. Forumlar\u0131n birinde, kat\u0131l\u0131mc\u0131 <strong>&#8220;<\/strong><strong>arkada\u015flar abhazlardan bahsederken \u00e7erkesmi\u015f gibi bahsetmeniz yanl\u0131\u015f l\u00fctfen bu konuyu dikkate al\u0131n rahats\u0131z oluyoruz bilindi\u011fi gibi abhazlar ayr\u0131 bir millettir (\u00e7e\u00e7enler vs gibi) sayg\u0131lar\u0131mla kolay gelsin&#8221; <\/strong>diye yazm\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>Bunun \u00fczerine bir ba\u015fka kat\u0131l\u0131mc\u0131; <strong>&#8220;Ya karde\u015f sen hangi kafadans\u0131n bilmem ka\u00e7 as\u0131rl\u0131k \u00e7erkeslerin krallar\u0131 ABHAZALARI nas\u0131l olurda gaflet ve delaletle \u00e7erkes degil diyebiliyorsun rahats\u0131z oluyorsan sende bir ber\u015feyler var galiba s\u00f6ylemeye dilim bile varm\u0131yor ona g\u00f6re akl\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131na dev\u015fir yoksa yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabiliriz ak\u0131ll\u0131 ol&#8230;&#8230;&#8230; \u201c <\/strong> \u00a0yan\u0131t\u0131n\u0131 vermi\u015f.<strong><br \/>\n<\/strong><br \/>\nBuyurun.<\/p>\n<p>Sorun nedir? Bir kat\u0131l\u0131mc\u0131 \u201cAbhazlar \u00c7erkes de\u011fildir\u201d demi\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>Olabilir.<\/p>\n<p>Buna yan\u0131t\u0131n\u0131z b\u00f6yle mi olmal\u0131yd\u0131? K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcc\u00fck bir paragrafta; a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lama var, su\u00e7lama var, daha da k\u00f6t\u00fcs\u00fc tehdit var. \u015eimdi foruma yazan bu arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131z hi\u00e7 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmez mi? Bu yaz\u0131 orada kalacak ve herkes taraf\u0131ndan okunacak.<\/p>\n<p>Di\u011feri geri kal\u0131r m\u0131? Al sana yan\u0131t demi\u015f: <strong>\u201cgarda\u015f terbiyeni elden b\u0131rakma olur mu yok \u00f6yle akl\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131na dev\u015fir falan artisli\u011fin l\u00fczumu yok ak\u0131ll\u0131 ol mol \u00f6yle klavye ba\u015f\u0131nda \u015fekil yapma tamam\u0131 go\u00e7um haddini zorlama \u015furda edebimizle fikrimizi s\u00f6yl\u00fcyoruz benim milletim ayr\u0131 garda\u015f\u0131m millet olma \u00f6zelliklerini \u00f6\u011fren \u00f6yle gel en b\u00fcy\u00fck fakt\u00f6r dildir. (\u2026) Terbiyeli ol garda\u015f sayg\u0131lar\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ana fikrini \u201c\u015eurda edebimizle fikrimizi s\u00f6yl\u00fcyoruz\u201d c\u00fcmlesinin olu\u015fturdu\u011fu paragrafta; \u201cartisli\u011fin l\u00fczumu yok\u201d, \u201cklavye ba\u015f\u0131nda \u015fekil yapma\u201d, \u201chaddini zorlama\u201d, \u00a0\u201ctamam m\u0131 ko\u00e7um\u201d, \u201c\u00f6\u011frende gel\u201d \u201cterbiyeli ol\u201d\u00a0s\u00f6zleri yaz\u0131l\u0131. \u0130yi ki, edebiyle fikrini s\u00f6ylemi\u015f. Birde edepsizce s\u00f6yleseydi, durum i\u00e7inden \u00e7\u0131k\u0131lmaz bir duruma gelirdi.<\/p>\n<p>Yukar\u0131daki \u00f6rneklerde g\u00f6rebilece\u011finiz gibi, i\u015fin bir de yaz\u0131m kurallar\u0131 var. Elbette, kat\u0131l\u0131mc\u0131lar\u0131n hepsinin \u00fcniversitelerin edebiyat b\u00f6l\u00fcmlerini bitirmeleri beklentisi yoktur. \u0130yi de ortaokul mezunu bir insan\u0131n bile yapmayaca\u011f\u0131 hatalar\u0131 neden yap\u0131l\u0131r? \u0130\u015fte bunu anlamak \u00e7ok zor de\u011fil. Karde\u015fimiz gazete okumuyor ki, kitab\u0131n yan\u0131ndan ge\u00e7miyor. Varsa yoksa, televizyonlardaki l\u00fcmpen mafya dizileri. Yani filmlerde konu\u015fulan dili, yaz\u0131m dili san\u0131p aynen yaz\u0131yor. Ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131 ve k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fc buna g\u00f6re \u015fekillendiriyor. Bunu anlamak i\u00e7in m\u00fcneccim olman\u0131za gerek yok. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesini dile getirmek i\u00e7in se\u00e7ti\u011fi s\u00f6zc\u00fcklere bak\u0131n yeterli: \u201cak\u0131ll\u0131 ol\u201d, \u201cgo\u00e7um\u201d, \u201cgarda\u015f\u201d\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Forumlarda b\u00f6yle onlarca yaz\u0131y\u0131 g\u00f6rebilirsiniz. Bu da; asl\u0131nda bizim ne kadar avamla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n, k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fczden ne denli koptu\u011fumuzun bir g\u00f6stergesi. Ne yaz\u0131k ki, durum bu.<\/p>\n<p>Pekiyi, \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm var m\u0131?<\/p>\n<p>Var.<\/p>\n<p>En az\u0131ndan, insanlar\u0131m\u0131z bu l\u00fcmpen k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcne hevesli karde\u015flerimize inat bo\u015f durmay\u0131p, bir \u015feyler yap\u0131yorlar. Bunlardan biri de yakla\u015f\u0131k 3-4 g\u00fcnd\u00fcr duyurusunu yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z Adigeforum internet sitesi.<\/p>\n<p>1 A\u011fustos\u2019ta yay\u0131n hayat\u0131na ba\u015fl\u0131yor. \u00dcyelerimizden say\u0131n Y\u0131lmaz Berbero\u011flu\u2019nun \u00e7abalar\u0131yla a\u00e7\u0131lacak sitede bir slogan var: <strong>\u201cD\u00fczeyli bilgi al\u0131\u015fveri\u015finin adresi\u201d<\/strong>. \u00c7ok emek veriyorlar. \u0130nsanlar\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in b\u00fcy\u00fck bir \u015fans. Ayr\u0131ca sohbet odalar\u0131 hizmeti de verilecekmi\u015f. \u0130ki ayr\u0131 oda. Biri thamadeler i\u00e7in, biri gen\u00e7ler i\u00e7in. Belli ya\u015f\u0131n \u00fczerine gelmi\u015f insanlar\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in sohbet odalar\u0131 sorun oluyordu. Adigeforum bu a\u00e7\u0131dan iyi bir hizmet vermi\u015f olacak.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00fcm okuyucular\u0131m\u0131z ve hem\u015fehrilerimiz i\u00e7in iyi bir olanak. Umar\u0131z uzun soluklu olur ve toplumumuzu ileri g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"> Son S\u00f6z<\/span><br \/>\n\u00c7erkes, kendi ka\u015f\u0131n\u0131 yaparken kar\u015f\u0131dakinin g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc \u00e7\u0131karmayand\u0131r. (Kuban)<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kuban Paul Seauhmann 24.07.2004 Bildi&#287;iniz gibi internet sitelerinin &ccedil;o&#287;unda &ldquo;forum&rdquo; ba&#351;l&#305;&#287;&#305; alt&#305;nda b&ouml;l&uuml;mler olu&#351;turulmaktad&#305;r. Burada ama&ccedil;; sitenin i&ccedil;eri&#287;ine ko&#351;ut, okuyucular&#305;n d&uuml;&#351;&uuml;nce ve bilgilerini di&#287;er insanlarla payla&#351;mas&#305;d&#305;r. &Ccedil;o&#287;unuz, bu forumlardaki yaz&#305;lar&#305; okumu&#351;sunuzdur. Belki yaz&#305; yazarak da d&uuml;&#351;&uuml;ncelerinizi aktarm&#305;&#351;s&#305;n&#305;zd&#305;r. Bir ger&ccedil;ek var ki, okumay&#305; ve yazmay&#305; sevmeyen bir toplum olduk. En &ccedil;ok okunan ve kat&#305;l&#305;m sa&#287;lanan b&ouml;l&uuml;mleri 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