{"id":3287,"date":"2019-02-25T15:52:29","date_gmt":"2019-02-25T15:52:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=3287"},"modified":"2019-02-25T15:52:29","modified_gmt":"2019-02-25T15:52:29","slug":"thamade-gelince-kavga-surer-mi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/thamade-gelince-kavga-surer-mi\/","title":{"rendered":"THAMADE GEL\u0130NCE KAVGA S\u00dcRER M\u0130?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Kuban Paul Seauhmann
\n<\/b><\/span>24.10.2004<\/span><\/p>\n

Thamade gelince kavgan\u0131n durmas\u0131n\u0131 b\u0131rak\u0131n, b\u00fcy\u00fcklerimizle kavga ediliyor. \u0130nan\u0131lmaz bir durumday\u0131z.<\/p>\n

\u00c7o\u011funuz halk danslar\u0131 g\u00f6sterilerinde izlemi\u015fsinizdir. Gen\u00e7ler aralar\u0131nda, hem de k\u0131sa k\u0131l\u0131\u00e7lar\u0131ndan k\u0131v\u0131lc\u0131mlar sa\u00e7\u0131l\u0131rcas\u0131na kavga ederler. O h\u0131rsl\u0131 kavga thamade gelince birden kesilir.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Bu dans\u0131n farkl\u0131 bir versiyonunda da gen\u00e7 k\u0131z geldi\u011finde kavga kesilir. Bundan 20 y\u0131l \u00f6ncesine kadar ger\u00e7ek ya\u015famda uygulan\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n

Yani thamadeler ve gen\u00e7 k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n toplumumuzda \u00e7ok etkin bir rol\u00fc vard\u0131.<\/p>\n

Bu yaz\u0131y\u0131 okumaya 1-2 dakika ara verin ve \u00e7evrenizi g\u00f6z \u00f6n\u00fcne getirin. \u015eimdi ne durumday\u0131z?<\/p>\n

Danslara yans\u0131yan, o toplumun ya\u015fam bi\u00e7imidir. Erkeklerin parmak \u00fczerinde dans etmelerinin k\u00f6keninde; sava\u015f an\u0131nda d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131n\u0131 daha iyi g\u00f6rebilmek oldu\u011fu s\u00f6ylenir.<\/p>\n

T\u00fcm bunlar\u0131 g\u00f6z \u00f6n\u00fcne ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda ne denli asimile oldu\u011funuzu daha rahat g\u00f6rebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n

\u00c7erkesler aras\u0131ndaki diyalogda \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck dejenerasyon oldu. Art\u0131k thamade kurumu hi\u00e7 \u00f6nemsenmez duruma geldi. Gen\u00e7 erkeklerimizin, gen\u00e7 k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131zla olan ili\u015fkisi de ayn\u0131 durumda.<\/p>\n

Elbette; insan n\u00fcfusu \u00e7o\u011fal\u0131p, kitle ileti\u015fim ara\u00e7lar\u0131 s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 ortadan kald\u0131r\u0131nca k\u00fclt\u00fcrel etkilenmeler de ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmaz oluyor. Geli\u015fmi\u015f toplumlar di\u011fer k\u00fclt\u00fcrlerin olumlu y\u00f6nlerini al\u0131p olumsuzluklar\u0131 ay\u0131klayabilecek d\u00fczeydeler. Geli\u015fmemi\u015f \u00fclkelerde durum ise tam aksi.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rnek verelim. Hollanda y\u00fczy\u0131llarca \u00f6nce Anadolu\u2019ya gelip lale so\u011fanlar\u0131n\u0131 al\u0131yor ve kendi \u00fclkesine g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcyor. \u00dczerinde uzun zaman ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar ve deneyler yap\u0131yor.<\/p>\n

Sonra?<\/p>\n

T\u00fcm d\u00fcnya lale k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcn Hollanda\u2019ya \u00f6zg\u00fc oldu\u011funu san\u0131yor. Oysa de\u011fil.<\/p>\n

Di\u011fer tarafta, yine Anadolu ve \u015eark k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc olan \u2019pusu\u2019yu alm\u0131yor. D\u00fcello gelene\u011fini koruyor.<\/p>\n

Bizlerinde di\u011fer k\u00fclt\u00fcrlerden etkilenmemiz ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmaz. Yemek normundan, giyim ku\u015fam normuna kadar de\u011fi\u015fime u\u011frayabiliriz. Ancak, bir \u00c7erkes\u2019i \u00c7erkes yapan temel de\u011ferler var. O de\u011ferleri yok eden, telafisi olmayan bir hataya imza atm\u0131\u015f olur.<\/p>\n

Thamadelere ve gen\u00e7 k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131zla ili\u015fkilerimizde xabze \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fclerini baz alan insanlar\u0131m\u0131z yok de\u011fil. Buna kar\u015f\u0131; l\u00fcmpen ve gerici bir gen\u00e7lik yarat\u0131ld\u0131 ve palazlanmalar\u0131 i\u00e7in tahmininizden daha b\u00fcy\u00fck paralar ve olanaklar harcand\u0131, harcan\u0131yor.<\/p>\n

\u0130ki s\u00f6z\u00fc bir araya getiremeyen; kendinden b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne sayg\u0131s\u0131zca sald\u0131r\u0131p tabloyu tamamlan\u0131yor.<\/p>\n

Danslar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 izlerken bir de bu a\u00e7\u0131dan de\u011ferlendiriniz. G\u00f6receksiniz. \u0130li\u015fkilerimiz nereden nereye gelmi\u015f.<\/p>\n

Melih A\u015f\u0131k\u2019tan k\u0131sa bir anekdot:<\/p>\n

Epiktetos,<\/b> “D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler ve Sohbetler” adl\u0131 kitab\u0131nda soruyor:
\n– Nas\u0131l oluyor da m\u00fcnaka\u015falarda ve kavgalarda cahiller sizden daha kuvvetli oluyorlar ve sizi susmaya mecbur ediyorlar?<\/b>
\nYan\u0131t\u0131 \u015f\u00f6yle veriyor:
\n– \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc onlar yanl\u0131\u015f ilkelerine kuvvetle inanm\u0131\u015flard\u0131r. Siz ise kendi ilkelerinizin ger\u00e7ekli\u011fine zay\u0131f \u015fekilde ba\u011fl\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Sizin ger\u00e7ekleriniz kalpten gelmiyor, dudaklarda do\u011fuyor. Bunun i\u00e7in c\u0131l\u0131z…<\/b><\/p>\n

Do\u011fru s\u00f6ze ne denir?<\/p>\n

SonS\u00f6z
\n<\/span>\u00c7erkes, kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fc s\u00fcp\u00fcr\u00fcrken \u00e7\u00f6pleri kom\u015fusunun kap\u0131s\u0131na itelemeyendir. (Kuban)<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n

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Kuban Paul Seauhmann 24.10.2004 Thamade gelince kavganın durmasını bırakın, büyüklerimizle kavga ediliyor. İnanılmaz bir durumdayız. Çoğunuz halk dansları gösterilerinde izlemişsinizdir. Gençler aralarında, hem de kısa kılıçlarından kıvılcımlar saçılırcasına kavga ederler. O hırslı kavga thamade gelince birden kesilir. Bu dansın farklı bir versiyonunda da genç kız geldiğinde kavga kesilir. 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