{"id":3347,"date":"2019-02-25T16:25:21","date_gmt":"2019-02-25T16:25:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=3347"},"modified":"2019-02-25T16:25:21","modified_gmt":"2019-02-25T16:25:21","slug":"koyden-kovulan-arkadasimiz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/koyden-kovulan-arkadasimiz\/","title":{"rendered":"K\u00d6YDEN KOVULAN ARKADA\u015eIMIZ"},"content":{"rendered":"

Kuban Paul Seauhmann
\n<\/b><\/span>08.10.2005<\/span><\/p>\n

Forumlar\u0131m\u0131zda garip bir olay geli\u015fti. Bir karde\u015fimiz bir dernekte duydu\u011fu s\u00f6z\u00fc forumlara ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131. S\u00f6z olduk\u00e7a a\u011f\u0131rd\u0131. K\u0131yamet koptu. Forumdan yaz\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 sildirmek i\u00e7in otuz iki insan\u0131m\u0131z ba\u015fvurdu. Konu \u00f6yle bir a\u015famaya geldi ki; \u00e7o\u011funluk h\u0131rs\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fil, ev sahibini su\u00e7lu ilan etti.<\/p>\n

Ger\u00e7e\u011fi s\u00f6ylemenin bedelini, \u015eark toplumlar\u0131nda a\u011f\u0131r \u00f6detirler. Bunu bilirdik de bize ne oldu onu anlayamad\u0131k. Karde\u015fimizin de\u011findi\u011fi konu \u00e7ok ama \u00e7ok \u00f6nemliydi. Hem de bug\u00fcne de\u011fin hi\u00e7bir forumda, dergide, sitede g\u00f6remeyece\u011finiz kadar \u00f6nemliydi.<\/p>\n

Bir dernekte, gen\u00e7 delikanl\u0131; k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in b\u00f6yle bir \u015fey s\u00f6yleyebiliyorsa; bunun yanl\u0131\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 dile getiren karde\u015fimizi de\u011fil; o s\u00f6z\u00fc s\u00f6yleyebilecek kadar rahat olmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flayan anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 konu\u015fmak gerekti.<\/p>\n

Asl\u0131nda bu olay salt g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde ya\u015fanan bir \u015fey de\u011fil. Y\u0131llard\u0131r, yava\u015f yava\u015f, \u00fcrk\u00fctmeden uygulanan bir y\u00f6ntem.<\/p>\n

Hi\u00e7 dallay\u0131p, budaklamadan d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn, gen\u00e7 k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131zla gen\u00e7 erkeklerimizin bir arada olmas\u0131ndan kimler rahats\u0131z olur?<\/p>\n

K\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc bilmeyenler, Alevilerin dinsel t\u00f6renlerini de \u2018\u2019mum s\u00f6nd\u00fc\u2019\u2019 diye niteleyen insanlar bunu s\u00f6yledi\u011finde normal kar\u015f\u0131lanabilir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bilmiyor.<\/p>\n

Ancak \u00c7erkes\u2019im deyip buna kar\u015f\u0131n zegesleri; hem de bir dernek \u00e7at\u0131s\u0131 alt\u0131nda b\u00f6yle dile getirene ne diyeceksiniz? Arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131z bunu yazd\u0131. Herkes as\u0131l konusu es ge\u00e7ip s\u00f6ze ve kullan\u0131lan \u00fcsluba sapland\u0131. \u0130\u015fin garibi bu s\u00f6z\u00fc arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131z s\u00f6ylemiyor, s\u00f6ylenen bir s\u00f6z\u00fc foruma getiriyor.<\/p>\n

Aynen h\u0131rs\u0131z ile ev sahibi olay\u0131 ya\u015fand\u0131.<\/p>\n

Asl\u0131nda sorun \u00e7ok basit. Bizim toplumumuzda da zegesleri istemeyenler var. Gen\u00e7 k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ate\u015f, gen\u00e7 erkeklerimizi barut g\u00f6r\u00fcyorlar. Bunu a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a dile getiremiyor \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00c7erkes kimli\u011fiyle ortal\u0131kta dola\u015f\u0131yorlar.<\/p>\n

Peki nas\u0131l bir y\u00f6ntem kullan\u0131yorlar?<\/p>\n

\u00c7ok basit.<\/p>\n

Gen\u00e7lerin kafas\u0131na; k\u0131zlar\u0131 ate\u015f, erkekleri barut olarak i\u015fliyorlar. Bir de bak\u0131yorsunuz derne\u011fin ortas\u0131nda bir delikanl\u0131 zegesleri b\u00f6yle de\u011ferlendiriyor.<\/p>\n

Pekiyi bundan bekledikleri yarar nedir?<\/p>\n

Bu daha da basit.<\/p>\n

Bu t\u00fcr s\u00f6zleri duyan anne babalar, k\u0131zlar\u0131n\u0131 derneklere g\u00f6ndermezler.<\/p>\n

Sonu\u00e7?<\/p>\n

Salt erkeklerin egemen oldu\u011fu Kafkas derne\u011fi. B\u00f6ylece ate\u015fle barut yan yana gelmemi\u015f olur. Sen sa\u011f, ben selamet.<\/p>\n

Kat\u0131l\u0131mc\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z yanl\u0131\u015f insan\u0131 protesto ettiler.<\/p>\n

Su\u00e7lu, derne\u011fin ortas\u0131nda bu denli \u00e7irkin bir s\u00f6z\u00fc s\u00f6yleyen gen\u00e7 de\u011fildi.<\/p>\n

Su\u00e7lu, bu s\u00f6zleri duyup i\u00e7ine sindiremeyerek foruma gelip insanlar\u0131m\u0131zla payla\u015fan karde\u015fimiz de de\u011fildi.<\/p>\n

As\u0131l su\u00e7lu gen\u00e7 k\u0131zlar\u0131 ate\u015f, gen\u00e7 erkekleri barut g\u00f6ren \u00c7erkes’im diye ortal\u0131kta d\u00f6nen \u015eark kafas\u0131yd\u0131.<\/p>\n

Her zaman oldu\u011fu gibi do\u011fru s\u00f6yleyen \u015fu anda dokuzuncu k\u00f6yden yola \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131, onuncu k\u00f6ye do\u011fru gidiyor.<\/p>\n

\u0130\u015fin \u00fcz\u00fcc\u00fc yan\u0131 \u00c7erkeslerde hi\u00e7bir zaman dokuz k\u00f6y olmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131, \u015fimdi k\u00f6y say\u0131s\u0131 h\u0131zla art\u0131yor.<\/p>\n

SonS\u00f6z<\/span>
\n\u00c7erkes, ”vurun abal\u0131ya” demeyendir. (Kuban)<\/span><\/b><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Kuban Paul Seauhmann 08.10.2005 Forumlarımızda garip bir olay gelişti. Bir kardeşimiz bir dernekte duyduğu sözü forumlara taşıdı. Söz oldukça ağırdı. Kıyamet koptu. Forumdan yazılarını sildirmek için otuz iki insanımız başvurdu. Konu öyle bir aşamaya geldi ki; çoğunluk hırsızı değil, ev sahibini suçlu ilan etti. Gerçeği söylemenin bedelini, Şark toplumlarında ağır ödetirler. 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