{"id":3349,"date":"2019-02-25T16:26:01","date_gmt":"2019-02-25T16:26:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=3349"},"modified":"2019-02-25T16:26:01","modified_gmt":"2019-02-25T16:26:01","slug":"sanal-ortam-depresyonu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/sanal-ortam-depresyonu\/","title":{"rendered":"SANAL ORTAM DEPRESYONU"},"content":{"rendered":"

Kuban Paul Seauhmann
\n<\/b><\/span>15.10.2005<\/span><\/p>\n

Biz bu s\u00fctunlarda s\u0131k s\u0131k \u2018\u2019sanal ortam\u2019\u2019 kavram\u0131n\u0131n yanl\u0131\u015f kullan\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 dile getiriyoruz.<\/p>\n

\u0130nternetle kurulan geni\u015f ileti\u015fim ili\u015fkilerinde s\u0131k s\u0131k sorunlar\u0131n ya\u015fanmas\u0131 son derece do\u011fal. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakiyle aran\u0131zda beyaz cam var. Onun y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6rmeden konu\u015fuyorsunuz, derdinizi anlatmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorsunuz.<\/p>\n

\u0130nsanlar\u0131n anla\u015fmalar\u0131nda ve sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ileti\u015fim kurmalar\u0131nda -hele bizim gibi \u00c7erkes k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcyle yeti\u015fmi\u015flerde- v\u00fccut dili ve mimikler \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli bir yer kaplar.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki insanla y\u00fcz y\u00fcze ileti\u015fimde size s\u00f6ylenen bir s\u00f6zc\u00fck, araya beyaz cam girince \u00e7ileden \u00e7\u0131karabiliyor. Hele hele kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakini ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131zda hi\u00e7 g\u00f6rmemi\u015fseniz depresyona giriyorsunuz.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rnek verelim. Biriyle ileti\u015fim halindesiniz. Onu g\u00f6remedi\u011finiz i\u00e7in; k\u0131sa boylu, s\u0131ska, sa\u00e7\u0131 sakal\u0131na \u00f6zen g\u00f6stermeyen biri olarak hayal ediyorsunuz. Yani kafan\u0131zda sizin olu\u015fturdu\u011funuz bir tip olu\u015fuyor. Size s\u00f6ylediklerini ger\u00e7ek ya\u015famdaki ki\u015fi de\u011fil, sizin kafan\u0131zdaki bu tipleme s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor alg\u0131l\u0131yorsunuz. Bu son derece do\u011fal. Ya\u015f\u0131 biraz ileri olanlar an\u0131msarlar. Radyolarda \u2018\u2019Radyo Tiyatrosu\u2019\u2019 ya da \u2018\u2019Arkas\u0131 Yar\u0131n\u2019\u2019 t\u00fcr\u00fcnde drama programlar\u0131 olurdu. Sadece sesini duydu\u011funuz i\u00e7in kafan\u0131zda konu\u015fanlar\u0131 tiplerdiniz. Ayn\u0131 \u015fey roman okurken roman kahramanlar\u0131 i\u00e7inde ge\u00e7erli.<\/p>\n

Sonradan bu tiyatro sanat\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 televizyonlarda g\u00f6rmeye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda \u00e7o\u011fu insanda hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 olu\u015fturdu. Davudi sesli sanat\u00e7\u0131y\u0131, hayal eden dinleyici \u015f\u00f6yle tipliyordu: 1.90 boyunda, sar\u0131\u015f\u0131n, mavi g\u00f6zl\u00fc, atletik yap\u0131l\u0131, son derece yak\u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131. Televizyonda sesin sahibiyle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131nca i\u015fin rengi de\u011fi\u015fti. O davudi ses; 1.60 boylar\u0131nda, sa\u00e7lar\u0131 d\u00f6k\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f, olduk\u00e7a \u015fi\u015fman bir insana ait.<\/p>\n

\u0130nternetteki ileti\u015fimde bu daha da derinle\u015fiyor. \u00d6zellikle kar\u015f\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f sahipleri -ortam gere\u011fi- kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndakini tiplerken inan\u0131lmaz itici bir insan olarak hayal ediyor. Kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fsa; asla s\u00f6ylemeyece\u011fi s\u00f6zleri, kafas\u0131nda olu\u015fturdu\u011fu ki\u015fiye say\u0131p, d\u00f6kebiliyor.<\/p>\n

\u0130\u015fin birde sosyal y\u00f6n\u00fc var. Bu da ciddi bir sorun. \u0130leti\u015fim kurdu\u011fu ki\u015fiyi g\u00f6rmedi\u011fi ve tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in, onun hangi ruh haliyle yaz\u0131 yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 alg\u0131layam\u0131yor. Her yaz\u0131 yazan\u0131n kendi gibi sorunsuz bir ya\u015fam s\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc varsay\u0131yor ya da tam aksi.<\/p>\n

Kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndakinin, ailevi bir sorunu olabilece\u011fi ya da ekonomik bir sorunu olaca\u011f\u0131 hi\u00e7 akla gelmiyor.<\/p>\n

\u00d6zellikle gen\u00e7lerimiz yaz\u0131lar\u0131nda bunu dikkate almal\u0131lar.<\/p>\n

Bir de i\u015fin ikinci boyutu var. D\u00fcnya \u00fczerinde tek do\u011fru yok. Her yorum, her yaz\u0131, her makale do\u011fruyu s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor anlam\u0131na gelmez. En az\u0131ndan kas\u0131tl\u0131 olmaks\u0131z\u0131n yanl\u0131\u015f de\u011ferlendirmeler i\u00e7eriyor olabilir. Yazar\u0131 kim olursa olsun yanl\u0131\u015f buldu\u011funuz bir yorumu, makaleyi ya da yaz\u0131y\u0131 \u00e7ekinmeden ele\u015ftirmelisiniz. Burada dikkat edilmesi gereken yazar\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fil d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesini irdelemektir. Olumlu ya da olumsuz. Aradaki ince \u00e7izgi budur.<\/p>\n

E\u011fer ki\u015fiyi ele\u015ftirirseniz gerilimi artt\u0131r\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc do\u011fal refleks olarak ki\u015fi kendini savunmaya ge\u00e7ecektir.<\/p>\n

E\u011fer d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi ele al\u0131rsan\u0131z; bu, hem yazar\u0131 geli\u015ftirir hem ele\u015ftireni.<\/p>\n

Genel anlamda tart\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n ki\u015fiselle\u015ftirilmesi, bilgi azl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcd\u00fcr. Kulaktan duyma bilgilerle gelinecek son nokta yan\u0131lg\u0131 olur.<\/p>\n

Bu a\u00e7\u0131lardan de\u011ferlendirirseniz, yorumlar\u0131m\u0131zda hata olabilir, sizin yazd\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131zda hata olabilir. Forumda ya da makalelerde hata olabilir. Bu durumda en sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 yol; yazan kim olursa olsun do\u011fru bildi\u011finizi yazmakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

\u00c7erkes insan\u0131, toplumsalla\u015fmaya 10-11 ya\u015flar\u0131nda ba\u015fl\u0131yor. 18-20 ya\u015flar\u0131nda \u00fcst noktaya gelebiliyor. Her \u00c7erkes insan\u0131 her t\u00fcrl\u00fc d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesini, xabze kurallar\u0131na uyarak her ortamda konu\u015fabilecek d\u00fczeydedir.<\/p>\n

Pekiyi…<\/p>\n

Araya beyaz cam girince neden de\u011fi\u015fsin ki?<\/p>\n

SonS\u00f6z<\/span>
\n\u00c7erkes, anavatanda ya\u015fayanlar\u0131n ac\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 alg\u0131lay\u0131p, s\u00fckut edebilendir. (Kuban)<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Kuban Paul Seauhmann 15.10.2005 Biz bu sütunlarda sık sık ‘’sanal ortam’’ kavramının yanlış kullanıldığını dile getiriyoruz. İnternetle kurulan geniş iletişim ilişkilerinde sık sık sorunların yaşanması son derece doğal. Çünkü karşınızdakiyle aranızda beyaz cam var. Onun yüzünü görmeden konuşuyorsunuz, derdinizi anlatmaya çalışıyorsunuz. 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