{"id":3367,"date":"2019-02-25T16:33:31","date_gmt":"2019-02-25T16:33:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=3367"},"modified":"2019-02-25T16:33:31","modified_gmt":"2019-02-25T16:33:31","slug":"vesikalik-ve-ayna","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/vesikalik-ve-ayna\/","title":{"rendered":"VES\u0130KALIK ve AYNA"},"content":{"rendered":"

Kuban Paul Seauhmann
\n<\/b><\/span> 21.02.2006<\/span><\/p>\n

Her y\u00fcz ki\u015fiden 99\u2019u \u00e7ektirdi\u011fi vesikal\u0131k fotograf\u0131 be\u011fenmez.<\/p>\n

Fotograf\u00e7\u0131l\u0131k yapan insanlar\u0131n en \u00e7ok duyduklar\u0131 s\u00f6z de \u015fu olur: \u00c7irkin \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015f\u0131m<\/b>.<\/p>\n

Asl\u0131nda fotografta \u00e7\u0131kan kendisidir.<\/p>\n

\u0130ki nedenle \u00e7irkin \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr. Birincisi, kendinin daha g\u00fczel oldu\u011fu san\u0131s\u0131na kap\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u0130kincisi, s\u00fcrekli ayna kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndad\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Kendini g\u00fczel bulma g\u00fcd\u00fcs\u00fc do\u011fald\u0131r. Her insanda da vard\u0131r. Kimi bunu a\u00e7\u0131k a\u00e7\u0131k s\u00f6yler, kimisi vesikal\u0131k fotograf\u0131n\u0131n \u00fczerinden. Yani; asl\u0131nda ben g\u00fczelim ama fotograf\u0131m \u00e7irkin \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n

Aynaya \u00e7ok s\u0131k bakmak bu nedenle risklidir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ayna salt teninizi size geri yans\u0131t\u0131r. Aynan\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda kendinizi en g\u00fczel g\u00f6recek bi\u00e7imde kendinizi konumland\u0131r\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z. Oysa fotograf\u00e7\u0131ya gitti\u011finizde sizin konumunuzu o belirler. Bu nedenle insanlar\u0131n \u00e7o\u011fu vesikal\u0131kta kendini be\u011fenmez.<\/p>\n

D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerinizde de ayn\u0131 sorun vard\u0131r asl\u0131nda.<\/p>\n

Kendi yazd\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 \u00e7ok be\u011fenirsiniz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc aynada kendinizi nas\u0131l g\u00f6rmek istiyorsan\u0131z, aynen yaz\u0131n\u0131zda da d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerinizi g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz. Bir ba\u015fkas\u0131, yaz\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 farkl\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131dan de\u011ferlendirdi\u011finde duydu\u011funuz rahats\u0131zl\u0131k bu i\u00e7g\u00fcd\u00fcden kaynaklan\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Tart\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n sertle\u015fmesinin, ele\u015ftiriye tahamm\u00fcl edilememesinin neden de budur. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc sizin aynada g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fczle, vesikal\u0131k fotografta g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz ayn\u0131 de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n

Aynalara \u00e7ok al\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f birinin ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131 be\u011feni olas\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 azd\u0131r. Kendine bakma s\u00fcresi ile ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131 be\u011fenmeme tavr\u0131 do\u011fru orant\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r. \u2018\u2019Hep ben\u2019\u2019 psikolojisi yo\u011funla\u015fmaya ba\u015flar ve sonu yaln\u0131z kalmaya dek devam eder.<\/p>\n

Bu nedenle, \u00f6zellikle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce al\u0131\u015fveri\u015flerinde; olanaklar\u0131n\u0131z elverdi\u011fince b\u0131rak\u0131n ba\u015fkalar\u0131 sizi tan\u0131mlas\u0131n. Bundan hi\u00e7 rahats\u0131zl\u0131k duymay\u0131n. E\u011fer kas\u0131tl\u0131 olarak sizi \u00e7irkin g\u00f6steriyorsa, yine korkmay\u0131n. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc o da aynada kendine s\u0131k bak\u0131p vesikal\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan ho\u015flanmayanlardand\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Siz her \u015feye kar\u015f\u0131n, aynay\u0131 kendinize bakmak i\u00e7in de\u011fil, \u00e7evrenizi incelemek i\u00e7in kullan\u0131n.<\/p>\n

Bir de belle\u011finizin bir k\u00f6\u015fesine yazman\u0131z gereken bir konu var.<\/p>\n

Ba\u015fkas\u0131na ili\u015fkin g\u00fczellik de\u011ferlendirmesi g\u00f6recelidir. Yani size \u00e7ok g\u00fczel gelen biri, bir ba\u015fkas\u0131na \u00e7irkin gelebilir. \u00c7evrenizde s\u0131kl\u0131kla duymu\u015fsunuzdur. \u2018\u2019Aaa\u2026 Ne \u00e7irkin adam, e\u015fi nas\u0131l da evlenmeye raz\u0131 olmu\u015f? Oysa kar\u0131s\u0131 ay par\u00e7as\u0131 gibi.\u2019\u2019<\/p>\n

Bazan da tam aksini duyars\u0131n\u0131z, \u2018\u2019Aaa\u2026 Ne \u00e7irkin kad\u0131n, kocas\u0131 artis gibi. Bu kad\u0131n\u0131n neresini be\u011fenmi\u015f de evlenmi\u015f?\u2019\u2019<\/p>\n

Hemen yan\u0131n\u0131zdakinden kar\u015f\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f gelir. \u2018\u2019Yoo\u2026 Asl\u0131nda kad\u0131n \u00e7ok g\u00fczel, kocas\u0131 ona yak\u0131\u015fmam\u0131\u015f.\u2019\u2019<\/p>\n

Bu diyaloglar\u0131n temelinde yatan, g\u00fczelli\u011fin g\u00f6receli olmas\u0131d\u0131r. Gelin g\u00f6r\u00fcn ki, bu durum kar\u015f\u0131t g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fl\u00fclerin birbirlerini zevksizlikleriyle su\u00e7lamalar\u0131na neden\u00a0 olur.<\/p>\n

Aynaya \u00e7ok s\u0131k bakman\u0131n bir sak\u0131ncas\u0131 daha var. Bir g\u00fcn size \u2018\u2019g\u00fczel de\u011filsin\u2019\u2019 diyebilir. Beklemedi\u011finiz bir anda \u2018\u2019senden daha g\u00fczeli var\u2019\u2019 diyebilir.<\/p>\n

\u0130\u015fte o anda aynay\u0131 parampar\u00e7a etseniz de kurtulu\u015f yok. Vesikal\u0131k fotograf\u0131n\u0131zla ba\u015f ba\u015fa kal\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Kuban Paul Seauhmann 21.02.2006 Her yüz kişiden 99’u çektirdiği vesikalık fotografı beğenmez. Fotografçılık yapan insanların en çok duydukları söz de şu olur: Çirkin çıkmışım. Aslında fotografta çıkan kendisidir. İki nedenle çirkin çıktığını düşünür. Birincisi, kendinin daha güzel olduğu sanısına kapılmıştır. İkincisi, sürekli ayna karşısındadır. Kendini güzel bulma güdüsü doğaldır. Her insanda da vardır. 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