{"id":3431,"date":"2019-02-25T16:55:22","date_gmt":"2019-02-25T16:55:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=3431"},"modified":"2019-02-25T16:55:22","modified_gmt":"2019-02-25T16:55:22","slug":"kabardey-aramizda-yok-artik","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/kabardey-aramizda-yok-artik\/","title":{"rendered":"KABARDEY ARAMIZDA YOK ARTIK"},"content":{"rendered":"

Kuban Paul Seauhmann
\n<\/b><\/span>16.09.2006<\/span><\/p>\n

2006 Haziran’\u0131n 15’inde CC Forumda bir yaz\u0131 yay\u0131nland\u0131. Kabardey yollam\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n

\u015e\u00f6yle diyor:<\/p>\n

<\/span>”Sevgili gen\u00e7ler,<\/p>\n

Ben 33 sene \u00f6nce \u0130T\u00dc’den mezun olmu\u015f bir \u00c7erkes delikanl\u0131s\u0131yd\u0131m. Tesad\u00fcf eseri \u00fcniversite mezunu, \u00e7ok g\u00fczel, ak\u0131ll\u0131, zeki, hep g\u00f6zleri g\u00fclen \u00c7erkes k\u0131z\u0131yla tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Onu g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm anda; i\u015fte arad\u0131\u011f\u0131m ki\u015fi buydu, dedim. Hemen ka\u015fenlik teklif edemedim. Arkada\u015f olup sonra teklif ederim diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm.<\/p>\n

Bu arada ”bizden mi birileriyle mi evlenmek istersin yoksa fark etmez mi?” diye sordu\u011fumda, ”tabii ki bizden olan\u0131 tercih ederim” dedi.<\/p>\n

B\u00f6yle olunca ben rahatt\u0131m nas\u0131l olsa bizden birisiyle evlenecek diye. Bir seneye yak\u0131n arkada\u015f olduk . Ben evlenme teklifini ha bug\u00fcn ha yar\u0131n ederim derken bir g\u00fcn bana dedi ki ”ben s\u00f6zlendim”.<\/p>\n

O an d\u00fcnyalar ba\u015f\u0131ma y\u0131k\u0131ld\u0131, ”kimle” diye sordum. ”Bizden olmayan biriyle” diye cevap verdi. ”Hani bizden biriyle evlenecektin” diye sordu\u011fumda ”istediler de kabul etmedim mi?” dedi, hakl\u0131yd\u0131.<\/p>\n

O g\u00fczel \u00c7erkes k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131,can\u0131mdan \u00e7ok sevdi\u011fim insan\u0131 kaybetmi\u015ftim. Ona mutluluk dilemekten ba\u015fka yapacak bir \u015feyim kalmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Ben hi\u00e7 evlenmedim. Onun mutlulu\u011fu i\u00e7in dua ediyorum.<\/p>\n

\u00c7erkes delikanl\u0131lardan ricam. Sevdikleri, be\u011fendikleri \u00c7erkes k\u0131z\u0131 varsa hi\u00e7 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmesinler evlenme teklifi etsinler. Yar\u0131n \u00e7ok ge\u00e7 olabilir. Son pi\u015fmanl\u0131k fayda etmez. Benim d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm hataya d\u00fc\u015fmesinler. Ben yand\u0131m sizler yanmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n

\u00c7erkez delikanl\u0131lar\u0131 sevdi\u011finizi kaybetmek istemiyorsan\u0131z acele edin. Bir b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz olarak sizden rica ediyorum.<\/p>\n

Sayg\u0131lar.”<\/p>\n

Bu yaz\u0131n\u0131n ard\u0131ndan onlarca yan\u0131t yaz\u0131lm\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n

En sonunda ye\u011feni olan Feyza han\u0131m bir haber ula\u015ft\u0131rm\u0131\u015f. Bu de\u011ferli insan\u0131m\u0131z 3 A\u011fustos’ta hayata g\u00f6zlerini yummu\u015f. Yazd\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n \u00fczerinden 2 ay ge\u00e7meden aram\u0131zdan ayr\u0131lm\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n

Birbirimizle ili\u015fkilerimizde xabzeyi g\u00f6zard\u0131 etmememiz gerekti\u011fi bu ac\u0131 olayda da kendini ortaya koyuyor. Kim olursa olsun, kar\u015f\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelere sahip olsak da sayg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 yitirmemeliyiz. Eminim ki bu de\u011ferli thamadeye yan\u0131t verirken \u00f6zen g\u00f6stermeyen bir \u00e7ok kat\u0131l\u0131mc\u0131 derinden yaralanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Yaralar\u0131m\u0131z yeteri kadar var. Daha \u00e7ok yaralanmamam\u0131z i\u00e7in k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck, b\u00fcy\u00fck; tan\u0131d\u0131k tan\u0131mad\u0131k, nickli nicksiz, herkese sayg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 yitirmeden yan\u0131tlar veriniz. \u00c7erkeslik ad\u0131na bu denli basit bir gereklili\u011fi yerine getiriniz.<\/p>\n

D\u00fcnyada hi\u00e7 kimse kusursuz de\u011fil. Bunu unutmamak, az hata yapmam\u0131za neden olur.<\/p>\n

Kusuru y\u00fcze vurmak, \u00c7erkeslere asla yak\u0131\u015fmayan bir tav\u0131rd\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Kuban Paul Seauhmann 16.09.2006 2006 Haziran’ın 15’inde CC Forumda bir yazı yayınlandı. Kabardey yollamış. Şöyle diyor: ”Sevgili gençler, Ben 33 sene önce İTÜ’den mezun olmuş bir Çerkes delikanlısıydım. Tesadüf eseri üniversite mezunu, çok güzel, akıllı, zeki, hep gözleri gülen Çerkes kızıyla tanıştım. Onu gördüğüm anda; işte aradığım kişi buydu, dedim. Hemen kaşenlik teklif edemedim. Arkadaş […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_bbp_topic_count":0,"_bbp_reply_count":0,"_bbp_total_topic_count":0,"_bbp_total_reply_count":0,"_bbp_voice_count":0,"_bbp_anonymous_reply_count":0,"_bbp_topic_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_reply_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_forum_subforum_count":0,"ocean_post_layout":"","ocean_both_sidebars_style":"","ocean_both_sidebars_content_width":0,"ocean_both_sidebars_sidebars_width":0,"ocean_sidebar":"0","ocean_second_sidebar":"0","ocean_disable_margins":"enable","ocean_add_body_class":"","ocean_shortcode_before_top_bar":"","ocean_shortcode_after_top_bar":"","ocean_shortcode_before_header":"","ocean_shortcode_after_header":"","ocean_has_shortcode":"","ocean_shortcode_after_title":"","ocean_shortcode_before_footer_widgets":"","ocean_shortcode_after_footer_widgets":"","ocean_shortcode_before_footer_bottom":"","ocean_shortcode_after_footer_bottom":"","ocean_display_top_bar":"default","ocean_display_header":"default","ocean_header_style":"","ocean_center_header_left_menu":"0","ocean_custom_header_template":"0","ocean_custom_logo":0,"ocean_custom_retina_logo":0,"ocean_custom_logo_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_tablet_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_mobile_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_max_height":0,"ocean_custom_logo_tablet_max_height":0,"ocean_custom_logo_mobile_max_height":0,"ocean_header_custom_menu":"0","ocean_menu_typo_font_family":"0","ocean_menu_typo_font_subset":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_size":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_unit":"px","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight_tablet":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight_mobile":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform_tablet":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform_mobile":"","ocean_menu_typo_line_height":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_unit":"","ocean_menu_typo_spacing":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_unit":"","ocean_menu_link_color":"","ocean_menu_link_color_hover":"","ocean_menu_link_color_active":"","ocean_menu_link_background":"","ocean_menu_link_hover_background":"","ocean_menu_link_active_background":"","ocean_menu_social_links_bg":"","ocean_menu_social_hover_links_bg":"","ocean_menu_social_links_color":"","ocean_menu_social_hover_links_color":"","ocean_disable_title":"default","ocean_disable_heading":"default","ocean_post_title":"","ocean_post_subheading":"","ocean_post_title_style":"","ocean_post_title_background_color":"","ocean_post_title_background":0,"ocean_post_title_bg_image_position":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_attachment":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_repeat":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_size":"","ocean_post_title_height":0,"ocean_post_title_bg_overlay":0.5,"ocean_post_title_bg_overlay_color":"","ocean_disable_breadcrumbs":"default","ocean_breadcrumbs_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_separator_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_links_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_links_hover_color":"","ocean_display_footer_widgets":"default","ocean_display_footer_bottom":"default","ocean_custom_footer_template":"0","ocean_post_oembed":"","ocean_post_self_hosted_media":"","ocean_post_video_embed":"","ocean_link_format":"","ocean_link_format_target":"self","ocean_quote_format":"","ocean_quote_format_link":"post","ocean_gallery_link_images":"off","ocean_gallery_id":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[96],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3431","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-yazarlar-kuban-seauhmann","entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3431","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3431"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3431\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3432,"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3431\/revisions\/3432"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3431"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3431"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3431"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}