{"id":3443,"date":"2019-02-25T16:59:14","date_gmt":"2019-02-25T16:59:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=3443"},"modified":"2019-02-25T16:59:14","modified_gmt":"2019-02-25T16:59:14","slug":"artik-geri-donme-zamani","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/artik-geri-donme-zamani\/","title":{"rendered":"ARTIK GER\u0130 D\u00d6NME ZAMANI"},"content":{"rendered":"

Kuban Paul Seauhmann
\n<\/b><\/span>21.04.2007<\/span><\/p>\n

Tam alt\u0131 ay aran\u0131zda de\u011fildim. \u0130\u015flerimin yo\u011funlu\u011fu nedeniyle yeniden yazmak konusunda da s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar ya\u015fayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131 biliyorum. Bu nedenle aksamalar olursa \u015fimdiden \u00f6zr\u00fcm\u00fc kabul ediniz.<\/p>\n

Bildi\u011finiz gibi ge\u00e7en haftalarda de\u011ferli thamadelerimize ili\u015fkin yo\u011fun bir tart\u0131\u015fma ortam\u0131 ya\u015fand\u0131. Daha do\u011frusu garip bilgi aktar\u0131mlar\u0131 <\/b>ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirildi.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00fctunlarda daha \u00f6nce s\u0131k s\u0131k dile getirmi\u015ftik. Thamadeler ele\u015ftirilmez, kar\u015f\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fler dile getirilemez diye bir \u015fey yok.<\/b> Tam aksine; her konuda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesini ortaya koymak, her \u00e7a\u011fda\u015f \u00c7erkes gencinin vazge\u00e7ilmez prensibi olmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Ancak, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerine ve politikalar\u0131na kat\u0131lmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z insanlara terbiye s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 a\u015farak <\/b>-ki, baz\u0131 s\u00f6zc\u00fckler insan\u0131 k\u00f6yden kovdurur- sald\u0131rmak yaln\u0131z kendinize zarar vermek olur.<\/b><\/p>\n

Sabah bir program vard\u0131.<\/p>\n

T\u00fcrk pop m\u00fczi\u011finin duayenlerinden Erol B\u00fcy\u00fckbur\u00e7, \u00e7\u0131ld\u0131rm\u0131\u015f gibi ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131yor, \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131yordu.<\/p>\n

Anlamak i\u00e7in dikkat kesildim.<\/p>\n

Konu k\u0131saca \u015fu: Bir yar\u0131\u015fma program\u0131nda j\u00fcri \u00fcyelerinden B\u00fcy\u00fckbur\u00e7. Kendisine di\u011fer \u00fcyelerden az s\u00f6z verildi\u011fi i\u00e7in \u00e7\u0131ld\u0131r\u0131yor ve kendisine hi\u00e7 yak\u0131\u015fmayacak reaksiyon g\u00f6steriyor.<\/p>\n

Sonradan anla\u015f\u0131l\u0131yor ki, bir programda ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131p, \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131p, kavga eden \u00e7ok insan varsa o program o denli \u00e7ok izleniyor.<\/p>\n

K\u00f6t\u00fc ama ger\u00e7ek…
\n<\/b>
\nDiyelim ki, pencerenizden soka\u011fa bak\u0131yorsunuz. Gelenler ge\u00e7en y\u00fczlerce insan var. Ancak bu ge\u00e7enler i\u00e7inden biri ko\u015fuyor. Sizin dikkatiniz o ki\u015fiye odaklanacakt\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc do\u011fal olan\u0131n d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda bir davran\u0131\u015f olarak alg\u0131l\u0131yorsunuz.<\/p>\n

Bu herkeste olan bir durumdur.<\/p>\n

Birey olarak di\u011fer insanlar\u0131n dikkatini \u00e7ekmek isteriz. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerimizi, k\u00fclt\u00fcrel modellerimizi, dilimizi, inanc\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131ya aktarmak isteriz.<\/p>\n

Bu da do\u011fal bir durumdur.<\/p>\n

\u0130\u015fte burada y\u00f6ntem tercihi ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar.<\/p>\n

Thamadeleri ele\u015ftiren karde\u015fimiz, i\u015fin \u00f6z\u00fcne bakarsan\u0131z; nicelik olarak do\u011fru bir davran\u0131\u015fta bulunmu\u015ftur.<\/b> D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn \u00f6yle bir topluma sahibiz ki, televizyonlarda en \u00e7ok izlenen programlar kavgal\u0131 g\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fcl\u00fc olanlar. O da bunu bildi\u011fi i\u00e7in, ayn\u0131 y\u00f6ntemi uygulamaya sokmu\u015ftur.<\/b> Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla istedi\u011fine ula\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 varsaym\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n

\u0130kinci bir durum de\u011ferlendirmesi daha vard\u0131r. \u0130lkel insanlar\u0131n \u00e7o\u011funlukla yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir y\u00f6ntemdir bu. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesini ya da politikalar\u0131n\u0131 be\u011fenmediklerine a\u011fz\u0131na geleni saymak. Bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n temelinde yatan da ”korku”<\/b>dur.<\/p>\n

S\u0131k\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131n bir kediyi k\u00f6\u015feye. Bak\u0131n sonunda size ne yap\u0131yor.<\/p>\n

Kediyi fiziki olarak, insanlar\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerinizle ve yapt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131zla k\u00f6\u015feye s\u0131k\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z<\/b>.<\/p>\n

Ancak insanla hayvan aras\u0131ndaki en \u00f6nemli fark; insan\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc planlayan ve ya\u015fama ge\u00e7iren bir varl\u0131k olmas\u0131d\u0131r. Bunu yaparken de hayvanlar gibi i\u00e7g\u00fcd\u00fcyle de\u011fil mant\u0131\u011f\u0131yla yapmas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/b><\/p>\n

D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnme yetisi olmayan ya da d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcklerini ya\u015fama ge\u00e7iremeyen her insan sald\u0131rganla\u015f\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc art\u0131k i\u00e7g\u00fcd\u00fcsel reaksiyonlar g\u00f6stermeye ba\u015flar. Mant\u0131\u011f\u0131 t\u00fcm\u00fcyle iflas edip; ne a\u011fz\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131kan\u0131 duyar, ne yazd\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6recek hale gelir.<\/p>\n

Bu de\u011ferlendirmeler d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda bir durum daha vard\u0131r. O da bu sald\u0131r\u0131lar\u0131 bilin\u00e7li olarak yapmak.<\/b> Bu konuda bir \u015fey yazmaya gerek yok. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc r\u00fczgar eken, f\u0131rt\u0131na bi\u00e7er. <\/b>Bunu biz s\u00f6ylemiyoruz. Atalar s\u00f6z\u00fc olarak kulaktan kula\u011fa gelmi\u015f.<\/p>\n

T\u00fcm bunlar\u0131n \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131nda;<\/p>\n

Her thamade ele\u015ftirilir, politikas\u0131n\u0131n ve davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n yanl\u0131\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 dile getirilebilir. Ancak \u00c7erkes terbiyesini elden b\u0131rakmamak ko\u015fuluyla.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rnekleyelim:<\/p>\n

\u00c7erkes terbiyesine uygun olmayan:<\/p>\n

– Ahmet Ulusoy sen Rus u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 m\u0131s\u0131n?<\/p>\n

\u00c7erkes terbiyesine uygun olan:<\/p>\n

– Say\u0131n thamade Ahmet, \u015fu yaz\u0131n\u0131zda, \u015f\u00f6yle bir \u015fey demi\u015fsiniz. Bu Ruslara u\u015fakl\u0131k etmek anlam\u0131na gelmez mi? Bu konuya biraz daha a\u00e7ar m\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z? <\/p>\n

\u00c7ok mu yumu\u015fak buldunuz?<\/p>\n

Peki terbiyesiz olmadan ba\u015fka bir soru:<\/p>\n

– Say\u0131n thamade Ahmet, \u015fu yaz\u0131n\u0131zda \u015f\u00f6yle \u015feyler dediniz. Ben bunun Rus u\u015fakl\u0131\u011f\u0131 olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum. Benim d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncemi de\u011fi\u015ftirecek ne s\u00f6yleyebilirsiniz?<\/p>\n

Ancak son iki soru reyting yapmaz<\/b>. Ayr\u0131ca sald\u0131rmak, k\u0131r\u0131p d\u00f6kmek niyetindeyseniz yine amaca uygun olmaz.<\/p>\n

CC’de gen\u00e7ler i\u00e7in yeni bir b\u00f6l\u00fcm a\u00e7\u0131ld\u0131. Entelekt\u00fcel. <\/b><\/p>\n

\u0130\u015fte bu t\u00fcr ili\u015fkiler yuma\u011f\u0131ndan kurtulmak i\u00e7in gen\u00e7li\u011fimizin \u00e7a\u011fda\u015f, entelekt\u00fcel, demokrat yap\u0131da olmalar\u0131 gerekiyor. Bunun yolu da; vurup, k\u0131ran gen\u00e7li\u011fi okumaya y\u00f6neltmek.<\/p>\n

Ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olur mu dersiniz?<\/p>\n

Biraz zaman al\u0131r ama olur.<\/p>\n

<\/span> Son S\u00f6z
\n<\/span> \u00c7erkes, thamadelere efelenmenin haynape oldu\u011funu bilendir. (Kuban)<\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Kuban Paul Seauhmann 21.04.2007 Tam altı ay aranızda değildim. İşlerimin yoğunluğu nedeniyle yeniden yazmak konusunda da sıkıntılar yaşayacağımı biliyorum. Bu nedenle aksamalar olursa şimdiden özrümü kabul ediniz. Bildiğiniz gibi geçen haftalarda değerli thamadelerimize ilişkin yoğun bir tartışma ortamı yaşandı. Daha doğrusu garip bilgi aktarımları gerçekleştirildi. Bu sütunlarda daha önce sık sık dile getirmiştik. 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