{"id":3459,"date":"2019-02-25T17:10:37","date_gmt":"2019-02-25T17:10:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=3459"},"modified":"2019-02-25T17:10:37","modified_gmt":"2019-02-25T17:10:37","slug":"gurcu-anne","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/gurcu-anne\/","title":{"rendered":"G\u00dcRC\u00dc ANNE"},"content":{"rendered":"

Kuban Paul Seauhmann
\n<\/b><\/span>04.03.2008<\/span><\/p>\n

Bir anne d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcz. Yedi ayd\u0131r, iki \u00e7ocu\u011funu g\u00f6remiyor.<\/p>\n

Ailesinden uzak, son derece l\u00fcks bir dairenin alt\u0131 metrekarelik odas\u0131nda yat\u0131p kalk\u0131yor. Uyurken tetikte… \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc yirmi metre karelik yan odadaki hizmet\u00e7isi oldu\u011fu evin, iki ya\u015f\u0131ndaki \u00e7ocu\u011fu a\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda hemen yan\u0131na gitmesi gerek. Ona sadece bir duvar mesafesi uzakl\u0131\u011f\u0131nda. Ya kendi bebeleri a\u011flarsa?<\/p>\n

D\u00fcn gece bir arkada\u015f\u0131ma konuktuk. Evlerine G\u00fcrc\u00fc bir han\u0131m\u0131 hizmet\u00e7i olarak alm\u0131\u015flar. Orta ya\u015flarda sessiz bir yap\u0131s\u0131 var. Ya\u015fam \u00f6yk\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc arkada\u015f\u0131m anlatt\u0131. G\u00fcrcistan’dan iki bebesini b\u0131rak\u0131p \u0130stanbul’a gelip \u00fc\u00e7 kuru\u015fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 ne ac\u0131.<\/p>\n

\u0130\u015fin duygusal boyutuna fazlaca girmenin anlam\u0131 yok. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc birey olarak yapabilece\u011fimiz hi\u00e7bir \u015fey yok.<\/p>\n

G\u00fcrc\u00fc anneyi g\u00f6r\u00fcnce akl\u0131ma Abhazya geldi. Bu bi\u00e7are kad\u0131n m\u0131 bizim hem\u015ferilerimizin topraklar\u0131nda g\u00f6z\u00fc olan? Hi\u00e7 sanm\u0131yorum. Ona d\u00fc\u015fmanca bakmak olas\u0131 m\u0131? Asla…<\/p>\n

Bir Abhaz anne ile bu han\u0131m\u0131n aras\u0131nda nitelik olarak zerre fark yok.<\/p>\n

<\/p>\n

G\u00fcrcistan’\u0131 bilemiyorum. Ancak Azerbaycan’da bir sinema filmi \u00e7ekmi\u015ftim. Sovyetler Birli\u011fi’nin da\u011f\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131n \u00fczerinde \u00e7ok ge\u00e7memi\u015fti. Senaryo \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 i\u00e7in uzun uzun insanlarla konu\u015fmu\u015f, seslerini teybime kaydetmi\u015ftim.<\/p>\n

Genel olarak, Sovyetlerin da\u011f\u0131lmas\u0131ndan Kru\u015f\u00e7ev’in sorumlu oldu\u011funda hemfikirdiler.<\/p>\n

”Sorumlu oldu\u011funu” diye bilerek yazd\u0131m. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc halk\u0131n Sovyetlerin bozulmas\u0131ndan ciddi bi\u00e7imde rahats\u0131zl\u0131klar\u0131 vard\u0131. \u0130lk a\u015famada size garip gelebilir. Ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131zl\u0131k bu kadar k\u00f6t\u00fc m\u00fc, diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilirsiniz. Evet ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131zl\u0131k Azeri halk\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan o d\u00f6nemde hi\u00e7 benimsenemedi. \u015eu an durum nedir bilemiyorum.<\/p>\n

Bir Manat’a bir kilo et. T\u00fcrkiye’de ayn\u0131 d\u00f6nemde o parayla on gram et alamazd\u0131n\u0131z. \u00c7ocuklu ailelere s\u00fct bedava. Elektrik, su bedava. Telefon bedava.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ok daha \u00f6nemlisi; e\u011fitim bedava, sa\u011fl\u0131k bedava.<\/p>\n

\u015eimdi her \u015fey parayla.<\/p>\n

\u0130\u015fte bu a\u015famada ”\u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck” geri tepiyor. \u00d6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck ad\u0131na karn\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n a\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131na \u00f6nem vermeyebilirsiniz. Pekiyi, \u00e7ocu\u011funuz a\u00e7sa ne yapacaks\u0131n\u0131z? O \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn tad\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0131karabilecek misiniz?<\/p>\n

G\u00fcrcistan yollar\u0131nda son model l\u00fcks arabalarla dola\u015fanlar ”\u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn” tad\u0131n\u0131 sonuna kadar \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131rken, \u0130stanbul’da yedi ayd\u0131r yavrular\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6zlemini \u00e7eken bir G\u00fcrc\u00fc anne, alt\u0131 metrekarelik odas\u0131nda tedirgin uyuyor. \u00d6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck ona baya\u011f\u0131 pahal\u0131ya mal olmu\u015f.<\/p>\n

<\/p>\n

\u0130nsanlara ”\u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck” sunarken, en az\u0131ndan eski ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131 korumak ilke olmal\u0131 m\u0131d\u0131r? Evet. Ben \u00f6zg\u00fcr\u00fcm ama a\u00e7\u0131m dedirtti\u011finiz zaman o ki\u015fi \u00e7ok uzun s\u00fcrmez biriyle kavga eder. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fclerini yok etmeye kalkar. O nedenle olduk olmad\u0131k yerde ”\u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck istiyorum” dememelisiniz. \u00d6nce ya\u015fam ko\u015fullar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fczeltecek \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar yapmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Yani, ona buna rest \u00e7ekmek yerine, annelerinizi ekonomik nedenlerle \u00e7ocu\u011fundan ay\u0131rmamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n

Kendi annenizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. Karn\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 doyurmak i\u00e7in binlerce kilometre uza\u011fa gidecek, aylarca sizi g\u00f6rmeyecek. B\u00f6yle \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck m\u00fc olur?<\/p>\n

G\u00fcrc\u00fc annenin bebelerine bir an \u00f6nce kavu\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 diliyorum.<\/p>\n

Son S\u00f6z: <\/span>\u00c7erkes; f\u0131rsattan istifade, deyip zorda kalm\u0131\u015f\u0131 \u00f6rselemeyendir. (Kuban)<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Kuban Paul Seauhmann 04.03.2008 Bir anne düşününüz. Yedi aydır, iki çocuğunu göremiyor. Ailesinden uzak, son derece lüks bir dairenin altı metrekarelik odasında yatıp kalkıyor. Uyurken tetikte… Çünkü yirmi metre karelik yan odadaki hizmetçisi olduğu evin, iki yaşındaki çocuğu ağladığında hemen yanına gitmesi gerek. Ona sadece bir duvar mesafesi uzaklığında. Ya kendi bebeleri ağlarsa? 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