{"id":3483,"date":"2019-02-25T17:33:21","date_gmt":"2019-02-25T17:33:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=3483"},"modified":"2019-02-25T17:33:21","modified_gmt":"2019-02-25T17:33:21","slug":"kisisel-elestiriler-uzerine","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/kisisel-elestiriler-uzerine\/","title":{"rendered":"K\u0130\u015e\u0130SEL ELE\u015eT\u0130R\u0130LER \u00dcZER\u0130NE"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\"><b>Kuban Paul Seauhmann<br \/>\n<\/b><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Arial;\">03.03.2009<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">Birinin ad\u0131n\u0131 anmadan ele\u015ftiri yapmak bu denli zor mu bilemiyorum.<\/p>\n<p>Thamadem Necdet&#8217;le tan\u0131\u015fal\u0131 yakla\u015f\u0131k 6 y\u0131l oluyor. Herkes ka\u00e7arken o benimle ileti\u015fim kurdu. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131 -afedersiniz- \u00f6k\u00fcz alt\u0131nda buza\u011f\u0131 ararken, o beni karde\u015fi gibi g\u00f6rd\u00fc. CC&#8217;ya ilk g\u00fcnden bu g\u00fcne de\u011fin her platformda destek verdi. CC&#8217;y\u0131 CC yapan en \u00f6nemli insanlardan biri oldu.<\/p>\n<p>Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7 i\u00e7inde thamade Necdet&#8217;ten \u00f6\u011frendiklerim Eski\u015fehir Kuzey Kafkasya Derne\u011fi&#8217;ne ilk ad\u0131m att\u0131\u011f\u0131m g\u00fcnden bu g\u00fcne kadar (Yakla\u015f\u0131k 33 y\u0131l)\u00a0 \u00f6\u011frendiklerimden y\u00fczlerce kat fazla oldu.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/cc-turkiye\/yorum\/parag-ara.gif\" width=\"45\" height=\"18\" border=\"0\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A\u015fa\u011f\u0131 yukar\u0131 herkeste \u015f\u00f6yle bir imaj olu\u015ftu: Necdet Hatam CC&#8217;n\u0131n \u00fczerinde yo\u011fun bir etkisi var. Bu yarg\u0131n\u0131n temel nedeni \u00e7ok \u00fcretken olmas\u0131yd\u0131 oysa. Biraz da \u00fczerine aktifli\u011fini ekleyiniz.<\/p>\n<p>Necdet Hatam \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck d\u00fc\u015flerin pe\u015finde -\u00e7o\u011funun g\u00fcl\u00fcp ge\u00e7ti\u011fi- y\u0131llarca ko\u015ftu, ko\u015fuyor. Bana g\u00f6re cephede sava\u015farak baca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 yitirmi\u015f bir gazi kadar kahraman biridir.<\/p>\n<p>Herkes \u00f6zel ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131 allak bullak edecek d\u00fczeyde kendini anavatana adayamaz. En az\u0131ndan ben adamad\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00fcm bunlara kar\u015f\u0131n thamade Necdet&#8217;in de her insanda olabilecek yanl\u0131\u015flar\u0131 olmuyor de\u011fil. Anavatan ve d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fe duydu\u011fu heyecan ve sadakat nedeniyle yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015flar, onu \u00e7evresinde antipatik k\u0131lmas\u0131na yetiyor.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/cc-turkiye\/yorum\/parag-ara.gif\" width=\"45\" height=\"18\" border=\"0\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Bazen y\u00fczde y\u00fcz hakl\u0131 oldu\u011fumuz durumlarda bile k\u0131rmamam\u0131z gereken insanlar olabilir. Yani ben hakl\u0131y\u0131m, o haks\u0131z. Olsun. K\u0131rmaktansa o hakl\u0131 olsun. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hakl\u0131l\u0131k -ya da do\u011fru- g\u00f6receli kavramlar. Bug\u00fcn hakl\u0131 oldu\u011funuz konuda yar\u0131n haks\u0131z olabilirsiniz. Bu durumu d\u00fczeltmek olanakl\u0131 olabilir. Ancak bir insan\u0131 k\u0131rarak onu \u00fcretmekten al\u0131koyarsak hakl\u0131 olmam\u0131z hi\u00e7bir anlam ta\u015f\u0131maz.<\/p>\n<p>Konuyu \u00e7ok da\u011f\u0131tmadan as\u0131l diyeceklerime geleyim.<\/p>\n<p>CC&#8217;n\u0131n en \u00f6nemli yazarlar\u0131ndan Hatko Schamis, daha \u00f6nce thamade Necdet&#8217;in bu t\u00fcr ki\u015fi \u00fczerinden ele\u015ftirilerini do\u011fru bulmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, yinelenmesi durumunda CC&#8217;da yazmay\u0131 b\u0131rakaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 belirtmi\u015fti.<\/p>\n<p>Thamade Hatam, bu &#8221;tehdit&#8221;i ciddiye almad\u0131 ve ge\u00e7en hafta yine Shamis&#8217;in \u00fczerinden d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce ve ele\u015ftirilerini yazd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Sonra ne mi oldu?<\/p>\n<p>Schamis bug\u00fcn makalesini g\u00f6nderdi. Alt\u0131na da CC&#8217;dan art\u0131k ayr\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131n zaman\u0131n\u0131n geldi\u011fini bildirerek.<\/p>\n<p>Bunun sonucu ne olacak?<\/p>\n<p>Kolay yol \u015fu: Tamam Schamis nas\u0131l istersen, deyip yollar\u0131 ay\u0131rmak.<\/p>\n<p>Oysa bize d\u00fc\u015fen; Schamis&#8217;in bu arzusunu yerine getirip, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerini insanlara aktarmas\u0131na devam etmesini sa\u011flamak.<\/p>\n<p>Buras\u0131 g\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc insanlar\u0131n bir araya geldi\u011fi bir yer. \u0130stifa kurumu yok. \u0130steyen yazar, istemeyen yazmaz. Ancak bu durum CC a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan zor oldu\u011fu kadar benim a\u00e7\u0131mdan da \u00e7ok zor bir durum. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc, CC<br \/>\n-san\u0131lan\u0131n aksine- benim y\u00f6netimimde y\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fcyor. Ben sadece koordine g\u00f6revini y\u00fcklendim. O kadar. Bu koordine s\u0131ras\u0131nda &#8221;yarg\u0131\u00e7&#8221; pozisyonuna geldi\u011fim zamanlar olmuyor de\u011fil. Bu rahats\u0131z edici durumdan CC&#8217;n\u0131n o anda ula\u015fabildi\u011fim di\u011fer yazar ya da g\u00f6rev yapan arkada\u015flar\u0131m\u0131za dan\u0131\u015farak kurtuluyorum.<\/p>\n<p>Thamademizden ricam\u0131z art\u0131k sevgili Schamis \u00fczerinden ele\u015ftirilerini ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerini okuyuculara aktarmamas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Sevgili Schamis&#8217;ten de ricam\u0131z ki\u015fisel olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00fcrece bu t\u00fcr ele\u015ftiri ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce aktar\u0131mlar\u0131n\u0131n ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmaz oldu\u011funu kabul etmesidir. Yani insanlar\u0131n \u00f6zel ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131, tercihlerini, ya\u015fam bi\u00e7imini ele\u015ftirmek ya da de\u011ferlendirmeye kalkmak ba\u015fka, ki\u015filerin d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerini ele\u015ftirmek ya da de\u011ferlendirmek ba\u015fka.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><b>Son S\u00f6z<br \/>\n<\/b><\/span><b>\u00c7erkes, s\u0131cak evinde otururken, so\u011fukta evsiz kalanlar\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcp bir \u015feyler yapmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fand\u0131r. (Kuban)<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kuban Paul Seauhmann 03.03.2009 Birinin ad&#305;n&#305; anmadan ele&#351;tiri yapmak bu denli zor mu bilemiyorum. Thamadem Necdet&rsquo;le tan&#305;&#351;al&#305; yakla&#351;&#305;k 6 y&#305;l oluyor. Herkes ka&ccedil;arken o benimle ileti&#351;im kurdu. Ba&#351;kalar&#305; -afedersiniz- &ouml;k&uuml;z alt&#305;nda buza&#287;&#305; ararken, o beni karde&#351;i gibi g&ouml;rd&uuml;. CC&rsquo;ya ilk g&uuml;nden bu g&uuml;ne de&#287;in her platformda destek verdi. CC&rsquo;y&#305; CC yapan en &ouml;nemli insanlardan biri 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