{"id":3491,"date":"2019-02-25T17:37:12","date_gmt":"2019-02-25T17:37:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=3491"},"modified":"2019-02-25T18:01:34","modified_gmt":"2019-02-25T18:01:34","slug":"copcu-de-gelse-ayaga-kalkariz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/copcu-de-gelse-ayaga-kalkariz\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7\u00d6P\u00c7\u00dc DE GELSE AYA\u011eA KALKARIZ"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\"><b>Kuban Paul Seauhmann<br \/>\n<\/b><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Arial;\">11.04.2009<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">Sevgili arkada\u015f\u0131m YEMUZ Nevzat&#8217;\u0131n makalesine ili\u015fkin Pir Sultan Abdal&#8217;dan k\u0131sa bir d\u00f6rtl\u00fck yaz\u0131p, as\u0131l konumuza ge\u00e7ece\u011fim izninizle.<\/p>\n<p>Pir Sultan Abdal&#8217;\u0131m can g\u00f6\u011fe a\u011fmaz<br \/>\nHak&#8217;tan emrolmazsa \u0131rahmet ya\u011fmaz<br \/>\n\u015eu ellerin ta\u015f\u0131 bana hi\u00e7 de\u011fmez<br \/>\n\u0130lle dostun g\u00fcl\u00fc yaraler beni<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/cc-turkiye\/yorum\/parag-ara.gif\" width=\"45\" height=\"18\" border=\"0\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00d6ncelikle ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmemizi sa\u011flayan temizlik i\u015f\u00e7ilerinden -sanki \u00f6nemsizle\u015ftirmi\u015f gibi- &#8221;\u00e7\u00f6p\u00e7\u00fc de&#8221; diye s\u00f6z etti\u011fim i\u00e7in \u00f6z\u00fcr diliyorum.<\/p>\n<p>Konu, ge\u00e7ti\u011fimiz hafta yap\u0131lan Genel Kurmay Ba\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131&#8217;n\u0131n bas\u0131n brifingi ile ilgili.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/cc-turkiye\/yorum\/parag-ara.gif\" width=\"45\" height=\"18\" border=\"0\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ailemin beni geleneklerimize g\u00f6re yeti\u015ftirdi\u011fi i\u00e7in hep ne kadar \u015fansl\u0131 oldu\u011fumu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fcm. Ger\u00e7i, bu yeti\u015fme bi\u00e7iminin ba\u015f\u0131ma \u00e7ok i\u015f a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 da belirteyim. \u0130\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmesi yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m zamanlar e\u011fer konu\u015faca\u011f\u0131m ki\u015fi i\u00e7eri girdi\u011fimde aya\u011fa kalkmazsa can\u0131m s\u0131k\u0131l\u0131r, o g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmenin olumsuz bitmesi i\u00e7in elimden geleni yapard\u0131m. Baz\u0131 durumlarda da patron geldi\u011finde aya\u011fa kalkard\u0131m, adam bunu yanl\u0131\u015f anlar i\u015fime burnunu sokmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r, art\u0131k onunla \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma olana\u011f\u0131m kalmazd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Ya\u015f\u0131m ilerledik\u00e7e nerede aya\u011fa kalk\u0131p, nerede kalkmamam gerekti\u011fini \u00f6\u011frendim. Elbette bunu \u00f6\u011frenirken s\u00fct\u00fcn kesilmesi gibi asimile oldu\u011fumunda fark\u0131na varm\u0131yordum. Sonu\u00e7 olarak \u00e7o\u011funluk nas\u0131l davran\u0131yorsa sen de uymaya ba\u015fl\u0131yorsun. \u00d6yle olmasa \u00c7erkes kad\u0131n\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcnde \u015falvar\u0131n ne i\u015fi var?<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/cc-turkiye\/yorum\/parag-ara.gif\" width=\"45\" height=\"18\" border=\"0\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Genelkurmay bas\u0131n brifinginde ge\u00e7en olay k\u0131saca \u015f\u00f6yle: Toplant\u0131ya T\u00fcrkiye&#8217;nin kalbur \u00fcst\u00fc gazetecileri davetlidir. Genelkurmay Ba\u015fkan\u0131 i\u00e7eri girince birka\u00e7 gazeteci aya\u011fa kalkar. Tart\u0131\u015fmada bundan sonra ba\u015flar. Aya\u011fa kalkanlar Genelkurmay Ba\u015fkan\u0131&#8217;na &#8221;yaranmak&#8221; i\u00e7in mi aya\u011fa kalkm\u0131\u015flard\u0131r?<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte sorunun temelinde yatan bunun nas\u0131l yan\u0131tland\u0131\u011f\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Kahvehanede oturuyorsunuz, i\u00e7eri vali girdi, aya\u011fa kalk\u0131yorsunuz.<\/p>\n<p>Kahvehanede oturuyorsunuz, i\u00e7eri \u00e7\u00f6p\u00e7\u00fc girdi, aya\u011fa kalk\u0131yorsunuz.<\/p>\n<p>Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z sayg\u0131 g\u00f6stergesidir ve bizim k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fcze g\u00f6re do\u011fru yapm\u0131\u015f olursunuz.<\/p>\n<p>Kahvehanede oturuyorsunuz, i\u00e7eri vali girdi, aya\u011fa kalkm\u0131yorsunuz.<\/p>\n<p>Kahvehanede oturuyorsunuz, i\u00e7eri \u00e7\u00f6p\u00e7\u00fc girdi, aya\u011fa kalkm\u0131yorsunuz.<\/p>\n<p>Yine sorun yok. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fczde aya\u011fa kalkmak bir sayg\u0131 g\u00f6stergesi de\u011filse, bu da normal bir davran\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Kahvehanede oturuyorsunuz, i\u00e7eri vali girdi, aya\u011fa kalk\u0131yorsunuz.<\/p>\n<p>Kahvehanede oturuyorsunuz, i\u00e7eri \u00e7\u00f6p\u00e7\u00fc girdi, aya\u011fa kalkm\u0131yorsunuz.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte burada sorun var demektir. Tart\u0131\u015fmaya a\u00e7\u0131k bir konumda bulursunuz kendinizi.<\/p>\n<p>Toplumlardaki bu k\u00fclt\u00fcrel normlar\u0131n uygulama a\u015famas\u0131nda de\u011fi\u015ftirilmesi, yad\u0131rgan\u0131r. Hatta istenmedik durumlara d\u00fc\u015fersiniz. Yani, &#8221;bir beklentin mi var ki aya\u011fa kalkt\u0131n&#8221; olur.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklu\u011fumuzdan, i\u015f ya\u015famam\u0131za kadarki s\u00fcre\u00e7te bu davran\u0131\u015f modeli k\u0131smen sorun yaratm\u0131yordu. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc, istedi\u011fimiz ortam\u0131 se\u00e7me olana\u011f\u0131m\u0131z vard\u0131. Oysa i\u015f ya\u015fam\u0131na ad\u0131m att\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z andan ba\u015flayarak &#8221;ortam se\u00e7me&#8221; \u015fans\u0131n\u0131z kalm\u0131yor. Bunun sonucu olarak da b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00e7eli\u015fkiler ya\u015famaya ba\u015fl\u0131yorsunuz.<\/p>\n<p>Aya\u011fa kalksam acaba kar\u015f\u0131 taraf yanl\u0131\u015f anlar m\u0131?<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte bu soruyu sordu\u011fumuz an art\u0131k \u00c7erkeslikten koptu\u011fumuz ger\u00e7e\u011fi ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar ve bu ayr\u0131l\u0131k g\u00fcn ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e katlanarak b\u00fcy\u00fcr.<\/p>\n<p>Genelkurmay&#8217;da yap\u0131lan toplant\u0131ya kat\u0131lanlar\u0131n t\u00fcm\u00fc \u00c7erkes k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcyle b\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f gazeteciler olsayd\u0131, hepsi birden aya\u011fa kalkard\u0131 ve hi\u00e7biri de bunu bir &#8221;yaranma&#8221; olarak alg\u0131lamazd\u0131. E\u011fer oradaki gazetecilerin t\u00fcm\u00fc Amerikal\u0131 olsayd\u0131, bu kez de kimse kalmaz, kimse de &#8221;ne sayg\u0131s\u0131zlar&#8221; de\u011ferlendirmesi yapmazd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Sonu\u00e7 olarak, Genelkurmay Ba\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131&#8217;nda yap\u0131lan brifing T\u00fcrkiye&#8217;deki insanlar\u0131n ortak bir k\u00fclt\u00fcre sahip olmad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6stergesidir. Aya\u011fa kalkmak bir kesimce &#8221;yaranma&#8221; olarak de\u011ferlendirilirken, di\u011fer bir kesim i\u00e7in &#8221;sayg\u0131&#8221; g\u00f6stergesidir.<\/p>\n<p><b><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Son S\u00f6z<br \/>\n<\/span>\u00c7erkes, bilmedi\u011fi alanda at ko\u015fturmayand\u0131r. 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