{"id":3519,"date":"2019-02-25T17:55:45","date_gmt":"2019-02-25T17:55:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=3519"},"modified":"2019-02-25T17:55:45","modified_gmt":"2019-02-25T17:55:45","slug":"susma-siranin-sana-gelmesini-bekleme","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/susma-siranin-sana-gelmesini-bekleme\/","title":{"rendered":"SUSMA, SIRANIN SANA GELMES\u0130N\u0130 BEKLEME"},"content":{"rendered":"

Kuban Paul Seauhmann
\n<\/b><\/span>12.03.2010<\/span><\/p>\n

Abhazya Devleti’nin kurucusu Vladislav Ardz\u0131nba vefat etti. Bunun \u00fczerine t\u00fcm Adige-Abhazlar b\u00fcy\u00fck ve derin bir \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fcye kap\u0131ld\u0131lar. Bu \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fc i\u00e7inde, birileri yine durmad\u0131. Kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndakini a\u015fa\u011f\u0131l\u0131k itham ve hakaretlerle susturdular. Yine her ortamda istedikleri gibi at oynat\u0131yorlar. Bazen daha da ileri gidip tehdit de ediyorlar. Bu denli hadlerini bilmiyorlar.<\/p>\n

Son olay, Abhaz derne\u011finde Ardz\u0131nba’y\u0131 anma i\u00e7in yap\u0131lan t\u00f6renle ilgili. Kuran okutuldu. Niyet iyi olabilir. Ama\u00e7 salih olabilir. Buraya kadar sorun yok. Ancak bu toplumun \u00f6nde gelen isimlerinden Handan han\u0131m\u0131n bir ele\u015ftirisi bu dinci yobazlar\u0131 an\u0131nda ata\u011fa ge\u00e7irdi. Ne diyor Handan han\u0131m, dernekler her inan\u00e7 ve inan\u00e7s\u0131zdan insan\u0131n geldi\u011fi topland\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir yer. Yani dini rit\u00fceller i\u00e7in uygun de\u011fil. K\u0131yamet koptu.<\/p>\n

Bu ne ilk ne de son olacak bir olay. Derneklere her t\u00fcrl\u00fc insan geliyor. \u0130nan\u00e7l\u0131s\u0131, inan\u00e7s\u0131z\u0131. Bu durumda sayg\u0131 bekleyen bu softalar, ba\u015fkalar\u0131na sayg\u0131 konusu geldi\u011finde an\u0131nda di\u015flerini g\u00f6steriyorlar. Bu yaln\u0131z T\u00fcrkiye diasporas\u0131na has bir \u015fey sanmay\u0131n. Amerika’daki dinci de ayn\u0131. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kafalar\u0131 ayn\u0131: ”Ben istedi\u011fimi s\u00f6yler, yapar\u0131m. Sen istedi\u011fini s\u00f6yleyemez, yapamazs\u0131n.”<\/p>\n

\u0130\u015fin en k\u00f6t\u00fc yan\u0131, insanlar\u0131n \u00e7o\u011fu korkular\u0131ndan bu yobazlara bir \u015fey diyemiyor. Diyen tek ba\u015f\u0131na bunlar\u0131n hedefi oluyor. Y\u0131llarca ba\u015f\u0131ma geldi\u011fi i\u00e7in bana \u015fa\u015f\u0131rt\u0131c\u0131 gelmiyor. Hadi kendimi d\u0131\u015far\u0131da tutay\u0131m. Handan han\u0131m\u0131 bu yobazlara kar\u015f\u0131 savunan kimse \u00e7\u0131kmad\u0131, \u00e7\u0131kamazda. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hepsi sindirildi. Korkutuldu. \u015eimdi bu meczuba bir \u015fey dersem olmad\u0131k hakaret ve iftirayla u\u011fra\u015f\u0131r dururum, korkusu hakim.<\/p>\n

Bunlarla u\u011fra\u015fmak zordur. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hemen belgeleri (!) ortal\u0131\u011fa sa\u00e7arlar. Yalan s\u00f6yledi\u011fi binlerce kez ortaya \u00e7\u0131kan birinin belgeleri (!) \u00f6nemli mi? \u00d6nemli. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7o\u011fu insan bunlar\u0131 belge san\u0131yor. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla herkesin g\u00f6z\u00fcnde bir anda \u00e7amura bulanm\u0131\u015f oluyor. \u0130stedi\u011fin kadar alt\u0131n ol. \u0130nsanlar sadece \u00e7amuru g\u00f6r\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n

Pekiyi, bu duruma nas\u0131l gelindi.<\/p>\n

\u00d6nce, insanlar\u0131n iyi niyeti suiistimal edildi. Nas\u0131l m\u0131? Adam \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131 dedi ki, derne\u011fe mescit yap\u0131n. \u0130lk etapta son derece masum bir istek. \u0130\u015fte bu masum g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcml\u00fc istek zamanla dayatmalara kadar i\u015fi getirdi. Giyim ku\u015famdan, yeme i\u00e7meye, k\u0131z-erkek ili\u015fkisinden akraba ili\u015fkisine kadar her alanda inan\u0131lmaz bir bask\u0131 olu\u015fturuldu. 30 y\u0131l \u00f6nce k\u00f6y\u00fcmde k\u0131zl\u0131 erkekli d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnler yap\u0131l\u0131rken, \u015fimdi kara \u00e7ar\u015faflar i\u00e7inde perdeler arkas\u0131nda duran k\u0131zlar, ba\u011flama e\u015fli\u011finde Ankara Zeybe\u011fi oynayan delikanl\u0131lar t\u00fcredi. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc zaman\u0131nda bu softalara kimse \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p ”haddini bil” demedi. Yava\u015fa yava\u015f, hissettirmeden toplumu k\u00f6kten de\u011fi\u015ftirdiler.<\/p>\n

Handan han\u0131m\u0131 bu dinci yobazlara kar\u015f\u0131 kimse kollamad\u0131. Gereksinimi var m\u0131? Ki\u015fisel olarak yok. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bunlar\u0131n topu bir araya gelse t\u0131rna\u011f\u0131 kadar olamazlar. Ancak, herkes Handan han\u0131m kadar dirayetli de\u011fil.<\/p>\n

Bu yobazlarla m\u00fccadelenin zorlu\u011fu ortada. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ne ahlaki s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 var ne insani. Ac\u0131mas\u0131zlar.<\/p>\n

Bunlar\u0131 yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131m i\u00e7in yine bir s\u00fcr\u00fc belge (!) \u00e7\u0131kacak ortal\u0131\u011fa. Yine \u00fcst\u00fcm\u00fc ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131 \u00e7amur yapacaklar ama olsun, Handan han\u0131m i\u00e7in de\u011fer.<\/p>\n

SonS\u00f6z: <\/span>\u00c7erkes, de\u011ferlerine hoyrat\u00e7a sald\u0131ranlara ”haddini bil” diyendir. (Kuban)<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Kuban Paul Seauhmann 12.03.2010 Abhazya Devleti’nin kurucusu Vladislav Ardzınba vefat etti. Bunun üzerine tüm Adige-Abhazlar büyük ve derin bir üzüntüye kapıldılar. Bu üzüntü içinde, birileri yine durmadı. Karşısındakini aşağılık itham ve hakaretlerle susturdular. Yine her ortamda istedikleri gibi at oynatıyorlar. Bazen daha da ileri gidip tehdit de ediyorlar. Bu denli hadlerini bilmiyorlar. Son olay, Abhaz […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_bbp_topic_count":0,"_bbp_reply_count":0,"_bbp_total_topic_count":0,"_bbp_total_reply_count":0,"_bbp_voice_count":0,"_bbp_anonymous_reply_count":0,"_bbp_topic_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_reply_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_forum_subforum_count":0,"ocean_post_layout":"","ocean_both_sidebars_style":"","ocean_both_sidebars_content_width":0,"ocean_both_sidebars_sidebars_width":0,"ocean_sidebar":"0","ocean_second_sidebar":"0","ocean_disable_margins":"enable","ocean_add_body_class":"","ocean_shortcode_before_top_bar":"","ocean_shortcode_after_top_bar":"","ocean_shortcode_before_header":"","ocean_shortcode_after_header":"","ocean_has_shortcode":"","ocean_shortcode_after_title":"","ocean_shortcode_before_footer_widgets":"","ocean_shortcode_after_footer_widgets":"","ocean_shortcode_before_footer_bottom":"","ocean_shortcode_after_footer_bottom":"","ocean_display_top_bar":"default","ocean_display_header":"default","ocean_header_style":"","ocean_center_header_left_menu":"0","ocean_custom_header_template":"0","ocean_custom_logo":0,"ocean_custom_retina_logo":0,"ocean_custom_logo_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_tablet_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_mobile_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_max_height":0,"ocean_custom_logo_tablet_max_height":0,"ocean_custom_logo_mobile_max_height":0,"ocean_header_custom_menu":"0","ocean_menu_typo_font_family":"0","ocean_menu_typo_font_subset":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_size":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_unit":"px","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight_tablet":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight_mobile":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform_tablet":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform_mobile":"","ocean_menu_typo_line_height":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_unit":"","ocean_menu_typo_spacing":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_unit":"","ocean_menu_link_color":"","ocean_menu_link_color_hover":"","ocean_menu_link_color_active":"","ocean_menu_link_background":"","ocean_menu_link_hover_background":"","ocean_menu_link_active_background":"","ocean_menu_social_links_bg":"","ocean_menu_social_hover_links_bg":"","ocean_menu_social_links_color":"","ocean_menu_social_hover_links_color":"","ocean_disable_title":"default","ocean_disable_heading":"default","ocean_post_title":"","ocean_post_subheading":"","ocean_post_title_style":"","ocean_post_title_background_color":"","ocean_post_title_background":0,"ocean_post_title_bg_image_position":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_attachment":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_repeat":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_size":"","ocean_post_title_height":0,"ocean_post_title_bg_overlay":0.5,"ocean_post_title_bg_overlay_color":"","ocean_disable_breadcrumbs":"default","ocean_breadcrumbs_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_separator_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_links_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_links_hover_color":"","ocean_display_footer_widgets":"default","ocean_display_footer_bottom":"default","ocean_custom_footer_template":"0","ocean_post_oembed":"","ocean_post_self_hosted_media":"","ocean_post_video_embed":"","ocean_link_format":"","ocean_link_format_target":"self","ocean_quote_format":"","ocean_quote_format_link":"post","ocean_gallery_link_images":"off","ocean_gallery_id":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[96],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3519","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-yazarlar-kuban-seauhmann","entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3519","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3519"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3519\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3520,"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3519\/revisions\/3520"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3519"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3519"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3519"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}