{"id":3567,"date":"2019-02-25T18:21:51","date_gmt":"2019-02-25T18:21:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/circassiancenter.com\/tr\/?p=3567"},"modified":"2019-02-25T18:21:51","modified_gmt":"2019-02-25T18:21:51","slug":"dun-bugun-yarin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.circassiancenter.com\/tr\/dun-bugun-yarin\/","title":{"rendered":"D\u00dcN, BUG\u00dcN, YARIN…"},"content":{"rendered":"

Semra Ademey G<\/span>\u00fcrel<\/strong>
\n<\/span>22.04.2006<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0130nsanl\u0131k tarihinin ba\u015flang\u0131c\u0131nda zaman denen \u015fey yokmu\u015f. Sonra bir uyan\u0131k \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p zamanlar\u0131 bulmu\u015f. Bunlar\u0131 da \u00fc\u015fenmeden \u00fc\u00e7e b\u00f6lm\u00fc\u015f. Her birine de D\u00dcN, BU G\u00dcN, YARIN ad\u0131n\u0131 vermi\u015f. \u0130\u015fte ne olduysa ondan sonra olmu\u015f. \u0130nsanlar d\u00fcn\u00fc ve yar\u0131n\u0131 hep ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f ama bu g\u00fcn\u00fc ya\u015famay\u0131 nedense unutmu\u015f.<\/p>\n

G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn yar\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fcn\u00fc hat\u0131rlayarak kalan yar\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 da yar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek, planlayarak \u00a0ya\u015far olduk. Ya bu g\u00fcn ne olacak?\u00a0 BUG\u00dcN \u00f6ylece kala kald\u0131 ortalarda\u2026<\/p>\n

Bir g\u00fcn inatla sadece i\u00e7inde bulundu\u011fum g\u00fcn\u00fc ya\u015fayaca\u011f\u0131m diye b\u00fcy\u00fck gayret sarf ettim. Fakat anlad\u0131m ki d\u00fcns\u00fcz ve yar\u0131ns\u0131z bu g\u00fcn ya\u015fanam\u0131yor. D\u00fcn\u00fc veya yar\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015famad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z g\u00fcn zaten \u00f6ld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz g\u00fcnd\u00fcr. Ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z can sanki sonsuza dek var olacakm\u0131\u015f gibi gelir ve s\u00fcrekli bizi yar\u0131na iter.<\/p>\n

Ne t\u00fcr bir i\u015f veya d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce i\u00e7erisinde olursak olal\u0131m ge\u00e7mi\u015fi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fcz. Gayet do\u011fal, belki de ge\u00e7mi\u015ften gelen tecr\u00fcbeleri kullanmak istiyoruz. D\u00fcn\u00fc d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcp hemen yar\u0131na uyarl\u0131yoruz. Yar\u0131n neler yapaca\u011f\u0131z, neler yapmam\u0131z gerekiyorlar ba\u015fl\u0131yor bu defa. Bunlar\u0131n hepsini bu g\u00fcn yapar\u0131z. K\u0131saca bu g\u00fcn\u00fc ya\u015fayay\u0131m dedi\u011fimizde d\u00fcns\u00fcz ve yar\u0131ns\u0131z ya\u015famam\u0131z\u0131n pekte m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcz.<\/p>\n

\u201cEskiyi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek akla zarard\u0131r\u201d derler. Fakat istesek de istemesek de eskiyi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fcz. Bazen \u201cahh ke\u015fke\u2026\u201d dedi\u011fimiz zamanlar olur ve genelde akl\u0131m\u0131zda kalanda hep ahh ke\u015fke\u2019lerdir. San\u0131r\u0131m eskiyi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmenin zararl\u0131 olmas\u0131n\u0131n sebebi de ahhh\u2019 lar\u0131 \u00e7ok oldu\u011fu i\u00e7indir.<\/p>\n

Ge\u00e7mi\u015fe d\u00f6n\u00fcp\u00a0 \u201cahhh ke\u015fke \u015fimdiki akl\u0131m olsayd\u0131\u201d diyerek \u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fcr\u00fcz. Oysa o zaman ki \u015fartlara g\u00f6re belki de yapabilece\u011fimizin en iyisini yapm\u0131\u015f\u0131zd\u0131r. Fakat bunu anlamak bazen \u00e7okta kolay olmaz. \u0130\u015fte b\u00fct\u00fcn bu \u00a0\u201cahhh ke\u015fke\u2019ler\u201d de, ya\u015fanan s\u00fcre i\u00e7erisinde en uygun davran\u0131\u015ft\u0131 yada d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceydi diyemedi\u011fimiz i\u00e7in oluyor.<\/p>\n

\u0130nsana bu g\u00fcn\u00fc hat\u0131rlatan iki \u015fey vard\u0131r. Hastal\u0131k ve \u00f6l\u00fcm. Ne zaman ki bir \u00f6l\u00fcm haberi yada bir sevdi\u011fimizin hastal\u0131k haberini al\u0131r\u0131z i\u015fte o zaman bu g\u00fcn\u00fc ya\u015famam\u0131z\u0131n ne kadar \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funu idrak ederiz. Fakat bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce r\u00fczgar gibi gelir ge\u00e7er. Biz yine d\u00fcn ile yar\u0131n aras\u0131nda ko\u015fturup kal\u0131r\u0131z.<\/p>\n

Bana g\u00f6re bu g\u00fcn\u00fc ya\u015fayabildi\u011fimiz tek an sevgi verip sevgi ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z and\u0131r. \u0130\u015fte bu g\u00fcn\u00fc ya\u015famak i\u00e7in \u201cseni (sizi) seviyorum\u201d demesini bilelim, yar\u0131na b\u0131rakmak \u00e7ok ge\u00e7 olabilir.<\/p>\n

Bu g\u00fcn\u00fc yar\u0131n i\u00e7in ya\u015fayal\u0131m kabul ama yar\u0131n\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n belki de olmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilerek sevdiklerimize yar\u0131n i\u00e7in bir \u015feyler b\u0131rakabilmeyi bu g\u00fcnden isteyelim. Korkmadan, b\u0131kmadan usanmadan sevgimizi verelim. D\u00fcnyada sevgiyi ret eden hi\u00e7bir canl\u0131 yoktur. Her ne kadar en nank\u00f6r olan\u0131 insan olsa da yine kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 en g\u00fczel verende insand\u0131r. Bu g\u00fcnden b\u00fct\u00fcn sevgimizi, b\u00fct\u00fcn ge\u00e7mi\u015ften gelen tecr\u00fcbelerimizi de yan\u0131na katarak yar\u0131n\u0131m\u0131z olan gen\u00e7lerimize, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za verelim.<\/p>\n

Bu topluma eme\u011fi ge\u00e7en niceleri hakk\u0131n rahmetine kavu\u015ftu. Onlara rahmet dilerken, elimizde olan de\u011ferlerimize de sahip \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131n\u0131 bilelim. Kimseyi alt etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmadan, y\u0131llar \u00f6ncesinin hesab\u0131n\u0131 bu g\u00fcn sormaya kalkmadan, b\u00fct\u00fcn kalbimizle do\u011fruyu bulmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fal\u0131m. E\u011fer kalp g\u00f6z\u00fc ile bakmas\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015farabilir isek, anla\u015fabilmemizde bir o kadar kolay olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Ya\u015fanan her olayda s\u00fcrekli ele\u015ftirmek, s\u00fcrekli hesap sormak insan\u0131 yorar. Hata benim i\u00e7in yani insan i\u00e7in de\u011fil mi? B\u0131rak o zaman hata etti\u011fimi bende senin sevgi ve sayg\u0131 dolu yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131n ile anlayay\u0131m. \u00a0Kim bilir, bu g\u00fcn hata olarak g\u00f6r\u00fclen \u015fey belki de ya\u015fanan s\u00fcre i\u00e7erisinde en do\u011fru olan\u0131yd\u0131.<\/p>\n

Bu g\u00fcn d\u00fcn\u00fc d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyor, yar\u0131n i\u00e7in neler yapabilirim hayal ediyorum. Yapabileceklerim i\u00e7in m\u00fccadele etmek istiyorum. Sanki sonsuza dek ya\u015fayacakm\u0131\u015f\u0131m gibi yar\u0131nlar\u0131 koval\u0131yorum.<\/p>\n

Ama bu g\u00fcn de ya\u015fay\u0131p sizi \u00e7ok sevdi\u011fimi s\u00f6ylemek istiyorum. Siz olmazsan\u0131z benim (bizim) olmam\u0131z\u0131n da bir anlam\u0131 yok.<\/p>\n

Tham figapsou.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Semra Ademey Gürel 22.04.2006 İnsanlık tarihinin başlangıcında zaman denen şey yokmuş. Sonra bir uyanık çıkıp zamanları bulmuş. Bunları da üşenmeden üçe bölmüş. Her birine de DÜN, BU GÜN, YARIN adını vermiş. İşte ne olduysa ondan sonra olmuş. İnsanlar dünü ve yarını hep yaşamış ama bu günü yaşamayı nedense unutmuş. Günümüzün yarısını dünü hatırlayarak kalan yarısını 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