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YEMUZ Nevzat Tarak\u00e7\u0131<\/strong><\/p>\n Bu s\u00f6z, baz\u0131 durumlarda verilen nasihatten ziyade ba\u015fa gelen felaketlerin<\/strong> daha \u00f6\u011fretici oldu\u011funu anlatmak i\u00e7in kullan\u0131lan bir atas\u00f6z\u00fcd\u00fcr. \u0130LG\u0130L\u0130 KURUMLARIN A\u00c7IKLAMASI <\/strong> SUSKUNLAR BUG\u00dcN DE\u011e\u0130LSE NE ZAMAN KONU\u015eACAK<\/strong> TEDB\u0130R TEDAV\u0130DEN UCUZDUR<\/strong> \u201cHEM SU\u00c7LU HEM G\u00dc\u00c7L\u00dc\u201d <\/strong> BU KADAR MI SAVRULDUK?<\/strong> KINAMANIN DA LANETLEMEN\u0130N DE B\u0130R \u00dcSLUBU VARDIR<\/strong> HER \u015eEYE RA\u011eMEN \u00d6L\u00c7\u00dcL\u00dc OLMAK <\/strong> XABZE, HASE, THAMADE\u2019N\u0130N YAPTIRIM G\u00dcC\u00dc ve GER\u00c7EKLER<\/strong> YEMUZ Nevzat Tarakçı Bu söz, bazı durumlarda verilen nasihatten ziyade başa gelen felaketlerin daha öğretici olduğunu anlatmak için kullanılan bir atasözüdür. Malum, toplum olarak, hepimizi ziyadesiyle üzen talihsiz bir olay yaşadık. Acaba bu musibetten yeterli dersi çıkarabildik mi yoksa musibet şaşkınlığı ile daha büyük musibetlere kapı mı araladık? Acaba ilgili kişiler, ilgili kurumlar süreci özenle 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\nMalum, toplum olarak, hepimizi ziyadesiyle \u00fczen talihsiz bir olay<\/strong> ya\u015fad\u0131k.
\nAcaba bu musibetten yeterli dersi \u00e7\u0131karabildik mi yoksa musibet \u015fa\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile daha b\u00fcy\u00fck musibetlere kap\u0131 m\u0131 aralad\u0131k?<\/strong>
\nAcaba ilgili ki\u015filer, ilgili kurumlar s\u00fcreci \u00f6zenle y\u00fcr\u00fctebildi mi?<\/strong>
\nYoksa olaya bilen de bilmeyen de m\u00fcdahil olup bodoslama ilerleyen bir s\u00fcre\u00e7<\/strong> mi ya\u015f\u0131yoruz?<\/p>\n
\nEvet, ki\u015fi ve kurumlar\u0131n ifadelerine g\u00f6re konu olduk\u00e7a vahim.
\nYetkili kurumlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n konuyla ilgili a\u00e7\u0131klamalar\u0131n\u0131 esas alan halk\u0131m\u0131z, talihsiz olaya b\u00fcy\u00fck tepki verdi, vermeye devam ediyor.<\/strong>
\nBir haftad\u0131r sosyal medyada sanki bu konuyla ilgili yorum yapmayana dayak at\u0131lacak<\/strong> ya da \u00c7erkeslikten \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131lacakm\u0131\u015f gibi herkes \u00e7alakalem, pervas\u0131zca yazd\u0131, yaz\u0131yor.<\/strong>
\nBu menfur olaya elbette gerekli tepki vermeliydi ama unutulmas\u0131n ki tepki vermenin, k\u0131naman\u0131n, lanetlemenin de bir \u00fcslubu, bir seviyesi olmal\u0131!<\/strong>
\nAcaba kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131m ifadelerden kurumlar\u0131m\u0131z, aileler zarar g\u00f6r\u00fcr m\u00fc,<\/strong> toplum, \u00f6zellikle gen\u00e7ler olumsuz etkilenir mi, halk\u0131n g\u00fcveni sars\u0131l\u0131r m\u0131, pamuk ipli\u011fine ba\u011fl\u0131 \u00fcmitlerimizi<\/strong> yok eder mi, diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnenlerin say\u0131s\u0131 daha fazla olmal\u0131yd\u0131 kanaatindeyim<\/p>\n
\nAyr\u0131ca, konu\u015fmas\u0131 gereken, pusula olmas\u0131 beklenen<\/strong> baz\u0131 ki\u015filerden hi\u00e7 ses ve sedan\u0131n \u00e7\u0131kmamas\u0131 da ayr\u0131 bir konu.
\nBilmem ki bu kesim bug\u00fcn de\u011filse<\/strong> ne zaman konu\u015facak?
\nAcaba bilenler, bilip de susanlar daha y\u00fcksek sesle konu\u015fsa, ortak ak\u0131l daha g\u00fczel kendini hissettirse \u00fcslupsuzlar, patavats\u0131zlar<\/strong> daha m\u0131 etkisiz kal\u0131rd\u0131?<\/p>\n
\n\u015eu g\u00fczel s\u00f6z\u00fc unutmayal\u0131m: Tedbir, tedaviden ucuzdur!<\/strong>
\nUmar\u0131m, bundan sonra al\u0131nacak tedbirler malum olaylar\u0131n ya\u015fanmas\u0131na f\u0131rsat vermez!
\nElbette duygu ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesini, derin \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc, samimiyetle payla\u015fan<\/strong>, tahriklere kap\u0131lmadan \u00fcslubuna g\u00f6re yorum yapan duyarl\u0131 kesime kimsenin s\u00f6z\u00fc olamaz!
\nAma ne ya\u015f ne tecr\u00fcbe ne birikim hi\u00e7bir \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fc tan\u0131madan<\/strong> her farkl\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi lin\u00e7 eden, kurumlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 insafs\u0131zca ele\u015ftiren o kadar \u00e7ok sosyal medya kullan\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 var ki konu\u015fmayan payla\u015fmayan fikrini beyan etmeyen kesimi hakl\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131yor sanki.
\nE\u011fer duyarl\u0131 kesim, kendi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesine kat\u0131lmayan herkesi lin\u00e7 eden g\u00fcruhu susturma gayreti i\u00e7inde olmazsa s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z azalmayacak katlanacakt\u0131r.
\n\u0130\u015fte ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bu talihsiz tablo kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndaki durumumuz tam da budur!<\/p>\n
\nBaz\u0131 ki\u015filerin, olay\u0131 k\u0131nayan payla\u015f\u0131m ve yorumlar kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndaki tehditk\u00e2r yakla\u015f\u0131mlar\u0131 da hi\u00e7 ho\u015f de\u011fil. Bu durum, \u201cHem su\u00e7lu hem g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc\u201d<\/strong> \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 yapar ki bu da tepkilerin dozunu artt\u0131rmakla kalmaz, olay\u0131 i\u00e7inden \u00e7\u0131k\u0131lmaz hale getirir<\/p>\n
\nBilmem ki biz, bu kadar m\u0131 savrulduk, bu kadar m\u0131 ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcs\u00fcz, bu kadar m\u0131 empatisiz kald\u0131k?<\/strong>
\nEli klavyeye ula\u015fan herkes mi uzman, yarg\u0131\u00e7 edas\u0131yla patavats\u0131zca ifadeler<\/strong>\u00a0kullan\u0131rm\u0131\u015f\u2026
\nOlay ne kadar feci, olursa olsun su\u00e7 i\u015fledi\u011fi s\u00f6ylenen \u015fahs\u0131n su\u00e7u ne kadar a\u011f\u0131r ve affedilmez olursa olsun lin\u00e7 edas\u0131yla herkesi su\u00e7layan \u00e7alakalem yaz\u0131lar toplumumuza b\u00fcy\u00fck zarar veriyor.
\nBir haftad\u0131r yaz\u0131lanlar, payla\u015f\u0131lanlar korkutuyor insan\u0131.
\nBiraz daha derli toplu, biraz daha empati merkezli ve \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm odakl\u0131 tepkiler beklerdim, olmad\u0131.
\nUzman yarg\u0131\u00e7 edas\u0131yla, bu zat\u0131, ailesini, s\u00fclalesini, temsil etti\u011fi kurumu<\/strong> lin\u00e7 edip yok edelim, ibret-i alem i\u00e7in asal\u0131m, keselim!\u201d ifadeleri de halk\u0131m\u0131zda b\u00fcy\u00fck yaralar a\u00e7\u0131yor.
\nKimse, su\u00e7u sabit olan birini koruyal\u0131m, su\u00e7un \u00fcst\u00fcn\u00fc \u00f6rtelim<\/strong>, demiyor, diyemez.
\nKe\u015fke \u201cBir musibet, bin nasihatten ye\u011fidir!\u201d<\/strong> atalar s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn mant\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 i\u015fleterek, taraflar\u0131 ve toplumu en az zararla kurtarma d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesini h\u00e2kim k\u0131labilseydik!<\/p>\n
\nBiz, bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te ne yaz\u0131k ki yer yer musibeti k\u00f6p\u00fcrtecek \u00fcslup kulland\u0131k.<\/strong>
\nDe\u011fil mi ki k\u0131nama, lanetleme bile bodoslama <\/strong>yap\u0131lmaz, her \u015feyin bir \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcs\u00fc, bir \u00fcslubu, bir oluru olmal\u0131.
\nBu hassas konu, patavats\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131, f\u0131rsat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131, i\u00e7 hesapla\u015fmay\u0131 asla kald\u0131rmaz.
\nDaha adil, daha hakkaniyetli olmak, ki\u015fisel intikam duygular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131<\/strong> tatmin etme gayreti yerine adaletin pe\u015fini takip etmektir do\u011fru olan<\/p>\n
\nToplumumuz, malum talihsiz olaya tepkisini, her iki taraf\u0131n ailelerinin d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fc zor durumun<\/strong> empatisi i\u00e7inde vermeli.
\nHer iki aile ve her iki ailenin yak\u0131nlar\u0131 i\u00e7in hi\u00e7 de kolay de\u011fil ya\u015fananlar.
\nHer \u015feye ra\u011fmen \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcl\u00fc, olmakta<\/strong> yarar var.
\nBu \u00e7ok hassas olay\u0131n daha fazla k\u00f6p\u00fcrt\u00fclerek<\/strong> toplumumuzun, kurumlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n zarar g\u00f6rmesine m\u00fcsaade edilmemeli<\/p>\n
\nG\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda \u201cxabze, xase ve thamade\u201d<\/strong> nin yapt\u0131r\u0131m g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc abartman\u0131n, ge\u00e7mi\u015fte kalman\u0131n kime ne faydas\u0131 olur bilmiyorum.
\nG\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131n ger\u00e7eklerine<\/strong> g\u00f6z kapatarak hi\u00e7 kimse hi\u00e7bir bir sorununu \u00e7\u00f6zemez.
\nVesselam, tan\u0131mlamas\u0131 zor, garip olaylar ya\u015f\u0131yoruz.
\nTekrar ya\u015fanmamas\u0131 temennisiyle.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"